Is anybody else just not feeling it since lockdown?

[watsey]

Is anybody else just not feeling it since lockdown?

I was a good boy through lockdown and had no punts between 1st November until 12th April.
Since then I feel as though I'm going because I always used to and not because I need that itch scratching.

I used to have a great feeling of anticipation as I started out on my way to a punt but no more.
At a recent FBSM my dick was still uninterested on turnover, despite some sensual moves and touching.
I'm just wondering whether the long lay off has left me feeling that actually, I can live without it.

Am I alone or is anybody else experiencing this?

[The Owl]

I haven't punted for nearly 15 months now. My last paid shag was in February 2020. I've had the urge after the 1st lock down ended but never managed to do much more than window shop on AW. I recently messaged my last punt to see if she was up for a paid fuck, she had advertised bookings in October 2020, but she wasn't up for sex just yet. I'll probably wait until she starts offering bookings again because the sex is that good for me, but other than that my desire for paid bookings is pretty low. I've been looking at the cost to pleasure ratio and always prefer to just have the money instead of a punt. I'm pretty low risk when it comes to punting but now I need a guaranteed damned good fuck or I'm just not going to spend the money.

[anonymouse72]

You're definitely not alone. I just can't be arsed recently. Lockdown and being fortunate enough to have remained in full time employment has meant I'm credit card free and have saved a decent sum. All this means I should have a punting pot to enable me to go to war and enjoy an absolute fuck fest. Reality is that I just can't be bothered. When the opportunity to travel around the country comes back I will get back in the game but at the moment I'm happy to sit back and keep an eye on the scene from a distance.

[sparkus]

Can't put my finger on it but barely done any punting since.

Last year as soon as it was OK to I was nailing them left, right and centre.

[webpunter]

Thankfully not afflicted.  Phew

OP, not feeling aroused in the prescence of a burd might indicate that you are leaning towards battting for the other side     

Edit:
You could perhaps speak with your doctor about your issues
The virus causes so many unseen problems
And the NHS are there to help:  long covid & add to this punting blues
Me thinks the doc might prescribe a bluey !

[webpunter]

There-in lies [one of the] problems !

Can't put my finger on it

[sparkus]

There-in lies [one of the] problems !

I've punted three times in the past two weeks and I consider this abnormally low

[webpunter]

I was but jestin
Judging by your review count 2020 indeed low

#metoo last 2 weeks

Maybe you are suffering from writers cramp
Unlike others on here suffering from knob cr....

I've punted three times in the past two weeks and I consider this abnormally low

[mr.bluesky]

Can't put my finger on it but barely done any punting since.

Last year as soon as it was OK to I was nailing them left, right and centre.

There's something wrong with your technique sparkus if your nailing them left and right. I only nail them centre 

[lamboman]

I feel exactly the same not punted for months and feel I might never again. Perhaps feel differently when everything opens up.
I would say it might be down to the dearth of girls around here as there's hardly anyone I'd want to meet.

[Rentahero3000]

Not started up getting massages just yet myself. However getting increasingly tempted then I assume the urges may takeover again

[alabama1]

Used to punt once a week. Punted only three times this year, and didn't get the pre punt buzz that i used to get. Something is definitely different. Maybe i am getting old, or just immune to the excitement.

[Stevelondon]

Used to punt once a week. Punted only three times this year, and didn't get the pre punt buzz that i used to get. Something is definitely different. Maybe i am getting old, or just immune to the excitement.

I do think age might play a part.
I’ve had a couple of punts this year which looking back is way way down on my average.
But I just don’t feel it, so to speak.

Then again, one of the SP’s I would usually be seeing at least once a month has disappeared because of Covid. Plus another place I frequented has closed down (same reasons)

This getting old lark ain’t what it’s cut out to be. Where’s me slippers 

[alabama1]

I do think age might play a part.
I’ve had a couple of punts this year which looking back is way way down on my average.
But I just don’t feel it, so to speak.

Then again, one of the SP’s I would usually be seeing at least once a month has disappeared because of Covid. Plus another place I frequented has closed down (same reasons)

This getting old lark ain’t what it’s cut out to be. Where’s me slippers 

That may account for my lack of punts too, although she has not disappeared, just moved further away. Seen he once this year as opposed to once a week. Can't even spend money saved on a holiday 

[Billy no mates]

I’ve had a couple of punts, and enjoyed them, however just seem disinterested now, and like someone else said, I do window shopping on AW, I have the cash, but just can’t be arsed.

Maybe it’s an age thing rather than a lockdown thing, as I also can’t be arsed to try booking a holiday this year or even just go to the pub.

