Caught feelings at Lips Massage(Brothel) in Romford ? My story... Is it normal ?

[KD]

So I have been to lips massage in Romford which is actually a brothel, I must have been around 5 times and chose the same woman the young small blonde with tattoos, however the more I went the more I noticed she liked me and I gradually opened up to her.
The third time I went and after she started resting her head on my shoulder while i would be messaging friends on my phone she would also look at what i was doing with me.

All the times after second while we we at it she would always wrap her legs around me and sometimes hold my hand afterwards  which to me seemed a bit too passionate, or is it just me ?

I got her number the third time and i asked her to come to my place to "relax and take her for a walk as she wanted" haha.
She said she could not make it so I was pretty pissed and went to see her at the brothel the next day to talk rather than fuck, she asked me to come clubbing with her and the rest of the brothel women lol but im not into clubbing anymore even as young as I am.

She texted me later that day rescheduling but I chose to cancel on her because I knew her reason for not being able to make the first meet was BS we have not spoken since then and I wont lie I still think about her, I have not been back since the last time i went to see her which was just to talk.

Let me Know what you guys think.

[Horizontal pleasures]

Find another parlour or another lady at the same parlour. This is business even if it is pleasurable. There are many threads on here on the same topic.

[KD]

It Just gets to me tho I dont even feel like going to that brothel again even to chose another woman because I know they all know about me and her...
Dont know any other brothels near me which is Basildon I might try an escort.

[Bobdayley]

An escort is an escort. even if you feel in love with her and she falls in love with you (in this case she doesn't look like it). She will always be back to her old job.

[KD]

Yeah true, Im not in love with her I like her as a friend i guess to just chill with, I never thought about her going back to what she does. we texted all night and stuff, she cancelled on meeting me but offered me two more options on meeting her I dont really know how she felt about me but I find it all weird I dont know.

Would you ever go back there if you were me ?

[Bobdayley]

I will be tempted but at the endIi will choose the professional side.
My advice see her a few more times as an escort not as a friend then you will get fed up of her.
Personally, I wouldn't.

[HappyandLucky]

Dont confuse yourself. She is a prostitute, so keep it profesional. If u cant then don't see her again. What is the best ending you can hope for = you end up with a friend that f##ks anyone with £50 in their pocket. You will just end up getting confused and screwed in your own head. Girl friends are for friendships, escorts are for shagging. Never confuse or combine the 2

[KD]

Its her who came on to me, i just gave in but yeah you speak the truth it should only be fuck and go.

[HappyandLucky]

KD, trust me I have been there.  A road to disaster. Take it from someone who knows, leave it and take punts as they are meant to be. I went further than just friendship and all sex for free so a bonus in many ways. But it becomes a headf**k.  Unless you want to settle down with a working girl which is a defo no, then why would you?  Pay your money, see many different escorts, have fun but do NOT NOT NOT get attached 

[jcdmj12]

The best thing you can do is post her name, plus a review. Once a couple of members have been to see her and reported an equally fucktastic time, you'll realise you're not such a special snowflake after all.   

It will be initially painful, but far less so than what will happen if you continue seeing her and thinking it's going somewhere.

[HappyandLucky]

Cruel but true I feel, but could have put it easier.

[Turtle1]

This is not a dig at you personally but to everyone that gets too deep...FFS its a damn hooker. what do you expect, she wants money and only money, her number one job is hooking, then she will look at other avenues of interest. If you went out clubbing you'd of ended up paying for most of the drinks anyways.

Let this be a damn lesson. Don't ever trust em, but also there is no need to tread them like trash as some-people like to do. Once in a blue moon you hear stories of how people hook up and fall in love ect and all that BS... dont trust these either as they are rare and mostly BS

[Joey]

An escort is an escort. even if you feel in love with her and she falls in love with you (in this case she doesn't look like it). She will always be back to her old job.

Unfounded  statement, I've met guys that have married a brass, had kids & have been together for years.

Granted the odds are very much against you but at the end of the day many girls are just girls who want to be loved & cared for. Case by case. 

[intana]

i could relate to your story

11 years ago i had similiar experience with a FKK girl is germany. She was romanian and to me she was the nicest girl and i did fell in love with her.

She too did not meet me up during out first  encounter eventhough the night before we had fun and texted each other.

I went the next day to the brothel but she did not came in. I went the next day again and upon seeing me she tried avoiding me but i confronted her.

i asked her why she did not see me. her answer was something like this

"i do have feeling about you but i realize in this job i could not like you too much and you cannot like me too much too. you will be here a few days and i will be happy and u will be gone but i will be here doing this job and what is my feeling then when you are gone while i am stuck doing this.i am very sad inside. I come here to find money. and then she told me the truth about herself *sad story about life in romania and she finally told me she had a child back home in romania and she is doing this for her*

she cried and her partings word " This place(the brothel) is bullshit. You are an architect and i am a whore". basically she told me to go away. honestly i didnt know whether she felt anything about me but at least she didnt keep me around and sucked money from me. she was always honest with me and i had extra time up to 30 minutes with her which never happens with me with a wg.

i did not go to the fkk for a few weeks as i was heartbroken. but one day i receive a short sms saying "goodbye intana i am going back to romania and am not going to work in germany anymore. take care of yourself and i will remember you always". she never did return to the brothel.

so i think a relationship with a prossie probably would be really hard to work. normal girls would be easier.

[ladiesman020]

So I have been to lips massage in Romford which is actually a brothel, I must have been around 5 times and chose the same woman the young small blonde with tattoos, however the more I went the more I noticed she liked me and I gradually opened up to her.
The third time I went and after she started resting her head on my shoulder while i would be messaging friends on my phone she would also look at what i was doing with me.
Helen?? A pretty polish girl who is really Romanian. She looks like russian gymnast maria paseka

All the times after second while we we at it she would always wrap her legs around me and sometimes hold my hand afterwards  which to me seemed a bit too passionate, or is it just me ?

I got her number the third time and i asked her to come to my place to "relax and take her for a walk as she wanted" haha.
She said she could not make it so I was pretty pissed and went to see her at the brothel the next day to talk rather than fuck, she asked me to come clubbing with her and the rest of the brothel women lol but im not into clubbing anymore even as young as I am.

She texted me later that day rescheduling but I chose to cancel on her because I knew her reason for not being able to make the first meet was BS we have not spoken since then and I wont lie I still think about her, I have not been back since the last time i went to see her which was just to talk.

Let me Know what you guys think.

Helen by any chance. A pretty blonde. Says she's from Poland but is really from Romania. Looks like russian gymnast maria paseka. I had her last week, nice girl but limited service

[GC]

Where do you go from the station to get to lips massage? And whats the opening times i've only been to a couple of these things?? Thanks

[Tonyleung]

Where do you go from the station to get to lips massage? And whats the opening times i've only been to a couple of these things?? Thanks

Google is your friend - for anything else try the search box in top right of this page,

[ladiesman020]

Its 140A South Street. It's above a fried chicken shop by the bus stops next to the station

[PapaSmurf]

I'll give you credit for breaking away. Easy to fall for the affectionate prossie, but don't mistake her affection for anything more than maintaining a consistent income form a reliable punter. Even if she liked you more than the average customer, unless you have the kind of money to sweep her off a feet and live forever on a private island, you only ever be a steady cash cow.   

[helmsdale]

Its 140A South Street. It's above a fried chicken shop by the bus stops next to the station

The entrance is at the back of the shops so you have to go down a path to the right of the shops (assuming you are facing the shops).

[GC]

Are there nice girls there?? Went there couple nights ago there was only one Eastern European girl who wasn't all that