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Online WARSZAWA16

I know you can get some girls who like to chat. This might be a bit much for some though but I don't mind it as long as it's not too personal. I think it's much better that she's chatty than being lifeless, robotic and soulless. I have found that if you can have a bit of a 2-way laugh and a rapport with the girl it usually lends itself to a better punt and a better performance from her. However, suspect a lot of people don't want much chat and to just get on with everything. Someone did say on a previous thread that the best way to shut them up is to put a cock in their mouth! I understand we are not visiting girls for SOCIAL intercourse but what are people's views  though? Chat, no chat or who cares so long as she performs OK?     

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Offline jeanphillipe

I know you can get some girls who like to chat. This might be a bit much for some though but I don't mind it as long as it's not too personal. I think it's much better that she's chatty than being lifeless, robotic and soulless. I have found that if you can have a bit of a 2-way laugh and a rapport with the girl it usually lends itself to a better punt and a better performance from her. However, suspect a lot of people don't want much chat and to just get on with everything. Someone did say on a previous thread that the best way to shut them up is to put a cock in their mouth! I understand we are not visiting girls for SOCIAL intercourse but what are people's views  though? Chat, no chat or who cares so long as she performs OK?     

some ppl like it though, not me personally i dont go for a social but we all do it for different reasons,

take english rebekkah for example from what i gather shes a chatty one and her clients seem to like it.

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im a chatty fucker i cant help it BUT it never comes out of paid time.
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Offline rhub9

I enjoy a good natter, but only if it's not part of the "paid for time", or at most just between rounds. If done right, it definitely improves the experience.

Topics vary, but I've found that a woman you can have a decent discussion about sex with is a rare treat.


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Of course it's a timewasting tactic, message any pro$$ie on AW and ask her if you can pop over for a chat (off the clock) and the answer will of course be no of course, but from a pro$$ie perspective why would she want to earn her money fucking and sucking when she can get the same money for talking about cats or other pointless shit  :music:

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Don't mind a bit of banter, but if it goes on too long there's one sure way to shut them up ;)

Offline Murray Mint

Of course it's a timewasting tactic, message any pro$$ie on AW and ask her if you can pop over for a chat (off the clock) and the answer will of course be no of course, but from a pro$$ie perspective why would she want to earn her money fucking and sucking when she can get the same money for talking about cats or other pointless shit  :music:
Another cynic – well, fancy that!

Of course, it’s true, but the trick (for the punter) is to get stuck into the sex and save the chat for the post-coital wind-down! If the SP is happy to chat after the event, then that can be quite pleasant, especially if you can stroke her tits at the same time.


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im a chatty fucker i cant help it BUT it never comes out of paid time.
But can we stroke your tits while you're chatting?.....

James999

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Why not PM her and ask her, or wait a few minutes and she'll PM you  :dash:

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It's a time wasting tactic.
Simple solution only see Roms and Thais that don't speak much English.

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Simple solution only see Roms and Thais that don't speak much English.

They waste time by pretending to not understand, odd how they understand the money,time & extras though  :sarcastic:
« Last Edit: March 20, 2019, 05:39:25 pm by James999 »

Offline shagmore

No problem with them chatting, I let them get on with it, makes them feel happy, but at the same time I am either fondling their breasts or have a hand down their pussy. Quite a turn on, you can't really do that with a wife or GF

Offline finn5555

The trouble with pro$$ies they chat as a time wasting tactic  :thumbsdown:
Book ER for instance and she can regal you with tales of her medical mysteries, how many times she has been close to death, numerous business interests, future husbands and untold other bollocks she is known for  :sarcastic:


Warning your ears may bleed  :music:

mikexxlong

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fuck no

a little small talk to break the ice is ok ,just chatting shit for the sake of it no fucking way :thumbsdown:

but ultimately it all depends on the pro$$i£ on how they read the punter/situation and adapt to make the booking flow with ease
 making it a fun fulfilling time while meeting all the expected requirements of the client

it's well known by punters that 'chatting' is a standard time wasting tactic by pro$$i£'s

Offline Gordon Bennett

I'm sure there's a happy medium somewhere between mute and chatty. Given I now veer towards 30 min meetings I prefer quiet focus to the task at hand as opposed to  chit-chat. I think excessive chatter is definitely timewasting and a tactic to distract and dampen your ardour.

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The trouble with pro$$ies they chat as a time wasting tactic  :thumbsdown:
Book ER for instance and she can regal you with tales of her medical mysteries, how many times she has been close to death, numerous business interests, future husbands and untold other bollocks she is known for  :sarcastic:


Warning your ears may bleed  :music:

If you must see ER take precautions

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Of course it's a timewasting tactic, message any pro$$ie on AW and ask her if you can pop over for a chat (off the clock) and the answer will of course be no of course, but from a pro$$ie perspective why would she want to earn her money fucking and sucking when she can get the same money for talking about cats or other pointless shit  :music:

And does that latter happen a lot on your bookings, James?

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If you must see ER take precautions

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3rd time you have used that pic regarding me , get some new jokes man .
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James999

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3rd time you have used that pic regarding me , get some new jokes man .

If your actions don't change why would the responses  :unknown:

And "Man" what's that, your attempt to try and sound cool / young?

P.S. No need to PM me
« Last Edit: March 20, 2019, 10:16:15 pm by James999 »

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the whole "dont pm me " is boring too.

yes i chatty but i dont need/want to change as it DOESNT come out of a clients time.

im me. like marmite. love or hate me. you clearly the latter against me , thats your issue.
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James999

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Not as boring as your endless / pointless PMs  :sarcastic:

And as for hating you, seriously you give yourself to much importance, just taking the piss out of your endless spouting of bollocks, now haven't you got another retirement to announce  :sarcastic:
« Last Edit: March 20, 2019, 10:20:11 pm by James999 »

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nah im to happy making money thanks.
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Odd that you feel the need to say that  :sarcastic:

But hey, keep saving you can have a big bash for your 40th soon, or as you will call it your 18th   :sarcastic:
« Last Edit: March 20, 2019, 10:31:54 pm by James999 »

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Offline cunningman

It's a time wasting tactic.

