Author Topic: Negative review or no review ? (Read 2012 times)

dickdastardly14 · « **on:** September 08, 2020, 01:41:16 pm »

Booked very popular SP 3 weeks in advance for afternoon meet ( 4.00p.m. ). Told to confirm on the day before 10a.m.
Early hours of morning of day of meet ( deleted them now, but around 3.00a.m ) had 2 emails via AW - can I confirm before 9.00.
Opened emails around 8.30 and confirmed. Email straight back from SP within a minute. Booking cancelled as I hadn't confirmed. Time was 8.38.
If I post a negative review it will be the SP's first Negative. 12 Pos, 0 neutral, 0 neg.
Ruined my day, but should I bother with a negative about a meet that didn't happen ?

GingerNuts · « **Reply #1 on:** September 08, 2020, 01:51:54 pm »

You should post a negative to inform others of her poor attitude regarding bookings she's accepted.

She cancelled your booking without a valid reason and after you did all she asked, even responding to e-mails she sent at stupid o'clock.

Punterperson1971 · « **Reply #2 on:** September 08, 2020, 02:06:43 pm »

Yeah agree with ginger nuts definitely a negative

JamesKW · « **Reply #3 on:** September 08, 2020, 02:11:52 pm »

Difficult one really,I have a girl I am seeing regularly,who provides one of the best services (and has been reviewed by others on here).The second time I went I had similar text when I arrived at the location which said I hadnt confirmed the booking (luckily I went in company time)but I returned three times since and her service is truely excellent. If you intend to try again I would consider no review.

threechilliman · « **Reply #4 on:** September 08, 2020, 02:17:36 pm »

Quote from: GingerNuts on September 08, 2020, 01:51:54 pm

You should post a negative to inform others of her poor attitude regarding bookings she's accepted.

She cancelled your booking without a valid reason and after you did all she asked, even responding to e-mails she sent at stupid o'clock.

As above.

LLPunting · « **Reply #5 on:** September 08, 2020, 03:06:57 pm »

Quote from: JamesKW on September 08, 2020, 02:11:52 pm

Difficult one really,I have a girl I am seeing regularly,who provides one of the best services (and has been reviewed by others on here).The second time I went I had similar text when I arrived at the location which said I hadnt confirmed the booking (luckily I went in company time)but I returned three times since and her service is truely excellent. If you intend to try again I would consider no review.

With no explanation or apology from SP for poor, inconsiderate service then the right thing to do is post a neg and perhaps try to see the SP again if she's so irresistible. If she's of the type to blank you because of the neg she warranted then she further deserves the neg. If she apologises and makes up for it by honouring the new booking and delivering per her norm then he can post a new review to update about her approach to customer service and the current state of her services. There are smart SPs who have acknowledged their error and not held a grudge and have earned a rep for being reliable SPs with deserved followings. There are many more who show no remorse and reveal how vindictive they are and whilst they may, on a good day, be a great fuck, they are to be considered with caution because of their erratic nature.

bhudda · « **Reply #6 on:** September 08, 2020, 03:13:59 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 08, 2020, 01:41:16 pm

Booked very popular SP 3 weeks in advance for afternoon meet ( 4.00p.m. ). Told to confirm on the day before 10a.m.
Early hours of morning of day of meet ( deleted them now, but around 3.00a.m ) had 2 emails via AW - can I confirm before 9.00.
Opened emails around 8.30 and confirmed. Email straight back from SP within a minute. Booking cancelled as I hadn't confirmed. Time was 8.38.
If I post a negative review it will be the SP's first Negative. 12 Pos, 0 neutral, 0 neg.
Ruined my day, but should I bother with a negative about a meet that didn't happen ?

Perhaps she was working to eastern europe time rather than british summer time?

daviemac · « **Reply #7 on:** September 08, 2020, 04:43:08 pm »

Quote from: JamesKW on September 08, 2020, 02:11:52 pm

Difficult one really,I have a girl I am seeing regularly,who provides one of the best services (and has been reviewed by others on here).The second time I went I had similar text when I arrived at the location which said I hadnt confirmed the booking (luckily I went in company time)but I returned three times since and her service is truely excellent. If you intend to try again I would consider no review.

Rubbish, you don't have to pander to escorts, she moved the goalposts telling him different times to confirm. A negative should definitely be posted to warn other punters this is likely to happen.

Any decent SP would accept she fucked up and deserved the negative as well as making it up to the punter in some way on a future visit. If she refused another appointment then a warning should be posted in the discussions section of the relevant area or a post explaining on the review.

Payyourwaymate · « **Reply #8 on:** September 08, 2020, 05:19:37 pm »

Please do, we all need to know. It would not be fair on you that you let her off for her antics, while she keeps a clean rep at your expense.

