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Offline Jacobkim

Just a general question if any one has tried Seeking Arrangements in east midland area?  Any suggestion views or tips for fellow punters. Shall we have a separate thread for the east midland zone?
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Offline Rockhead

Just a general question if any one has tried Seeking Arrangements in east midland area?  Any suggestion views or tips for fellow punters. Shall we have a separate thread for the east midland zone?
Apologise if this has been asked before

I have - and I plan to again, although I am waiting for the 'road to freedom' to open up slightly before doing so. Meeting someone on a park bench for a coffee in the cold isn't my idea of fun  :)

I've had the same thoughts about a thread for the East Midlands zone. There is a reasonably active thread for the West Midlands, but not come across one here. I did suggest bringing the two areas together for a thread as there's likely to be some crossover, but I don't know if that's a good idea and probably awkward to manage given that regional forums were set up as such for good reason. I'm certainly happy to contribute experiences when I'm up and running again - I think these threads are particularly helpful for issuing warnings about known scammers / nutjobs etc.

Offline coconut101

I have - and I plan to again, although I am waiting for the 'road to freedom' to open up slightly before doing so. Meeting someone on a park bench for a coffee in the cold isn't my idea of fun  :)

I've had the same thoughts about a thread for the East Midlands zone. There is a reasonably active thread for the West Midlands, but not come across one here. I did suggest bringing the two areas together for a thread as there's likely to be some crossover, but I don't know if that's a good idea and probably awkward to manage given that regional forums were set up as such for good reason. I'm certainly happy to contribute experiences when I'm up and running again - I think these threads are particularly helpful for issuing warnings about known scammers / nutjobs etc.

How was it? Any decent SBs in Leicester? I think a long time ago I tried it and it was fairly dry.

Offline Rockhead

There wasn’t a thing in Leicester, which surprised me with it being a university town. However there were a few gems further afield.

Offline Buttons

Last time I was on SA, about 2 years ago, there were a few in Leicestershire. I didn’t meet any of them. But it’s worth signing up and looking across the whole East Mids if you can travel.

I’m tempted to have a go again after normality returns, but have heard it’s not the same as it used to be. Lots of picture sellers, fakes and princesses with elevated ideas of what they are worth.

Good luck if you go for it  :thumbsup:

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I have - and I plan to again, although I am waiting for the 'road to freedom' to open up slightly before doing so. Meeting someone on a park bench for a coffee in the cold isn't my idea of fun  :)

I've had the same thoughts about a thread for the East Midlands zone. There is a reasonably active thread for the West Midlands, but not come across one here. I did suggest bringing the two areas together for a thread as there's likely to be some crossover, but I don't know if that's a good idea and probably awkward to manage given that regional forums were set up as such for good reason. I'm certainly happy to contribute experiences when I'm up and running again - I think these threads are particularly helpful for issuing warnings about known scammers / nutjobs etc.

I could have a sworn there was a seeking.com thread in the East Mids section, but can't find it for the life of me.

If anyone recalls a thread from this region, please post the details on here. If not, we can always make this thread an on-going one.

Please note that this thread will be accessible by ALL members, so please take care before posting any details on here, as Admin does not allow for any posts to be deleted, once posted on here.

For those in the know-how, there is also a general seeking.com thread in the UKPunting main section.

Offline gbyld87

Lots of picture sellers, fakes and princesses with elevated ideas of what they are worth.

Sounds like AW to be fair  :wacko:

Offline Sparta Prada

When I first joined Seeking/SA in 2016, the main areas I wanted to find girls was in Leicester and Nottingham as I tended to stay overnight in hotels frequently in those cities. One of my first SA meets was with a rather nice Iraqi medical student in Leicester, who turned out had shagged most of the UKP guys in the closed thread  :sarcastic: But it gave me an insight into how much better meets with a girl on Seeking could be when compared to a girl on AW.

I didn’t have much luck in Nottingham. Ended up having to block a couple of girls on my phone as they became rather nasty after I turned them down.

The last Seeking membership I had in 2019 didn’t come up with anyone in Leicester which really surprised me. I did have a couple of good meets with a Nottingham milf and a tall stunner from Loughborough but I found someone else who I really clicked with in another part of England (pre-Covid my job took me to different parts of England regularly) so I stopped seeing both of them.

To summarise, Seeking is a great options for guys who are willing to spend more for quality longer meets. Bear in mind it’s not just the girl’s allowance you are paying for but also drinks, food, and hotel rooms if you are unable to accommodate.


