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Offline Kelgon85

I've never felt taken advantage of by a regular. I don't spend time catching up. I like seeing regulars as I know what I'm getting and we get into it quickly. I also know their dos and don'ts so no surprises.  The regular knows what I like and we just get on with it.  I prefer regulars.

These are definitely all the benefits of a regular. However, I just don't get that excited buzz when I'm going to see someone new. It’s a great feeling.

Offline Home Alone

I’ve had 3 regs over the last few years.  My experiences have been.

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Reg 3 - Service got really good with extras and more time and felt like meeting up with friend with benefits rather than an SP. However pandemic took hold and not been back since or punted.

Regs can be good, takes the hassle out ensuring you get the service paid for and becomes a more relaxed session. However things did in one case for me go down hill.
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My main Regular sounds like your Reg 3. Fortunately for me, we kept in contact during the pandemic and have picked up where we left off before it hit.

Offline Bristolguy

It’s good to have a couple of regulars one I meet one who enjoys a drink and partying which suits me at times had great fun and text and ring each other outside of punts sort of became mates in a weird way and the other is great sex but strictly text to meet and that’s it think everyone has different needs and wants from regulars:

Offline bedhedred

My main reg has made £11k, the second reg £8k. 3rd reg about £2.5k. The ones I've met this year £1k to 2k.

These are not really "punts" because they almost never go wrong, and if they do, it's always my issue and not the girl's fault.

Offline Punterperson1971

So far with my regular I’ve had
filming
Anal
Poppers
Strap on(on me)
Toys
Keys to her apartment
Offer to fuck her mate(I have 4 times twice as a threesome)
And maybe a jaccuzzi session

Offline bedhedred

I got to fuck a reg and her friend in duo in my budget. The reg set it up on her own initiative. The friend is otherwise a ludicrously expensive agency girl.

I signed an nda 🤐 before going into battle on that one. 💋🍆💋
« Last Edit: July 22, 2021, 08:45:01 pm by bedhedred »

Offline Punterperson1971

I got to fuck a reg and her friend in duo in my budget. The reg set it up on her own initiative. The friend is otherwise a ludicrously expensive agency girl.

I signed an nda 🤐 before going into battle on that one. 💋🍆💋
My regulars friend isn’t an escort

Offline sparkus

My main reg has made £11k, the second reg £8k. 3rd reg about £2.5k. The ones I've met this year £1k to 2k.

These are not really "punts" because they almost never go wrong, and if they do, it's always my issue and not the girl's fault.

Christ.  I had one for years and got annoyed at the small runaround car she could have easily bought on the proceeds.

Offline 3Chabuddygee

Just had a shit punt, makes me really appreciate the only regular I have left!!

Underpaid once for filming and she said it was cool, next time I saw her, offered her the money I owed and she flat out refused to take it.

Another regular hated her arse being fingered, but she let me cos she knew I enjoyed it.

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Just had a shit punt, makes me really appreciate the only regular I have left!!

Underpaid once for filming and she said it was cool, next time I saw her, offered her the money I owed and she flat out refused to take it.

Another regular hated her arse being fingered, but she let me cos she knew I enjoyed it.
Seems a bit odd wanting to do something you knew she hated, not something I would do.

Offline 3Chabuddygee

Seems a bit odd wanting to do something you knew she hated, not something I would do.

It wasn’t some sort of boundary pushing that I engaged in, the first time I asked she said doesn’t really enjoy it cos it feels irritating, I said do you want me to stop, she said no go ahead. She would pull her arse cheek apart so I could get access.

She didn’t like facials, and I never asked again, but on another punting review site several guys said they gave her facials.

That service for whatever reason was not available to me.

Offline iverthickone

I have 3 regulars now, and much prefer them.  They know what I want, we can have a good laugh, and trust each other.

Still enjoy the odd newbie, as it's always good banging a new pussy, mind!

Offline Punterperson1971

I have 3 regulars now, and much prefer them.  They know what I want, we can have a good laugh, and trust each other.

Still enjoy the odd newbie, as it's always good banging a new pussy, mind!
It’s good to break it up with a new one every now and then last new ones I went to see ended up being negative for various reasons that’s why I stick to my regular or ones I’m seen a few times but already reviewed on here

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It wasn’t some sort of boundary pushing that I engaged in, the first time I asked she said doesn’t really enjoy it cos it feels irritating, I said do you want me to stop, she said no go ahead. She would pull her arse cheek apart so I could get access.

