I said a lot of what is below in another discussion reply but still very relevant to this, my situation is also about to change.
I'm mid 40's, been married for 20-years, had a very vanilla sex life for 5-years, then the wife went nuts (she's always been close to the 'stab-proof-vest' end of the scale
) about the time our 2nd kid was born. I left her and had an affair with a girl from work, a super hot girl about 10-year my junior who gave me a lot of the dirtier stuff wife never had (anal, real DT, CIM). Had a great time for about 6-months, but the wife was gonna divorce me (taking me to the cleaners
) the new bird wanted me to marry her (FUCKING WOMEN
).
So I dumped the new and back to the old, after a couple of years of shite, things really picked up and I found out that my wife always had been a dirty bitch, she just needed me to leave her for a year to work it out.
Sex life was sweet for about 10-years, proper dirty, dressing up, outdoors, never quite got her BJ technique sorted and never CIM, but she would cum hardest after I'd already unloaded in her ass
. We had some lean times of course, but on the whole I was satisfied.
Then about 4.5-years ago the wife had a bit of a mental breakdown, spent a year dealing with that shite
. Then as quick as the crazy began, it stopped
. But she was a changed woman, decided to get fit and lost about 2-stone (she is now super hot) but the sex went ultra vanilla and then dried up all together.
It's been 3-years Christmas just gone, I gave up asking after 6-months and started punting about 18-months ago, about 30 punts down and really mellow about it, some minor guilt after the first one, but never looked back.
I've decided that I've had enough of it now though, the only way our relationship works if I put in 60% effort to her 40% and with that imbalance And no sex, it just isn't working for me.
So in the last week, I've not been trying so hard to keep things on an even keel, and what would you know, the entire house of cards has come crashing down, I'm already sleeping on the couch
.
Not so worried about the financials now, been lucky over the last couple of years, she's started working and I earn enough to buy her out of the house, kiddies are all grown up, youngest is 17 and the other off to Uni, they also both know their mum is a nutter and want to live with me.
So she's shit out of luck, cuz this mug ain't staying around for any more of this shite
.
Concerning punting, when it comes down to it, I see like this.
"if I had a bad back I'd go and see a professional to get it sorted out, which costs money and provides relief......I don't have a bad back"
I've explained this to a number of WG's and the smart ones get it.
