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timmyshorny

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Hey,

I'm Tim I'm 40 in a bit of a rut with my marriage so I thought I'd try an escort. I've picked the girl I would like to see, but when googling for how to find an escort came across this site.. so I thought I'd ask people who've tried it.

What should I expect, I'm a bit nervous to say the least, the wife is away with family for the week, what do you guys keep for prep?

Thanks

timmyshorny

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found this site External Link/Members Only, think its a US site, but rules must be the same right? but doesn't mention bringing condoms? do they provide? Do I need my own?

vorian

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Hey,

I'm Tim I'm 40 in a bit of a rut with my marriage so I thought I'd try an escort. I've picked the girl I would like to see, but when googling for how to find an escort came across this site.. so I thought I'd ask people who've tried it.

What should I expect, I'm a bit nervous to say the least, the wife is away with family for the week, what do you guys keep for prep?

Thanks

Welcome to UKP would be happy to give what help I can. Would be helpful to know what WG you are thinking off do you have an AW link you could post which can be checked against any reviews here. There is some generic advice so best thing would be for you to list your questions.

SirFrank

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Hi mate welcome to the site and good luck with the punting. I won't harp on but first up make sure you're are arranging to see the right girl. So do your homework. Not sure if you are a member on adultwork or not but it's one of the main sites where girls advertise. Feedback system gives you some indication of how reliable they are and what services they offer etc. feedback on there has to be taken with a pinch of salt tho and often there'll be reviews on this site so check them out.

Decide what you want from your meet and have some pre meet correspondence to establish some basic ground rules - likes dislikes etc. don't use your own phone for chats - get a payg sim or throw away. a good girl will have her own condoms and will probably prefer to use her own. When you get there establish if she's who she says she is - are the pics accurate etc. don't be afraid to walk away if something is not right. However, expect to be nervous  it's normal. Try to relax and enjoy it. Final word - don't risk your own health or your wife's so don't go bareback!

timmyshorny

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Hi thanks for contact!!! Yes I am a member of adultwork, took me a while to work out how to sign up but was the first website I found on google, is that the best website?

I'm very nervous, this girls at the top of my list

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its a bit more then I thought I'd end up spending but from the body shape and her stats she seems ok for my needs. I'm based in Bristol and have made contact through the adultwork site and she seems happy to come over to Bristol . She said she'd check her diary and get back to me tonight. Have asked to see more pictures as well just to make sure she's the right one for me.

vorian

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Hi thanks for contact!!! Yes I am a member of adultwork, took me a while to work out how to sign up but was the first website I found on google, is that the best website?

I'm very nervous, this girls at the top of my list

External Link/Members Only

its a bit more then I thought I'd end up spending but from the body shape and her stats she seems ok for my needs. I'm based in Bristol and have made contact through the adultwork site and she seems happy to come over to Bristol . She said she'd check her diary and get back to me tonight. Have asked to see more pictures as well just to make sure she's the right one for me.

Hi Tim

See below the only details on UKP I can find on this girl have a look and I'll will do a bit of digging and get back to you. At the moment I would say no doesn't look good. I am assured that Bristol isn't a bad place to find a good WG so don't be disheartened. By the time UKP is done with you you will be an expert.


 https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=8340.msg121928#msg121928

timmyshorny

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Thanks, so the numbers on the end of the link is the profile number? That's handy to know.

another one on my list was

External Link/Members Only

but the profile seems similar in format... I thought all feedback came up in a tab saying feedback but the other thread seems to suggest not. sorry to sound thick but where do I find the feedback? and do adultwork profile have a standard format?

vorian

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Tim

I don't want to put you off but after looking at her AW profile I would say you could do better, this of course is only my opinion and others may disagree. The main reason is basic profile, hidden feedback, has not logged on for a very long time, no photos, no UKP reviews to check against. Does not seem professional and imho at £175 you could do better.