Offline Crazydave

I'm subscribing at the moment as I got a discount code, but it's been rubbish this time compared with previous times. Probably going to wait again until lockdown is lifted as there are a lot of onliners on there now. I think we must have shagged the same three girls there Sparta - I assume the milf was that blonde lass from Gotham - she was absolute filth but sadly seems to have retired now - and definitely had the girl in Leicester - trainee doctor right? I found her a bit lazy though and she just kept saying how naughty she was :dash: :lol:

If the tall girl in Loughborough is the same one I'm thinking off, she lived near to Quorn and gave a nice sloppy BJ. She also had a pussy that used to drip when she got excited - is that the one?

Offline Sparta Prada

I'm subscribing at the moment as I got a discount code, but it's been rubbish this time compared with previous times. Probably going to wait again until lockdown is lifted as there are a lot of onliners on there now. I think we must have shagged the same three girls there Sparta - I assume the milf was that blonde lass from Gotham - she was absolute filth but sadly seems to have retired now - and definitely had the girl in Leicester - trainee doctor right? I found her a bit lazy though and she just kept saying how naughty she was :dash: :lol:

If the tall girl in Loughborough is the same one I'm thinking off, she lived near to Quorn and gave a nice sloppy BJ. She also had a pussy that used to drip when she got excited - is that the one?

The trainee doctor we discussed on the closed thread, and then found out that she had been seeing quite a lot of UKP members in the Midlands! She was one of the first girls I met on SA, met for drinks in a bar next to my hotel and we got on really well as there were certain things we had in common. I found her face stunning, her figure was very curvy, spoke with a middle class London accent which was a huge turn on. Possibly the SB who I have connected with the best, whenever we met we would talk for ages over wine before going to the bedroom. I know what you mean about her bedroom act, but I think she was really a sub and this was part of her act.

The Nottingham milf was blonde but said she was based in West Bridgford? Around 5’ 6”, went to the gym so she was toned, great long legs, long blonde hair, facially a bit average. Decent in bed and had a nice time but we didn’t quite click.

The Loughborough girl (I don’t know the place so have no idea if she’s near Quorn) said she was working as a nanny. Not far short of 6’ tall, long brown hair, good boobs, figure wasn’t particularly toned but because of her height she carried it well. All I remember was meeting her in a retail park in Loughborough, went for a meal, then went to my hotel. Really good in bed, though I got the impression she was a bit of a Seeking pro. Sound like the same girl?

« Last Edit: March 02, 2021, 11:50:45 pm by Sparta Prada »

Offline Crazydave

The loughborough girl could certainly be the same one. How old do you think she was? The one I'm thinking of was probably mid to late 30s.

The blonde milf isn't the same one then - I wonder if she still has a profile on SA? She sounds like someone I'd like to meet.

Offline Sparta Prada

The loughborough girl could certainly be the same one. How old do you think she was? The one I'm thinking of was probably mid to late 30s.

The blonde milf isn't the same one then - I wonder if she still has a profile on SA? She sounds like someone I'd like to meet.

Loughborough girl was no older than 25 at the time. Nottingham milf was mid-30s when I met her. I haven’t logged onto Seeking for a while so I can’t say if either of them still have profiles.

I’ll contemplate resubscribing to Seeking as the pandemic situation improves and more girls are willing to meet. The recent Valentines Day discounts for subbing didn’t tempt me.

Offline Splicer69

Hi Sparta, I saw the Iraqi med student your refer to ..when I dabbled on SA. She was gorgeous and faf! I saw a couple of other SAs from Leics Uni, cheap as chips overnighters but marvellous experiences... Vanilla but very horny times indeed 😎

[wquote author=Sparta Prada link=topic=298928.msg3127618#msg3127618 date=1614641856]
When I first joined Seeking/SA in 2016, the main areas I wanted to find girls was in Leicester and Nottingham as I tended to stay overnight in hotels frequently in those cities. One of my first SA meets was with a rather nice Iraqi medical student in Leicester, who turned out had shagged most of the UKP guys in the closed thread  :sarcastic: But it gave me an insight into how much better meets with a girl on Seeking could be when compared to a girl on AW.

I didn’t have much luck in Nottingham. Ended up having to block a couple of girls on my phone as they became rather nasty after I turned them down.

The last Seeking membership I had in 2019 didn’t come up with anyone in Leicester which really surprised me. I did have a couple of good meets with a Nottingham milf and a tall stunner from Loughborough but I found someone else who I really clicked with in another part of England (pre-Covid my job took me to different parts of England regularly) so I stopped seeing both of them.

