Seeing a Reg Out of Convenience

[crunchy_guy]

I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. 

I have been seeing a WG regularly over the last four years.  She has always maintained a 70 quid / 1 hour rate for me, despite her prices creeping up to 100~120.  Our sessions never last anywhere close to one hour as i'm usually wrapped up well within 30 mins and we spend the remaining time catching up on life as I never do two rounds.  I enquired about a 30 minute rate, she said no less than 60 which makes little sense to me - a 10 quid discount for half the time.

For what I get, its still good value but I only really see her out of convenience these days.  I don't find her attractive, she is quite lazy in bed but lets me do whatever I want so I use her as my backup option but after I see her I feel pretty crap and tell myself I will never go back.... but I do. 

Its been 6 weeks since I last saw her but the temptation is there to go back.  Its so easy to arrange and 15 minutes drive 

[daviemac]

Have I got this right, you have been paying £70 an hour but now you only want to book 30 minutes and you're moaning about paying £60.   

It beggars belief.

[Moby Dick]

Post her name/profile link.

If she’s reading this she may put up your price/remove discount for calling her lazy and unattractive.

Problem solved.

[crunchy_guy]

Have I got this right, you have been paying £70 an hour but now you only want to book 30 minutes and you're moaning about paying £60.   

It beggars belief.

Its more about "seeing her out of convenience" as per the title of this thread - rather than the rate, although the rate does play a part in my dilemma.  My preference is to stop seeing her!  While I will struggle to find a decent WG at that rate, I can certainly find plenty at £100 that are more my type so for a £30 difference based on my limited frequency of punts, its not going to hit too hard overall.

Its balancing the convenience of seeing a reg I don't really like against less frequent punting with different WGs.  If her rate was say £40~£50 for 30 mins, it would be an easier decision to keep her as a backup P&D twice a month.

[daviemac]

Its more about "seeing her out of convenience" as per the title of this thread - rather than the rate, although the rate does play a part in my dilemma.  My preference is to stop seeing her!  While I will struggle to find a decent WG at that rate, I can certainly find plenty at £100 that are more my type so for a £30 difference based on my limited frequency of punts, its not going to hit too hard overall.

Its balancing the convenience of seeing a reg I don't really like against less frequent punting with different WGs.  If her rate was say £40~£50 for 30 mins, it would be an easier decision to keep her as a backup P&D twice a month.

Over the last 4 years she's knocked between £30 and £50 per hour off for you and now you don't think she's worth £60 a half hour. I have no words for it really.

[tynetunnel]

It sounds to me like you should book 30 minutes with someone you do want to see, rather than visiting because it’s convenient. Or perhaps you’re just complacent or lazy? 

Another dilemma thread where only the OP knows what the answer is which will suit him

[crunchy_guy]

Over the last 4 years she's knocked between £30 and £50 per hour off for you and now you don't think she's worth £60 a half hour. I have no words for it really.

I guess we see it differently - she didn't knock anything off 

In 2017, her rate was £70 for a sensual massage with hand relief.  On our very first encounter, we had sex at no extra cost, which continued on each subsequent meeting thru 2021.  She never asked for anything more and we never discussed prices - until I recently enquired about a 30 minute rate.  I am aware she advertises herself as a tantric masseuse at £100/£120 per hour but she might have zero clients at those rates.

[lillythesavage]

It sounds to me like you should book 30 minutes with someone you do want to see, rather than visiting because it’s convenient. Or perhaps you’re just complacent or lazy? 

Another dilemma thread where only the OP knows what the answer is which will suit him

There is no dilemma, if the Op is bored of her stop seeing her simples ffs.

Op you are making a mountain out of a mole hill, you have used her as you want, done whatever you want so you say, at a discounted rate, and you tried to get it for less .
You have probably offended her during this soap opera to boot, and if she gets wind of your post on here will be well and truly boiling her blood.