First question probably of many, does it have to be an outcall for you or would you be happy visiting a WG in her own home/work place. (Remember if you invite a girl into your home, it might add to your pressure) If so how far are you willing to travel. It will open up your options. I'm talking about indies here so you would not have to see anyone else apart from the girl.

Do you have any particular services you must have ie Anal. Be honest and don't worry no one will judge you on here. Hey you might even want to wear a dress, you can get whatever you want that's what punting is about.

 

vorian

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Thanks, so the numbers on the end of the link is the profile number? That's handy to know.

another one on my list was

External Link/Members Only

but the profile seems similar in format... I thought all feedback came up in a tab saying feedback but the other thread seems to suggest not. sorry to sound thick but where do I find the feedback? and do adultwork profile have a standard format?

Yep thats a no for me again same style profile might even be the same girl and no you don't sound thick just new to this and we all had to start somewhere so don't worry about it. Also don't worry about the AW feedback at the moment it is not really reliable until you reach a certain point.

Next question have you an age of the WG in mind I'm assuming that you are after a younger girl.

timmyshorny

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Tbh ive never been into anal, I just want a nice young girl brunette or blonde slim, nice tits to have a bit of fun with. Not sure on fake boobs though have never seen them up close, but could be fun. I'd be happy to see someone at theres, but I do get panic attacks so thought my own space may help me.

Think its a case of having a better look through adultwork.com, maybe a less bull in a china shop approach!

And as for dresses can never find one in my size, I'm a big lad!

timmyshorny

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Yep thats a no for me again same style profile might even be the same girl and no you don't sound thick just new to this and we all had to start somewhere so don't worry about it. Also don't worry about the AW feedback at the moment it is not really reliable until you reach a certain point.

Next question have you an age of the WG in mind I'm assuming that you are after a younger girl.

definitely someone about 20-35, thanks for all your help matey

vorian

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Tbh ive never been into anal, I just want a nice young girl brunette or blonde slim, nice tits to have a bit of fun with. Not sure on fake boobs though have never seen them up close, but could be fun. I'd be happy to see someone at theres, but I do get panic attacks so thought my own space may help me.

Think its a case of having a better look through adultwork.com, maybe a less bull in a china shop approach!

And as for dresses can never find one in my size, I'm a big lad!

No worries I'm a big guy too and first time can be stressful but well worth it, I will have a search on UKP and get back to you asap.


timmyshorny

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No worries I'm a big guy too and first time can be stressful but well worth it, I will have a search on UKP and get back to you asap.

Thanks matey,

yeah my work buds call big size my trapped clone!!!

vorian

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definitely someone about 20-35, thanks for all your help matey

My pleasure, pay it forward and all that, sorry more questions where roughly are you based (nearest big town) and how far are you willing to travel, I found a car journey often help calm the nerves and it would help to narrow down the search. Sound like a vanilla girl for your first would be best and at the price range you were looking at there will be plenty of lovely young ladies wanting to spend quality time with you.

SirFrank

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Hi mate ultimately it's up to you re who you meet. That said I do agree with vorian - I'm always dubious re hidden feedback and the fact that she hasn't logged in for a few weeks. Also if you are doing outcall where are you going to meet? Do you want her to come to your house or are you going to meet in a hotel?

I'm married too and personally I wouldn't have a WG visit my gaff. Do have a dig around on AW and also check out the review pages here to double check any girls who catch your eye

timmyshorny

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I'm Bristol Based. Yeah vanilla is probably best term for it. I'd probably be willing to go as far as 30 miles

vorian

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I'm Bristol Based. Yeah vanilla is probably best term for it. I'd probably be willing to go as far as 30 miles

As Sir Frank said it is of course up to you and you don't have to take any of my advice but I will give you if I can a number of options which you can choose from based on your requirement if you don't like them be honest won't bother me. What we all want in a WG is very subjective and individual but I am willing to help. Just wish I had found UKP before my first punt, think of me as an interactive search engine. Once you have narrowed in down we can go through the best way to deal with the punt on the day. Again this is only my personal opinion and may be wrong and other members may have totally different advice.

timmyshorny

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im really grateful for all the help tbh there are sooooo many girls on here its like a sweet store!!!

vorian

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im really grateful for all the help tbh there are sooooo many girls on here its like a sweet store!!!

