Does it make me gay?

[jamiekinkxxx]

If you enjoy a dildo up your arse you will enjoy a dick up your arse & that is pretty gay

Not at all!

In no way because you enjoy strapon / dildo play anally does that mean you would enjoy a real cock up your arse. Sex is not just physical it is mental too. I enjoy strapon play on me but categorically do not enjoy the real thing as mentally I cannot separate the fact that a male's cock is inside and not a woman using a strapon. The two are entirely different.

[alabama1]

Not at all!

In no way because you enjoy strapon / dildo play anally does that mean you would enjoy a real cock up your arse. Sex is not just physical it is mental too. I enjoy strapon play on me but categorically do not enjoy the real thing as mentally I cannot separate the fact that a male's cock is inside and not a woman using a strapon. The two are entirely different.

Exactly ! I like having a wank. I also like women giving me a wank. But i wouldn't want a wank off a bloke. Such a stupid thread started by the OP. I wonder if he is related to 'Bikerman' 

[yesbby]

As mentioned so simplistic  Such a daft response.... and what the fuck is 'not technically gay' 

I was referring to the scientific literature on anal penetration during sex. Ever wondered what it’s all about from an evolutionary perspective - or are you just happy to call someone stupid at the drop of a hat?

I’m not sure how to address your second objection. Seems fairly straight forward to me

[contentguy]

I was referring to the scientific literature on anal penetration during sex. Ever wondered what it’s all about from an evolutionary perspective - or are you just happy to call someone stupid at the drop of a hat?

I’m not sure how to address your second objection. Seems fairly straight forward to me

To be clear, he said your (over simplistic) response was daft.
You’re suggesting it’s based on scientific literature 

And I have no idea what technically gay means either 
Can one be technically str8 and technically trans too?

[webpunter]

You’re suggesting it’s based on scientific literature 

Think he means pornhub

And I have no idea what technically gay means either 
Can one be technically str8 and technically trans too?

#metoo, not a scooby what gay does or does not mean along with technically
Looking at sexuality rather than labels such as gay is perhaps a better approach 
Reck there is a simple way of establishing whats what

Male punter sees female SPs = heterosexual
Male punter sees male SPs incl. trans with a knob = homosexual
Male punter sees female SPs & male SPs incl. trans with a knob = bisexual

Moving into the greyzone
Male punter sees post trans = IMO heterosexual
The doesnt count if you cant reasonably tell or would be expected to tell this
(& being wasted can be taken into consideration  )
Post who look feminine FAF especially if decent bolt-ons IMO should be on every self respecting punters to-do list
Post looking like they're on a rugby club stag do are a disaster if your mates ever find out as they'll never let you forget 
And nightmares are a possibility
My theory is that having had a knob post 'burds' should have the skills set to be half decent at BJs & HJs
Fit posties to be tried at least once, twice or more if you like it

I know i know have scratching the post itch on my to-do list for donkeys blah blah
Texted an absolute dead cert today to see if working tomoz / next week
Will report when mission completed

[scutty brown]

I know i know have scratching the post itch on my to-do list for donkeys blah blah
Texted an absolute dead cert today to see if working tomoz / next week
Will report when mission completed

Donkeys on your to-do list??? 

[webpunter]

Donkeys on your to-do list??? 

 
Not literally
 

[contentguy]

Think he means pornhub

Or UCX perhaps.

University College of Xhamster.com

[webpunter]

Or UCX perhaps.

University College of Xhamster.com

Havent you got a Diploma from them & are studying for a Degree ?

[contentguy]

Havent you got a Diploma from them & are studying for a Degree ?

Nah, got the degree already and now studying for the doctorate

The nice thing about the doctorate is the nurses 

[webpunter]

Nah, got the degree already and now studying for the doctorate

The nice thing about the doctorate is the nurses 

Quality reply 

[yesbby]

To be clear, he said your (over simplistic) response was daft.
You’re suggesting it’s based on scientific literature 

And I have no idea what technically gay means either 
Can one be technically str8 and technically trans too?

Yes there’s a whole scientific literature on sexual behaviour in human beings, based on the interest scientists have in human evolution and the accompanying behavioural adaptations and strategies. My summary was succinct and accurate, not exhaustive, but not simplistic (or overly simplistic to use your generous clarification). It was also relevant to the question asked by the OP, which is why I mentioned it. Your desire to question my statement has added nothing as far as I can tell.

The literature on sexual behaviour that is not principally directed to procreation, such as fellatio and cunnilingus, as well as kissing and anal sex, is very interesting in my opinion and sheds light on what is going on, which seems to be what the OP was looking for.

