I've got a crazy WG trying to blackmail me for money or she threatens to expose me to my family, friends, etc. etc.
How the hell do I deal with this?!
Contact her and tell her this....
Revenge porn – the distribution of a private sexual image of someone without their consent and with the intention of causing them distress is a Criminal Offence under the Criminal Justice and Courts Bill.
That gets you out of any images/videos etc being shared.
Secondly, report this to the Police; or if you don't want to, tell her you plan to as Blackmail is a criminal offence too.
And you must have evidence as she has obviously contacted you.
All you are wanting to achieve here is to make her go away and then try it on with someone else.
Post the info here in the section to do with criminal behaviour by escorts/blackmailers etc etc - Admin will surely help you with this as it's in all our best interests.
BUT DON'T BE AFRAID TO GO TO THE POLICE. YOU'RE NOT THE FIRST NOR THE LAST TO HAVE THIS THREAT MADE TO THEM... (see Logan Montoya's story etc etc)