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Offline Sinz

One of the main reasons I indulge in punting is because my partner does not like to do CIM or for the matter of fact me going down on her for RO. 

I was wondering if there are other punters out there, who resorts to punting because their partners deny certain sex acts.

Offline SirCharles

Actually it is the other way round for me: everything (and unprotected) last we with my former (and stunning) GF...and a average punt with Serena at HoD on Friday...WtF!
I will post review of Serena soon, but anticipate she is a Neutral: she is my type but not excited anymore by mechanical...

raylondoner

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My ex was rather vanilla, she even objected to being tied up, gagged, whipped then  buried in the garden for a few hours ffs!  :thumbsdown:
« Last Edit: August 29, 2017, 09:19:48 am by raylondoner »

mark punter

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In respect of sex, women are too fucking up themselves these days.  Even prostitutes set demands for their own satisfaction rather than their focus being the customer.  We men have no fucking hope when it comes to wanting good ongoing sex, be it with partners or prostitutes.  Keep trying though, just remember that prossies may be cheaper than girlfriends in the long run. 

Offline JamesKW

Actually it is the other way round for me: everything (and unprotected) last we with my former (and stunning) GF...and a average punt with Serena at HoD on Friday...WtF!
I will post review of Serena soon, but anticipate she is a Neutral: she is my type but not excited anymore by mechanical...

Unprotected with the O/H is the problem (and she would be suspicious if I started wanting covered now),nothing can be spontaneous I have to go two weeks without,get a test at GUM and then wait another week and a half for the results.It would be dire straits if the O/H was to catch anything.

mrpeterman

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Anal and  facials...we're not on offer

Come to think of it nor was facesitting or prostate massage...

Hold on nor was tit wanking or hand jobs. ..

And never kissing either me or my balls

Getting an idea why I punted when with her

Offline Bigus Dickus

My ex was rather vanilla, she even objected to being tied up, gagged, whipped then  buried in the garden for a few hours ffs!  :thumbsdown:

FFS! Its take, take, take with them!  :sarcastic:

steviex00

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Sex with the OH? My memory isn't that good...

Offline unclepokey

Nor is my memory that good and with her IBS it's rather a relief not to be exploring those portals these days.
Uncle Pokey

Offline cash2spare

Depends on the gf at the time I guess. Some like sex more than others. Some do cim and anal, some don't.
I like shoving it up the wrong un to be honest so that's one reason why I visit working girls as well as deep throat and cim.
If only my gf did it all I'd be well satisfied and richer  ;)

Offline HarryZZ

Nothing to be honest, except anal but I'm not a massive fan of it, I keep trying it to see if it's any better but either hole is a goal, so it's not something I miss. It's just the variety for me, big girls, younger or older girls, slim, big tits, not something I'm denied it's just what she doesn't have.

I still have a few things on my bucket list, pregnant for one, it's a bit weird I know although I was denied during the OH's pregnancies on medical advice after she had some problems, maybe that's why.

Offline Thecunninglinguist

Nor is my memory that good and with her IBS it's rather a relief not to be exploring those portals these days.
Uncle Pokey
Tooooooo much information  :lol:

Offline hullad

I have had sexy with my wife once this century and very times since the birth of our youngest son 28 years ago. I suddenly decided three years ago as yesterday, August bank Holiday Monday to find an escort to tick a few boxes.

I have as well lol

Her in doors as always been sexually withdrawn never had oral either way with her, sexy was one position and in the dark. Any suggestions by me where treated like I had stepped in dog shit an tracked round the room. I had taken to a woman at work and that was good for years all on the quiet by both of us. I left work and we both went our separate ways, we met again and I am seeing the old girlfriend again and we are back in the groove so my punting is going to be scarce to none now.
« Last Edit: August 29, 2017, 08:26:19 pm by hullad »

Offline brownman

Seems like after a certain amount of time together, the woman decides to stop the sex, or make it very limited.
They know once they get the ring on, they have the upper hand in the relationship so can dictate the terms.

