Finding it hard to get inspired ....

[Deed]

I'm at the point in my punting life where I've crossed off most of the stuff from my punting bucket list. I've gone from the standard GFE to mild domme/sub stuff, to harder stuff....I've had a couple of great threesomes with two girls (one on X-mas eve and they were both pissed on wine), I got into a bit of humiliation for a while (nothing to weird or demeaning lol)...I've had a crazy sub come to my house for a midnight booking and ending up snorting a line of coke off her ass (I'm not a coke guy by any means but she offered). I'd dabbled in some watersports recently and have gone through my 'anal phase' and come out the other side not too fussed about butt stuff anymore.

Been seeing the same lady regularly, who is amaaaazing, for a while now and we've been working on making our bookings a bit more outrageous each time, especially with the dirty talk. But I'm feeling like I'm hitting a bit of a wall.

Not sure whether to take a break and normalise for a bit (that sounds boring though) or to just pushing forward and see what new kinks I find?. The only things really left to do is group stuff, or a MMF maybe (I'm straight).

Anyone else ever run out of ideas ? grow tired of your roleplay scenarios or just generally have tried everything ?

[Dipper]

Do you feel depressed?

Is the punting a replacement for ‘something missing’ in your life perhaps? The closest thing I can relate to is that sometimes it feels I’m punting out of habit as a pastime rather than a burning desire for a shag.

[PLeisure]

Sounds like you've had a varied and, hopefully, fulfilling punting life to date.
Is there any reason why you haven't reviewed any of these in the 7 years you've been on UKP?

[3imfred]

Take break for a while and only return when the urge returns.
You’ll also notice benefit in your wallet lol

[cueball]

I'm at the point in my punting life

And you've shared bugger all with us 

[BarneyBubbles]

I can relate to this.  Ive tried lots over the years.  I"ve explored the sub/dom thing (I once spent a rather dull hour wrapped head to toe in cling film 😀) and, much to my surprise discovered a slight prefernce for the dom side of things.  I've had 3 somes, been to parties, tried anal and watersports and, like the OP, feel like I've come.out the other side.  I now see someone very occasionally and have settled on what some might consider a very vanilla range of things.  My actual punting also getting less and less frequent and I can see a point soon where it might stop altogether.  Maybe I'm just getting old 😁

[Ali Katt]

And you've shared bugger all with us 

+1 a member since 2012 as well. I could understand it if he had been a member for a year maybe he hasn't punted. The name Billy Bullshitter springs to mind and there's enough on here already.

[Deed]

And you've shared bugger all with us 

I've had this asked of me before... I guess it's just not what I use this site for. I worry a bit about the girl putting two and two together and knowing it's me that reviewed her (a lot of girls have mentioned this place over the years) so I can't really risk leaving a negative review for anyone.

But I should (and will!) write a review for the next punt I have. I've got a couple of ideas of different girls I want to see.

[Hobbit]

I've had this asked of me before... I guess it's just not what I use this site for. I worry a bit about the girl putting two and two together and knowing it's me that reviewed her (a lot of girls have mentioned this place over the years) so I can't really risk leaving a negative review for anyone.

But I should (and will!) write a review for the next punt I have. I've got a couple of ideas of different girls I want to see.

I hate it when people talk about their varied sexual experiences and gloat about it, especially in a negative egotistical way and do not share any of them experiences in reviews.

You have been a member for many years here and you have not written any reviews and now are boasting about your wonderful experiences and how you have hit a brick wall and need inspiration from us. So here's my advice - Fuck off!

[Wooderz]

I can relate to the OP.. An addiction to anything eventually catches up.. My advice is give it all up and try find something more constructive to spend resources on..

But share a few old punts with the lads.. Spare any detail which may identify you.. A general yaye or naye is good enough.. No need to write an essay like many do.. Just a brief dickscription of your meeting covering essential points..

[Waterhouse]

Been seeing the same lady regularly, who is amaaaazing, for a while now and we've been working on making our bookings a bit more outrageous each time, especially with the dirty talk.

So who is this amazing lady you see now? As ou've never reviewed anyone here 7 years as a member, are you at least going to tell us about this amazing goddess?  I'm guessing 'no' since so far despite claiming membership here, you come across as a taker, not a sharer or contributor.

[Silver Birch]

I've had this asked of me before... I guess it's just not what I use this site for. I worry a bit about the girl putting two and two together and knowing it's me that reviewed her (a lot of girls have mentioned this place over the years) so I can't really risk leaving a negative review for anyone.

But I should (and will!) write a review for the next punt I have. I've got a couple of ideas of different girls I want to see.