No worries I am have a search now. Searccccching, Seeeeearching, Seaaarching.

BristolP

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It does need to be made clear that seeing a girl with hidden feedback is a bad idea. You can see a girls AW feedback by clicking on the “rating” at the top right hand side of the profile. Don’t believe what she has written in the feedback tab on the profile.

vorian

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It does need to be made clear that seeing a girl with hidden feedback is a bad idea. You can see a girls AW feedback by clicking on the “rating” at the top right hand side of the profile. Don’t believe what she has written in the feedback tab on the profile.

Spot on

Tim

I have got a few first suggestions for you to have a look at the guys who are more local to this area will be able to give you more info.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

If you copy and put the about seven digit number in the UKP search box it will bring up any discussion about that girl on UKP which includes her AW link. Example above would be 1715274.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

This was only a quick search based on cross referencing AW to UKP reviews. Have a look and see what you think. If they are not for you just say, don't worry plenty more WG out there.





vorian

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SirFrank

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Tim, Vorian has done some extensive work here and it's fair to say that some of the girls suggested have some of the best reviews on AW and UKP. What would be useful to think about is what you really want from your meet. SOme girls offer a full on POrn star experience while others offer a more gentle girl friend type experience (some do both)

vorian

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Tim, Vorian has done some extensive work here and it's fair to say that some of the girls suggested have some of the best reviews on AW and UKP. What would be useful to think about is what you really want from your meet. SOme girls offer a full on POrn star experience while others offer a more gentle girl friend type experience (some do both)

Thanks SirFrank I was concerned a bit that these girls might be a bit PSE for a newbie but was hoping to get some more input from members who have seen these girls to see how flexible they would be was hoping a "Good" one would be able to be adaptable enough and I would think they would all put the effort in and be professional.

  Found it difficult to find reviewed and recommended WG's within the 30 mile radius that had some good reviews, plenty of bad or indifferent ones. I was surprised that a good GFE in some way was harder to find than a good PSE. Of course I could be totally wrong, I'm sure the SW guys will know more than me. My personal knowledge is more SE. I could recommend some very "Good" GFE for a newbie in that region but It would meaning a long journey which the OP wouldn't want.

SirFrank

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Hey no worries mate. You've really gone the extra mile here. I have said on another thread that I booked soph a while back but ended up having to cancel due to unforeseen. She was very understanding. I can't therefore offer a first hand experience but I'm sure if tim explained that he was a first timer and wanted a gfe (if that's what he wants?) she or they would accommodate.

I've got to sort out a meet with soph in the next few weeks

vorian

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Hey no worries mate. You've really gone the extra mile here. I have said on another thread that I booked soph a while back but ended up having to cancel due to unforeseen. She was very understanding. I can't therefore offer a first hand experience but I'm sure if tim explained that he was a first timer and wanted a gfe (if that's what he wants?) she or they would accommodate.

I've got to sort out a meet with soph in the next few weeks

I thought as reputation goes soph would be a good one to put in, people do rave about her and she should be able to do GFE the enhanced tits might be a put off, but I think I can remember someone saying they felt very nice and natural, might have been Cisco. I agree with you any of these girls should be able to tailor their approach to fit the punter as they all have solid reputations. Of course someone might disagree or be able to offer different suggestions.

a10

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This thread is the perfect example of why UKP is so good. Just wish I'd found it years ago, would have avoided many nightmares!

