Massage Happy Endings... how long do you last?

[JayEZ2K]

One thing that puts me off getting massages with happy endings is that I don't last long. Partly it's the high sensitivity from the skin-on-skin contact and lots of oil, and partly because most girls seem too goal oriented, thinking that the goal is to cum when really it's the whole buildup. With sex I can control the pace, and I consistently last 15-20 minutes. With happy endings I only last about 5 minutes on average, which is not satisfying and a waste of money to boot. I would much prefer a relaxing massage and a longer, sensual happy ending edging session for 10-15 minutes. So, for those of you experienced with this area of punting...

How long do you last with happy endings on average? If you last longer than 5 minutes, what are your tricks to a better session? (I try to coach them with shaft work and ball action, but they tend to go straight back to working the head, setting me off too quickly.)

[sublimetoridiculous]

Yes, a lot of them seem determined to make you come too soon, and then offer you a head massage to fill in the rest of the time.

Perhaps try a different place? At my local establishment the ladies are generally open to discussing in advance, before anything starts, how I want it to be. Several have said they would much rather know exactly what you want.

[BingoHJ]

It has to be about the build up and teasing before you get to the climax. I have had 45-60 minute massages with the happy ending in the last 10-15 minutes. Are you using AW girls as there are plenty that offer a massage and HE experience - some with OWO as well. Personally i going off full blown penetration.

[Stevensmiles]

If it’s a massage with HE I’m having. Then I’ll isuallh tell the girl how I want to finish. Make it last so to speak.

I’m kind of jealous of those guys who say they can fuck for 20 minutes or so.
I never seem to be able to gauge it so exactly.
Sometimes it seems I am far more sensitive than at other times. 

[Waterhouse]

If it’s a massage with HE I’m having. Then I’ll isuallh tell the girl how I want to finish. Make it last so to speak.

I’m kind of jealous of those guys who say they can fuck for 20 minutes or so.
I never seem to be able to gauge it so exactly.
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Sometimes it seems I am far more sensitive than at other times. 

Time of the month? 

[daviemac]

One thing that puts me off getting massages with happy endings is that I don't last long. Partly it's the high sensitivity from the skin-on-skin contact and lots of oil, and partly because most girls seem too goal oriented, thinking that the goal is to cum when really it's the whole buildup. With sex I can control the pace, and I consistently last 15-20 minutes. With happy endings I only last about 5 minutes on average, which is not satisfying and a waste of money to boot. I would much prefer a relaxing massage and a longer, sensual happy ending edging session for 10-15 minutes. So, for those of you experienced with this area of punting...

How long do you last with happy endings on average? If you last longer than 5 minutes, what are your tricks to a better session? (I try to coach them with shaft work and ball action, but they tend to go straight back to working the head, setting me off too quickly.)

I think it's more to do with who you see, some want to give you a sensual experience others want to get it over as quick as possible, we're lucky in the NE we have ones like this -

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=232812.0

If you're ever up this way you should give her a try.

[badsin]

Teresa Scott offers massage services in Nottingham. She's pretty damn good. If you want two pops in the hour she'll get you off in the first 10/15 minutes, then sort you out at the end also.
A good service provider will be open to your requests

[sunnyj]

It also depends on when I last had a wank.   
Usually if I am fresh without a wank for few days, it takes only max 5mins HJ to unload. I always target two pops in 30mins booking if the WG allows it, else I do one long and slow pumping to finish which lasts 15-20mins.

[JayEZ2K]

Yes, a lot of them seem determined to make you come too soon, and then offer you a head massage to fill in the rest of the time.

Perhaps try a different place? At my local establishment the ladies are generally open to discussing in advance, before anything starts, how I want it to be. Several have said they would much rather know exactly what you want.

I wonder why that is. It seems like a happy ending isn't any more work than a normal massage. Maybe even easier.

I can try discussing in more detail with them, but there's usually a language barrier.

It has to be about the build up and teasing before you get to the climax. I have had 45-60 minute massages with the happy ending in the last 10-15 minutes. Are you using AW girls as there are plenty that offer a massage and HE experience - some with OWO as well. Personally i going off full blown penetration.