Sorry, but this is just bollocks! Leave it a few weeks and then review. Most wgs won't remember a punter after 2 days, let alone 2 weeks, unless you are a complete weirdo.

[Ali Katt]

TBH the way I write reviews it would be impossible not to know it was me, who cares?

[Home Alone]

This time last year, I was in a similar trough to the OP: my Regular had retired; I was un-inspired by the attitudes of some of the SPs I saw as possible replacements for her; others just didn't reply to booking requests; and, on top of all that, I was beginning to feel my age  - 72.

Then, I went back to first principles and decided to check out some of the lasses who'd been on my '2c list' for AGES. I don't know where my punting mojo had been hiding; but the first of these lasses found it for me!

So I now have a new Regular & have drawn up a new '2c list'; this one's of services that I've either never had or only had unsatisfactory experience of in the past. And I'm thoroughly enjoying punting again!

So don't forget, OP; the fact that 'you never know what's round the corner' is a cliche doesn't make it untrue. 

[peter purves]

This is a difficult one the syndrome of whatI call Punter's Alienation.

Depending where you are at a 'break' can be good. Or even chasing more categories like group sex etc, WGs of certain race, height, size etc etc.

However, there comes a point where it is just a punt no matter what category you choose to create within your mind.

I think as a fact there is a law of diminishing return to punting, as with most things to life. I am not sure what the answer is...since I am trying to find it too.

All the very best mate!!

[Shearer1955]

OP has been watching too many porn videos
Have a proper punt instead 

[DrConners]

I've had this asked of me before... I guess it's just not what I use this site for. I worry a bit about the girl putting two and two together and knowing it's me that reviewed her (a lot of girls have mentioned this place over the years) so I can't really risk leaving a negative review for anyone.

But I should (and will!) write a review for the next punt I have. I've got a couple of ideas of different girls I want to see.

Quite a change in your tone Deed - Different from the normal garbage you spout :

If you can catch her she’s a real goer. Had a threesone wirh her and a chick from Portsmouth that I see regularly.

Half way through she suggested we use piss as lube and pissed on my dick while I fucked the other one.

Also told me to spit in her mouth.

Best hour of my life.

dumb cunt has uploaded videos to her new page charging £240 (240 credits) for a 2 minute video of her getting pissed on.

I would now say fucking avoid her, I saw a week ago and it was awful, stinky house, sofa is filthy (literally the thumbnail of her getting pissed on is on the sofa that I fucked her on, so I basically fucked her on a pissy sofa !)

She seems less and less interested every punt, really goes through the motions. I drove home really regretting wasting the money, and thinking of all the other things I could have spent the money on !

I've seen her a few times now and it is like fucking a lazy sack of shit... only plus side is she's open to anything, a real sub... but not really in an exciting way. She's soooo quiet, barely says a word and if you ask 'what do you like, what can I do' she simply replies 'Anything you want'

Which is kinda cool, you can fuck her face silly, I fucked her up the ass really hard (pounding as hard as I could and slapping her ass) and she didn't seem to mind.. but yeah, she's barely got ANY personality. And fucking on the Sofa is kinda off putting too I'd admit. Good for the price and knowing you can do anything you want is cool though.

I didn't have a problem kissing her but I did kinda just stick my tongue in her mouth haha

You're asking in the wrong place mate... these guys all go and get their vanilla, covered blowjobs from some back alley sally and then come here and write an essay on the experience so that their mates can go give the same girl a try. 

You want to find a girl ... message her and politely ask if she's happy to 'do a bit of coke' in a booking.. if they say no then no worries, if yes then great.

I've had a quite a few bookings with coke, snorting off tits, had a girl snort it off my dick and another girl ask if we could hire a second girl to snort coke from her pussy (it never happened)

They definitely out there mate !

I'd post more but other members can read your posts so no need, you have a history of posting unsubstantiated claims/rubbish - why all of a sudden trying to play nice & attempting to contact Admin ?

Hang on - I couldn't give a shit   

[Moresomes]

I can relate to this.  Ive tried lots over the years.  I"ve explored the sub/dom thing (I once spent a rather dull hour wrapped head to toe in cling film 😀) and, much to my surprise discovered a slight prefernce for the dom side of things.  I've had 3 somes, been to parties, tried anal and watersports and, like the OP, feel like I've come.out the other side.  I now see someone very occasionally and have settled on what some might consider a very vanilla range of things.  My actual punting also getting less and less frequent and I can see a point soon where it might stop altogether.  Maybe I'm just getting old 😁

This just about sums me up.
Not so long ago, I avoided seeing anyone more than once, and went at punting like a dog at broth.
Over the last couple of years, with very few exceptions, I've settled for seeing two regulars, and on occasion when intending to book one of those, when the time came to pick up the phone I've decided that I just couldn't be arsed.
I hope it's temporary, because I've had a lot of fun over the years, but like yourself, maybe I'm just getting old..