Steve2 · « **Reply #9 on:** September 08, 2020, 05:30:01 pm »

It'd be a NEGATIVE from me.

davidgood · « **Reply #10 on:** September 08, 2020, 05:46:32 pm »

I suspect that this SP is a courtesan type who gets of lots of bookings from guys who will jump whenever she tells them to.

She has probably had requests in from regulars or those wanting longer bookings so she is moving the goal posts to max her bookings and income in these troubled times.

I think she deserves a negative, especially if she is popular, as a warning to everyone.

Regards,

davidgood

RedKettle · « **Reply #11 on:** September 08, 2020, 05:50:43 pm »

The rules are clear that no meeting needs to happen for a review to be completed. There just needs to be a confirmed meeting. Clearly this is a negative.

Gordon Bennett · « **Reply #12 on:** September 08, 2020, 05:54:54 pm »

Needs a negative. Can't even see need for fannying around on AW email at that juncture, should have been a simple case of confirming by call/text. Getting you to jump through random shifting admin hoops and still binning you even after you fully complying is unacceptable.

ArchBacon · « **Reply #13 on:** September 08, 2020, 06:53:37 pm »

Got a feeling I know who this is... reads like a definite red, shame a certain someone isn’t here to gloat

tynetunnel · « **Reply #14 on:** September 08, 2020, 07:16:46 pm »

Definitely review this, a deserved red. Whoever she is. Not reviewing her after that is on a par with white knighting in my view.

JonasG · « **Reply #15 on:** September 08, 2020, 07:21:23 pm »

Definitely a negative!

Home Alone · « **Reply #16 on:** September 08, 2020, 07:28:02 pm »

Quote from: tynetunnel on September 08, 2020, 07:16:46 pm

Definitely review this, a deserved red. Whoever she is. Not reviewing her after that is on a par with white knighting in my view.

Totally agree, tt. It'd be a definite

if an SP had pulled a stroke like that on me. Perhaps it'll teach her a lesson not to piss customers around.

flatcap · « **Reply #17 on:** September 08, 2020, 08:21:36 pm »

Whether you class it as a negative or neutral is probably not as important as putting your experience on record against the sp's adultwork id, so that other punters can factor it into their decision about whether they book her or not in future.

Lots of us have very limited opportunities to punt, so knowing that the sp has a history of cancelling bookings at short notice or with no reasonable explanation is useful info.

Adoniron · « **Reply #18 on:** September 08, 2020, 08:53:15 pm »

She was clearly looking for an excuse to get out of the booking. Rather than saying she couldn't make it she moved the goalposts to put the blame on the OP. Its a negative all day long.

Jerk Chicken · « **Reply #19 on:** September 08, 2020, 10:15:01 pm »

Stonewall negative!

She has probably done this before but other punters have not bothered to review hence her perfect record.

Post your review mate!

JonasG · « **Reply #20 on:** September 08, 2020, 10:17:53 pm »

Yeah, these sorts of negatives are just as important as WGs who give shit services.

It's disrespectful and they're treating us like utter shit.

CheeseBoard · « **Reply #21 on:** September 08, 2020, 10:58:17 pm »

Sounds like she has done it on purpose in a way to make it your fault. If you argue, then she will say you are being aggressive and so doesn't want to see you.

Either way, its a manipulative way to get out of a booking when all she had to do was cancel in advance.

Negative all day long. It will inform others who may otherwise suffer the same fate.

hunkybc · « **Reply #22 on:** September 09, 2020, 12:48:04 pm »

Post the review mate. It will be beneficial to all.

winkywanky · « **Reply #23 on:** September 09, 2020, 12:51:53 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 08, 2020, 01:41:16 pm

Booked very popular SP 3 weeks in advance for afternoon meet ( 4.00p.m. ). Told to confirm on the day before 10a.m.
Early hours of morning of day of meet ( deleted them now, but around 3.00a.m ) had 2 emails via AW - can I confirm before 9.00.
Opened emails around 8.30 and confirmed. Email straight back from SP within a minute. Booking cancelled as I hadn't confirmed. Time was 8.38.
If I post a negative review it will be the SP's first Negative. 12 Pos, 0 neutral, 0 neg.
Ruined my day, but should I bother with a negative about a meet that didn't happen ?

It doesn't matter who the SP is and whether she has a golden fanny or not, if you get messed around like that when you'd agreed a booking, then it's a big fat Negative all day long.

Imagine if she'd done this to others and they'd also said nothing?

Sorry to hear about this bad experience, but not only should you let others know, it might also make you feel a little better by getting it off your chest

.

JonasG · « **Reply #24 on:** September 09, 2020, 12:57:40 pm »

Quote from: winkywanky on September 09, 2020, 12:51:53 pm

Sorry to hear about this bad experience, but not only should you let others know, it might also make you feel a little better by getting it off your chest .