All sound and sensible advice so far as well Tim

Shaketherooom

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If it GFE and in Bristol, I'd recommend Ola GFE anyt

drdick

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As a new member to this site I would like to applaud the way experienced users welcomed Timmyshorny. Very useful sound advice.
Will not go on about the threads I added my two pennies worth to. (feel free to read if you wish).
My point is after reading this thread I now see a different side to this site, am glad I hung on in there and didn't spit my dummy and leave.
P.s. Could some let me know what a troll is?

vorian

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As a new member to this site I would like to applaud the way experienced users welcomed Timmyshorny. Very useful sound advice.
Will not go on about the threads I added my two pennies worth to. (feel free to read if you wish).
My point is after reading this thread I now see a different side to this site, am glad I hung on in there and didn't spit my dummy and leave.
P.s. Could some let me know what a troll is?

Thank you and welcome, in all honesty I don't know what a troll is apart from it being a derogatory term.

Offline Daffodil

I'm very nervous, this girls at the top of my list

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another one on my list was

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Tim, what is this? They're clearly run by the same person/group. Format is the same. Both have hidden feedback. Both charge waaaay too much. Neither have a face picture. Even if you have a barge pole you shouldn't touch them.

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, and hope you weren't pushing these profiles for any reason, and say that hidden feedback should be a definite no-no, especially if you're a newbie and have no other evidence to suggest they might be ok.

Also, Bristol (and the South West in general) is a bit of a punting desert, but those rates are ridiculous  :hi:

vorian

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Tim, what is this? They're clearly run by the same person/group. Format is the same. Both have hidden feedback. Both charge waaaay too much. Neither have a face picture. Even if you have a barge pole you shouldn't touch them.

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt, and hope you weren't pushing these profiles for any reason, and say that hidden feedback should be a definite no-no, especially if you're a newbie and have no other evidence to suggest they might be ok.

Also, Bristol (and the South West in general) is a bit of a punting desert, but those rates are ridiculous  :hi:

Daffodil, you have put doubt into my head now, I really hope you are wrong and he was just making rookie errors the later posts did seem genuine. Do you have any thought on the WG's I suggested as you know that area better than me.

Offline Daffodil

Daffodil, you have put doubt into my head now, I really hope you are wrong and he was just making rookie errors the later posts did seem genuine. Do you have any thought on the WG's I suggested as you know that area better than me.

I've seen a couple of those you suggested.

Here is another one.

Bit more of a mixed view this time

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

Cassandra is probably my favourite punt in Bristol. Lex and I both (as well as several others) give her a positive review in this thread: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14888.0

Spot on

Tim

I have got a few first suggestions for you to have a look at the guys who are more local to this area will be able to give you more info.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

If you copy and put the about seven digit number in the UKP search box it will bring up any discussion about that girl on UKP which includes her AW link. Example above would be 1715274.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

This was only a quick search based on cross referencing AW to UKP reviews. Have a look and see what you think. If they are not for you just say, don't worry plenty more WG out there.

Of these three I have experience of Tantalising Tanya and reviewed her positively: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=1568.msg28146#msg28146

Naughty Slut Soph is on my 'to do list', if just to see what all the fuss is about. I enjoy the PSE and I think she'll provide a good one.

Goddess Karolina is certainly genuine, but I've read a lot of mixed reports on her. By all accounts, if you click and/or she's in the right mood you'll have a good time.

All in all, four good suggestions as far as I'm concerned  :hi:

vorian

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I've seen a couple of those you suggested.

Cassandra is probably my favourite punt in Bristol. Lex and I both (as well as several others) give her a positive review in this thread: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=14888.0

Of these three I have experience of Tantalising Tanya and reviewed her positively: https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=1568.msg28146#msg28146

Naughty Slut Soph is on my 'to do list', if just to see what all the fuss is about. I enjoy the PSE and I think she'll provide a good one.

Goddess Karolina is certainly genuine, but I've read a lot of mixed reports on her. By all accounts, if you click and/or she's in the right mood you'll have a good time.

