Cum guilt

[Brumbrum]

Does anyone feel cum guilt with their first pop with an escort? I feel bad and think I’ve spent so much money that I could of used elsewhere. I’m not saying I’m broke or anything I just feel it can never beat having sex with someone you have an emotional attachment with. I’m curious to see if anyone else gets that feeling?

[theejaculator]

Yeah I get guilt that I've spunked all that money sometimes...say if I haven't found the WG all that attractive or if I cum too soon......

But sometimes it's worth it like my last FS booking with a regular .....we fucked full on for the entire hour, I made her squirt and then deposited a huge load on her ..... priceless ...times like those

[jimmymac]

I'm only a one cum an hour man these days, so it's my first and last cum, but yeah it's almost always the first thought that enters my head.
I've spunked all that fucking money away that I could have spent on something else!
Usually takes me twenty to thirty minutes to get over it.

[BrumTallGuy]

Does anyone else just have a wank and think whoa thats another few quid saved 

[BrumTallGuy]

If you want a laff search cum guilt on saafe.

[bender999]

I've spent money on expensive meals out and sometimes the next day I've thought that was money down the pan - literally!! If you can afford it then enjoy it, if you cant dont do it as the guilt will overcome the pleasure. I dont see it as a replacement for emotional sex - it's sex with a complete stranger (normally) doing things that your partrner probably wouldn't do and perhaps living out some of your fantasies.

[BrumTallGuy]

The cum guilt for me on fbsm is always... i could have had full sex for thst.
I always expect filler if you cum early though. A lame massage at least 

[Bigballs00]

Me too. Maybe the dick losses control of the brain after he pops, and logic takes over

[The Owl]

If I've had a good time I don't a fuck about the money spent. I'll be too busy remembering how good the escort was to fuck if she was good at her job.

If I regret the money spent then it's a bad punt with shit sex. Guilt is a waste of time.

[RedditchJay]

sometimes, same as other though... if its been good value, decent girl who knows her job then NO..... happy chap

If its a waster who faffs around and the service is moderate then yep.... think that £100 better spent elsewhere

I do a max of 120 per hour tops so for that I want to be treated well and looked after, i wouldn't pay £150 or higher like some might

[shrewsmale]

yes used to get it all the time. used to think that was a shopping spree, or equate it into other things in money value.  But then also I work dam fucking hard so I deserve it.

[shrewsmale]

Does anyone else just have a wank and think whoa thats another few quid saved 

yes but that never works for ever.

[Brumbrum]

Yeah the prices of escorts are rising and bills going higher. It’s harder for me to punt but tbh it’s allowing ng me to be more selective and tick things off my bucket list.

[peter purves]

Does anyone feel cum guilt with their first pop with an escort? I feel bad and think I’ve spent so much money that I could of used elsewhere. I’m not saying I’m broke or anything I just feel it can never beat having sex with someone you have an emotional attachment with. I’m curious to see if anyone else gets that feeling?

Out of interest does the feeling go after the second visit?

[BrumTallGuy]

yes but that never works for ever.

[shrewsmale]

Yeah the prices of escorts are rising and bills going higher. It’s harder for me to punt but tbh it’s allowing ng me to be more selective and tick things off my bucket list.

Ive been very careful for some time. It doesn't eliminate the risk of disappointment but it can mitigate it

[Dannydorko]

The post-nut clarity is real. Can't think of anything else until you nut and then all of a sudden a clear mind.

I do the wank thing but find it's working less and less and find myself trying to find a cheap Rom to P&D instead of spending over £80 on a British WG who may not be that good

[SalmonJunkie]

The post-nut clarity is real. Can't think of anything else until you nut and then all of a sudden a clear mind.

I do the wank thing but find it's working less and less and find myself trying to find a cheap Rom to P&D instead of spending over £80 on a British WG who may not be that good

I’m in exactly the same boat. But then I think “if I’m gonna spend £40 for a 15 minute Rom P&D, May as well spend £80 on half hour with a Brit...

Then I have a wank. It passes. But the desire for an actual punt is getting stronger & stronger...

[Kelgon85]

Does anyone else just have a wank and think whoa thats another few quid saved 

It works for about five minutes. Then the urge comes back, sometimes with a vengeance.

[saf1976]

I do get this when I've had a mediocre punt or I don't fancy the girl.

However, when I've had a good one I feel the opposite. My heads in the clouds kinda thing. This is the best way to spend money. I've got it all worked out.