She didn’t like facials, and I never asked again, but on another punting review site several guys said they gave her facials.

That service for whatever reason was not available to me.
Must just be me then, but I establish the boundaries at the start of the meet with a "anything off limits?" and if they say they aren't keen on anything anal I stay well clear no matter how many times I see them.

Seems a bit strange you would respect her boundaries regarding facials but not anal play.   :unknown:

There's a lot of reports of punters just carrying on regardless and doing CIM or facials when they know are off limits, but I don't want them doing anything they don't enjoy just because I'm paying.

Offline 3Chabuddygee

Must just be me then, but I establish the boundaries at the start of the meet with a "anything off limits?" and if they say they aren't keen on anything anal I stay well clear no matter how many times I see them.

Seems a bit strange you would respect her boundaries regarding facials but not anal play.   :unknown:

There's a lot of reports of punters just carrying on regardless and doing CIM or facials when they know are off limits, but I don't want them doing anything they don't enjoy just because I'm paying.

I really enjoy anal play. If at any point the SP said stop fingering my arse I would of complied. She would crack a joke and say “The Usual” and that would mean a blow job and her pulling her arse cheek open so I could finger her arse. I can’t see where you are inferring that I forced her! Does that sound like someone who is being forced to do something she doesn’t want?


Going against my better judgement I booked an hour with a new SP provider rather than my regular. Her advert had OWO and CIM as one of her likes. Just as the action started she pulls out a condom to administer oral, I said your advert said OWO and CIM, she said sorry I don’t. I didn’t try and force her, or coerce into giving me OWO.

I’ve seen guys on this forum say be “dominant” and “assertive” and you’ll get her to give you the services you want. That is not me at all.

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I had a regular about 10 years ago and another I saw a few times. There's some on my hotlist who I will see again and some who have gone off the radar, but I would love to see again. Personally are they better value? In some cases yes as the old regular was about a 2 mile drive away which was mega convenient and easy on the pocket. The real advantage is you know what to expect and are already familiar, so all the banter and conversations flow easier. The disadvantage is it is due to a lack of the unknown it is maybe less of a buzz, but every (experienced) punter knows when the spark has gone and it's just pushin' rope.

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I really enjoy anal play. If at any point the SP said stop fingering my arse I would of complied. She would crack a joke and say “The Usual” and that would mean a blow job and her pulling her arse cheek open so I could finger her arse. I can’t see where you are inferring that I forced her! Does that sound like someone who is being forced to do something she doesn’t want?


Going against my better judgement I booked an hour with a new SP provider rather than my regular. Her advert had OWO and CIM as one of her likes. Just as the action started she pulls out a condom to administer oral, I said your advert said OWO and CIM, she said sorry I don’t. I didn’t try and force her, or coerce into giving me OWO.

I’ve seen guys on this forum say be “dominant” and “assertive” and you’ll get her to give you the services you want. That is not me at all.
You are totally missing the point, I have not said you forced her, what I have said is you know she doesn't really like it because she told you she doesn't really like it yet you still want to do it. To me that is her putting up with something she doesn't enjoy just to keep you happy.

That's not the way I punt, I want SPs to be totally comfortable with what is going on. As I said if an escort says she isn't keen on anal play then I don't go near, I don't try it on and wait for her to say stop.

Offline sparkus

I had a regular about 10 years ago and another I saw a few times. There's some on my hotlist who I will see again and some who have gone off the radar, but I would love to see again. Personally are they better value? In some cases yes as the old regular was about a 2 mile drive away which was mega convenient and easy on the pocket. The real advantage is you know what to expect and are already familiar, so all the banter and conversations flow easier. The disadvantage is it is due to a lack of the unknown it is maybe less of a buzz, but every (experienced) punter knows when the spark has gone and it's just pushin' rope.

This happened over two years, someone went from wanking me in a shop to me going round hers and sharing a bed (for not that much money).  After a while it became pretty humdrum and routine.  I can even remember talking about it on here via PM saying I was bored of seeing her face looking up at me.

Offline Crockers

You can deffo get too much of a good thing. Saw a reg more or less weekly last year.

She's dominant with newbies but totally submissive with me. I know as it took me two sessions to break her in.

However only seen her twice this year as the novelty had completely worn off for me.


