Do you still see WGs even if you shag civvies regularly?

[sparkus]

Before I go on a rant about how civvy sex opps (other than OH) have dried up because I'm getting older, unable to use dating apps and #metoo ensuring excessive caution at work, I imagined I'd punt more under the circumstances but I reckon it's about the same.

So is there a correlation between dry spells and number of WGs you see?

[django0700]

Yep, bank balance.

[webpunter]

Do bears shit in the woods ? 

So is there a correlation between dry spells and number of WGs you see?

[Ali Katt]

It may sound arrogant, but I don't intend to have sex everyday or even every week. With civvies believe it or not it's more work, fuck me I've had girls get cold feet, at least with escorts if they cancel there is often a reason which, even if it is down to being disorganized. Also civvy sex I was going to be post about I tend to hold back more so don't feel like they get the real me, telling a girl I'm going to have her over my knee if she doesn't behave could be a bit intimidating on a first date.

[Doc Holliday]

.. telling a girl I'm going to have her over my knee if she doesn't behave could be a bit intimidating on a first date.

That's a very good point. Especially if before the third course of the meal has been served.

[sparkus]

I only punt because I want sexual experiences I'd otherwise never get to enjoy but there's much I hate about it, including the shabby state of most brothels equating to rubbing it in your face that you're a punter. With civvies I've been very happy to shag in all kinds of weird places. Civvies have also had worse hygeine than a lot of WGs.

I suppose one attraction of TCMs is that you build up rapport with staff before sex, they don't stand in reception in lingerie.

[Hobbit]

I tend to find I punt more in the summer due to the heat and all those semi-naked bodies floating around.

[webpunter]

I don't think you are sounding arrogant

Civvy shagging is easy
Finding ones who are half decent, reasonably fit & not bunny boilers is the hard part

Taking some burd out, with the purpose of getting laid, I factor in stuff like:  generally having to be reasonably nice / attentive, having to make an effort, needing to be seen to be listening [to whatevva they are going on about] & paying for x y & z along the way.  Then there is the biggest factor which is time.  Punting is easy, cost & time effective with usually mission accomplished.  Naturally a good balance between civvies & paid for burds is ideal

It may sound arrogant, but I don't intend to have sex everyday or even every week. With civvies believe it or not it's more work, fuck me I've had girls get cold feet, at least with escorts if they cancel there is often a reason which, even if it is down to being disorganized. Also civvy sex I was going to be post about I tend to hold back more so don't feel like they get the real me, telling a girl I'm going to have her over my knee if she doesn't behave could be a bit intimidating on a first date.

Especially if you are either at work / out somewhere & are overheard [and / or when she tells her mates what you said]

[lewisjones23]

Shagging civvies is a ball ache, it actually breaks me having to listen to them whitter on about whatever bollocks they are talking about

I much prefer to punt and keep my spare time/sanity in place

[Ali Katt]

I don't think you are sounding arrogant

Civvy shagging is easy
Finding ones who are half decent, reasonably fit & not bunny boilers is the hard part

Taking some burd out, with the purpose of getting laid, I factor in stuff like:  generally having to be reasonably nice / attentive, having to make an effort, needing to be seen to be listening [to whatevva they are going on about] & paying for x y & z along the way.  Then there is the biggest factor which is time.  Punting is easy, cost & time effective with usually mission accomplished.  Naturally a good balance between civvies & paid for burds is ideal

Especially if you are either at work / out somewhere & are overheard [and / or when she tells her mates what you said]

Nah. I like the chat part, learning that chatting for women releases endorphins and oxytocin has been a huge factor in encouraging me to talk to more girls. I like finding out what makes people tick and that has huge advantages, especially if kink is involved. I'm introvert, but I don't think I would be mistaken for being a shrinking violet.

The part in blue could be advantageous. Everyone at work knows I'm a dirty fucker I can't disguise it. People can gossip all they want it builds me up to be more than I am if that's the case.