Depends when, surely?  If one or both of us needs a rest, I'd rather snuggle and chat than settle into 'massage'.
Quite happy to chat while I'm dressing, too.

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my fan club is back lol

Dream on your wishes don’t always come true, so tell me Rebecca why do you tell so many lies does fantasy world make you feel more important / improve your self esteem  :unknown:

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 :rolleyes: why are u obessed with trolling me...

goodnight
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:rolleyes: why are u obessed with trolling me...

goodnight

Why can’t you answer the question

Offline Payyourwaymate

Chat, no chat or who cares so long as she performs OK?     

Well, there was an Italian chick I punted last year when I was not a member that mid doggy, was talking to me about how she feels about racial equality.

Still don't know what to make of that one  :unknown:. She's not around anymore or I would have reviewed.

Offline Bonker

I find the chat subsides when I put my dick in their mouths. Or my balls. Strangely that makes them stop taking bollocks.

Offline Hardpunt2

I normally save the chat for whilst I'm getting dressed. Beats post punt silence. I like a good chin-wag and wouldn't mind seeing ER but her availabilty never works for me.

Offline howrude

I find the girls who are chatty and outgoing are more relaxed and give a better performance. I’ve never felt any were doing it to waste time.

Offline Cuntminion

Of course it's a timewasting tactic, message any pro$$ie on AW and ask her if you can pop over for a chat (off the clock) and the answer will of course be no of course, but from a pro$$ie perspective why would she want to earn her money fucking and sucking when she can get the same money for talking about cats or other pointless shit  :music:

But cats are awesome

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I'm sure there's a happy medium somewhere between mute and chatty. Given I now veer towards 30 min meetings I prefer quiet focus to the task at hand as opposed to  chit-chat. I think excessive chatter is definitely timewasting and a tactic to distract and dampen your ardour.
I mainly do hour bookings. I've only had my time talked away when I was really young and starting out. I like a chat and have always managed to do everything I set out to in the last year, only issue in the last few years has been cumming twice.

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It's not always time wasting. If I see we've been chatting a while, I add extra time.

Offline nodrah

I know you can get some girls who like to chat. This might be a bit much for some though but I don't mind it as long as it's not too personal. I think it's much better that she's chatty than being lifeless, robotic and soulless. I have found that if you can have a bit of a 2-way laugh and a rapport with the girl it usually lends itself to a better punt and a better performance from her. However, suspect a lot of people don't want much chat and to just get on with everything. Someone did say on a previous thread that the best way to shut them up is to put a cock in their mouth! I understand we are not visiting girls for SOCIAL intercourse but what are people's views  though? Chat, no chat or who cares so long as she performs OK?     

Are you seeking guidance … or just being chatty ?

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Nothing like a chat and a splat.

Offline Happylad

Depends entirely on what they want to chat about.  If she wants to give a running commentary on the punt and how much she enjoyed it that`s quite ok with me, but otherwise - "shut up and get on with it".

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There is a difference between "breaking the ice" with a 40 minute convo and being civil. As I've said maybe I'm biased, but it sounds pretty soulless if there isn't any attempts made by either person to talk, and of course certain topics I never talk about and expect the same in return: never politics and religion, but also work, money, relationships and family. But, it does depend asking if am married, where I work or have children I find obtrusive, but telling a story about a work colleague is different.

Offline JonasG

It's good to talk, I don't mind it at all.

And I don't think it's a time wasting tactic all the time, cos a lot of the time after I've finished and I'm getting dressed they're still chatting away.

I mean it's a lonely job for the most of the part, some of them just want the interaction.

Offline poundstock

I’m not naturally talkative especially in the company of strangers so I do prefer WG’s to be chatty and I find it quite interesting when they open up about themselves. Never yet found that chatting has interfered with shagging.

Offline django0700

I find the chat subsides when I put my dick in their mouths. Or my balls. Strangely that makes them stop taking bollocks.


Agreed, at more an average of £100 p.h, I would rather they used their lips, tongue etc  as stated above...to not waste time and talk BS.

Offline freeze44

It's good to talk, I don't mind it at all.

And I don't think it's a time wasting tactic all the time, cos a lot of the time after I've finished and I'm getting dressed they're still chatting away.

I mean it's a lonely job for the most of the part, some of them just want the interaction.

Yeah that makes sense to me and had wg's say the more difficult bookings are where there's little or no interaction. Suppose it's down to the type of thing your looking for but as said by others there is a limit to the chat and looking back know when first started at this game had time 'talked' away.

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but as said by others there is a limit to the chat and looking back know when first started at this game had time 'talked' away.
Yup. Happened to me a few times when I first started out. Had as I've said nearly 40 minutes talked away on my first time with an escort. Embarrassing looking back now, but I needed to experience that, anybody would think she didn't want to fuck me. Now I'm more laid back and know what I want.

Offline freeze44

Yup. Happened to me a few times when I first started out. Had as I've said nearly 40 minutes talked away on my first time with an escort. Embarrassing looking back now, but I needed to experience that, anybody would think she didn't want to fuck me. Now I'm more laid back and know what I want.

Yeah agree and a learning curve and all that and would say it's made me more confident in driving a meeting.

Kinda amusing looking back to them early days and how things have moved on for the better and reckon the wg's prefer it now that know what I want instead of the unsure/unclear early version!!