Punting Vs dating Vs sugar babies

[MissWolf]

@gurds....

...if, and I am starting to feel that is a big if, you are for real, then I think you need help, professional help.

I am not sure I actually believe a word you type

Jamie with his last post I'm throwing in the towel, there is no helping that kind of special twat, he doesn't want help from us mere pesants anyway.

Masculine my arse he wouldn't know what makes a real man if it bit him on the arse, Davie has it Troll

[jamiekinkxxx]

Jamie with his last post I'm throwing in the towel, there is no helping that kind of special twat, he doesn't want help from us mere pesants anyway.

Masculine my arse he wouldn't know what makes a real man if it bit him on the arse, Davie has it Troll

 

[Cheshuk]

@gurds....

I think you need help, professional help.

+1 seek help

thinking is not his strong suit 

[Payyourwaymate]

Guess it depends which type of gambling. There are ways of winning in all types of speculation. Having the right tools and making valuable plays long term is how you win.

Is a zero sum game so if you are a winning player you are basically taking other peoples money when you win. I think it is a very masculine way of making money personally as it is highly competitive.

I personally think making money in this way makes you better than many other people. You have to have lots of masculine traits and be fearless. Most people are just slaves following other people's orders in the rat race. They don't have any balls to take risks and do better.

You play poker for a living? I've seen alot of poker players share that view regarding making money in the manner you describe.

Also, it is a bit hypocritical to complain about being looked down on for being a professional gambler and then turn around and look down on most people who do not make money the way you do.

[finn5555]

thinking is not his strong suit 

He is one strange individual thats for sure!

[akauya]

Guess it depends which type of gambling. There are ways of winning in all types of speculation. Having the right tools and making valuable plays long term is how you win.

Is a zero sum game so if you are a winning player you are basically taking other peoples money when you win. I think it is a very masculine way of making money personally as it is highly competitive.

I personally think making money in this way makes you better than many other people. You have to have lots of masculine traits and be fearless. Most people are just slaves following other people's orders in the rat race. They don't have any balls to take risks and do better.

I was willing to give you the benefit of doubt in my previous post thinking you're a troubled young man but now I'm beginning to think you're just trolling us.

Either way, you really need professional help.

[JustaPunter]

Good thing about this place is we all have a common hobby let's say in that we all see escorts.

We all have different reasons for doing so. There are pros and cons to this just like there are pros and cons to everything else.

Marriage and kids is not so great either, you lose your freedom in the process and are chained down to one person.

Well you won’t know what it’s like being married in your parents basement eating Hot Pockets…

[JustaPunter]

I was willing to give you the benefit of doubt in my previous post thinking you're a troubled young man but now I'm beginning to think you're just trolling us.

Either way, you really need professional help.

I was going through reviews today as was bored

And read guess recent one about a Mexican SP he saw recently.

I read a couple of his other reviews and then noted he uses Sagami condoms.

Which says it all, he is endowed with a tiny Penis.

I looked into Sagami doing research on thinner condoms, I ordered them online in the largest size they did as I assumed they were going to be quite small

Could hardly get them over my bell end, and I am no Mr Foot Long.

I think this explains his over compensation.

😂😂

[JustaPunter]

I don't watch porn at all for a long time now.

Another issue is I only like white women sexually, and most white women prefer black men or white men on the whole. I am neither white nor black.

All the escorts I've had sex with over the last 14 years have been white.

So dating seems futile exercise really if you can't have enough choice of women compared to other men even despite being 6ft tall and very muscular.

Maybe I will just try sugar daddy road in future.

Do you think the problem is the fact you fit in Sagami condoms ?

I mean, they are rather small in size….

[Bat]

I was willing to give you the benefit of doubt in my previous post thinking you're a troubled young man but now I'm beginning to think you're just trolling us.

Either way, you really need professional help.

He lost my 'benefit of doubt' after a string of previous threads but this one really takes the biscuit.

Definitely needs some kind of help. . .

[nightbot]

OP is giving strong incel/red piller vibes.

As easy as it is to dunk on him, there is obviously an issue here that a lot of younger men struggle with, it's why people like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson became popular and gained following because they filled a void that targeted a vulnerable group of men. No one here can help you OP, and no one professionally can help you either until you recognise that your thinking is flawed and that there is a problem with it in the first place. Unless you work on finding out why you have such a different world view on success, relationship, and social interactions, you're gonna find that the struggles that you are having, will remain there even when you are 40 or 50 years old and compound with time.