To summarise, Seeking is a great options for guys who are willing to spend more for quality longer meets. Bear in mind it’s not just the girl’s allowance you are paying for but also drinks, food, and hotel rooms if you are unable to accommodate.
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Offline Rockhead

The Nottingham milf was blonde but said she was based in West Bridgford? Around 5’ 6”, went to the gym so she was toned, great long legs, long blonde hair, facially a bit average. Decent in bed and had a nice time but we didn’t quite click.

 I was about to weigh in and say that I think I too enjoyed times with this Nottingham milf - but then I saw the blonde thing. The one I saw matches in every respect but she was dark-haired. Enthusiastic in the bedroom and very loud when excited as I recall. Almost certainly a different woman though - but good to know there is / was a few good 'uns around.

Offline Rockhead

The loughborough girl could certainly be the same one. How old do you think she was? The one I'm thinking of was probably mid to late 30s.

Pretty sure I've had this one too (from south Notts so near enough Loughborough). At around 6ft tall (my own height) she's by far the tallest woman I've done bedroom battle with, and was a memorable shag - enough for me to come back a second time. Would have been 2018-ish and I'd put her at early 30s, but I'm notoriously bad at guessing women's ages. I'm certain I have a couple of pics of her somewhere.

Offline Twisted_Punter

Hi all

Steer clear of mysticmeg23. Claims she’s in Peterborough. She scammed me out of the cost of a hotel room and money for a taxi. She sent a photo of her drivers licence so it was either someone else’s or she lost her nerve and backed out. Either way not recommended. 

Not sure if this is the right place to post this or whether I’m allowed to post a screen shot of her profile?
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Offline Baller

Met only 1 since moving up this way. She was hot but ultimately boring to talk to. She pestered me for a repeat (I was tempted due to her body) and I delayed her and then she showed herself up and got a bit abusive so sacked her off. No loss

I need to stick to girls 25+. These young lasses around the 20-22 mark look great but tend to be shit in bed...

Lots of profiles around from students but not much meeting, hopefully things pick up as restrictions ease over the next months

Offline Haydenn

Good to see this thread here, as I tried seeking recently and couldn’t find much advice for any ladies on here. Had a nice time with a girl based near Long Eaton, early 30,s blonde milf who was buxom and from abroad originally but a great accent, she was really quite sexy and I think with time would have been really good over long term. Though at £300ppm for only a 3-4 hour slot it felt a little steep, and I swerved before it cost me an arm and a leg.

Have since met a younger, curvy girl who is happy just for nights away and dinner paid for

Offline Lastfour1479

How does that site work then,?
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Offline wantkinkyfun

I'm on Secret Benefits and inundated with girls messaging me but after the first few I decided to wait for after restrictions are eased because so many of them just want to be online friends and not meet.

Offline badsin

I first used SA around 2016, and had some magnificent arrangements and ppm's. I still see a couple of girls from a few years ago, the last time being autumn 2020, with a fitty 22 years my junior. Christ she's good.
I did sign into my account around February time and had a look around.
It seems that with the Covid, the site owners are OK with girls openly touting online arrangements or picture selling only. Too me that's just scamming, and goes against the original ethos of the site..... We can all find pictures of naked ladies on line surely, without paying SA subscription, and whatever fee some bird may charge. I'd advise anyone considering joining to wait until restrictions are eased further, hopefully those online sellers will decrease and we can get back to shagging fitties  :hi:

Offline Rockhead

I first used SA around 2016, and had some magnificent arrangements and ppm's. I still see a couple of girls from a few years ago, the last time being autumn 2020, with a fitty 22 years my junior. Christ she's good.
I did sign into my account around February time and had a look around.
It seems that with the Covid, the site owners are OK with girls openly touting online arrangements or picture selling only. Too me that's just scamming, and goes against the original ethos of the site..... We can all find pictures of naked ladies on line surely, without paying SA subscription, and whatever fee some bird may charge. I'd advise anyone considering joining to wait until restrictions are eased further, hopefully those online sellers will decrease and we can get back to shagging fitties  :hi:

Totally agree, and this is very sound advice indeed.

The temptation to sign up again has been almost overwhelming, but I think I will dip my toe (and hopefully other body parts) in again quite soon, as we move towards mid-May when things are technically supposed to be opening up again, comparatively speaking.

It'd be nice to see the site return to its 'glory days' when there was something for everyone. To the chap a few posts up who was wondering what it was all about - it's a weird but addictive combination of dating and paid-for 'arrangements' between supposedly well-off guys and less well-off, nearly always younger women. As UKP is a punting site, it's obvious that the emphasis among posters here is on the sex side. This is clearly a very major part of it, but an 'arrangement' can be whatever you want it to be - just the paid-for companionship of a young fittie for example, someone to dine out with, take on weekend breaks or whatever. There's an awful lot of time-wasting involved, but as a singleton I've found it be a lot of fun.