Offline Sinz

My ex was rather vanilla, she even objected to being tied up, gagged, whipped then  buried in the garden for a few hours ffs!  :thumbsdown:

Can kinda relate with you on that one.

My ex liked her tits and arse being slapped reallly hard, in fact would beg to have her tits squeezed and slapped really hard, to the point it went blue the next day. I felt like I was hurting her, but that was the only way she could make herself come.

The best bit is she loved to get on her knees and take a grand facial and would continue to suck me off and drain me out and swallow trhe remaining.

From that to a vanilla sex life is almost like abstaining from sex all together.

raylondoner

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May I remind all of the question "how do you stop a women giving you a blow job"?

The answer (all together now) is to marry her!   :dancegirl:

Offline thor555

At the moment all acts are off the table... bed... car... stairs ... on the train. I would be happy if it was just bed in the dark! doesnt take much to please me!

Yup been a long time with the OH, sex was a weapon, she must think why isn't this guy bothering me like he used too..

like some of you guys on her stuck in a marriage with kids and divorce would kill me in more ways than one..

Love the experimenting hadnt done doggy before my new hobbies. CIM after 10 years was awesome! Still need to try me some anal.

So now i have my side act  :dance: :cool:




mrpeterman

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So much resonates with me on here. Perhaps I am naive or simply don't want to believe women can be so hard regarding withholding sex..is it biology?  Have kids sexually desires decline or cease.

But it's a common and reoccuring theme..I never would have dated a frigid sex hating person. So why do they change post marriage or kids?

My partner was contrlling regarding decision making finances etc and that spilled to bedroom..musthe things don't bother me but no sex did..

Fucked if would go without so punted don't regret it 4 one minute

Offline puntingpumping1920

So much resonates with me on here. Perhaps I am naive or simply don't want to believe women can be so hard regarding withholding sex..is it biology?  Have kids sexually desires decline or cease.

But it's a common and reoccuring theme..I never would have dated a frigid sex hating person. So why do they change post marriage or kids?

My partner was contrlling regarding decision making finances etc and that spilled to bedroom..musthe things don't bother me but no sex did..

Fucked if would go without so punted don't regret it 4 one minute

 
It happens on both sides, men also withhold sex from their wives due to their low libido or other hormonal issues.
 
People change and that includes their attitudes towards sex. 
 
Just because you met your wife/ gf today and she had high sex drive, will not mean she will continue having a high sex drive in duration of your relationship.
 
That's where love comes into it. To love you have to be patient, not self seeking and keep no record wrongs in your relationship.
« Last Edit: August 29, 2017, 10:09:36 pm by puntingpumping1920 »
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Offline Jamboney

Sex with my ex was restricted to a couple of variations of mish and once in a blue moon she'd go on top. I'm fairly vanilla myself but she was on a different level.

Offline antmasterant

I do have fairly regular sex with my wife but she's fairly selfish in terms of expecting me to do all the work every time. I certainly don't mind pleasing her but it's nice to have things reciprocated occasionally. I'm a massive fan of teasing handjobs which she doesn't do so my punting is restricted to massage with HE. I'm tempted to pay for full covered sex or even OWO but just don't want to take the risk of catching something however minimal the risk is.

Let's face it though, the chances of finding a partner who is a dirty WG ho all of the time has similar odds to winning the lotto  :lol:

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

I've got a theory that women as they age their sex drive turns off. Not for all of them but most of them. They it seems just loose interest of if they do it its under duress or to do their wifely "duty" or some such bollocks. I'm divorced now the ex was a fair bit younger than me and it could be good when she as in the right mood and boy-o-boy was she moody and rarely in the right one!.