All in all, four good suggestions as far as I'm concerned  :hi:

There you go Tim have a look at those, seems the favourite so far is

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

But of course others may have different ideas, any questions feel free to ask.

Offline rudolph hucker

I thought as reputation goes soph would be a good one to put in, people do rave about her and she should be able to do GFE the enhanced tits might be a put off, but I think I can remember someone saying they felt very nice and natural, might have been Cisco. I agree with you any of these girls should be able to tailor their approach to fit the punter as they all have solid reputations. Of course someone might disagree or be able to offer different suggestions.

Soph?.......for a first timer.......? She'd eat him alive!!

vorian

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Soph?.......for a first timer.......? She'd eat him alive!!

Quite possibly,  who would be your suggestion, the more opinions the better

Offline ciscoxxx69

What a great thread for a newbie.... :thumbsup:

This is what UKP should be....an information centre and helpful guide to ALL punters, where those of us who have learnt from our mistakes, and have practical experience, knowledge and advice, can impart their wisdom.

Not just a bitching forum for women haters and mysogonist's who have no life of their own... :dash:

Top work Vorian, SirFrank and the others who have contributed to this in such a selfless manner.  :hi:

I don't know enough about the Bristol 'scene' to personally recommend anyone other than Soph.
If you tell her what you like, I am sure she'll be as GFE or PSE as you want.......

Offline rudolph hucker

Quite possibly,  who would be your suggestion, the more opinions the better

Beth in Hotwells:https://www.adultwork.com/1186911 or External Link/Members Only
She is easy going, will make you feel relaxed. The guy is going to be nervous as a punting virgin so he needs to be eased in gently.

Maya:  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only+
This Thai lady will look after Tim, take him under her wing and show him the mystical way of the pussy. She, like Beth is very easy going and dispels any nervousness on contact.

Happy hunting.


12 review(s) found for Beth linked to in above post (10 positive, 2 neutral, 0 negative)

vorian

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Beth in Hotwells:https://www.adultwork.com/1186911 or External Link/Members Only
She is easy going, will make you feel relaxed. The guy is going to be nervous as a punting virgin so he needs to be eased in gently.

Maya:  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only+
This Thai lady will look after Tim, take him under her wing and show him the mystical way of the pussy. She, like Beth is very easy going and dispels any nervousness on contact.

Happy hunting.

Nice one, thanks for your local knowledge big help.


12 review(s) found for Beth linked to in above post (10 positive, 2 neutral, 0 negative)

timmyshorny

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Spot on

Tim

I have got a few first suggestions for you to have a look at the guys who are more local to this area will be able to give you more info.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

If you copy and put the about seven digit number in the UKP search box it will bring up any discussion about that girl on UKP which includes her AW link. Example above would be 1715274.

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only

This was only a quick search based on cross referencing AW to UKP reviews. Have a look and see what you think. If they are not for you just say, don't worry plenty more WG out there.

sorry for the silence last night got called into work. all the suggestions look Good, so will have a look further thanks guys

Offline Daffodil

Not just a bitching forum for women haters and mysogonist's who have no life of their own...  :dash:

I enjoy the irony of somebody bitching about bitching  :rolleyes:

The term 'misogyny' gets bandied about here quite a bit, but I wonder how many examples you can find of women hating? Unless, of course, you equate a dislike of prossie's 'business' practices with hatred of women  :rolleyes:

vorian

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sorry for the silence last night got called into work. all the suggestions look Good, so will have a look further thanks guys

Nice one Tim remember any questions at all just ask no one will think your stupid, if fact the only stupid thing to do now is not to ask.

vorian

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I enjoy the irony of somebody bitching about bitching  :rolleyes:

The term 'misogyny' gets bandied about here quite a bit, but I wonder how many examples you can find of women hating? Unless, of course, you equate a dislike of prossie's 'business' practices with hatred of women  :rolleyes:

Gentlemen of course you can both voice your opinions as you see fit but this thread generally seems to be seen as a positive example of how UKP can be helpful and put the punters first. I personally would hate for it to turn into an disagreement about women hating or the use of words.  Particularly when I suspect that a concensus on the subject is extremely unlikely.

herelonely

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What a great thread for a newbie.... :thumbsup:

This is what UKP should be....an information centre and helpful guide to ALL punters, where those of us who have learnt from our mistakes, and have practical experience, knowledge and advice, can impart their wisdom.

