Many of us on UKP have used SA in the past, including myself. The prospect of a young, fresh, sexually-experienced (or simply inquisitive) girl who will give you her sexy time if not for free, then at a vastly reduced rate, with perhaps even the prospect of an overnight for peanuts.
The Holy Grail, perhaps!
Compare that with a
battle-hardened and cynical pro WG from AW for many times the price, and the pursuit of that Grail becomes worthy of exploration.
And so it was, Trans-lovers, that I ventured to
the very dark side, the side where hairy, overweight blokes in leather jockstraps yearn to be anally-fucked into whimpering submission by
a straight guy . They might even want to kiss you!
Yes folks, I'm talking about Grindr!!
Many on UKP would consider any guy who lusts after Trans girls as well as 'normal' girls, as being Gay, Queer, Faggotish or at the very least, just a tiny little bit
Bi. The truth, or at least personal perception of that 'truth', is open to discussion or even hot debate, and lies somewhere between those extremes
.
Whatever that 'truth' might be, after a couple of drinks and out of sheer boredom with Lockdown, I found myself putting up a profile on Grindr to see what fish I might catch. PoHF. Plenty of Hairy Fish? I was careful to word my profile to attract only the most fem TSs, but somewhat inevitably you do get sent LOTS of cock pics, invariably attached to very butch-looking men. Luckily the Block button takes care of that very quickly. There's also filters for age, distance etc.
So, with Lockdown loosening, my first paid-punt already booked (subject to my own conditions being met as the date approaches), and like a bolt out of the blue, a young, hot vision of
Trans-loveliness pops up on my punting phone via Grindr. Some initial discussion, some common interests found, some photos exchanged (they have a clever system where you can send a face photo which disappears after 10s of viewing), and it was then onto
let's exchange numbers and continue this on WhatsApp. It got pretty intense pretty quickly, and very soon there were explicit pics going both ways, and even a couple of videos
.
Anyway, long story short, after a Covid-screening of each other which satisfied both parties, we just had our second meeting last night (an overnight) within 5 days. I've met this cute, sweet, nerdy, ultra-fem Film & Arts loving Trans girl who's been on hormones and blockers for around 9mths.
Exquisite. She even has a hot lingerie collection
. The first time she came to mine I gave her £20 to cover her fuel (a 1hr drive). This second time I slipped her £50 to cover an overnight. We've had a lot of fun!
I don't imagine I'm the only one on UKP to have done this, but certainly I think I'm the only one who's owned up to it? It just occurred to me that this is pretty well the equivalent of SA for meeting Trans girls who are hot to trot. Yes, like any other 'dating' site there are Pros lurking, but you suss them out pretty quickly. So what you're left with is a load of horny people wanting to meet for the thrill of it. If you can bear the sheer level of unwanted dross you get inevitably sent, then this would seem to be a worthwhile pursuit if you have the time and inclination to indulge in it. The needles are indeed in the haystack