I've been punting nearly 20 years so over that time I reckon I've paid as much as my mate has just done to get married (just the day itself, not the cost of dating, kids, divorces etc). When I think of that sum over time I'm comfortable with it as I've had a lot of good times. But yes, when I've had a mediocre one or I've punted for the sake of it and not enjoyed it and it's down to me, I feel bad.

[BrumTallGuy]

If a wank doesnt suppress the notion i can only recommend hungarian over roms... i have no experience of roms tbf but i block every rom by default after reading on here for a while.
Deffo recommend pamela hot blonde if age isnt a consideration.   

[BrumTallGuy]

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?action=serviceprovider;id=20164

[Madone1]

Definitely get cum guilt after a shit or average punt and the pissed off feeling adds to it if I've had to put a lot of effort in with travel and parking sure doesn't help on the drive home. But a great punt leaves you feeling on top of the world.

I'm putting far less then I used to but it's more a lack of options and time then a tactical wank which does help from time to time.

[winkywanky]

Does anyone feel cum guilt with their first pop with an escort? I feel bad and think I’ve spent so much money that I could of used elsewhere. I’m not saying I’m broke or anything I just feel it can never beat having sex with someone you have an emotional attachment with. I’m curious to see if anyone else gets that feeling?

Go for a one-pop punt then, seems a shame to ruin your experience by suffering buyer's remorse for the second half of the punt.

[Midsman007]

Does anyone else just have a wank and think whoa thats another few quid saved 

yeah ! last night!! I was trying hard to find someone to have some fun with. Had no luck so i poured myself a double Gin! and took comfort on my bed and when I cum and thought, what a save !

I tried several girls from adult works and no one picked up, and emailed and nothing back (all showing available) and then tried the massage place in Redditch again and no one answered.
I was prepared to drive 1hr and still no joy with several i tried further away. Friday from 5pm onwards most be a busy time for them or they knock off - but had a wank and saved myself some cash!

[Bigballs00]

This thread should be called: Save your bank, have a wank

[Dick N Tits]

Bought a Fleshlight for when the urge rises and to stop me from straying. Best £60 I've ever spent.

[Ben1983]

When I first starting punting a few years back, i got quite addicted.
I’d arrange a punt, have a great time & then when I got back home, I’d be searching for the next one.
Even though I was spending ALL my spare cash.

I then got into a serious relationship and stopped punting (hence the limited reviews)
Broke up earlier this year & I went back to punting.

Side Note: Punting makes it much easier to get over a breakup 

This time however, I put £x amount a side a month for punting.
If there’s money in there, I punt.
If there’s no money in there, I don’t.

I found this really helped me

[winkywanky]

Bought a Fleshlight for when the urge rises and to stop me from straying. Best £60 I've ever spent.

It's working, you've been here for five years and apparently never met a WG.

Perhaps you check out the boards to get hard, and then let the Fleshlight do your bidding?

You're a wanker. Literally.

[Bigballs00]

Bought a Fleshlight for when the urge rises and to stop me from straying. Best £60 I've ever spent.

I never saw the point of the fleshlight. Isn’t a handful of Vaseline just as good?

The humiliating evidence of a flesh light if it was ever inappropriately found is too off putting.

[ged72]

I generally go for 1 hour bookings as I can still manage 2 pops. However on many punts after the first pop if I don't find the girl attractive, or she's providing a poor service, I get up and walk and will be back in my car half an hour after leaving it. At this point the guilt will be rolling over me in waves as I've wasted £120+ on a crap punt, and I could have at least saved £50 by going for a half hour booking.

I'm guessing I should just go for 1/2 hour punts, but when you get that session that clicks I really enjoy going for the 2nd pop 

[Ennui Smith]

Isn't part of all this physiological/hormonal?  After you ejaculate there is the initial euphoria but that is followed shortly by a drained feeling.

If you are happy with the sex and choice of partner, the slight downer probably passes quickly, particularly if you are becoming aroused again.  If it felt like a half hearted punt or you don't really fancy the girl it probably compounds the feeling of a downer and you dwell on stuff a little more.

[Availableinlarge]

Does anyone else just have a wank and think whoa thats another few quid saved 

All the time.

[RedditchJay]

Going through this right now,..... two punts in 4 days   £240 spent and honestly dont think it ticked my box and wished i hadnt bothered

Think when the fun stops   - stop

havnt done much this year and poss thats the problem, need to find a young hot one that ticks all the boxes again

[antony8821]

i thought i was the only one! yeah ive been physically sick when ive got out a couple of times, thinking that money could be been spent elsewhere. also i enjoy the save some pennies wank too,

having said that my last meeting i booked for an hour outcall, she ended up staying 3 hours and we had the best time, review coming soon!