Offline steve7458

Totally agree, and this is very sound advice indeed.

The temptation to sign up again has been almost overwhelming, but I think I will dip my toe (and hopefully other body parts) in again quite soon, as we move towards mid-May when things are technically supposed to be opening up again, comparatively speaking.

It'd be nice to see the site return to its 'glory days' when there was something for everyone. To the chap a few posts up who was wondering what it was all about - it's a weird but addictive combination of dating and paid-for 'arrangements' between supposedly well-off guys and less well-off, nearly always younger women. As UKP is a punting site, it's obvious that the emphasis among posters here is on the sex side. This is clearly a very major part of it, but an 'arrangement' can be whatever you want it to be - just the paid-for companionship of a young fittie for example, someone to dine out with, take on weekend breaks or whatever. There's an awful lot of time-wasting involved, but as a singleton I've found it be a lot of fun.

Totally agree. As a married guy ive had 4 long term arrangements off the site.  I'm picky so have said no to a lot more, but have met a few in Nottingham for drinks and spoken to a fair few on whatsapp.  Looking forward to restrictions easing and hoping that the site picks up again.  I still get left the odd message and actually met a girl last week for a chat and a walk but decided against it.

Offline Rockhead

Just found out via a contact here on UKP that this SA girl is an escort.

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Not necessarily a calamity, but definitely worth knowing.


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Just found out via a contact here on UKP that this SA girl is an escort.

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Not necessarily a calamity, but definitely worth knowing.

And another one:

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Have you made contact with either of them on SA?

Offline Rockhead

Have you made contact with either of them on SA?

I’ve messaged both, though only one of the two has replied.

Offline bobbygee

After reading so many posts about SA, I'm now thinking of joining and wondered if there are are some do's and don'ts? Such as:

1. do you post your photo or not or use an alias or leave it blank or is there another way to remain anonymous?
2. are there any discounts available to join as a new member?
3. What package is the best value for money?
4. Any other hints, tips and pitfalls to look out for?
Any advice and help appreciated and welcome before I join
Thanks in advance

Offline badsin

A few threads on this already. Use the search facility top right of the screen  :hi:


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I have merged this thread with the on-going SA thread for the East Mids.

Offline billybobsmith

Anyone had any experience of this one, "midnightlove" in the Nottinghamshire area.

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Offline Profgent81

1. I have hidden photos that I typically share with an opening message.
2. They often have 25% offers on, but doesn’t seem to be any consistency of when
3. A month should give you enough time to get through a certain area
4. Don’t send money upfront, use a burner phone/sim, don’t discuss sex on the site

Just be yourself, be clear on what you want and are offering. Girls on there want the sugar baby dream, but many are happy just for ppm in a hotel. All depends what you want out of it really.



After reading so many posts about SA, I'm now thinking of joining and wondered if there are are some do's and don'ts? Such as:

1. do you post your photo or not or use an alias or leave it blank or is there another way to remain anonymous?
2. are there any discounts available to join as a new member?
3. What package is the best value for money?
4. Any other hints, tips and pitfalls to look out for?
Any advice and help appreciated and welcome before I join
Thanks in advance

Offline Profgent81

Admits to having a boyfriend, which was an immediate no from me


Anyone had any experience of this one, "midnightlove" in the Nottinghamshire area.

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Offline Profgent81

Have just finished a month sub and certainly found it successful.

My typical search is Leics/Notts/Lincs and have found plenty of girls willing to meet up and not one mention of COVID or lockdown restrictions.

3 different meets and enough numbers on WA to keep me going until a sub later in the year.

I have a lot of free time so have found I have got through pretty much everyone of interest, it’s definitely an investment and not just £££.

Had no horror stories (yet), but I am quite clear upfront on what I’m looking for

Offline samsmith_1231

Any reliable ones from Leicester?
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Offline samsmith_1231

Hi Sparta, I saw the Iraqi med student your refer to ..when I dabbled on SA. She was gorgeous and faf! I saw a couple of other SAs from Leics Uni, cheap as chips overnighters but marvellous experiences... Vanilla but very horny times indeed 😎

[wquote author=Sparta Prada link=topic=298928.msg3127618#msg3127618 date=1614641856]
When I first joined Seeking/SA in 2016, the main areas I wanted to find girls was in Leicester and Nottingham as I tended to stay overnight in hotels frequently in those cities. One of my first SA meets was with a rather nice Iraqi medical student in Leicester, who turned out had shagged most of the UKP guys in the closed thread  :sarcastic: But it gave me an insight into how much better meets with a girl on Seeking could be when compared to a girl on AW.