Hence punting. It works sometimes I think I'd like a female mate to settle back down with again with as the bonking isnt quite so important nowadays being mid sixties but we'll have to see if anyone turns up. Tried on line dating a while fecking disaster the only half decent one was 50 and hadn't be with a man for 12 years! So sod that then and it looked as if she wanted to maintain the record! She was tight tho as a ducks arse with money living up to her racial stereotype and anyway nuff said onto the next 20 something year old:-)
« Last Edit: August 29, 2017, 11:06:59 pm by Watts.E.Dunn »

Offline Adzzzz

There's not much my oh won't do, not keen on facials. Just depends if she's in "the mood" unfortunately those moods are getting less and less frequent, sometimes she'll want it every day for a week and then nothing for the next 3/4/5/6 weeks

Offline bearcat69

To be honest, I can't really say that is the reason why I punt. I've met some pretty dirty and fun whores, but never really met a prossie that has given me the same amount of services or level of great uninhibited sex that I've had had at the best of times with civvie partners.

I punt because I enjoy it, for the thrill of it, for the choice and variety, and because it's a lot more easy, convenient, and generally more reliable than getting sex from civvie women.

Beyond what I would really consider basic GFE services such as French kissing, RO, OWO and protected sex, other services are actually not all that important to me to have a punt that I am happy with. Convenience, price, location, good coms, a good attitude and looks are more of a priority to me than getting those more hard to get services such as CIM or anal. I enjoy such services, but don't go out of my way or pay over the odds to get them, just not worth the effort for me personally.

Offline macman26

OWC, CIM, RO, big tits, tit fucking, dirty talk and anal..... the plus side of unprotected with OH has always been off the menu for years and years so that's not something OH can give. Maybe she's playing away and that's why no unprotected but to be honest a once a year fuck really don't care anymore or think about doing her - too many WG's to chase!   

mrpeterman

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How do so many "colleagues" marry or cope within a sexless marriage or relationship with staying together? Is it because

have young kids
Financial implications
Love partner regardless of no sex

My point sex is the reflection of intimacy and reflects caring, and love and sexual frustration must impact on the third point...

My partner was loving and offered great sex and then sex simply stopped and regardless of punting it couldn't replace my wider needs.

Am I alone in feeling this way is it selfish to want physical contact and sex past your 40's ???

 
« Last Edit: August 30, 2017, 11:17:48 am by mrpeterman »

Offline Sinz

How do so many "colleagues" marry or cope within a sexless marriage or relationship with staying together? Is it because

have young kids
Financial implications
Love partner regardless of no sex

My point sex is the reflection of intimacy and reflects caring, and love and sexual frustration must impact on the third point...

My partner was loving and offered great sex and then sex simply stopped and regardless of punting it couldn't replace my wider needs.

Am I alone in feeling this way is it selfish to want physical contact and sex past your 40's ???

Well I am sure everyone in here would agree to say you are not being selfish, for some reason woman move past that stage really quick and tend to live like it's not so important in their life and gets accustomed to it.

Offline stampjones

Unprotected with the O/H is the problem (and she would be suspicious if I started wanting covered now),nothing can be spontaneous I have to go two weeks without,get a test at GUM and then wait another week and a half for the results.It would be dire straits if the O/H was to catch anything.
My missus was about as vanilla as you could be every month or two and I had the same issue as you re not wanting to risk passing anything on. In the end I decided it was easier just not to fuck her anymore. Dont think she's even noticed yet tbh.

Punter115

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For at least the last ten years no physical contact.....that might give you an idea why I punt!

Offline paper7

One of the main reasons I indulge in punting is because my partner does not like to do CIM or for the matter of fact me going down on her for RO. 

I was wondering if there are other punters out there, who resorts to punting because their partners deny certain sex acts.

I'm seriously considering putting because my wife has denied me ANY physical contact for the last 13 years.

Offline brownman

I'm seriously considering putting because my wife has denied me ANY physical contact for the last 13 years.
Wtf 13 years with no sex at all, I would lose my mind

Online timsussex

I'm seriously considering putting because my wife has denied me ANY physical contact for the last 13 years.

Taking up golf won't solve your problems :lol:

13 barren years - she must be very rich !