[Brokenshed]

And you've shared bugger all with us 

UKP is pointless without the reviews. I joined for the reviews. Need a filter which automatically deletes someone who contributes no reviews in a given time. Unless they've honourable retired but contributed in their heyday.

[Ali Katt]

UKP is pointless without the reviews. I joined for the reviews. Need a filter which automatically deletes someone who contributes no reviews in a given time. Unless they've honourable retired but contributed in their heyday.

Got to disagree. Another well known site that bit the dust had 1000s of reviews and some of them were of value, but a lot were either fake or one line reviews. This forum works because it is a mixture of personalities and good information is shared, reviews are not the be all and end all. I didn't contribute a review for about five years due to being in a relationship and not punting due to being ill, pretty much back to back; that would have been me banned under your filter. My issue is with non-punters who are happy to boast about their experiences and give fuck all back in terms of reviews and good information.

[tynetunnel]

I agree. Maybe a member does punt, can’t punt, or has yet to punt. All fine. What boils my piss is those who brag about how many punts they’ve had, how good this one was, how crap another was, and then you see a zero review count. Fuckers! 

[Waterhouse]

UKP is pointless without the reviews. I joined for the reviews. Need a filter which automatically deletes someone who contributes no reviews in a given time. Unless they've honourable retired but contributed in their heyday.

Some guys have a regular lady and as per the site rules can only submit a Positive review of the same girl once a year, unless it's a moresome or the SP has slipped into Neutral or Negative territory.  But let's face it she would not be a regular if that were the case.

[cueball]

I've had this asked of me before... I guess it's just not what I use this site for. I worry a bit about the girl putting two and two together and knowing it's me that reviewed her (a lot of girls have mentioned this place over the years) so I can't really risk leaving a negative review for anyone.

I've read that so many times on here.... It's a cop out answer that carries no validity....usually written by leeches who feed off contributing members

[EUGENE TACKLEBERRY]

Do you feel depressed?

Is the punting a replacement for ‘something missing’ in your life perhaps? The closest thing I can relate to is that sometimes it feels I’m punting out of habit as a pastime rather than a burning desire for a shag.

I can relate to these words atm....currently slowing down or at least im trying,  ie 1 week, as i dont wanna stop but dont want it to become the norm

[punther]

This is a difficult one the syndrome of whatI call Punter's Alienation.

Depending where you are at a 'break' can be good. Or even chasing more categories like group sex etc, WGs of certain race, height, size etc etc.

However, there comes a point where it is just a punt no matter what category you choose to create within your mind.

I think as a fact there is a law of diminishing return to punting, as with most things to life. I am not sure what the answer is...since I am trying to find it too.

All the very best mate!!

may be in need for a break myself as i currently feel my punts now are just for the sake of it...the excitement there once used to be ins't there anymore

you are right about diminishing returns....i think each individual has their sweet spot (for punting or anything in life) and anything more than that is pretty much a waste of time, energy and money

ive found when you go beyond a certain point its likely because you are trying to avoid something or running away from something

for some of us the very simple answer is to step back and ask why am i doing what im doing

[Home Alone]

for some of us the very simple answer is to step back and ask why am i doing what im doing
,

I have sometimes asked myself that question, knowing that the 'sensible' answer could - almost certainly would - lead to the end of my punting 'career'.

Other times, the answer is on the lines of "Because I can afford to, and because, far more often than not, I enjoy making up for the time I 'lost' during a largely sexless marriage as a result of which I have no dependents to leave anything  to.

So I might as well spend it on doing something that gives me pleasure.

[Georgejetson]

For those have experienced it all, and still looking for inspiration, all roads seem to lead to this extreme ‘kink’. The last stop on the train. If you are not careful you will be the next Frantisek Kotzwara
External Link/Members Only

[jimmymac]

Since christmas have been feeling the same. The excitement has gone and just can't get interested in punting. Have found other things I'd rather spend my money on and think it will take something special for me to return to it. Or maybe I just need a couple of months break.

[claretandblue]

all that and not one review 

[Wooderz]

all that and not one review 

I saw a bloke get banned from here for making reviews that were not regarded as detailed enough. He posted a neg up and a few others and was doing some good reviews in my opinion because he was reviewing unknowns here but he was sacked even though he was trying..

Off putting to anyone who is scared of posting a review?

I'd rather see a honest one liner review no more detailed than a AWank fakeback than nothing at all on UKP for any SP..