I use massage shops and independently listed oriental masseuses on gumtree. I like the convenience of massage shops, and the variety overall. And I've also noticed that several places lately don't bother to build up or tease before the flip, and instead just ask outright if I want a HE. 

If it’s a massage with HE I’m having. Then I’ll isuallh tell the girl how I want to finish. Make it last so to speak.

... I always target two pops in 30mins booking if the WG allows it, else I do one long and slow pumping to finish which lasts 15-20mins.

Is that at massage parlours or with independent masseuses? I assume the parlour format is massage, single pop, and a bit more massage to fill the time.

[sunnyj]

Is that at massage parlours or with independent masseuses? I assume the parlour format is massage, single pop, and a bit more massage to fill the time.

Sorry, I mixed it up. Both Massage parlour or independent masseuses are mostly one pop and mostly at the end. This is the format that I have seen
First 5mins - Handover cash, undress and get ready
15mins - Massage
5mins - HJ and sometimes BJ
Last 5mins - Clean-up, dress, a little chat and leave
Never did 60mins massage bookings.

That 15-20mins is sex with full service provider and no massage is involved.

[Rome66]

These  days I  am FBSM only... massage is my  OCD "thang" ..if you are just desperate horny  then book 30min , but the
 
SP  understands your not that bothered about the massage...and guess what,  neither is she. ( jerk of the jerk bye bye ).

 ( so get to Aw for advertised sex worker)  60 min plus then be looking for a really good experience,  with the perfect

"cumpletion".  Its a rare and wonderful 

Happy ending.  That perfect combo , but its once again whatever floats your boat , different strokes etc etc. ..different

 market for those wanting to fuck ,  owo . But my buddies will correct my inaccurate comments probably.  Cheers

 m'dears.

[wannabe]

If you're in Birmingham try Lola Bell. She's close to the Mailbox, about a 15 minute walk from New Street Station.

In an hour's massage she'll spend the last half hour on your cock. Tell her if you're getting near and she'll back off. An excellent HJ, probably the best I've experienced. This is the B2B massage which she asks you to choose at the beginning. I haven't tried her Swedish massage.

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[JayEZ2K]

Thanks for clarifying sunnyj.

If you're in Birmingham try Lola Bell... In an hour's massage she'll spend the last half hour on your cock. Tell her if you're getting near and she'll back off. An excellent HJ, probably the best I've experienced...

Thanks, this is exactly what I was looking for. Although 15 minutes would be great, 30 minutes would be mind blowing.

Like this, minus the scary fingernails: External Link/Members Only

These  days I  am FBSM only... massage is my  OCD "thang" ... ( so get to Aw for advertised sex worker)  60 min plus then be looking for a really good experience,  with the perfect  "cumpletion".  Its a rare and wonderful Happy ending.  That perfect combo , but its once again whatever floats your boat , different strokes etc etc. ..different

I've only used AW for full service, but since I've never done FBSM from a HE specialist, and it was mentioned multiple times here, I will certainly add that to my "to-do" list.


As for improving the HE at the regular massage shops, I went back for a massage recently and when the HE was offered, I made sure she knew I wanted it to last 10 minutes. Modest I know, but a 200% improvement over 5 minutes. She agreed, although was working the head too much, and jerking too much. So I micromanaged her, making her stop about 6 times when I was getting close to cumming, and getting her to spend time playing with the balls and shaft. So I was able to last 10 minutes, with edging, had a much better orgasm and my cock had the great lingering feeling from being worked, which lasted a couple hours. So I guess when it comes down to it, confirming the service and time before agreeing to the HE, and then strictly micromanaging their action if necessary.


I'd still be interested to know how the average HE at parlours go for other punters. Maybe a 5 minute oily wank is what the vast majority receive at parlours? But wouldn't something like that video above be so much better?

[sparkus]

Rarely more than five minutes, there's no that many SPs whose wrists can withstand that either!

Dr Jasmine the Hungarian MILF in Whitechapel used to excel at lengthy edging for way longer, though with that chest to play with it was hard to hold off.

[Fallion]

This whole thread has been an interesting read for me as I was considering visiting one of the many places in Manchester that's on offer, for a Christmas present to myself.