[denno]

My last punt was so crap it put me into semi retirement and not punted since and saved myself a fortune. Have a shortlist of WG who could bring me out of retirement.

[workinallweek]

 for me the worst feeling is when ive arranged to be off radar (which takes some doing ) traveled an hour to get the last minute cancel    thats when i get the hump not the guilt ..

My last few punts have been 4 hour ones so silly money but with the knowledge that it could be my last year punting  i enjoy the whole experience .

[BrumTallGuy]

Some good honest posts above.. thats why punting can be a win win, go and you get a good release. Dont go and have a wank, feel good about money in the bank 
Its the hobby that gives... unless you try a tofft or get someone on a bad day. 

[RedditchJay]

When the fun stops......STOP

[denno]

When the fun stops......STOP

I Have   

[Rook69]

I think my worst experience.of guilt was back some years ago when I was very naïve and inexperienced in what the massage scene was all about. Long story short - I booked a 30 min massage with a women in West Brom (I actually had a bad back at the time) so I was expecting a massage to help that but perhaps a little bit of something teasing if that existed.... Ended up a full service which I didn't want (nothing wrong with the women - just me) and I kind of only went along with because I had paid and was there. Drove home quite depressed about the whole thing.

[RogerBoner]

I have provided for my wife and kids for a long time. I felt taken for granted so took up punting and felt no guilt spending £12k in 2016. It made me unashamedly happy. Ahem! That year was intense and I don't intend to repeat it,  but no guilt after coming ever.

[Plumbersmait]

My God you must have went for it.

[Rook69]

I have provided for my wife and kids for a long time. I felt taken for granted so took up punting and felt no guilt spending £12k in 2016. It made me unashamedly happy. Ahem! That year was intense and I don't intend to repeat it,  but no guilt after coming ever.

Jeeezus - that makes my £250 per year expenditure look like a lunchtime bar bill.

[riseup01]

I have provided for my wife and kids for a long time. I felt taken for granted so took up punting and felt no guilt spending £12k in 2016. It made me unashamedly happy. Ahem! That year was intense and I don't intend to repeat it,  but no guilt after coming ever.

Jesus Christ Rog! I thought my £5k year was terrible. But fair play, hope the wife stops taking advantage and you get back to how things were mate. 

[RogerBoner]

Jesus Christ Rog! I thought my £5k year was terrible. But fair play, hope the wife stops taking advantage and you get back to how things were mate. 

Thanks riseup01, I know that we've shared some of the Thai lovelies over the years.
Before I heard about UKPunting I started a thread on UK Escorting called Record Number of Punts in a Week. Yet I'm not sure if I'm proud of disgusted with myself.

[MN1972]

Totally depends on if it is a good or bad experience for me. I only do fbsm and only infrequently.

The last but one, i spent 40 for 30 mins and it was poor...and came out wishing i hadnt bothered

The last one however, i spent 80 in an hour had a fab time and had no post cum regrets.

[Niel8989]

I used to but l rationalised it in my head by telling myself; on a typical date with a woman (especially 1st date) l usually pay for everything and don't get sex 75% of the dates. So in my head regarding my circumstance l found a way to rationalise the fact that it's cheaper to punt than date so everytime l punt l psychologically deduct the fee from my dating allowance/budget...

l think this technique can work for you if you are single and not too fussed about wanting to be in a serious relationship. Not sure how l would rationalise cum guilt if l was married, will probably fill you guys in on that when l cross that bridge but for now l'm okay as long as l do it once every now and then... my solution is find a way to rationalise it as paying for an experience... people pay for bungie jumping and sky diving and don't feel guilt, because they are fully conscious that they are paying for an experience as opposed to paying to cum... make that your mental mantra BEFORE and after
the punt and cum guilt won't affect you as much of at all.

[Niel8989]

Also only punt when you really NEED & not just because you are feeling horny; some punts are really meant to be wanks hence the cum guilt... it's about figuring out your individual threshold of when you really NEED a woman's body and when you just need your hand and some nasty porn.lol it's all about self discovery and self knowledge

[fredhiggins]

I have a friend who earns over 100K with gold plated pension to come soonish; plus annual bonuses/share schemes probably giving him another 10-20K. He has few outgoings and is away from home 1 to 2 nights a week with work.

In his shoes I'd be indulging my hobby like billy-o and no guilt would interfere!