« Last Edit: July 23, 2021, 01:56:10 pm by Crockers »

Offline Crockers

I got to fuck a reg and her friend in duo in my budget. The reg set it up on her own initiative. The friend is otherwise a ludicrously expensive agency girl.

I signed an nda 🤐 before going into battle on that one. 💋🍆💋

Ditto.

Scratches head wondering if it's the same girl.
« Last Edit: July 23, 2021, 02:17:25 pm by Crockers »

Offline rubric

I think a lot of it is down to your general demeanour and interpersonal skills.  If you are the sort of person who can be direct without being rude, it can help to set initial boundaries in a way that doesn't lead to girls thinking they can take the piss further down the line,  though that said some girls will take the piss anyway.

One aspect I don't see in the thread is parlours - which are obviously not as big a part of the scene these days - but some years ago I used to be a regular at a couple of parlours and got to know and got on with the madames reasonably well.  Apart from chit-chat, the main benefit was that they'd let me know when a regular girl I liked was likely to be around, and if they were running slow would be much more lax on the time keeping, at one point I used to regularly get 1.5 hours into a .5 hour appointment.

My experience with girls is that what counts as a regular varies wildly, and many girls see sufficient numbers of men that a reasonable break can see them forget you anyway.  In general though as long as they have a reasonable imagination sex can get better, there are small touches that add up to a fairly big difference and it isn't necessarily only about time spent.

Offline P Hughes

In my experience, I've found that the service usually becomes routine, mundane and lacklustre. I do believe that the SPs do Sometimes take advantage as in these scenarios I'm very non confrontational and don't want to make any fuss. Years ago I had one regular who was really pretty, probably the best looking SP I've seen. After a while she would talk for about 40 minutes about nothing in general in an attempt to waste time. Then she would go to the bathroom for another 10 minutes. It was obvious she hated her job and she was a bit arrogant and belittling in a fake jovial way.it was obvious that the buzz had gone for me. People may sau.why did I go back, but at the time I had very limited local options and wasn't prepared to travel. I bet at the time she laughed with her pimp boyfriend about how she had played me for a fool.

Offline rubric

In my experience, I've found that the service usually becomes routine, mundane and lacklustre. I do believe that the SPs do Sometimes take advantage as in these scenarios I'm very non confrontational and don't want to make any fuss.

Think this is the key here, I used to be more like that, but have found that age and advancing in my career has given me a certain resistance to putting up with shit which seems to make a difference in many scenarios.

Offline Hannibal35

Before this plandemic I had 2 regulars, who knew each other, and I would alternate between.  When I found out 1 was working all the way throughout I’ve left her.
I have a good relationship with the other one now, booking is easy, and we know what we want from our meets. It can be a little of a routine, doing the same things.

However I cheated on her last week with someone new, and it was great, gave me a real buzz…

Offline alabama1

Before this plandemic I had 2 regulars, who knew each other, and I would alternate between.  When I found out 1 was working all the way throughout I’ve left her.
I have a good relationship with the other one now, booking is easy, and we know what we want from our meets. It can be a little of a routine, doing the same things.

However I cheated on her last week with someone new, and it was great, gave me a real buzz…

 :lol: :lol:

Offline lillythesavage

The Original question as posted has not really been addressed and cannot be by any reply.

Surely VFM can only be decided by the rate you are paying ,the experience you get , your means and expectations?  That is very subjective, Regular or new punt.

Offline Duncy

How long to you stick with a reg?

I have had 1 reg now for 2 years and it's still good sex we nearly always go over time with no problems as long as I don't take the piss.
The other reg is a fairly new one she replaced a girl who I had seen for over 2 years but she went mental and got demanding and nasty so dumped her.
I see them every 4 to 6 weeks which gives me time when cash allows to fit in a one off now and again. The meets with them don't seem to getting stale.
But my question is how long should you stay with a regular girl before you give her a rest and move on for a while.

Offline alabama1

How long to you stick with a reg?

I have had 1 reg now for 2 years and it's still good sex we nearly always go over time with no problems as long as I don't take the piss.
The other reg is a fairly new one she replaced a girl who I had seen for over 2 years but she went mental and got demanding and nasty so dumped her.
I see them every 4 to 6 weeks which gives me time when cash allows to fit in a one off now and again. The meets with them don't seem to getting stale.
But my question is how long should you stay with a regular girl before you give her a rest and move on for a while.

