Too Nervous - couldn't perform

[maybe]

Hi Guys,

So its punt number 2. Based of the advice from some of my other threads, this time i go for someone with positive feedback. This isn't a review btw.

I tried to book in a week advance but was instead told to call again on the day so I did. Leading up to the day i was pretty excited and couldn't wait. Eventually on the day i make call and make my way there.

Leading up to it i've had probably 4 cigs, a cup of coffee, and 3-4 strong mints (realising my breath will stink ...) all within 30 minutes, i thinking this might have something do with it ... all that shit can't be good.

I took the advice and abstained from internet porn for a week and held it in for 3 days. I'm thinking i'm nervous, but man, i'm ready!

After i go up stairs the WG is pretty and i give her a hug, a little akward, but she starts with some OWO. He soon wakes up and she hops on top for a bit but then he goes soft. I'm not really sure whats happening at this point, maybe it was cold, my arms were a little numb, maybe the position wasn't right (was just lying down on bed ...) i dunno.

So she tries some to hand job, more OWO and we spend maybe around 40 minutes of the 1hour trying revive the bastard without success.  Although it is nice sensation for that long a release would have been a great finish. So she suggests maybe shower time and i go to shower and try to revive him solo which might have taken too long, which i kinda do, but by the time i come out its time up.

So now i thinking do i have a problem. is it PIED? maybe after sensual OWO and putting one on and then trying pump with lube doesn't have enough feel. Or maybe it was the nerves. At one point, the back of my legs and arms and back were kind of went all pins and needles on me. I wasn't sure what was happening. I didn't take anything before hand. Or maybe because of the nerves and i just smoked too much and pumped my body full of caffine and shit affected performance.

Its been a few days since i was the WG and i can't resist it any more and crack one off without any problems. I was avoiding the death grip ^_^ but i'm having thoughts of seeing the exact same WG, purely because she is pretty and worked hard despite everything and maybe with familiarity it would be better. I don't know if this is a good or bad idea though, but I would be happier making another booking if i had some idea what went wrong the first time.

Tips welcome!

[Justanotheruser]

Just sounds like nerves. You're overthinking the situation and placing a lot of pressure on yourself when meeting her. That naturally makes it harder to perform. That's why in the comfort of your own home you're able to get a hard on, no problem.

My advice would be
Stop smoking and drinking coffee before cos this is playing into the 'calm your nerves thing'.
Buy some viagra from doctorfox website.

I highly doubt you need the viagra but think of them as your training wheels. They will make things much easier the next few times until you have settled into the routine and it's less of a novelty. It will be tricky not to get hard if you take one an hour before and drink water, not coffee.

[Plan R]

Personally I'd go with a new girl - clean slate and all that.
Also pop a viagra 1hr before the punt, you can't go wrong then.
(If 'Red-Bull gives you wings', Viagra gives you a Rolls-Royce Jet Engine )

Popping a 'punting biscuit' before a punt doesn't mean you can't get it up.
It means that, as you will be paying money for the sex, you want a guarantee you will enjoy a good fuck.

Top tips; If you get 100ml viagra (or Kamagra), bite em in half because 50ml is plenty.
Also try a 50ml on your own at home a few days before the punt - so you know what to expect.

Lastly - your'e just sticking your penis into a vagina for money. Try not to get too worried about it.

[switftjake]

Go for a 30 min full body sensual massage FBSM with happy ending and just lay back and relax. Theres no pressure puts you in the mood with subtle teasing. Your mind will be in the right place for when things start to build up.

If that works next step find a WG who does FBSM with full sex and start the same way. Maybe go 45 or 60 min

[threechilliman]

Top tips; If you get 100ml viagra (or Kamagra), bite em in half because 50ml is plenty.

Do we all use that trick?

[Plan R]

Not necessarily but if it works - why not, it saves money.
If he's never had em and he tries a half one a few days before hand then he'll know.
Obviously it depends on lots of other factors, but in a scientific sample (me and everyone I know that uses viagra), half a tab works every time.
 