[webpunter]

I'm impressed with the biological terms - when women are interested in you
A smile, big eyes & the head tilted slightly to one side are a good sign that they are interested
And maybe getting moist [i think the term is dampus mingus]

Funny how for blokes when the OH is gabbling away it [usually] has the complete opposite effect 

Gossip indeed can be positive.  Better to be spoken about than not

Nah. I like the chat part, learning that chatting for women releases endorphins and oxytocin has been a huge factor in encouraging me to talk to more girls. I like finding out what makes people tick and that has huge advantages, especially if kink is involved. I'm introvert, but I don't think I would be mistaken for being a shrinking violet.

The part in blue could be advantageous. Everyone at work knows I'm a dirty fucker I can't disguise it. People can gossip all they want it builds me up to be more than I am if that's the case.

[Ali Katt]

I'm impressed with the biological terms - when women are interested in you
A smile, big eyes & the head tilted slightly to one side are a good sign that they are interested
And maybe getting moist [i think the term is dampus mingus]

Funny how for blokes when the OH is gabbling away it [usually] has the complete opposite effect 

Gossip indeed can be positive.  Better to be spoken about than not

To be honest the biggest clue is deep focus and if they stay around you regardless of what is happening in the background. In all honesty my eyes dart everywhere and it looks like I'm not paying attention, but I notice so much. Seeing a woman melt or get wet just from conversation I don't think I've ever done.

[381stBG]

Depends on the civvie. If she’s a bit plain and talks shit about shopping bollocks then I’ll switch off.
If she’s hot and looks like Julia Roberts then I’ll hang on every fucking word she says even if it is shite.

Big Guy

[webpunter]

Neither have i - at that point in time
But you get the signals that they are deffo interested
And what the timeline is likely to be
A few weeks, a few dates before any action or just maybe that very day 
Perhaps just a faint hint of getting lubed up.  A bit like getting a semi

Seeing a woman melt or get wet just from conversation I don't think I've ever done.

[The Owl]

I'm only here until I meet a civvy. Sex with escorts is different to sex with civvies because it comes with a by the hour price tag, a lack of contact outside of sex (unless she's on UKE) and no real emotional fulfillment. However punting has given me the opportunity to fuck women outside of my usual likes which has proven to be a lot of fun. I'm getting the urge for something more meaningful at the moment so I'm window shopping rather than punting at the moment, prostitutes won't be able to scratch my itch. I only screwed escorts behind one partners back but that relationship was already dead even though sex was available occasionally. I did feel bad about cheating on her but the past is the past. Now I keep it in my pants until I'm single. Relationship dry spells happen, it all depends on how long and how frustrated I am for me to consider ending it so I can screw around.

[Ali Katt]

I'm only here until I meet a civvy. Sex with escorts is different to sex with civvies because it comes with a by the hour price tag, a lack of contact outside of sex (unless she's on UKE) and no real emotional fulfillment. However punting has given me the opportunity to fuck women outside of my usual likes which has proven to be a lot of fun. I'm getting the urge for something more meaningful at the moment so I'm window shopping rather than punting at the moment, prostitutes won't be able to scratch my itch. I only screwed escorts behind one partners back but that relationship was already dead even though sex was available occasionally. I did feel bad about cheating on her but the past is the past. Now I keep it in my pants until I'm single. Relationship dry spells happen, it all depends on how long and how frustrated I am for me to consider ending it so I can screw around.

I would say 3 months will give you an idea if the relationship is worth pursuing.

[the fitter]

I'm only here until I meet a civvy. Sex with escorts is different to sex with civvies because it comes with a by the hour price tag, a lack of contact outside of sex (unless she's on UKE) and no real emotional fulfillment. However punting has given me the opportunity to fuck women outside of my usual likes which has proven to be a lot of fun. I'm getting the urge for something more meaningful at the moment so I'm window shopping rather than punting at the moment, prostitutes won't be able to scratch my itch. I only screwed escorts behind one partners back but that relationship was already dead even though sex was available occasionally. I did feel bad about cheating on her but the past is the past. Now I keep it in my pants until I'm single. Relationship dry spells happen, it all depends on how long and how frustrated I am for me to consider ending it so I can screw around.

I find when I get involved with a civvy, and she doesn't come across very quick, I start counting what I am spending on her, in comparison to what I would spend on a punt. But then again, I am not really interested in a relationship, prefer out with my mates, and we all like a bit of chasing, and see if we get lucky.