Its time for a rest when you do more chatting than fucking, in my opinion anyway.  :hi:

Offline Punterperson1971

Its time for a rest when you do more chatting than fucking, in my opinion anyway.  :hi:
Never happens untill after fucking

Offline rubric

But my question is how long should you stay with a regular girl before you give her a rest and move on for a while.

Go as long as the sex is good and you still fancy having sex with her, stop when either are no longer true, I don't see why you even need to ask the question, there's no great etiquette surrounding this, you don't need to keep visiting a regular just because you fear social embarrassment.
« Last Edit: July 25, 2021, 12:51:12 pm by rubric »

Offline lillythesavage

How long to you stick with a reg?

I have had 1 reg now for 2 years and it's still good sex we nearly always go over time with no problems as long as I don't take the piss.
The other reg is a fairly new one she replaced a girl who I had seen for over 2 years but she went mental and got demanding and nasty so dumped her.
I see them every 4 to 6 weeks which gives me time when cash allows to fit in a one off now and again. The meets with them don't seem to getting stale.
But my question is how long should you stay with a regular girl before you give her a rest and move on for a while.

Dumping a WG lol, there is no answer to your question, the same way there is no answer to the original question, every one has different expectations, income and ways they punt.

The nearest answer is if it works, keep going , WHEN THE FUN STOPS , STOP, Heard that before somewhere.  :D

Offline Home Alone

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However I cheated on her last week with someone new, and it was great, gave me a real buzz…

Now, that's an interesting word to use about your relationship with a woman you - and others, presumably - pay for sex, Hannibal35! :scare:

I see an SP regularly and we're definitely at the GFE - possibly even the FWB - end of the market. Occasionally, I see an SP who offers a raunchier service than my Regular; but I'd never see that as 'cheating' on my Regular; just shopping in a different aisle of the punting market.

Offline Murray Mint

In answer to the OPs question, no, I’ve never felt that a regular was taking advantage of me or wasting my time, and I wouldn’t tolerate it if I did, but regularly seeing an SP has certainly been one of the great pleasures of this hobby for me.

But don’t confuse regular with frequent. In my almost 20 years of punting, I have had probably 7 regulars. That is, SPs who I have seen 10 or more times. I only punt about 18 times a year now, and rarely see the same SP more frequently than once every 6 to 8 weeks, and there are presently, Covid notwithstanding, three women I see regularly. One of them I have seen almost 100 times over 13 years!

So, what’s the attraction? I like to take my time, with lots of foreplay, and I have a penchant for submissive ladies. Nothing too extreme – a bit of bondage and sensory deprivation – certainly no pain beyond, perhaps, nipple clamps and the like, and, in addition to those SPs who offer that service, I have successfully ‘introduced’ at least three ladies to these games. Not only that, but I have indulged in a bit of role-reversal, including receiving a (small!!) strap-on, hot wax play and, more recently, a TENS machine. None of this would I have contemplated without intimate knowledge of the lady concerned, and that can only be achieved through regular meetings.

Offline Suffolk TS Lover

Interesting topic and a lot of different replies. It seems to me that the answers vary depending on what you, the punter, is looking for.

For me, I don't like a visit to a SP to be just a punt, I like to establish a connection. If there is no rapport, maybe a bit of banter/chat, then she doesn't become a Reg.

For me a Reg delivers additonal value especially as I rarely have anything less than 3 hour booking. So time to chat is a bonus for me. Unfortunately, I am down to only a single Reg and she is talking about moving to London, so I will have to start the search again.

Offline Punterperson1971

One regular wg I see who’s not far from me has said she will see me for £80 for 1 hour session,reason is when I asked why is that I see her often enough to be a regular to her so that’s good that’s me sorted next month

Offline wolfiesmith69

Always liked the variety of new girls but since lockdown etc i have become a regular -It seems to get better everytime !,formed a naughty bond,she knows i like throat fucking and arse stuff & accomodates me with aplomb & i think i might struggle to go elsewhere !
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Offline beastmode

This is a very good thread as my goal is to see girls on regs, rather than new girls every time.

I seen someone three times now, with hope that the sex will get better.

My thinking of visiting her has been when I scrolled through 15 pages on AW & either not find quality or not confident in TOFFT so I gone to myself - it’s better to go to someone you know.

She’s new to this. Her personality is good, OWO is shit, kissing is shit - missionary & doggy are good positions, she can’t get on top well lol 😭

Now I just seen that she has increased her prices on AW. So I definitely won’t be seeing her again.
« Last Edit: July 30, 2021, 05:55:41 pm by beastmode »

Offline Nagilum

Always been a fan of regs myself. You know what you are getting, more relaxed and over time the sex does get better.

