Coming out

[testuser]

Nothing spectatular here. First time posting to others about punting.

Why to do it: Neurological condition means I can't fraternise easily. Plus certain tastes that you wouldn't expect from causual.

Annoying things:

Girls that stop responding when you get near or cancel for no reason. Rare but happens.
Giving difficult to follow instructions to places.
When outside the location is really busy or has dodgy people hanging around.
Really aggressive brutal HJs by default.
Not doing services listed on profile. Receiving rimming quite often.
Photoshopped images are useless.
Rushing you to finish before time is up.so they can see another customer.
Not having en suite bathroom.
Having window open onto street where people might hear.
Not enough light.
Extremely dodgy areas.
Too much plastic surgery.
Make up that gets on you or really srtrong perfume rhay wont wash.off.

Problematic things:

Recently quite a few have offerred cocaine. That never used to.be frequent and worries me. I stay clear of stuff like that. Although you have the saying hookers and cocaine the two aren't normally mixed because ome can be done legally and the other is mandatory illegal. I think workers not into that should do the same as for bareback. Display no drugs and if asked they'll get the boot. Then you know to.only see those.
Not appearing the same as pictures. Especially much older or wrong gender. I wont see some nationalities because of this.
Not knowing a word of English.

Things I worry about and watch for:

Privacy. A problem talking on phone with people around.
Recording of encounters. Hidden cams and where mobiles, laptops, phones are pointed.
Obvious health stuff.
Cops. Even when everything is above board I don't trust them.
Anything illegal.
Setups for robbery.
Escort must be clearly old enough.
Blackmail.
Always doing everything amonymous.

Questions:

I always ask for postcode, is that right? Then ask for exact location when there. Would it be better to ask to text where it is?

[RogerBoner]

Yes it would be better to ask to text where it is.

[vw]

I always ask for postcode, is that right? Then ask for exact location when there. Would it be better to ask to text where it is?

yep, most offer without asking

[Horizontal pleasures]

I prefer to come in.

[king tarzan]

Punting like any other line of work has its hazards

For escorts and punters

Just have to accept it..

But I don't take it lying down as I don't want to waste my hard earned cash.

[Ali Katt]

I suspect you are a previously banned member, Ipreferbutts maybe. I'm willing to be proven wrong, but I think you are a serial fantasist who hasn't seen any girls or an autistic troll like Ipreferbutts, he also complained about handjobs. As I say I'm happy to be proven wrong and admit it if I am.

Recently quite a few have offerred cocaine. That never used to.be frequent and worries me. I stay clear of stuff like that. Although you have the saying hookers and cocaine the two aren't normally mixed because ome can be done legally and the other is mandatory illegal.

Never happened to me in nearly 10 years of punting.

Not appearing the same as pictures. Especially much older or wrong gender. I wont see some nationalities because of this.

Never happened to me or most punters.

Make up that gets on you or really srtrong perfume rhay wont wash.off.

I think I've only seen two with strong perfume in about 10 years.

Having window open onto street where people might hear.

Never happened to me or most people. Something tells me she wouldn't be making much noise with you unless she was faking it.

Receiving rimming quite often.

Rimming for either person is incredibly rare; even swallow is more common from my experiences.

[shagmore]

Think you should give up before you start, as you appear rather paranoid.
Some of your quotes are to say the least - rather bull shit
Go get laid, then put a review forward before we sat entertaining you with further comments

[fisherofsouls]

On the assumption that you are a normal(ish!) bloke who is not out to commit any serious crimes, and you don't punt on your own doorstep, then having your pockets empty of everything but a punting phone and the cash you need will protect you from 99.9% of the risks above.

[m4rmite]

Having window open onto street where people might hear.

Only had that on a high street location in the midst of our summer heatwave.

Plenty of noise from the high street below so no chance of hearing me grunt like a shot boar

[testuser]

Ali Katt, I've never been hear before but thanks for the scrutiny, it's most welcoming . I do have a degree of HFA and no doubt you picked up that. It does cause misunderstandings that can get us into trouble although I'm grateful not to have it to the extreme I've seen in others where even I can't communicate with them effectively.

Regarding the annoyances, none of those are intolerable, they're just annoyances. I brush them off but it would be better if workers knew more about that. However I might be quite sensitive to noise and smell, a bit excessively. I have difficulty judging volume and it's distance.

The things I worry about never happen and are unlikely to but I can't help but stay vigilent.

The cocaine thing, similar position. It normally never happens so when it happens twice suddenly you can understand my concern. It might be coincidence but I'll still keep my eyes open and avoid that setup if I can.

[testuser]

Also I've seen dozens of girls and moving forward will put reviews, once I have the confidence.