Get real man, if you want a change have a change, stop going, you are paying her for sex and say you don,t find her attractive? Bank holiday booze affecting your mind? Or is the dreaded EAS coming into play ?

[daviemac]

I guess we see it differently - she didn't knock anything off 

In 2017, her rate was £70 for a sensual massage with hand relief.  On our very first encounter, we had sex at no extra cost, which continued on each subsequent meeting thru 2021.  She never asked for anything more and we never discussed prices - until I recently enquired about a 30 minute rate.  I am aware she advertises herself as a tantric masseuse at £100/£120 per hour but she might have zero clients at those rates.

If her normal rate is £120 and she only charges you £70 that is a difference of £50 therefore you pay her £50 less than her normal rate. Dress it up anyway you want but you know what she wants for a 30 minute booking either pay it or don't, where is the dilemma.

BTW you have now gone from it being a WG, which most people would expect to be a prostitute offering sexual service, to it being a masseuse offering tantric massages and happy end.

Before the pedants says anything, yes they are all sex workers.

[isaac_gauss]

You say she's not attractive to you, and you regret these meetings. But the deal of cheap, easy sex with her is, it seems, attractive enough to have you coming back. Sounds like addiction.

I'd say stop, don't look back. Quality over quantity.

[Gordon Bennett]

I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. 

I have been seeing a WG regularly over the last four years.  She has always maintained a 70 quid / 1 hour rate for me, despite her prices creeping up to 100~120.  Our sessions never last anywhere close to one hour as i'm usually wrapped up well within 30 mins and we spend the remaining time catching up on life as I never do two rounds.  I enquired about a 30 minute rate, she said no less than 60 which makes little sense to me - a 10 quid discount for half the time.

For what I get, its still good value but I only really see her out of convenience these days.  I don't find her attractive, she is quite lazy in bed but lets me do whatever I want so I use her as my backup option but after I see her I feel pretty crap and tell myself I will never go back.... but I do. 

Its been 6 weeks since I last saw her but the temptation is there to go back.  Its so easy to arrange and 15 minutes drive 

I'd keep this arrangement up. See her every 6-8 weeks-ish. I'm in a similar position with a lady who's charging me 50% of her advertised 30min rate and lets me stay as long as I want. The meets are all a bit meh now but there are two things that keep me going back: it's cheap as chips, literally chump change to me AND she is always pleased to see me.. I stopped seeing it as an escort booking and view it as a simple session of "me time therapy". Don't overthink it - see it for what it is and enjoy yourself. Obviously if it's really making you feel crap you really ought to stop though.

[JontyR]

You have been paying £60 for half an hour of rump-pumpy and this gets you the option of buying 30 minutes chat for £10.

If you don't want to buy that half hour chat then that's up to you. She won't mind, she'll be able to sell that half hour for an extra £50.

[crunchy_guy]

Cheers for the advice guys.

It sounds to me like you should book 30 minutes with someone you do want to see, rather than visiting because it’s convenient. Or perhaps you’re just complacent or lazy? 

I do visit other WGs but I have moments where I get complacent or lazy and go for the easy option.

You are paying her for sex and say you don,t find her attractive? Bank holiday booze affecting your mind? Or is the dreaded EAS coming into play ?

Defo not EAS and I don't drink booze.  The sex is decent but she has gained a lot of weight in 4 years and is not as energetic

You say she's not attractive to you, and you regret these meetings. But the deal of cheap, easy sex with her is, it seems, attractive enough to have you coming back. Sounds like addiction.

I'd say stop, don't look back. Quality over quantity.

More convenience than addiction, especially during the lockdown restrictions.  Agree with quality over quantity.

You have been paying £60 for half an hour of rump-pumpy and this gets you the option of buying 30 minutes chat for £10.  If you don't want to buy that half hour chat then that's up to you. She won't mind, she'll be able to sell that half hour for an extra £50.