[Home Alone]

all that and not one review 

Keep your hair on, Claret.

Last month I reviewed the lass who 'found my punting mojo' AND the lass she used to share a working flat with. And, sometime next month, I hope to do a Review of the pair of them and their Duo Service.

[claretandblue]

Keep your hair on, Claret.

Last month I reviewed the lass who 'found my punting mojo' AND the lass she used to share a working flat with. And, sometime next month, I hope to do a Review of the pair of them and their Duo Service.

eh? you didnt start this thread!

[Home Alone]

No; but your comment failed to make that clear.

It looks as though you were commenting on the posts immediately before your previous one.

[Plan R]

Is there any reason why you haven't reviewed any of these in the 7 years you've been on UKP?

Give him a chance ffs - he's only been here 7yrs !

[claretandblue]

No; but your comment failed to make that clear.

It looks as though you were commenting on the posts immediately before your previous one.

  oh dear, I would have hoped that as you have 16 reviews it was fairly obvious I wasnt directing my message towards you 

[jimmymac]

  oh dear, I would have hoped that as you have 16 reviews it was fairly obvious I wasnt directing my message towards you 

My comment was the one directly before yours above and it was obvious to me that you weren't directing it towards me as I have previous reviews!

[purple_t]

Any chance of reviewing your amazing regular?

[Home Alone]

Any chance of reviewing your amazing regular?

You mean the lass who's 'found my Punting mojo' for me?

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=235352.0

That's her.

[Steely Dan]

OP: I suggest a party.  Try a cheap one (4:1) or and expensive one (1:1).  Se party page on puntingwiki.

[PLeisure]

I've read that so many times on here.... It's a cop out answer that carries no validity....usually written by leeches who feed off contributing members

Exactly. So transparently obvious 

Take a quick look at OP's posts - they're all about drawing attention to his sexploits; nothing about valuable contributions.

Fuck off, Deed

[Jas1975]

There is always another beautiful woman to want to meet surely?!?? 

[shyboy1]

Sounds like you've had a varied and, hopefully, fulfilling punting life to date.
Is there any reason why you haven't reviewed any of these in the 7 years you've been on UKP?

That’s a very good point.
Sounds like we’d all benefit from his experiences in punt land.
SB

[cueball]

I saw a bloke get banned from here for making reviews that were not regarded as detailed enough.

I doubt that very much.

He'll have been banned for much more serious reasons than not having enough detail in his reviews.

The boss has a fair hand on here.

[shagbambi]

OP, you are an attention seeking leach of the highest order.  Have given nothing back and now want your current existential crises sorted.

Looking at your brief posting history you managed to work it when you were tired of punting in 2012....

[Wooderz]

I doubt that very much.

He'll have been banned for much more serious reasons than not having enough detail in his reviews.

The boss has a fair hand on here.

Maybe, but the banning reason suggested sub standard reviews.. Some guys on here have a huge number of posts yet no reviews. Makes me wonder what gives but da boss does seem ok.. He hasn't banned me (yet) and I usually get banned from everywhere because I ... err.. discuss punting everywhere...

[Ali Katt]

Maybe, but the banning reason suggested sub standard reviews.. Some guys on here have a huge number of posts yet no reviews. Makes me wonder what gives but da boss does seem ok.. He hasn't banned me (yet) and I usually get banned from everywhere because I ... err.. discuss punting everywhere...

Or because you were previously banned ... I will let other members decide.

[Wooderz]

Or because you were previously banned ... I will let other members decide.

News to me.. I have never been banned from here.. I have had my account restricted when I was perhaps posting too much shite or something, but never "banned"..

[cueball]

Maybe, but the banning reason suggested sub standard reviews..

Whilst I don't know exactly  who you're on about, I've yet to see an undeserved banning on ukp.

Like i said, the boss has a fair hand on here

[Wooderz]

Whilst I don't know exactly  who you're on about, I've yet to see an undeserved banning on ukp.

Like i said, the boss has a fair hand on here

I have managed to find who i am thinking of.. Randybear.. banning reason "posting trash reviews"..

Personally I think he was a newbie and keen to review some of his old punts or whatever and get them up here but perhaps wasn't providing much info on some efforts..

Not everyone is skilled at review writing. I myself tend to have a low bar as to what I consider a good shag from a ho and spend so little time in most meets I can't think of much to say either..

"Went round, knobbed it , went away pleased/not pleased. sack emptied.." is clearly not good for most folks.. 

[cueball]

I have managed to find who i am thinking of.. Randybear.. banning reason "posting trash reviews"..

Yes, like i said, I've yet to see an undeserved banning and after having a read of that plonker.... I still say I've yet to see an undeserved banning