It appears that it will come as a surprise for you to find that scientists have been studying homosexuality for quite some time and being anally penetrated by a dildo operated by a female does not qualify, technically or otherwise, as homosexual behaviour even if it seems similar enough to be confusing for some people.

If you want to create your own categories for sexual behaviour and tendencies. knock yourself out as far as I’m concerned, but perhaps have the decency to recognise that categories are needed for meaningful conversation.

[JontyR]

Not literally
 

Not literally no, but technically yes.

[contentguy]

Yes there’s a whole scientific literature on sexual behaviour in human beings, based on the interest scientists have in human evolution and the accompanying behavioural adaptations and strategies. My summary was succinct and accurate, not exhaustive, but not simplistic (or overly simplistic to use your generous clarification). It was also relevant to the question asked by the OP, which is why I mentioned it. Your desire to question my statement has added nothing as far as I can tell.

The literature on sexual behaviour that is not principally directed to procreation, such as fellatio and cunnilingus, as well as kissing and anal sex, is very interesting in my opinion and sheds light on what is going on, which seems to be what the OP was looking for.

It appears that it will come as a surprise for you to find that scientists have been studying homosexuality for quite some time and being anally penetrated by a dildo operated by a female does not qualify, technically or otherwise, as homosexual behaviour even if it seems similar enough to be confusing for some people.

If you want to create your own categories for sexual behaviour and tendencies. knock yourself out as far as I’m concerned, but perhaps have the decency to recognise that categories are needed for meaningful conversation.

You’re correct, I was generous in my classification of over simplification, in fact the post was also off topic. 

Your sub/dom response was not even related to the OP’s question, which was about sexuality and whether taking up the arse from a woman makes him gay.   

You profess to be the professor of perve.  What’s your academic basis for that?
I cited Seligman, you cite you 

 

[webpunter]

Not literally no, but technically yes.

 
Indeed dot com
Going well off piste here

Gonna sign off
Need to lie in a dark room & relax
Having done two reviews today
Where i had to briefly recall them to share:

• a WSWS where it turned out no she fcuckin doesn't 
• and a HJ OWO CIM from a ruskie dinner lady 

[contentguy]

Indeed dot com
Going well off piste here

Gonna sign off
Need to lie in a dark room & relax
Having done two reviews today
Where i had to briefly recall them to share:

• a WSWS where it turned out no she fcuckin doesn't 
• and a HJ OWO CIM from a ruskie dinner lady 

You’ve had a tough week Webby!
But at least the dinner lady sorted your meat and two veg 

[Thephoenix]

Exactly ! I like having a wank. I also like women giving me a wank. But i wouldn't want a wank off a bloke.

But if you didn't know it was a bloke (eg blindfold etc), you'd still enjoy it.

[Thephoenix]

If the WG self identifies as a bloke, that might be slightly gayish.

If she self identifies as a cat, you might be in a bit of trouble.

[contentguy]

If you want to create your own categories for sexual behaviour and tendencies. knock yourself out as far as I’m concerned, but perhaps have the decency to recognise that categories are needed for meaningful conversation.

How did I create a new category 

It was you that created the category of “technically gay”, I don’t understand it 
You didn’t explain it.

[contentguy]

It appears that it will come as a surprise for you to find that scientists have been studying homosexuality for quite some time and being anally penetrated by a dildo operated by a female does not qualify, technically or otherwise, as homosexual behaviour even if it seems similar enough to be confusing for some people.

What makes you think that this is a surprise to me?
It was a surprise but for another reason:

It actually answers the OP’s question that being dildo’d by a burd doesn’t make him gay.
In contrast to your dom / sub post that was off topic and simplistic.
Now, in view of your references to academic stuff, are you actually going to cite some peer reviewed research on this topic, or are you just going to continue to waffle

The question as to what a “technical homosexual” remains unanswered, I look forward to being informed  on technical sexuality generally, with the appropriate citations of course!

[yesbby]

Your sub/dom response was not even related to the OP’s question, which was about sexuality and whether taking up the arse from a woman makes him gay.   

Being gay, also known as homosexuality, is a category which applies to both sexual orientation and to acts. The act he was asking about does not fall into that category for technical reasons. Those reasons are to do with scientific definitions that we are all aware of and are all capable of understanding (such as man, woman, penis, dildo). You know that very well but seem to be caught up in an attempt to win an absurd argument rather than answer his enquiry or reach a truth. If you did want to reach a truth or help him to do so you'd have something more meaningful to say.

The key to understanding the strange act of anal penetration during arousal is found in the dynamic of domination and submission within sexual relationships. It's completely on-topic as he wanted to understand the nature of his desire and fantasy for being on the receiving end of anal penetration. Why all this has to be spelled out (to you) is beyond me.