But after reading this, I'm not too sure anymore. 5-10 minutes isn't that long; when I usually can last at least 30 minutes.

Plus I am currently on some medication which has the side effect of making it harder to cum, although it has led to some brilliant edging on my own, my personal record must be 6+ hrs 

[Niggledebits]

This is going to read strange to you guys, however the fitter the masseur the longer it takes.  I had one massage from a plump young Thai girl who wasn’t ugly but you wouldn’t look at her twice in the street.

She was full of cold and kept all her clothes on.  I didn’t even touch her.

Little man thought the opposite and when I came it was like firing out flames of fire.  Best ever and not yet surpassed.  I did see her again and managed to have full sex even though it was very much against house rules.

I basically have to concentrate to shoot my load.  Weird.

[myothernameis]

Now closed establishment in Glasgow, Be Healthy, at the time, the person doing the massage was a middle age woman, asked if I wanted her clothes of, not thank, but will take HE

Well, the massage it self was brilliant, and when it came to my Happy Ending, she also know what she was doing, and took a good 10-15 min's, stroking my cock, until finally I came, or more like exploded

She just didn't play with my shaft, but all other area's all round

[Titti Tatti]

I'm the opposite to the OP in that I find it difficult to come in either FS or HJ and mostly have to finish myself off at a rate more furious than most WGs can sustain. So I favour longer meets of at least an hour,though have successfully visited Soho walk ups for 20 mins. It's partly age related as I used to be able to ' knock one out' but now outtakes an hour or more of porn. Not such a bad 'problem' to have really.

It does mean that the average HJ provide is U/S toe but it must satisfy the majority of punters. RTather than just have her move her fist up and down and grunt, I need teasing and a slow approach. The OP also asks isn't wanking as easy as masseuring? My experience is no, I've allowed several girls to exhaust themselves in a way I find completely UN sexy. Also they don't have the same strength I do (I'm a poster child for the 'death grip') Occasionally you get one who refuses to get beaten (sic). For the others once tiredness sets in they stArt to listen to what I'd like, and when I'm ready I help them out.

[Trenlover]

a good HJ always make me cum way faster than sex or oral. even bareback sex.

[JayEZ2K]

Rarely more than five minutes, there's no that many SPs whose wrists can withstand that either!

I'm surprised if it hurts their wrists any more than a normal massage. Or unless it's just because your [insert big dick joke here].

You've done loads of massages/HE's, right? So if you're saying it's typically 5 minutes or less, maybe that's the most common, and it's only the exceptional masseuses that go beyond that.

This whole thread has been an interesting read for me as I was considering visiting one of the many places in Manchester that's on offer, for a Christmas present to myself.

But after reading this, I'm not too sure anymore. 5-10 minutes isn't that long; when I usually can last at least 30 minutes.

Plus I am currently on some medication which has the side effect of making it harder to cum, although it has led to some brilliant edging on my own, my personal record must be 6+ hrs 

With the meds you might last longer, or better yet, you could follow a positive review. If you've never been, it's worth trying at least a few times to explore another area of this hobby of ours.

Well, the massage it self was brilliant, and when it came to my Happy Ending, she also know what she was doing, and took a good 10-15 min's, stroking my cock, until finally I came, or more like exploded... She just didn't play with my shaft, but all other area's all round

Another one that sounds perfect.

[antmasterant]

I once went for a lingam massage which basically was 30 minutes spent teasing and edging with no intention of making me cum until the last few minutes. It was one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had.

The problem I’ve found is there are very few SPs who know how to do one well or even provide the service certainly in my neck of the woods.

[Mifune]

a good HJ always make me cum way faster than sex or oral. even bareback sex.

Same here.  When they have good technique that involves rubbing the head and tip as they go, I’m done in no time.

To the OP’s original question - when in a proper massage place, where I’ve had 30 min sensual massage build up and they have good HJ technique, then about 5 mins is max for me too.  And that’s with a tactical wank about an hour beforehand as well.

Think I’ll take advice from this thread and ask about edging a bit next time.