[Bertiebeenthere]

You're definitely not alone. I just can't be arsed recently. Lockdown and being fortunate enough to have remained in full time employment has meant I'm credit card free and have saved a decent sum. All this means I should have a punting pot to enable me to go to war and enjoy an absolute fuck fest. Reality is that I just can't be bothered. When the opportunity to travel around the country comes back I will get back in the game but at the moment I'm happy to sit back and keep an eye on the scene from a distance.

+ 1

[Bertiebeenthere]

[quote author=Billy no mates link=topic=306670.msg3210542#msg3210542 date=162037247
I do window shopping on AW, I have the cash, but just can’t be arsed.

Maybe it’s an age thing rather than a lockdown thing, as I also can’t be arsed to try booking a holiday this year or even just go to the pub.
[/quote]

+ 1

[Band1t]

I think there’s a number of reasons. Age definitely plays a part along with covid, lockdowns and price increases. Also seems like more of a lucky dip as limited feedback to go on. Cam probably has gone well but I’ve never tried it.

[AgedCases]

My last punt was in April 2019 and deeply regret seeing more that year but none of us could have predicted the pandemic. Being vulnerable, I've remained indoors for the past year and have lost the urge to punt (though not the urge to wank myself to death over porn!). The biggest factor for me, apart from the pandemic, is the fact I live in a punting desert and face long bus journeys.

[threechilliman]

I’ve had a couple of punts, and enjoyed them, however just seem disinterested now, and like someone else said, I do window shopping on AW, I have the cash, but just can’t be arsed.

Maybe it’s an age thing rather than a lockdown thing, as I also can’t be arsed to try booking a holiday this year or even just go to the pub.

This post reflects my own position be it punting, holidays or the pub. It's almost as though being made to do fuck all for a year has made anything that requires a bit of effort look too much like hard work.

[southcoastpunter]

Guys, this is not a good place to be in - can't be bothered! Perhaps not so bad if you have got/kept other interests going but seriously? you have fucked all the women that you want to? I hope I never get to that stage. Yes i know the lack of quality supply is a contributory factor - lets hope that changes.

Having said that, I have not had a "punt" as such for well over a year, maybe now nearly 2 years. I have been for a few massages and extra's - but i have been at it like a rabbit on SA. (I am lucky in that i am single, can accomodate and have a reasonable budget).

I hope i never loose the urge to spend quality time with and fuck lovely ladies!

[belamy85]

I want to thank the OP for raising this issue as I've been feeling the same and wondered if it was just me. Bcs of my own circumstances I haven't really been out since lockdown which means not a single punt since Feb 2020. This is the longest I've gone without a punt in over 25 years. During the first lockdown I was keen to get back out there... But as the months have gone by I've found my enthusiasm waning. There are still days when I wake up with the raving horn or I'll read a review on here and think, yes, I must see her... But I do feel a certain apathy taking hold.

Perhaps once things are back to normal I'll feel differently, and once restrictions have lifted fully I definitely want to have a few punts to see some regulars and sample sample some new girls. But the way I feel about punting seems to be different to this time two years ago. Maybe I just need to get back out there asap...

[belamy85]

A lot of previous posts refer to getting to a certain age... Without being specific about what that age is. Any clues as to when that might be...

[jonnw16]

A lot of previous posts refer to getting to a certain age... Without being specific about what that age is. Any clues as to when that might be...

It's when the urge leaves you. (Or in other words since the [sarcasm] tags are missing, it's going to be different ages for different people.)

[GeorgeStevens]

I think a good number of my punts pre lockdown were an alternative to a wank as opposed to really wanting to fuck a woman; there is in my mind at least a difference. Rather than fire up Porn Hub i paid a more or less attractive woman to give me relief. Over the last 15 months I have either had no choice but to have a wank or the risk of a punt has been too high for what i need which is just the release. As the risk has lowered i am looking again at punting but am more conscious of how much I have saved by replacing a punt with a wank. It probably needs that really compelling SP to get me out there again and not many of them around!

[victor989]

During lockdown I didn't punt but instead spent nights in with pornhub.

I promised myself that I would resume punting when it was over. Instead I find I can't
be bothered and have to push myself to get motivated - almost like doing house chores.

I'm also an older guy, so maybe this plays a part.

[jayjay28]

I also feel like there aren't as many quality SPs out there as there used to be compared to a couple years ago and prices are higher. Just scrolling through my hot list for potential punts there are none that get me that excited. 

