Cheers NNF, I'm not fixated by any means, for me sometimes it's just a bit off putting.
Suzie looks cracking and by all means may be a decent punt, as I said it's for me a wee bit off putting at times almost like looking at a profile thinking TGTBT.
No doubt I've probably been with and SP who's been with an SS who's been with SP offering BB, if you can't see it in the feedback from previous SS that's been with the SP then who cares but as long as you protect yourself as best as possible IMHO.