[sparkus]

I'm surprised if it hurts their wrists any more than a normal massage. Or unless it's just because your [insert big dick joke here].

You've done loads of massages/HE's, right? So if you're saying it's typically 5 minutes or less, maybe that's the most common, and it's only the exceptional masseuses that go beyond that.

With the meds you might last longer, or better yet, you could follow a positive review. If you've never been, it's worth trying at least a few times to explore another area of this hobby of ours.

Another one that sounds perfect.

Believe me, any longer than five mins and they complain.

[Hobbit]

One thing that puts me off getting massages with happy endings is that I don't last long. Partly it's the high sensitivity from the skin-on-skin contact and lots of oil, and partly because most girls seem too goal oriented, thinking that the goal is to cum when really it's the whole buildup. With sex I can control the pace, and I consistently last 15-20 minutes. With happy endings I only last about 5 minutes on average, which is not satisfying and a waste of money to boot. I would much prefer a relaxing massage and a longer, sensual happy ending edging session for 10-15 minutes. So, for those of you experienced with this area of punting...

How long do you last with happy endings on average? If you last longer than 5 minutes, what are your tricks to a better session? (I try to coach them with shaft work and ball action, but they tend to go straight back to working the head, setting me off too quickly.)

It is a tough one, but you can control how quickly you cum my breathing and just relaxing. Just tell her to slow down and get her to concentrate on other parts of your body if you are about to explode. 

[winkywanky]

If I'm in a 'determined mood' I can last 20 mins or more with a full-on HJ.

If I sense the girl is getting frustrated (and I'm still well within my paid time) I might suggest to her that if she puts my cock in her mouth, that will probably make me pop    .

There are some upsides to getting older  .

[joe diddley]

Dr Jasmine the Hungarian MILF in Whitechapel used to excel at lengthy edging for way longer, though with that chest to play with it was hard to hold off.

I saw the good doctor when she was in a well known flat in North Finchley. Gives a nice titwank.

[sparkus]

The 'Profanisaurus' supplement of the new Viz has "like a Lidl checkout worker" for a clumsy HJ done without finesse.

[BP96]

When I found a good provider at my local Thai place I got her to give me a normal massage but touch my cock/balls every few minutes during it. I was constantly hard and on fire but only came at the end. Great times.

[JayEZ2K]

When I found a good provider at my local Thai place I got her to give me a normal massage but touch my cock/balls every few minutes during it. I was constantly hard and on fire but only came at the end. Great times.

That sounds really excellent. It helps if you have someone who will take coaching.



I had this massage recently, which was phenomenal. I had to remove her hand a few times, but on her own she provided really excellent service. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239901.new#new

If I had to break down the elements of a perfect happy ending at a massage place:
* Teasing at 30 minutes on a 1 hour booking, which leaves a solid 20 minutes of focused action, 5 minutes for a face massage, and 5 for cleanup/shower.
* Teasing with ticklish credit card swipes, ball and taint tickles, reach-unders, groin rubbing
* Slow and gentle
* No vigorous jerking
* Not too much focus on the head/glans
* Intersperse the attention around the shaft, balls, groin
* Make it last, and slowly build up to the orgasm after 15-20 minutes
* Leave time for an unrushed cleanup and face massage

[Dipper]

That sounds really excellent. It helps if you have someone who will take coaching.



I had this massage recently, which was phenomenal. I had to remove her hand a few times, but on her own she provided really excellent service. https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239901.new#new

If I had to break down the elements of a perfect happy ending at a massage place:
* Teasing at 30 minutes on a 1 hour booking, which leaves a solid 20 minutes of focused action, 5 minutes for a face massage, and 5 for cleanup/shower.
* Teasing with ticklish credit card swipes, ball and taint tickles, reach-unders, groin rubbing
* Slow and gentle
* No vigorous jerking
* Not too much focus on the head/glans
* Intersperse the attention around the shaft, balls, groin
* Make it last, and slowly build up to the orgasm after 15-20 minutes
* Leave time for an unrushed cleanup and face massage

Mmmmm, the all important “reach under.” 