[KentAde]

I feel the same as a number of fellow punters on here......having been locked away at home (working) since March 2020, and not even thinking about returning to the City of London until July, there is a sense of 'cant be bothered' like others have mentioned - had too much fun wanking over Chaterbate cams (yes not the same, but keeps me busy). Think I will return in July but go for the massage route for the first few months until RB's get put back on AW maybe, and then no doubt will get back into the rhythm.

Major thing for me was COVID hit my paid-for fuck-buddy big time (had seen her every couple of weeks since early 2019) - naturally she wasn't going to wait for me to return to work 

[Bogof60]

Nope

Maybe its because I worked normally all the way through the pandemic/lockdowns.
Even fitted in a punt or two.
Now as restrictions are being lifted I am fully back in the saddle.
Cant wait to get back inside a Pub though. Its a pain drinking beer in the freezing cold.
Late 50's for age reference

[Grumpy Pumpy]

Have had two recent punts. Both of them very good. And am absolutely delighted to be back punting 

[redfox_uk]

Last punt was March 2020. I wondered back then whether my weekly punting was more habit than desire - I was getting jaded. I've got into a new routine with no punting - I even got messaged by 2 regulars asking if I'm OK as they expected me to return when the restrictions eased. I'm 56 so maybe I'm getting too old ... I'm still enjoying porn though.

[george r]

still waiting for my second covid jab, should be in a few weeks time. give it 3 weeks to work and then hopefully try a punt.

[mradventures]

the demotivation and apathy are from the lockdown and general edgyness of the last however long - for most people.

the bar has also been raised on risk, also, as any social interaction or leaving your safe space, puts you at risk. over extended periods that stress does effect you.

[sparkus]

I was but jestin
Judging by your review count 2020 indeed low

#metoo last 2 weeks

Maybe you are suffering from writers cramp
Unlike others on here suffering from knob cr....

I was but jestin
Judging by your review count 2020 indeed low

#metoo last 2 weeks

Maybe you are suffering from writers cramp
Unlike others on here suffering from knob cr....

Just remembered that last summer we basically had two properties (mine and OH's) but we've consolidated into one, back then I had a lot more freedom without her constant gaze and also when I drove between the two.  My job has changed too and in the past six weeks I've only been into the office once to hand in paperwork, though I suppose I could invent some reasons to if I really wanted to.

I've a decent sized HL and provided they don't go anywhere don't mind working through it slowly.

[Stevelondon]

I think I might just add.
A few years ago when I punted very regularly. For me that would be three times a month at least..... occasionally more.
I could punt an unknown. If it worked out ok then fine. If not I never worried about it as plenty more fish etc etc.

But right now I seem to be totally for getting it 100% or I’m not seeing them.

So that’s definitely another reason I’m not spending any money right now.

[watsey]

Thankfully not afflicted.  Phew

OP, not feeling aroused in the prescence of a burd might indicate that you are leaning towards battting for the other side     

Edit:
You could perhaps speak with your doctor about your issues
The virus causes so many unseen problems
And the NHS are there to help:  long covid & add to this punting blues
Me thinks the doc might prescribe a bluey !

Ha ha
Def not batting for the other side and unfortunately taking a bluey would be risky for me because of other medication.

[belamy85]

the demotivation and apathy are from the lockdown and general edgyness of the last however long - for most people.

the bar has also been raised on risk, also, as any social interaction or leaving your safe space, puts you at risk. over extended periods that stress does effect you.

I think there's a lot to this. It certainly encapsulates what I'm feeling...

[ManinBeds]

I haven't punted for a while now and in recent years have really slowed down, not for any other reason than I can take it or leave it now. If it wasn't for lock down I would have punted perhaps 5-6 times in the last year. I put that down to getting a bit older and although my drive is still there its just not anywhere as near as much as than perhaps 10 years ago. Getting my 2nd jab soon and am really looking forward to a punt in the near future with my eyes on 2 or 3 girls I like the look of. Maybe have a second punt soon after the first one but will probably settle down to 1 every 2 to 3 months.

[Podger]

To be honest, even though I’m a relative newbie to
Punting. Theres nobody in my area that even peaks my interest and i wonder if its even worth taking one for the team considering my precious experiences/reviews of tofft

[chadpitt]

Punting now has become almost too much effort nowadays.

You have to deal with:

• Finding a girl amongst all the trash
• Vetting them here or cross searching
• Trying to contact them and waiting ages on the phone or no reply
• Speaking with a-hole agents or incomprehensible WGs
• Finding out they're too busy or not available and then trying again later
• Booking them on their schedule rather than your convenience
• Long and inconvenient journeys
• Getting messed around with addresses and having to wait
• Opening the door and it's a bait and switch
• Cycling through plans B, C, D, E etc
• The punt is rushed
• Or services are limited
• Or the WG is terrible

So honestly you can't blame punters for losing the urge when the time, effort and money involved isn't worth the payoff.