[shagmore]

Just relax, and think nothing off it, you have been thinking to much into it.
Go with a new WG and once she has been thoroughly seen to make another appointment with the original one to slay those demons
Happy punting
 

[pewpewpew]

Can i ask how old are you OP? I'm in my thirties and no problems getting it up. When I started punting I was always nervous as hell. Just seemed a bit unnatural to meet a girl and fuck her within 1 hour. Soon got used to it though so maybe just experience

[threechilliman]

Just seemed a bit unnatural to meet a girl and fuck her within 1 hour.

Standard practice where I'm from. Years ago, before I were married, I'd fucked a civvy within an hour of meeting her. What a slut.

[daveev]

£700 before i got rid of the nervous and a blue pill, it happens.

[maybe]

THanks for the advice all. I’ve not tried viagra and have a very old fashion view of walking around with a stiffy in public ^_^, but it might be something I have to look into if this. Arrows on.

 I’m 40 atm. I’m hope it’s only nerves but Was thinking of trying the massage route as suggested just have to try it out and see if itworks for me.

I think that’s the thing, just experience and possibly frame of mind. Just meeting up and the wg pretty much strips and is ready is new to me. I’m not ready and just couldn’t cope!

Cheers guys lots to think about.

[Justanotheruser]

THanks for the advice all. I’ve not tried viagra and have a very old fashion view of walking around with a stiffy in public ^_^, but it might be something I have to look into if this. Arrows on.

 I’m 40 atm. I’m hope it’s only nerves but Was thinking of trying the massage route as suggested just have to try it out and see if itworks for me.

I think that’s the thing, just experience and possibly frame of mind. Just meeting up and the wg pretty much strips and is ready is new to me. I’m not ready and just couldn’t cope!

Cheers guys lots to think about.

You don't walk around with a constant erection. Only when aroused.

[purple_t]

THanks for the advice all. I’ve not tried viagra and have a very old fashion view of walking around with a stiffy in public ^_^, but it might be something I have to look into if this. Arrows on.

 I’m 40 atm. I’m hope it’s only nerves but Was thinking of trying the massage route as suggested just have to try it out and see if itworks for me.

I think that’s the thing, just experience and possibly frame of mind. Just meeting up and the wg pretty much strips and is ready is new to me. I’m not ready and just couldn’t cope!

Cheers guys lots to think about.

You won't walk around with a boner in public on viagra. You still need to be aroused / stimulated to achieve an erection, it doesn't give you a permanent erection for hours on end 

As someone else said lay off the cigs, as for caffeine I believe everyone responds to it differently but might want to try abstaining from it before a punt.

P.S. extra strong mints are no substitute for brushing your teeth...

[sparkus]

Only happened once to me when I first started, it was more I didn't find the WG very attractive (went in blind on a paper ad, very skinny black girl) and she wasn't doing it for me.  Possibly some nerves as it was a skanky council flat in an ends I wasn't very familiar with.

A few punts later my parts weren't working so well and I said perhaps I was under the weather or something and no hard feelings, would have split.  The foxy Brazilian WG said "Don't worry honey, I know just what you need" and brought it back to life with her tongue.

Another time it turned out I just needed a piss!

I've astounded myself at being able to perform after several bottles of wine.  The WG (French, so no stranger to men whiffing of Sauvignon) said if it was true then kudos to me as I was rock hard, though I think she played a part in that.

[maybe]

Appreciate the sharing of experiences and good to know that sometimes I aren't the only one.

I feel slightly enlightened about viagra, and i've moved slightly forward out of the dark ages hahah. 

[Ron da Cuba]

I am over 65 and first got nerve problems 10 years ago. My tips: you don't need more than 25mg of Viagra. I use 12.5mg / a 25 mg bitten in half. Too much Viagra is as bad as not enough. You have wood but can't come. Avoid caffeine. Don't take Viagra on a full stomach. It stop it working. Drink lots of water and as the OP said try fbsm. Much less stress. Finally no drugs will help if you just don't fancy her. Women think that men will screw anything. Well this one wont. If they are not good looking or if the venue is skanky and dangerous little Ron doesn't want to know.