The thought of that after reading your post has made me wonder about booking in somewhere soon.
In a 30-40 min session I can more often than not go the full distance. A Nice relaxing rub for say 10-15
 Back and front.

I like to see how they work out the technique that will get you off best, giving as little instruction as possibe. A Lovely slow stroke to begin, incorporating balls and arse hole.

Building to a full on shaft pumping for maybe the last 2-3 mins to finish me. If only I could master similar staying power for FS punts.   

[Fanfanuk]

One thing that puts me off getting massages with happy endings is that I don't last long. Partly it's the high sensitivity from the skin-on-skin contact and lots of oil, and partly because most girls seem too goal oriented, thinking that the goal is to cum when really it's the whole buildup. With sex I can control the pace, and I consistently last 15-20 minutes. With happy endings I only last about 5 minutes on average, which is not satisfying and a waste of money to boot. I would much prefer a relaxing massage and a longer, sensual happy ending edging session for 10-15 minutes. So, for those of you experienced with this area of punting...

How long do you last with happy endings on average? If you last longer than 5 minutes, what are your tricks to a better session? (I try to coach them with shaft work and ball action, but they tend to go straight back to working the head, setting me off too quickly.)

I used to end very fast. 1/2mins no joke . I did some research on this and found the magic awnser a med       30/50 mg contains Sildenafil Citrate and Dapoxetine
I could pretty much go on for along as I wanted arfter taking 2    . Look into it pal.   

[threechilliman]

If you last longer than 5 minutes, what are your tricks to a better session?

Think about the mother-in-law.

[Rimmerhard]

I have found in my limited experience that you need to find a favourite girl, build up the trust, this can take a year or two. They know how you tick. I can now go to my go to place and just say can I have a Happy beginning middle and end basically tease my cock and edge me for an hour . Pop 100 mg of the blue pill lie back and enjoy. Even better if they are sat on your face 😁

[maxxblue]

I can now go to my go to place and just say can I have a Happy beginning middle and end basically tease my cock and edge me for an hour .

..and who would that be then?

[Rimmerhard]

Sally at OHC  Crewkerne would be the lady I would go to 😁

[Stud01]

Everytime i have gone for a massage, the happy ending has been left just until the last 5 mins before leaving. Not all girls i have experienced offer any extras. Only time i can tell if extras are on offer is when they ask me if i want to take my pants off early in the session.

[Payyourwaymate]

How do you guys even find these places? I'm a bit curious but don't really know where to start. Also, when I have by chance walked past massage places, I have not seen hotties when I peer inside from the outside. Are there hidden hot ladies in there or something? I'm a bit paranoid that if I made the jump I would be greeted by an old lady 

If anyone could enlighten me or point me in a direction in london somewhere that would be great. Thanks.

[sparkus]

How do you guys even find these places? I'm a bit curious but don't really know where to start. Also, when I have by chance walked past massage places, I have not seen hotties when I peer inside from the outside. Are there hidden hot ladies in there or something? I'm a bit paranoid that if I made the jump I would be greeted by an old lady 

If anyone could enlighten me or point me in a direction in london somewhere that would be great. Thanks.

Assuming you're being serious, there's a whole thread in the London section on the hits and misses of TCM-land.  It's bloody hard and expensive work and you do develop a sixth sense of knowing when to walk and when to stay if a potentially good rack (packing) is concealed under a tunic or jumper.  Of course, it helps if someone else finds that out and reports it, hence 'leeching'.

[houseboot]

Think about the mother-in-law.

I love it when you talk dirty       

[houseboot]

Are there hidden hot ladies in there or something? I'm a bit paranoid that if I made the jump I would be greeted by an old lady 

"Hot ladies" are rare and often a disappointment. 

By comparison, "an old lady" knows her craft and is frequently a delight.   

[sparkus]

"Hot ladies" are rare and often a disappointment. 

By comparison, "an old lady" knows her craft and is frequently a delight.   

There was a couple of shops in the West End where you could frequently find early 20s kewties who "knew their worth" and demanded ridiculous tips to get the pert young chebs out.  I recall one said in response to my asking what days she worked "Not you as well, I guess I won't be seeing you again."

[Guesswork]

Get them to sit in front of you on the table.