If this is still too much for you to accept politely then best wishes, happy punting. Enjoy the craic because I've lost interest in stating the obvious

[sesalovdarlo]

I love having my prostate massaged and being smashed in the ass by feminine trans escorts. Does that make me gay? Absolutely not. Im not attracted to men or masculinity in the slightest, in fact i consider myself the horniest man on the planet, even the sight of a women pedicured nails sends me wild. I’m not interested in the male appearance at all.

Being labelled as homosexual because it covers “sexual acts also” is just horse shit. So if i get sucked or wanked of by a GG, I'm gay also? Because gay men undertake these sexual acts also.

[alabama1]

I love having my prostate massaged and being smashed in the ass by feminine trans escorts. Does that make me gay? Absolutely not. Im not attracted to men or masculinity in the slightest, in fact i consider myself the horniest man on the planet, even the sight of a women pedicured nails sends me wild. I’m not interested in the male appearance at all.

Being labelled as homosexual because it covers “sexual acts also” is just horse shit. So if i get sucked or wanked of by a GG, I'm gay also? Because gay men undertake these sexual acts also.

I would say it makes you bisexual.

[Marmalade]

Being labelled as homosexual because it covers “sexual acts also” is just horse shit. So if i get sucked or wanked off by a GG, I'm gay also? Because gay men undertake these sexual acts also.

I thought only kids called them gee-gees! 
Bedroom stable talk? Ahh pump my horse-shit dear will you?
(I’ve never seen horses suck each other off but there’s always a first.
Yes, fyi gay men do these things as well as horses.
Go for it, stallion. Don’t say neigh! 

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[Vice Admiral]

Yes there’s a whole scientific literature on sexual behaviour in human beings, based on the interest scientists have in human evolution and the accompanying behavioural adaptations and strategies. My summary was succinct and accurate, not exhaustive, but not simplistic (or overly simplistic to use your generous clarification). It was also relevant to the question asked by the OP, which is why I mentioned it. Your desire to question my statement has added nothing as far as I can tell.

The literature on sexual behaviour that is not principally directed to procreation, such as fellatio and cunnilingus, as well as kissing and anal sex, is very interesting in my opinion and sheds light on what is going on, which seems to be what the OP was looking for.

It appears that it will come as a surprise for you to find that scientists have been studying homosexuality for quite some time and being anally penetrated by a dildo operated by a female does not qualify, technically or otherwise, as homosexual behaviour even if it seems similar enough to be confusing for some people.

If you want to create your own categories for sexual behaviour and tendencies. knock yourself out as far as I’m concerned, but perhaps have the decency to recognise that categories are needed for meaningful conversation.

Measured and well-informed.

I'm certainly not claiming to be an expert, but here are a few thoughts derived from things I've read over the years, the sources generally having been psychologists rather than the man on the Clapham Herald & Gazette.

Firm pointers to being homosexual include falling in love with another male and / or wanting to kiss another male on the lips.

The psychosexuality of homosexuality usually precedes focus on genitalia or on certain specific acts.  In other words, a boy who is going to grow up gay is unlikely in the first instance to be thinking about cocks or buggery, but is attracted to the masculinity he senses in other boys.

The anus is an erogenous zone.  Enjoying receiving attention (or penetration) in that area doesn't prove anything much – unless your choice of penetrator is another male.  Few of us are located firmly at one or other end of the curve between wholly sexually dominant and wholly sexually submissive.

Anyway those are my random thoughts.  Dr Freud I am not.

Thank God.

[Jonesmick85]

Those who haven’t had a prostate massage don’t know what they’re missing! It’s amazing! I can come with barely touching my cock!

My SB had her fingers right up me in my just meet . I was squirming all over them as she sucked my cock too.

I did make her wear a fake handlebar moustache….

There’s nothing gay about it at all.

[webpunter]

Those who haven’t had a prostate massage don’t know what they’re missing! It’s amazing! I can come with barely touching my cock!

My SB had her fingers right up me in my just meet . I was squirming all over them as she sucked my cock too.

I did make her wear a fake handlebar moustache….

There’s nothing gay about it at all.

One burd in a spanish knocking shop had this in her armoury
It helped get me over the line when wasted
When sober it gets a bit intense, you dunno whether you are cumming or going 
Hence i give up the Khyber stuff a miss
Moustache  . Hercule would put me off my stroke

[Jonesmick85]

I know what you mean! There’s a moment where it feels amazing, then get it out!!! Then nah! Stick it in!

[webpunter]

I know what you mean! There’s a moment where it feels amazing, then get it out!!! Then nah! Stick it in!

Keep doing that & the outcome could be the same as with fanny farts