Exactly.

Any time I've been ghosted by a WG/had a shit punt the first thing I do is submit a review. (When possible)

It makes you feel better and it's the only real way to get back at them really.

dickdastardly14 · « **Reply #25 on:** September 09, 2020, 01:20:17 pm »

Thanks for the replies guys.....A negative it is then.

Now that I've had time to think about it, the only reason I hesitated was because I really, really still wanted to see her, but there are plenty of others out there I want to see as well so f### her ( or not in my case ).

Maybe a negative will help a potential client not waste their time and we're all here to help when we can.

Thanks again.

DD

winkywanky · « **Reply #26 on:** September 09, 2020, 01:47:03 pm »

Well I guess if you really wanted to you could hold off writing the Neg review and try to book again.

If you were successful this time, I think you could (and should) quite legitimately write two reviews, one Negative for when you got messed around, and the other Positive because it went well.

And I'm sure the rules allow that too because your experience both times was so different.

Of course if you do see her and she's crap, just write one big, fat Negative

.

smiths · « **Reply #27 on:** September 09, 2020, 02:13:02 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 08, 2020, 01:41:16 pm

Booked very popular SP 3 weeks in advance for afternoon meet ( 4.00p.m. ). Told to confirm on the day before 10a.m.
Early hours of morning of day of meet ( deleted them now, but around 3.00a.m ) had 2 emails via AW - can I confirm before 9.00.
Opened emails around 8.30 and confirmed. Email straight back from SP within a minute. Booking cancelled as I hadn't confirmed. Time was 8.38.
If I post a negative review it will be the SP's first Negative. 12 Pos, 0 neutral, 0 neg.
Ruined my day, but should I bother with a negative about a meet that didn't happen ?

Of course do a negative review. Punters need to know about time wasting cunts, plus you state she ruined your day.

bhudda · « **Reply #28 on:** September 09, 2020, 02:31:54 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 09, 2020, 01:20:17 pm

Thanks for the replies guys.....A negative it is then.

Now that I've had time to think about it, the only reason I hesitated was because I really, really still wanted to see her, but there are plenty of others out there I want to see as well so f### her ( or not in my case ).

Maybe a negative will help a potential client not waste their time and we're all here to help when we can.

Thanks again.

DD

In the meantime, why not just say here who it is?

Drexl Spivey · « **Reply #29 on:** September 09, 2020, 04:44:36 pm »

Quote from: bhudda on September 09, 2020, 02:31:54 pm

In the meantime, why not just say here who it is?

sounds a lot like my experience last year with a brum based forum darlin on here,,, wonder if its the same one??? very much an ice queen from sounds of it!!

nurfe7 · « **Reply #30 on:** September 09, 2020, 04:47:51 pm »

Unfortunately a negative is needed, it will hopefully correct future poor behaviour

dickdastardly14 · « **Reply #31 on:** September 09, 2020, 05:37:01 pm »

Quote from: Drexl Spivey on September 09, 2020, 04:44:36 pm

sounds a lot like my experience last year with a brum based forum darlin on here,,, wonder if its the same one??? very much an ice queen from sounds of it!!

Lilith Noir

Payyourwaymate · « **Reply #32 on:** September 09, 2020, 05:40:03 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 09, 2020, 05:37:01 pm

Lilith Noir

So everyone knows who this is.... I'm attaching AW links and pics.

External Link/Members Only

Hidden Image/Members Only

Hidden Image/Members Only

Hidden Image/Members Only

So we now have on record another time wasting WG. Incase the review is not seen. The record will always be here.

The review attached as well incase no one sees it.

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 09, 2020, 05:35:04 pm

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

We all know that she's a popular girl, so when she was available on the day I was in Brum I jumped at the chance. I've already deleted the emails from her now so some of the dates/times could be off, but you'll get the idea.........

Booked via A/W email 2 weeks in advance. Time/fee/Services all agreed. Everything to be confirmed by 11.00 on day of meet - everything good.

Day of meet I log on to A/W at 8.30 and see 2 early morning emails from Lilith :
1. I've tried to phone you to confirm ( not according to my phone you haven't )
2. Can you confirm before 9.00

I answer the email immediately - say looking forward to seeing you, everything ok etc.
Get an email back from her within a minute or so - too late, booking cancelled ( it's now 8.40 ish ).

Obviously she's either got a better offer or a crap watch.

She looks good and I'd still like to see her, but treating a client like that is not on.

