Distracted in the days before a punt

[Bootleg]

I have a punt booked tomorrow morning with a girl I have not seen for a while. I booked a few days ago and have been really looking forward to it.

The problem is that I am looking forward to it too much and am finding it tricky to concentrate on work or anything else. It does not help that I am working from home today and so can look at anything I want on the web. Obviously I am abstaining from any activity to save myself for the punt so I cannot get any relief that way.

Does anyone else experience this and, if so, how do you put it out of your mind?

[mediumjoe]

 I don't try to put it out of my mind, I use the opportunity to go through every scrap of information and doublecheck that I'm not making a mistake,  I  put variations on her name phone nr and location into Google to see if anything comes up, then I try to think how I want the punt to go,  never works but it's worth  trying.   Good luck tomorrow Joe

[glenmere]

I am in the same situation Sir - have a meet set up for Tuesday, work from home, am alone so have the world of porn available! I can't concentrate, my heart is pounding, can't think of anything else, don't want to relieve the tension I want a big explosion as I cross the finish line! - so not mush help really just feeling your tension as it were!

[Thecunninglinguist]

I don't try to put it out of my mind, I use the opportunity to go through every scrap of information and doublecheck that I'm not making a mistake,  I  put variations on her name phone nr and location into Google to see if anything comes up, then I try to think how I want the punt to go,  never works but it's worth  trying.   Good luck tomorrow Joe

I do exactly the same. I'm not paranoid or anything, just that knowledge is power.

[Shearer1955]

I hopefully do all my homework before I book & really just look forward to the meet & what we will be doing ... 

[Blackpool Rock]

Yeah I know the feeling sometimes when you are building up to a punt or have booked a girl to see that evening straight from work etc it's hard to concentrate on anything else and I find myself "crawling the walls".
The only solution is to actually have a punt or sort yourself out, alternatively have you tried getting pissed? 

[rathbone]

Does anyone else experience this and, if so, how do you put it out of your mind?

Yes, I sometimes experience it, and to be honest the only thing that puts it out of your mind is keeping busy with work!  In the shower in the morning, on the drive to work etc. my mind tends to wander.

[rogercock00]

Why don't you extend the whole punt to include a marathon edging session beforehand, make the whole affair a memorable one 

I have done this many times and quite enjoy the build-up by perusing her material online, the more of it the better 

[peter purves]

I have a punt booked tomorrow morning with a girl I have not seen for a while. I booked a few days ago and have been really looking forward to it.

The problem is that I am looking forward to it too much and am finding it tricky to concentrate on work or anything else. It does not help that I am working from home today and so can look at anything I want on the web. Obviously I am abstaining from any activity to save myself for the punt so I cannot get any relief that way.

Does anyone else experience this and, if so, how do you put it out of your mind?

Yes, but only on the day (as never book days in advance).

How do I deal with it? By trying to get 'ready' (bath, grooming etc) as quickly as possible 

[flybynightpm]

I get distracted by not having a booking or plan in place. Until it's all sorted I'm perpetually taking a quick look at AW/Other sites to see if the girls on my HL are in the area and available.. Once the booking is made, i'm fine..then the self doubt seeps in!

[Malvolio]

Try arranging your next punt - that should take your mind off her.

[Gordon Bennett]

I tend to focus more about me than her. Things like how I'll get there, what time I'll set off, where I'll park,  got her details in my phone, is it charged, got the dosh, are lucky pants clean, shave bollocks etc etc. You could argue I'm still distracted but I reckon at least I'm thinking about things I can exert some control over as opposed to mooning about daydreaming about her. Also, i now tend to book no more than 24hrs ahead and preferably on the day cos I've noticed I seem more relaxed and virile on punts booked with just hours notice.... book, travel, fuck and no time for much else.

[Drayki]

Totally agree with Gordon Bennett, I try and just concentrate on myself, make sure ive got everything in place and make sure ive shaven my bollocks before I go, just try and stay calm and think that in a few hours time I'm going to be inside her pants

[mediumjoe]

Lucky pants,  made me smile, I don't have lucky ones but I do have a pair of favourites that I tend to wear to punt in. Stupid really.

[Home Alone]

Lucky pants,  made me smile, I don't have lucky ones but I do have a pair of favourites that I tend to wear to punt in. Stupid really.

Not sure it's 'stupid', Joe; more superstitious, maybe.  It reminds me of football managers who, e.g., always wear the same pair of shoes while theiron team's on a  undefeated run!

[hungrypunt]

Im the same, esp in the early days combined with pre punt nerves. I look at it as more of an enjoyable thing to look forward too now, so I dont over think it much anymore but do enjoy the build up.

[Stiltskin]

This is one reason I don't book in advance. Booking the day before is hard enough. I usually book on the day.

[horsa]

I am not going to book long in advance anymore, I tend to think about the punt a lot! will start booking the night before