[Ivor Hunch]

OP is giving strong incel/red piller vibes.

As easy as it is to dunk on him, there is obviously an issue here that a lot of younger men struggle with, it's why people like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson became popular and gained following because they filled a void that targeted a vulnerable group of men. No one here can help you OP, and no one professionally can help you either until you recognise that your thinking is flawed and that there is a problem with it in the first place. Unless you work on finding out why you have such a different world view on success, relationship, and social interactions, you're gonna find that the struggles that you are having, will remain there even when you are 40 or 50 years old and compound with time.

All of this.

I do think you would benefit, OP, from some sort of therapy.  And also a hug. 

Just to take one example from your posts.  The salsa boner.  As many have pointed out, ED drugs do not cause you to have an erection.  They help strengthen/ maintain an erection.  If you are going to a salsa a class and getting wood, that suggests to me something of a screwed up attitude to women/ sex that needs untangling.

[Ivor Hunch]

@gurds....

...if, and I am starting to feel that is a big if, you are for real, then I think you need help, professional help.

I am not sure I actually believe a word you type

very much giving the benefit of the doubt with last post, because there is a lot of force in this.

[mrwhite]

Having been seeing escorts for the last 14yrs, I've had sex with lots of hot girls but it isn't exactly the most fulfilling activity. You are on a clock and you are effectively busting a nut in a condom which isn't great. There are other stuff you can do like titwank, deepthroat, body to body ,etc.

I've never tried sugar babies but anyone who has a long term arrangement with a sugar baby so you eventually get to have sex with them raw?

Is it just me, or are you just trying to justify BB in one form or another?

[nightbot]

All of this.

I do think you would benefit, OP, from some sort of therapy.  And also a hug. 

Just to take one example from your posts.  The salsa boner.  As many have pointed out, ED drugs do not cause you to have an erection.  They help strengthen/ maintain an erection.  If you are going to a salsa a class and getting wood, that suggests to me something of a screwed up attitude to women/ sex that needs untangling.

Yea I should've probably worded it a bit differently rather than saying no one can help you. And emphasised on the fact that help is possible, but one has to recognised it's needed and seek it first.

One of the things that has helped me a lot since my breakup back a year and half ago, from a particularly hard relationship, is socialising at the gym, and I mean properly socialising to the extent that I am able to interact with these people outside of gym. If you're struggling to expand your social circle then these people should be the front and centre focus for you as you share several hours a week with them AND (more importantly) a lifestyle. You'll get along with them more than someone at salsa or any other thing (especially if expanding your social circle is the reason you go to those placesl).

The other thing that helped is therapy, and I am of the mind that therapy helps everyone, even when you don't have any big issues.

So yes OP you'd need to reconsider your philosophy and atleast be open to the idea of trying a new approach.

[Secret4u]

When I was younger, the majority of women I dated used me at some point for their financial advantage - and let's not even go into my marriage.

Older women are financially more trustworthy but some of my more recent dating experiences have taught me to be wary. They either blow hot and cold or want you to fit inside a rigid template that reminds them of previous relationships.

SB are expensive but are often very appealing beautiful young woman who offer mind blowing sex. They're cheaper than escorts by the hour but they do end up consuming more of your time and money. They are also not to be trusted and will try to manipulate you to get more money out of you. They are lovely, charming whores. But since most relationships have a transactional element no worse than most younger girlfriends.

Escorts can offer very varied experiences but you know what you're paying for and when they deliver it can be very pleasurable. Usually the experiences are pretty empty but not always if you get on.

[southcoastpunter]

secret4u - have you actually had any (especially long term) arrangements with SB's from the likes of SA? i ask this as you make some sweeping statements that implies all SB's are like you describe (when they are not) and in the 7 years you have been here i cannot see one post of yours about SA or SB's. My personal experiences would make me question and disagree with some of your assertions. 

Also, i wonder if your view on women has been distorted by your personal experience:
 

I've had much more fun with escorts than most girlfriends or any one of my partners. Ultimately, the biggest whore I got least pleasure from was my ex wife.

again not all (maybe many) marriages aren't like that at all.

[Mich9el]

Is it possible to find a SP or SB on a dating app?

[hendrix]

Is it possible to find a SP or SB on a dating app?

Yes

[Maak]

Is it possible to find a SP or SB on a dating app?

Plenty of women on dating who wanted presents & being taken out for a shag. It's much more work but works out cheaper