Liverpool · « **Reply #33 on:** September 09, 2020, 07:23:32 pm »

I think she had her tax returns to do instead

tynetunnel · « **Reply #34 on:** September 09, 2020, 07:26:10 pm »

She says she is:

“Professional & Reliable - I am very organised and do not cancel bookings without a good reason. If I do, this is always communicated well in advance”

Sounds like it!

marcius2018 · « **Reply #35 on:** September 09, 2020, 07:56:57 pm »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 08, 2020, 01:41:16 pm

Booked very popular SP 3 weeks in advance for afternoon meet ( 4.00p.m. ). Told to confirm on the day before 10a.m.
Early hours of morning of day of meet ( deleted them now, but around 3.00a.m ) had 2 emails via AW - can I confirm before 9.00.
Opened emails around 8.30 and confirmed. Email straight back from SP within a minute. Booking cancelled as I hadn't confirmed. Time was 8.38.
If I post a negative review it will be the SP's first Negative. 12 Pos, 0 neutral, 0 neg.
Ruined my day, but should I bother with a negative about a meet that didn't happen ?

You must tell it like it is!
What I value about this site is the facility to get a genuine impression of what SPs actually provide!
I've been punting way longer than this site has existed...I came to it late!
When I did discover it, I encountered so many evaluations of girls where I thought...yes...exactly!...that's what happened with me!
If we remain truthful, it's invaluable!

Home Alone · « **Reply #36 on:** September 10, 2020, 01:28:01 am »

If I may respectfully offer a little correction, marcius. Just to be a little more specific; I'm sure you understand.

Quote from: marcius2018 on September 09, 2020, 07:56:57 pm

You must tell it like it is!
What I value about this site is the facility to get a genuine impression of what SPs actually provide or not!
I've been punting way longer than this site has existed...I came to it late!
When I did discover it, I encountered so many evaluations of girls where I thought...yes...exactly!...that's what happened with me!
If we remain truthful, it's invaluable!

Drexl Spivey · « **Reply #37 on:** September 10, 2020, 10:50:12 am »

Quote from: dickdastardly14 on September 09, 2020, 05:37:01 pm

Lilith Noir

i thought so. v poor people skills

pewpewpew · « **Reply #38 on:** September 10, 2020, 12:00:14 pm »

Alternatively you could have booked her again and had a great time or not, done a review and added this negative aspect to the review

marcius2018 · « **Reply #39 on:** September 10, 2020, 06:47:28 pm »

Quote from: Home Alone on September 10, 2020, 01:28:01 am

If I may respectfully offer a little correction, marcius. Just to be a little more specific; I'm sure you understand.

I do indeed....you are so right...thanks!

funfungoodguy · « **Reply #40 on:** September 11, 2020, 09:25:50 am »

Adapted from an earlier post of mine that was more focussed on the money aspect;
Remember they are charging an awful lot for their time. Consider time spent reviewing AW, compiling H/L, cross referencing with here and so on. The busy ones are making serious dosh, tax free, and they can become dismissive, difficult, and sometimes deal with people in a way that they wouldn't get away with in daily life with people they know. In that case walk, and find another girl to see. They can forget that earning that kind of money deserves treating clients right. Doing this is not cheap, one could do an awful lot of other things with the money, if you have plenty then fine, if not - like most people, then certainly provide assistance to others through this forum and PUBLISH A NEGATIVE. Ask yourself if you really do need to give that dough to a prostitute to be treated like that.

Payyourwaymate · « **Reply #41 on:** September 11, 2020, 11:58:34 am »

Quote from: funfungoodguy on September 11, 2020, 09:25:50 am

Adapted from an earlier post of mine that was more focussed on the money aspect;
Remember they are charging an awful lot for their time. Consider time spent reviewing AW, compiling H/L, cross referencing with here and so on. The busy ones are making serious dosh, tax free, and they can become dismissive, difficult, and sometimes deal with people in a way that they wouldn't get away with in daily life with people they know. In that case walk, and find another girl to see. They can forget that earning that kind of money deserves treating clients right. Doing this is not cheap, one could do an awful lot of other things with the money, if you have plenty then fine, if not - like most people, then certainly provide assistance to others through this forum and PUBLISH A NEGATIVE. Ask yourself if you really do need to give that dough to a prostitute to be treated like that.

He did and then he changed it to a neutral after her wonderful damage control post communications with him.

Rochelle · « **Reply #42 on:** September 11, 2020, 04:17:14 pm »

Quote from: JamesKW on September 08, 2020, 02:11:52 pm

Difficult one really,I have a girl I am seeing regularly,who provides one of the best services (and has been reviewed by others on here).The second time I went I had similar text when I arrived at the location which said I hadnt confirmed the booking (luckily I went in company time)but I returned three times since and her service is truely excellent. If you intend to try again I would consider no review.

It's not difficult at all. Straight negative. She cancelled at the last minute.

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Author Topic: Negative review or no review ? (Read 2012 times)