Not just a bitching forum for women haters and mysogonist's who have no life of their own... :dash:

Top work Vorian, SirFrank and the others who have contributed to this in such a selfless manner.  :hi:

I don't know enough about the Bristol 'scene' to personally recommend anyone other than Soph.
If you tell her what you like, I am sure she'll be as GFE or PSE as you want.......

+1 :drinks:

Offline jonny_boy_1968

Tim

In Bath, Id recommend Kate External Link/Members Only.   She a good looking, late thirties who offers a lovely sensual Girlfriend Experience

She is the only lady I have seen more than once.

John

vorian

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Tim

In Bath, Id recommend Kate External Link/Members Only.   She a good looking, late thirties who offers a lovely sensual Girlfriend Experience

She is the only lady I have seen more than once.

John

Thanks for your suggestion, her AW FB is solid and she does have a good review on UKP. She is a bit older than the OP was after but I have seen many punters suggest that an older WG is a better choice for a first punt as they are more experienced themselves and are able to ease the newbie in more gently.

Anyone else seen Kate, what do you guys think about a more experienced WG for a first punt.
« Last Edit: January 17, 2014, 10:40:58 am by vorian »

timmyshorny

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I'd prefer them to come to me tbh just because of my panic attacks, and I mean a good one I should have no problems with doing that right?

yeah I want a girl friend type, a bit of a chat and sex not a full on wear me out in 5 mins job.


timmyshorny

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Tim

In Bath, Id recommend Kate External Link/Members Only.   She a good looking, late thirties who offers a lovely sensual Girlfriend Experience

She is the only lady I have seen more than once.

John

is she pretty facially?

Berks Bloke 32

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Hi Tim,
          I travel to Bristol for business regularly and have met a few girls in that area, one that I have seen a few times is External Link/Members Only she used to be called Lori Webb but after a bad experience with a client that got a bit violent and started stalking her she moved and changed her name. you can probably find previous info on her under her old name on here, she is blonde, great figure and mid 20s so very good at stroking your... ego  :sarcastic:.

I am seeing her again at the end of this month and can honestly say that if you are looking for a girl who delivers good service every time, she is worth a try especially if this is your first escort experience. PM me if you want to chat.

ulander

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Beth in Hotwells:https://www.adultwork.com/1186911 or External Link/Members Only
She is easy going, will make you feel relaxed. The guy is going to be nervous as a punting virgin so he needs to be eased in gently.

Maya:  External Link/Members Only or External Link/Members Only+
This Thai lady will look after Tim, take him under her wing and show him the mystical way of the pussy. She, like Beth is very easy going and dispels any nervousness on contact.

Happy hunting.
I agree that Maya is ideal for a newbie.

So is Roxy-Bristol.  Sorry, being a dinosaur I don't know how to post the AW link, but if you search using "Roxy-Bristol", up she'll come.  She's very sweet and gentle, hugely experienced, claims to be 37 which I think is a good age.  Newbies generally do better with older, experienced women. She's attractive, good body, offers pretty much anything you might want to do, and doesn't charge the earth for it. And she won't eat him alive.  I know Soph probably wouldn't either, but her profile is quite intimidating for a newbie.  And Karolina might well do if he met her on the wrong day.


12 review(s) found for Beth linked to in above post (10 positive, 2 neutral, 0 negative)