[Podger]

Punting now has become almost too much effort nowadays.

You have to deal with:

• Finding a girl amongst all the trash
• Vetting them here or cross searching
• Trying to contact them and waiting ages on the phone or no reply
• Speaking with a-hole agents or incomprehensible WGs
• Finding out they're too busy or not available and then trying again later
• Booking them on their schedule rather than your convenience
• Long and inconvenient journeys
• Getting messed around with addresses and having to wait
• Opening the door and it's a bait and switch
• Cycling through plans B, C, D, E etc
• The punt is rushed
• Or services are limited
• Or the WG is terrible

So honestly you can't blame punters for losing the urge when the time, effort and money involved isn't worth the payoff.

Just about sums it up.

[lovemachine]

Just about sums it up.

I agree with the above, but the difference for me is that pre covid you could go on aw and expect to see new talent come on daily, and at better prices, that  would mean that I would have these potential meets on my my mind more which would kick start the urge.

[Moby Dick]

Yes
Not sure if it’s covid or age related.
Before Covid, and for many years my punting urge was for group fun. Covid clearly stopped that, and being sensible in lockdown has dampened my urge.

But also CBA generally in much these days.

As you get older you tend to stick with what you know; easy to arrange, can’t be arsed with the chase (jumping through hoops, being messed about, risk of disappointment).
But this gets a bit boring, may as well just fuck the GF, and save some money.

Think I might try sometime different - either a massage with edging and explosive HE or TS+WG 3sum.
Maybe both if I can be arsed.

[Redpunter]

Late 60s for age reference, didn't bother from Christmas and in the last two weeks have ventured out for Thai/Asian massage with HE twice.
This must have aroused the hormones a bit because Im def in need of a proper shag now and am in the process of booking to get this itch scratched.
During the lockdown I was surprised how I handled the lack of sexual satisfaction so looking forward to releasing the frustrations into a suitably willing recipient again probably a nice tight young Asian/Thai/Chinese as I seem to have acquired a liking to their abilities in bed since being in lockdown.
Probably it fits in with their ability to accommodate the older man without the western view towards age.

[lamboman]

Punting now has become almost too much effort nowadays.

You have to deal with:

• Finding a girl amongst all the trash
• Vetting them here or cross searching
• Trying to contact them and waiting ages on the phone or no reply
• Speaking with a-hole agents or incomprehensible WGs
• Finding out they're too busy or not available and then trying again later
• Booking them on their schedule rather than your convenience
• Long and inconvenient journeys
• Getting messed around with addresses and having to wait
• Opening the door and it's a bait and switch
• Cycling through plans B, C, D, E etc
• The punt is rushed
• Or services are limited
• Or the WG is terrible

So honestly you can't blame punters for losing the urge when the time, effort and money involved isn't worth the payoff.

+1

[pa5151]

Can barely be arsed to leave the house anymore as it is.

Weather still not great, prices up, many less girls available, many of them are not even responding by text, they are also flaky as fuck. There might be a couple of better months in summer but this year is going to be a complete write off, until travel and restrictions etc are out from the following spring.

You would have thought that having more time at home etc would give you more time to go outward etc but most girls still seem to be stuck in comfort zone watching nextflix crap all day and others have left the country. The sugar daddy sites have been much worse this year too, huge move into online whores.

[Band1t]

Just about sums it up.

You should have tried it before mobile phones and google maps.

[Skeleton]

For me, having had so many things taken out of reach for the past year, punting has simply dropped down the list of things I want to do. Nice meal out, go to the pub, see friends, play golf, go to gigs, have a holiday or weekend away, travel with work, all sorts of things that I’m more interested in getting back to than punting at the moment.

[Longshot]

Yep, lost my buzz for it.  Only 1 punt this year + a hook up with a tv off FAB.

Ive had this week off work and had all manner of perverted shenannigans in mind.  In the end ive not even fired off an enquiry let alone make a booking. 

Ive also just spunked near enough my entire yearly punting "budget" on my civvie hobbie.  Im sure some lucky whore will receive the contents of my balls soon enough but im in no rush.

[oap69]

Haven't punted for seven months now and started to lose interest and confidence with the health risk being higher and WG's moving around the country offering services in different towns.
There seems to be more profiles starting "new girl in town" and fake profiles.  It also might be an age thing wanting to feel safe in a punt.