It makes sense when you look at it like that.  Maybe if I can extend the fun a bit longer, I would feel better value.  The problem when I do go is i'm super horny and we get straight into the action.

I'd keep this arrangement up. See her every 6-8 weeks-ish. I'm in a similar position with a lady who's charging me 50% of her advertised 30min rate and lets me stay as long as I want. The meets are all a bit meh now but there are two things that keep me going back: it's cheap as chips, literally chump change to me AND she is always pleased to see me.. I stopped seeing it as an escort booking and view it as a simple session of "me time therapy". Don't overthink it - see it for what it is and enjoy yourself. Obviously if it's really making you feel crap you really ought to stop though.

i don't honestly know if its the price, £70 isn't cheap - so many 30 min P&D's available for 60 notes but like you, I can stay as long as I want so I never feel restricted on time which is why I always book 1hr with any WG. 

[filthy.john]

I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. 

I have been seeing a WG regularly over the last four years.  She has always maintained a 70 quid / 1 hour rate for me, despite her prices creeping up to 100~120.  Our sessions never last anywhere close to one hour as i'm usually wrapped up well within 30 mins and we spend the remaining time catching up on life as I never do two rounds.  I enquired about a 30 minute rate, she said no less than 60 which makes little sense to me - a 10 quid discount for half the time.

For what I get, its still good value but I only really see her out of convenience these days.  I don't find her attractive, she is quite lazy in bed but lets me do whatever I want so I use her as my backup option but after I see her I feel pretty crap and tell myself I will never go back.... but I do. 

Its been 6 weeks since I last saw her but the temptation is there to go back.  Its so easy to arrange and 15 minutes drive 

FWIW - I think you've royally fucked it up here... I can't see her now maintaining the £70 for the hour now she's nodded you towards £60 for the half. By re-opening negotiations I think you've opened the door to her saying, and by the way, it's £120ph from next week.

When you're onto a good thing, keep your mouth shut.

[Ghost89]

Jeez, some people don’t know how good they have it!

[crunchy_guy]

FWIW - I think you've royally fucked it up here... I can't see her now maintaining the £70 for the hour now she's nodded you towards £60 for the half. By re-opening negotiations I think you've opened the door to her saying, and by the way, it's £120ph from next week.

When you're onto a good thing, keep your mouth shut.

Its all good dude 

I saw her a couple of times after enquiring about the half hour rate, paid 70 both times, stayed for the full hour.  Business as usual.  IF the price ever goes up, its a very easy exit strategy for me.

[Stevelondon]

And are you still feeling pretty crap afterwards.

Bit like I do after reading this thread.
Jeez that’s three minutes I’ll never get back.


Or as my regular would have put it.
“That would have been £6 hun. But as I only charge you for the 30 minute anyways it’s only £3”

She would have got it wrong though cos she charges £70 for the 30 which makes it.......... WHAT THE FUCK AM I ON ABOUT. 

[Dopedj]

I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. 

I have been seeing a WG regularly over the last four years.  She has always maintained a 70 quid / 1 hour rate for me, despite her prices creeping up to 100~120.  Our sessions never last anywhere close to one hour as i'm usually wrapped up well within 30 mins and we spend the remaining time catching up on life as I never do two rounds.  I enquired about a 30 minute rate, she said no less than 60 which makes little sense to me - a 10 quid discount for half the time.

For what I get, its still good value but I only really see her out of convenience these days.  I don't find her attractive, she is quite lazy in bed but lets me do whatever I want so I use her as my backup option but after I see her I feel pretty crap and tell myself I will never go back.... but I do. 

Its been 6 weeks since I last saw her but the temptation is there to go back.  Its so easy to arrange and 15 minutes drive 

So did you want her to charge you £35 for half hour or what ?
As your complaint sounds a little bit winching

[Hobbit]

I find myself in a bit of a dilemma. 

