Ok so this is a good thread,
I’m going to put a different spin on this, see what you guys think,
I like the op started seeing escorts at about 19-20 due to peer pressure and the job I did (working away)
I met “the one” at 23 ish and we were together for 8–9 years I never cheated on her and treated her like a queen in every respect,
My taste in women is like the op petite and sexy, these girls are born with the tools to manipulate men
My now ex had no reason to stop loving me,
Her friends told her she’s lucky as I have financial security and have been described as a 8-10 etc etc “a catch” apparently,
I have been approached a number of times by good looking girls for my number in the past, but having this attention from women allows you to see a side of them that I personally hate, and that is that a lot of women cheat especially the 7 and above group, and they do it because they can, men do it purely for sex that they are not getting at home anymore because it’s to inconvenient for the woman to break off the relationship so they effectively force the man to cheat by means of sex ban and coldness ( my ex out me on a sex ban for 6 months then went columbo on me trying to catch me out cheating, but I didn’t cheat,
She had her eyes on half my assets, her best friend told me she was planning to fuck me over as I didn’t want to get married until she wanted kids, turns out she never wanted kids, so she lied at the start of the relationship,
It’s a type of constructive dismissal from the women’s side and I’ve seen it a lot, she let her self go towards the end of the relationship as soon as we split she was at the gym partying again and constantly asking for money / another chance,
I don’t drink never have so meeting girls drunk on a night out is really off putting for me
I have a cleaner and don’t need financial help,
Punting for me is about getting what you want on the day, I’ve never took pack lunch to work as I’m an impulse eater, I suppose that’s how I like my women,
The modern world has fucked dating up and I’ve leaned that no one is honest on either side so save the drama and heart ache and go for the obvious option if it’s available to you,
I’m done with relationships altho I do want children so there’s the downside,
I hope this makes sense as English is not my strong point