Afternoon Gentlemen,
I posted what i posted because i was accused of being a threat, or that was the excuse which was used to canx our 5th june meeting. BTW, when is a meeting a confirmed one or not?
Lindsey cancelling is fine, others have canx me before. OK, disappointed, but 5 mins later i move on.
And let me say something here, I didn't post this looking to be judged or have an argument with anyone. Was just sharing in a public domain, my experience. Its not nice being accused of being a threat.
When Lindsey said this to me, i told her to contact another girl, who she knows, that i've seen more than once, to assure her i was no threat.
This is the second time i'm writing this, the first my wifi connection dropped, and i've had to start again, so i want to keep it as short as possible, but here is a message i received after my review.
" I was going to offer you an incall earlier ( i work my day job on sundays so am busy)... I told you i have received threats saying someone wants to smash my head open... So you can understand why i am reluctant to do outcalls to people's houses, but you went and posted a negative, not nice."
I'm very confused by this young lady.
She does outcalls, nothing on her aw page says anything different about visiting homes, but if that is the case it should of been mentioned earlier.
Earlier on Sunday i was told she wasn't happy to see me at my home. There was no mention of an incall then. Only that she felt at risk.
The incall was only mentioned after i posted my review. And if you feel so at risk from me, why are you contacting me?
Then it became clear to me. the feeling at risk is just an excuse to break an appointment. Obviously like someone shared, probably got gazumped by someone offering more money. No problem, that's life...
I am also in business, and when i get busier, i generally earn more. When that happens i'll employ someone to help with the workload, otherwise things get very unmanageable.
And what i've noticed with a lot of these girls is they get unmanageable, but they never want to admit they've made a mistake or are wrong. I suppose it wouldn't be good for business if a girl rung you up and said she's cancelling because someones giving her more money.
Lindsey, if your reading this, here is some unrequested advice, don't accuse people of being a threat to you when they haven't. If you want to cancel a meeting use a different excuse. And if someone is threatening you, seek help.
In life you can please some of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time.