[catweazle]

Also I've seen dozens of girls and moving forward will put reviews, once I have the confidence.

Eh?

[Punterperson1971]

Also I've seen dozens of girls and moving forward will put reviews, once I have the confidence.

Confidence for what?? Either put reviews up or fuck off with your stupid questions.

[winkywanky]

Nothing spectatular here. First time posting to others about punting.

Why to do it: Neurological condition means I can't fraternise easily. Plus certain tastes that you wouldn't expect from causual.

Annoying things:

Girls that stop responding when you get near or cancel for no reason. Rare but happens.
Giving difficult to follow instructions to places.
When outside the location is really busy or has dodgy people hanging around.
Really aggressive brutal HJs by default.
Not doing services listed on profile. Receiving rimming quite often.
Photoshopped images are useless.
Rushing you to finish before time is up.so they can see another customer.
Not having en suite bathroom.
Having window open onto street where people might hear.
Not enough light.
Extremely dodgy areas.
Too much plastic surgery.
Make up that gets on you or really srtrong perfume rhay wont wash.off.

Problematic things:

Recently quite a few have offerred cocaine. That never used to.be frequent and worries me. I stay clear of stuff like that. Although you have the saying hookers and cocaine the two aren't normally mixed because ome can be done legally and the other is mandatory illegal. I think workers not into that should do the same as for bareback. Display no drugs and if asked they'll get the boot. Then you know to.only see those.
Not appearing the same as pictures. Especially much older or wrong gender. I wont see some nationalities because of this.
Not knowing a word of English.

Things I worry about and watch for:

Privacy. A problem talking on phone with people around.
Recording of encounters. Hidden cams and where mobiles, laptops, phones are pointed.
Obvious health stuff.
Cops. Even when everything is above board I don't trust them.
Anything illegal.
Setups for robbery.
Escort must be clearly old enough.
Blackmail.
Always doing everything amonymous.

Questions:

I always ask for postcode, is that right? Then ask for exact location when there. Would it be better to ask to text where it is?

Neurological condition...may I ask, Asperger's, or on the autism scale?

Very interesting post, testuser.

[RogerBoner]

I just can't imagine testuser arranging and then going through with an outcall punt.

[testuser]

Neurological condition...may I ask, Asperger's, or on the autism scale?

Very interesting post, testuser.

Asperger's. Not to an extreme. Others are far more disfunctional than me, not only realtime social interaction. I'm mostly just very awkward with interaction. AS is only a part, also reinforced with inhibition, not wanting attachment and having some more kinky desires punting is a whole lot easier, predictable, less stressful than conventional picking up that can be challenging even if normal social skill.

I think these reasons should be common.

Before punting I was successful with hook ups online where AS and anxiety are of little consequence. Its still an effort and eventually found my way to punting. The extreme porn law also helped. The same as other legal anomalies. Can do it for real but can't see it.

[winkywanky]

Asperger's. Not to an extreme. Others are far more disfunctional than me, not only realtime social interaction. I'm mostly just very awkward with interaction. AS is only a part, also reinforced with inhibition, not wanting attachment and having some more kinky desires punting is a whole lot easier, predictable, less stressful than conventional picking up that can be challenging even if normal social skill.

I think these reasons should be common.

Before punting I was successful with hook ups online where AS and anxiety are of little consequence. Its still an effort and eventually found my way to punting. The extreme porn law also helped. The same as other legal anomalies. Can do it for real but can't see it.

You seem very methodical, and to need to analyse everything. That's not a criticism by the way, it's an observation and an appreciation. You're just a different version of 'normal', that's all. And when you post like you did at the top of this thread you encapsulate what a lot of non-Asperger's are thinking or feeling about punting.

[Ali Katt]

Ali Katt, I've never been hear before but thanks for the scrutiny, it's most welcoming . I do have a degree of HFA and no doubt you picked up that. It does cause misunderstandings that can get us into trouble although I'm grateful not to have it to the extreme I've seen in others where even I can't communicate with them effectively.

Regarding the annoyances, none of those are intolerable, they're just annoyances. I brush them off but it would be better if workers knew more about that. However I might be quite sensitive to noise and smell, a bit excessively. I have difficulty judging volume and it's distance.

The things I worry about never happen and are unlikely to but I can't help but stay vigilent.

The cocaine thing, similar position. It normally never happens so when it happens twice suddenly you can understand my concern. It might be coincidence but I'll still keep my eyes open and avoid that setup if I can.

I suspected you to be previously banned member Ipreferbutts as this was your first thread I think and you posted something similar about "rough hand jobs", my apologies I am mistaken.