Offline MrMatrix

OH was never really interested in sex,in the end after 25 years I gave up trying. A friend said I've got the solution to your problem - AW. Well it took 3 months before I had the guts to do it, and have continued since. I dont think my OH really cares that theres no passion or intimacy here any more. Really sad as she still looks good.

Punter115

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I know exactly how you feel ....it really is very sad and such a waste.

Offline paper7

Taking up golf won't solve your problems :lol:

13 barren years - she must be very rich !
I don't know - I might finally get a hole in one I suppose!! :D :lol:

Offline MrMatrix

I know exactly how you feel ....it really is very sad and such a waste.
I'm sure you do and yes .....it really is very sad and such a waste - I'm gutted things have ended up like this TBH. And there are many on this forum who are in the same position......... :unknown:

Offline Private Parts

I'm sure you do and yes .....it really is very sad and such a waste - I'm gutted things have ended up like this TBH. And there are many on this forum who are in the same position......... :unknown:
Never a truer statement

Total waste.
 :hi:
PP

Offline paper7

I'm sure you do and yes .....it really is very sad and such a waste - I'm gutted things have ended up like this TBH. And there are many on this forum who are in the same position......... :unknown:
I'm gutted too, feeling trapped, punting might be a way out of it

mrpeterman

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I don't think punting is a way out if it, it may aleivate the frustration for a short period, but then the economics of punting kick in, it more allows a distraction from the frustration by reviewing aw, selecting next punt, being on here etc that allows one to handle the situation..well it did for me anyway

Offline paper7

I don't think punting is a way out if it, it may aleivate the frustration for a short period, but then the economics of punting kick in, it more allows a distraction from the frustration by reviewing aw, selecting next punt, being on here etc that allows one to handle the situation..well it did for me anyway
You are probably more than right. It might solve the problem short term though.

faggins

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Ok, so it's the DM, but there's a lot here that resonates.

In my case, OH has health issues, which don't make it easy, but that was only " vanilla" stuff anyway. Had previous GFs into all sorts of kinky stuff which the OH wasn't interested in when she was well, hence the on/off punting

Offline puntingpumping1920

I don't think punting is a way out if it, it may aleivate the frustration for a short period, but then the economics of punting kick in, it more allows a distraction from the frustration by reviewing aw, selecting next punt, being on here etc that allows one to handle the situation..well it did for me anyway
 
 
I agree, it could cause further issues down the line .
   
I'm not married, but surely there must be a understanding that your wife/ gf sex life may possibly deteriorate over time. If you understand that there may be a change of behaviour why cheat on her.
 
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Offline Sinz

 
 
I agree, it could cause further issues down the line .
   
I'm not married, but surely there must be a understanding that your wife/ gf sex life may possibly deteriorate over time. If you understand that there may be a change of behaviour why cheat on her.
 

Are you saying you won't be punting once you are married ?

Offline puntingpumping1920

Are you saying you won't be punting once you are married ?

 
Yes, I would stop.
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Offline MrMatrix


Yes, I would stop.
Good for you. You will ensure your marriage has every chnce of success. Just hope she continues to look after your interests as you get older and doesn't start playing silly sods with your love life :thumbsup:

Offline shagmore

GF does not do RO, she loves me going down on her, but won't let my dick get anywhere near her mouth.
Very good sex, even anal and many a different position. But I love oral, so there we have it
I think its the fact that after being married and now divorced I look at women in a different light.
I love sex, and if I can't get it at home as often as I want, then fortunately I have the means to go and pay for it. Also as soon as you walk in the door with a WG you know you are going to be getting it very shortly. Whereas with the GF its a lottery.
 :sarcastic:

Offline macman26


 
Yes, I would stop.


Bet you would not be able to mate.... maybe for a year or two but you would be back....

Offline threechilliman

Are you saying you won't be punting once you are married ?

Surely that's when you start punting. No?

Offline Sinz

Surely that's when you start punting. No?

I agree, that's when the other half stops putting the effort in, no matter in how much ever love you are in.