I didn’t have much luck in Nottingham. Ended up having to block a couple of girls on my phone as they became rather nasty after I turned them down.

The last Seeking membership I had in 2019 didn’t come up with anyone in Leicester which really surprised me. I did have a couple of good meets with a Nottingham milf and a tall stunner from Loughborough but I found someone else who I really clicked with in another part of England (pre-Covid my job took me to different parts of England regularly) so I stopped seeing both of them.

To summarise, Seeking is a great options for guys who are willing to spend more for quality longer meets. Bear in mind it’s not just the girl’s allowance you are paying for but also drinks, food, and hotel rooms if you are unable to accommodate.

Are some of the girls from leicester uni still around?
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Offline cooltomtom

just a heads up, this WG is now on SA, Northampton
Was Victoria4Rose and some other variations for ages on AW, now changed to Vickyyo
Please see previous posts her about her AW profile...you have been warned!

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Offline Smartstav

Is this iraqi medical student still knocking about. Always wanted to fuck an Arab chick

Offline samsmith_1231

Is this iraqi medical student still knocking about. Always wanted to fuck an Arab chick

Same. Keen to meet her
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Offline badsin

I'm assuming you've joined SA, paid your membership and have started communicating with SB's on SA?

Offline Sparta Prada

Is this iraqi medical student still knocking about. Always wanted to fuck an Arab chick

I imagine she’s off the site now. My encounter with her was in 2016. She was the only girl I communicated via Kik who turned out to be genuine! For those that don’t know, if a SB only offers to communicate via the Kik app, there’s a high chance they will either be not genuine or a scammer.

Offline Cunning Punt

Suspected fake profile:

AnnaBelle, 24, Northamptonshire

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Didn't seem serious and texts written like a bloke and then surprise, surprise, s/he failed to respond the evening when we were due to have a video call, then was evasive then said we should go our separate ways. Sent a message calling them out and then blocked them.

Just seemed very fishy. If it really is a girl then she's very money orientated - asking straightway about payments - and thinks she knows it all, and ultimately is a timewaster anyway.

« Last Edit: November 12, 2021, 11:06:24 pm by Cunning Punt »

Offline cooltomtom

hiya, anyone with any knowledge, good or bad, on this lady? feel free to pm me
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Offline cooltomtom

anyone any info on this lady? Bit older than I usually go for, but has a cracking body.... doesn't seem to work, so wonder if she's a pro, or worse a bit of a known druggie, but comes across very relaxed and is willing to accommodate for a cheap price...
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anyone any knowledge or feedback? Feel free to PM me.
btw, the one I asked about above, profile now gone for SA, was a waste of time!

Offline HoldMichaels

anyone any info on this lady? Bit older than I usually go for, but has a cracking body.... doesn't seem to work, so wonder if she's a pro, or worse a bit of a known druggie, but comes across very relaxed and is willing to accommodate for a cheap price...
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btw, the one I asked about above, profile now gone for SA, was a waste of time!

Spoke to her quite early on in the year - I think she was one of the first people I spoke to on SA - and even though I was new and naive I got definite pro vibes from her. I think she offered a ppm of like 120 and was keen to meet really quickly... I did wonder about the druggie thing myself (maybe unfairly!), so I stopped chatting and eventually she left me alone.

Just as an aside, as mentioned in other Seeking threads, if you - the general you, not necessarily you you - could put the Name and Location along with the link that'd be great, as she'll now seen I've viewed her again and may try to get in contact again.  :scare:

Offline Baller

Spoke to her a while back. I think she is unemployed and desperate for money. I just didn't get great vibes from her when she told me come over as she'd just got a box of wine in  :D

Offline cooltomtom

just as an aside, as mentioned in other Seeking threads, if you - the general you, not necessarily you you - could put the Name and Location along with the link that'd be great, as she'll now seen I've viewed her again and may try to get in contact again.  :scare:
Apols, will do so in future, this lass is called Sare, West bridgeford, Nottingham.
So...I decided to take the plunge. She gave me her address, but in rather WG fashion only gave me the road name not the number...
But she wasn't there when I arrivedn after an hours drive, and her phone was switched off. Hung around for an hour, ever hopeful, but eventually headed home. I saw my whatsapp messages got though and read a few hours later, but no response, no apologies, not even a pathetic excuse, just radio silence....
I dunno, had a few good successes on SA, but goodness its hard work to find the genuine ladies from those who get a kick standing you up or just want money upfront but only tell you at the last second.... :unknown:

Offline Baller

first interaction of 2022 with Demdom123 in Nottm:

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doesn't meet for anything less than 400 ppm. 

See ya!
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