I have found the clock stops mattering with a good regular, but if they take the piss then its off my regular list.
« Last Edit: July 30, 2021, 08:04:28 pm by Nagilum »

Offline alabama1

The problem i have is that the more i know someone, the more we chat, which is kind of counter productive in this game. This is what i was getting at with the thread.

Offline boardyhell

definitely ,the trust level is higher and the platform to build a professional relationship is laid
you never know, you might end up finding common interests as you open up to each other
especially as you get more mature

Offline Ali Katt

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The problem i have is that the more i know someone, the more we chat, which is kind of counter productive in this game. This is what i was getting at with the thread.
Depends if it's costing you

Offline TheTinker

Interesting views shown. I had a regular a few years ago, I guess I'd call her that and although the service she gave was always great and we got on well I don't think I was ever going to get anything "extra" out of meeting. She did not clock watch so she was good with time but she was a pro so I doubt extras were on the cards unless I offered good money and then she might have been open to it. I currently have a regular (not punting else where though thinking on doing so) My regular does not advertise, so semi retired and certainly I have suggested some things and she seems open to it. She is great with time, I get a coffee, dresses and does what I like and because it's every few weeks it always feels pretty fresh to visit. So I like the arrangement, a regular thing can work and I prefer it.

Offline lillythesavage

Depends if it's costing you


That is the answer, nothing wrong with a good chat, if you get what you go for and the chat is not on the clock, surely there is no problem ?

If you feel it is a waste of time then move on, that regular is not working for you.

Could it be you are not suited to a regular? do not like any chat, prefer to get stuck in and go, in which case regular may never work for you unless you can get them to understand your needs.
It is quite natural to chat more to somebody you see often, if you get on with them.

Offline Laudanum

I wish I had a regular. In 2007 and 2008 I had 2 regulars, who were both really good. I saw one 3 times in 8 days, but they were both students so were often away.

I found it the best for me, but, just when I thought I was getting close to knowing the 2nd one, I was made aware that it was just business (wouldn't tell me her real first name, and I don't blame her).

I soon realised, as I was 20 years older than her, any connection we had was merely her being good at her job. Not quite EAS, but it was probably good that she graduated and got a job in her field.

EAS could be a problem with a long term regular, I suppose, but I'd still like to find one again. It's like finding a barber you like - you don't have to explain every time what you like!

Offline wolfiesmith69

If you find a regular who ticks all the boxes stick with her !
in my opinion things get naughtier & more fun as you grow a connection of what you both like and enjoy -a proper GFE.
 i suppose-Its very easy to search for something else its human nature-Now and again you may find a diamond but they are few & far between !-Trust your head & not your cock.
read the reviews do your research etc-punting rules we should all abide by as it often leads to disasters & a waste of your hard earned spons !
Keep going guys !!
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Offline meptalon

Seems a bit odd wanting to do something you knew she hated, not something I would do.

I think I can understand that one. She didn't like the anal fingering but maybe she did enjoy more having £Chadbuddygee satisfied? I know I definitely take pleasure in pleasuring the other one :)

Offline Punterperson1971

If you find a regular who ticks all the boxes stick with her !
in my opinion things get naughtier & more fun as you grow a connection of what you both like and enjoy -a proper GFE.
 i suppose-Its very easy to search for something else its human nature-Now and again you may find a diamond but they are few & far between !-Trust your head & not your cock.
read the reviews do your research etc-punting rules we should all abide by as it often leads to disasters & a waste of your hard earned spons !
Keep going guys !!
Agreed I enjoy seeing my regular it’s still good even now

Offline JamesKW

I visited mature Anna (unfortunately currently retired) right through the lockdown period,I found it got better everytime,fortunately little time was wasted on banter as her English was limited and it often went over time.

Offline Laudanum

I had 2 regulars in 2007 and 2008, and they were the best ever (both English students who loved sex).

I wish I could find a reg nowadays.

Offline WorcWarrior

I have great sex with my reg’s that’s why their my reg’s!! If the service level drops in anyway I change supplier!! There’s plenty more fish as they say! Fuck the catching up and shit, I do that by call or text whilst on my way, then they know I mean business pretty much as soon as I arrive!! Get over her and move on, let’s face it you have to show em who’s the boss!! The customer is always right!