You can play with them, it's sexy as fuck and the best bit is they can't get a good 'finish quick rhythm' being back to front. Prolongs the inevitable for a bit anyway

[Strokemeplease]

By comparison, "an old lady" knows her craft and is frequently a delight.

Yes indeed. I you are new to massage shops, put your cock into the hands of a 45+ year old for the best chance of a really enjoyable time.

[sparkus]

Yes indeed. I you are new to massage shops, put your cock into the hands of a 45+ year old for the best chance of a really enjoyable time.

I've had some very enjoyable times with Lucy at the Well Street shop in Hackney, who is most certainly over 45 but still blessed with firm chebs and is very skilled in the cock handling department.

[snaitram99]

Everytime i have gone for a massage, the happy ending has been left just until the last 5 mins before leaving. Not all girls i have experienced offer any extras. Only time i can tell if extras are on offer is when they ask me if i want to take my pants off early in the session.

You could give them a clue by taking your underpants off at the start and lying down naked (on your front)! If unsure just ask if you should take everything off. Also useful to put your hands "above" your head at the end of the massage table - if she rubs her crotch against them you're on  .

If at the start they say keep underpants on and especially if they give you pyjama-like Thai fishermen's trousers to put on, just enjoy the massage 'cos you ain't getting more. 

[Payyourwaymate]

Assuming you're being serious, there's a whole thread in the London section on the hits and misses of TCM-land.  It's bloody hard and expensive work and you do develop a sixth sense of knowing when to walk and when to stay if a potentially good rack (packing) is concealed under a tunic or jumper.  Of course, it helps if someone else finds that out and reports it, hence 'leeching'.

Ah ok, I see. Thanks, I was being serious; I had no idea such a section existed. I guess i'm betting of going for walks in the breeze and then sort out the business myself instead when I return home  and sticking to WGs. Thanks 

[Payyourwaymate]

"Hot ladies" are rare and often a disappointment. 

By comparison, "an old lady" knows her craft and is frequently a delight.   

I see, thanks 

[oap69]

Yes indeed. I you are new to massage shops, put your cock into the hands of a 45+ year old for the best chance of a really enjoyable time.

Yes, have to agree with Strokemeplease an older lady gives a far better enjoyable massage and handjob. 
I enjoy sensual massage and have always visited older ladies, generally they do not rush you.
My experience of young ladies is usually a quick back rub, turn over, fast handjob to get you out and the next punter in.

[GingerNuts]

Yes, have to agree with Strokemeplease an older lady gives a far better enjoyable massage and handjob. 
I enjoy sensual massage and have always visited older ladies, generally they do not rush you.
My experience of young ladies is usually a quick back rub, turn over, fast handjob to get you out and the next punter in.

Not always true.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239846.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239119.0

Perhaps you could post some reviews and share your experiences.

[JayEZ2K]

Not always true.

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239846.0

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=239119.0

Perhaps you could post some reviews and share your experiences.

Cheers, and excellent reviews. The idea of a "Happy Ending" subconsciously kept me from even considering two happy endings in a session, so two is a like a paradigm shift. In any case, just one, high quality HE would be enough for me. The simultaneous body massage and HJ is a great technique. I had a mind blowing HE fairly recently, and I'm realizing that there's really so much more technique involved than a simple wank off. Even with gentle oil strokes on the cock is still basic compared to what's possible.

One approach to get a perfect HE is to follow follow reviews to find good SPs. Alternatively, I've found that I can coach them along to some degree, but I think the best would be a video explanation. Maybe a video on pornhub or somewhere showing the perfect happy ending technique that could be sent to SPs to enhance their skills. If there was a consensus, or a few variations based on what people thought was the perfect HE.

Without getting into specific techniques, the general skill levels from my experience seem to be:
Level 0: A fast wank to make the client cum fast
Level 1: Slow and sensual cock rubbing, twisting
Level 2: Same as level 1, plus using the other hand to massage the balls and other parts of the body
Level 3: Same as level 2, plus sensing when the client will cum, and then removing hand from cock before cumming, to edge client. Repeat for 20 minutes before finally releasing for a massive orgasm