I have been seeing a WG regularly over the last four years.  She has always maintained a 70 quid / 1 hour rate for me, despite her prices creeping up to 100~120.  Our sessions never last anywhere close to one hour as i'm usually wrapped up well within 30 mins and we spend the remaining time catching up on life as I never do two rounds.  I enquired about a 30 minute rate, she said no less than 60 which makes little sense to me - a 10 quid discount for half the time.

For what I get, its still good value but I only really see her out of convenience these days.  I don't find her attractive, she is quite lazy in bed but lets me do whatever I want so I use her as my backup option but after I see her I feel pretty crap and tell myself I will never go back.... but I do. 

Its been 6 weeks since I last saw her but the temptation is there to go back.  Its so easy to arrange and 15 minutes drive 

I can't really comment on the rate issue as it sounds like to me you are getting a good financial deal but are being a little bit stingy.

I do understand about not wanting to return and end up going back. I've had a few girls like that over the years who have provided quite a satisfying experience but after I finished I have said to myself I won't see them again but then after a few weeks I end up going back. It's part of being a man and having two heads. 

[Maak]

Some WGs offer good value for money, they may not have super model looks, but with crazy prices going around. I rather see WGs who offer good value for money. 

[a1000punts]

Holy fuck, just stop going man.
You said it yourself, you don't want to go, she isn't attractive. Stop wasting money, be a tiny bit less lazy and book someone else next time.

[P Hughes]

I can sort of relate to the convenience dilemma. I used to see this girl every couple months for about 5 years. She was probably the prettiest SP I've ever come across. However, she had a very poor attitude, very insincere, conceited and blatantly lied on many occasions. More importantly, her service was generally cold and soulless. It was obvious she despised her job, which used make me feel bad. Every meeting was the same. She would talk for at least 30 minutes as a delay tactic. Like clockwork, it would always be missionary for about a minute, then she would turn over and lay on her front and I would have to get on top of her. She would literally just lay there for the rest of the session in a position that did zero for me. I used to leave most meetings feeling despondent vowing never again, but because she was fairly reliable and I didn't have many options I would inevitably go back. This was the dilemma. I just had to bite the bullet and erase her number prior to the pandemic.

[Stevelondon]

I can sort of relate to the convenience dilemma. I used to see this girl every couple months for about 5 years. She was probably the prettiest SP I've ever come across. However, she had a very poor attitude, very insincere, conceited and blatantly lied on many occasions. More importantly, her service was generally cold and soulless. It was obvious she despised her job, which used make me feel bad. Every meeting was the same. She would talk for at least 30 minutes as a delay tactic. Like clockwork, it would always be missionary for about a minute, then she would turn over and lay on her front and I would have to get on top of her. She would literally just lay there for the rest of the session in a position that did zero for me. I used to leave most meetings feeling despondent vowing never again, but because she was fairly reliable and I didn't have many options I would inevitably go back. This was the dilemma. I just had to bite the bullet and erase her number prior to the pandemic.

I gotta say this.

I just don’t get this behaviour from you or the OP.

I think it says way more about you and the OP to be truthful.
Maybe a discussion on poor behavioural habits is needed 

[The Owl]

Over the last 4 years she's knocked between £30 and £50 per hour off for you and now you don't think she's worth £60 a half hour. I have no words for it really.

Sounds like a form of punting addiction. It sounds similar to someone who loathes gambling/smoking/drinking but inevitably goes back to it when the need becomes too much, then regrets it afterwards.

[Stevelondon]

Sounds like a form of punting addiction. It sounds similar to someone who loathes gambling/smoking/drinking but inevitably goes back to it when the need becomes too much, then regrets it afterwards.

You may be right.
Personally I just wouldn’t be in that kind of position.

If I was regretting anything I was doing. I wouldn’t do it.

[the_exile]

Yes, what the previous two members said.

If I felt rubbish after visiting someone I would not be going back. A regular for me is someone who makes the meeting fun and that I like. Might not be as exciting as seeing someone new but I would know that I was going to enjoy the service.