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Offline Borabora

Hi all - a bit of a particular request here. I recently saw some porn videos where the chicks can get really really wet almost like a creamy wetness and its dripping everywhere. Wondered if you fellas had come across a WG who gets super wet (not squirting) and gets "creamy"?

TIA

Offline MLawro93

Hi all - a bit of a particular request here. I recently saw some porn videos where the chicks can get really really wet almost like a creamy wetness and its dripping everywhere. Wondered if you fellas had come across a WG who gets super wet (not squirting) and gets "creamy"?

TIA

If it is porn, chances are it is fake. I imagine some girls can get quite wet, but they would probably need to be quite aroused.


Offline Mkhelen

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Probably a creampie before the shot
Or fake white lubrication

No women in reality has white cream ejaculation
It's only viscous and nearly transparent

Offline rioblack90

Probably a creampie before the shot
Or fake white lubrication

No women in reality has white cream ejaculation
It's only viscous and nearly transparent

Gonna jump in here and say sorry but it does happen, especially if you have a darker complexion the white juices of a female have deffo appeared on me. Not my thing personally usually it comes with a smell, not necessarily bad but a vagina smell nonetheless.

Unfortunately I dont know a girl that does this Escort wise you would probs have to find a girl that's a freak and really gets into it

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No women in reality has white cream ejaculation
It's only viscous and nearly transparent

Yeah, can be a sign they have either thrush or bacterial imbalances also.
It’s not really a good thing to have thick white vaginal discharge lol
Between clear to slightly milky may be completely normal  :hi:

Offline IAmNotFamous

Probably a creampie before the shot
Or fake white lubrication

No women in reality has white cream ejaculation
It's only viscous and nearly transparent

👆🏼👆🏼👆🏼this…it’s fake white lubricant

Offline LLPunting

Definitely experienced this creamy froth with some women's juices when fucking, like a top quality soap in softened water.   Best is when it has a persistent viscosity so it clings a little and the bubbles are so very small, the glide is exquisite as you churn.  If it's a little thicker then the "suckage" as the ridge of your bell-end starts to pull clear and then you slide back in can feel amazing, really starts firing all those nerve endings.
 
I've enjoyed some women who seemed to have a default consistency of their juices that reliably gave this experience and others where it happened sometimes and their juices were affected by their cycle and other factors determining the ph of their vaginal biome.  Definitely not a discharge thing, at least not yeasty, cottage creamy or particularly pungent.

I raised a frivolous thread a while back about larger girls having creamier pussies when similarly pondering how to more reliably encounter this joy.  It didn't seem to be any more likely at different ages of woman.  I had also wondered if ethnicity might be a factor but now suspect it's more to do with dietary content which may or may not be influenced by ethnicity of cuisine.  E.g. in my experience proportionately more Japanese girls have been creamier than Thai, Vietnamese or Chinese (listed in decreasing creaminess).  Most Caucasians even less so.  Africans (whether Anglo, Carribean or African) also seem to have been creamier.

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Bacterial Vaginanois causes white thick chunky discharge

Gonna jump in here and say sorry but it does happen, especially if you have a darker complexion the white juices of a female have deffo appeared on me. Not my thing personally usually it comes with a smell, not necessarily bad but a vagina smell nonetheless.

Unfortunately I dont know a girl that does this Escort wise you would probs have to find a girl that's a freak and really gets into it

Offline rioblack90

Bacterial Vaginanois causes white thick chunky discharge

Well fair play that explains it lol

I think the time it happened to me there was deffo a smell. Not repugnant but then again I only noticed it once or twice.. the more you know!

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I curious all these different races and weights

Where they civvies or sex workers?

Most sex workers have been known to prelube before a session to act excited or wet (a faux horny- SW trick)

How do you know if its natural / normal or STI /BV Infection or faked with false wet/ lubrication pre shot in vagina before you arrive



Definitely experienced this creamy froth with some women's juices when fucking, like a top quality soap in softened water.   Best is when it has a persistent viscosity so it clings a little and the bubbles are so very small, the glide is exquisite as you churn.  If it's a little thicker then the "suckage" as the ridge of your bell-end starts to pull clear and then you slide back in can feel amazing, really starts firing all those nerve endings.
 
I've enjoyed some women who seemed to have a default consistency of their juices that reliably gave this experience and others where it happened sometimes and their juices were affected by their cycle and other factors determining the ph of their vaginal biome.  Definitely not a discharge thing, at least not yeasty, cottage creamy or particularly pungent.

I raised a frivolous thread a while back about larger girls having creamier pussies when similarly pondering how to more reliably encounter this joy.  It didn't seem to be any more likely at different ages of woman.  I had also wondered if ethnicity might be a factor but now suspect it's more to do with dietary content which may or may not be influenced by ethnicity of cuisine.  E.g. in my experience proportionately more Japanese girls have been creamier than Thai, Vietnamese or Chinese (listed in decreasing creaminess).  Most Caucasians even less so.  Africans (whether Anglo, Carribean or African) also seem to have been creamier.

Offline LLPunting

I curious all these different races and weights

Where they civvies or sex workers?

Most sex workers have been known to prelube before a session to act excited or wet (a faux horny- SW trick)

How do you know if its natural / normal or STI /BV Infection or faked with false wet/ lubrication pre shot in vagina before you arrive

Civvies and sex workers.  Foolish as it may seem I'm pretty certain the sex workers I repeatedly experienced this with weren't pre-lubing.  With all partners there'd be copious RO, diddling and frigging involved so most lubes would've been noticed for their fake flavour or chemical taste and those that somehow escaped that scrutiny would've been diluted by spit and their own juices.  With SPs we were usually at least established "regulars" and familiar/friendly enough that faking fun was not part of the playbook (anymore).  Lubes usually wouldn't last repeated rounds of fun without reapplication and once we were off to the races it was just two people, no toys or other enhancers.

As already noted it certainly wasn't due to any serious malady with their vaginas that might produce noticeable abnormal discharge (which has at least one of texture, taste or smell as an indicator).  It would be beyond credible if they continued to suffer the same malady for months on end.  If they had anything else going on that they didn't declare then I suppose I was fortunate enough not to be infected/affected orally by ingesting significant amounts of their emissions.

In the case of civvies and the few SPs where we became more involved sex health was something we established before taking it to the next level.  Certainly it's possible some girls weren't as clued up about their gynacological health as one might hope but the likelihood of repeated random occurences seems unlikely.

If you know of any lube that can reliably produce this effect then please do share so that those of us interested might procure some.   :hi:

Offline myothernameis

I curious all these different races and weights

Where they civvies or sex workers?

Most sex workers have been known to prelube before a session to act excited or wet (a faux horny- SW trick)

How do you know if its natural / normal or STI /BV Infection or faked with false wet/ lubrication pre shot in vagina before you arrive


I had seen a Brazilian escort and we would always begin with a shared bath, so no chance to lube, and nicely warmed up

Once the shared bath is done, quick dry down, and the escort begins to give me a massage, and once I have turned over, I get my toys out

I usually have two toys, once inserted into pussy, and the other one on her clit, and her orgasms are never faked.   When the escort started to cum, some fluid started to ooze out, fluid was clear, but not waterery, it was more of a gel like substance

Offline Mkhelen

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Gel pessaries inserted in vagina before meet, melt in vagina while in warm bath and seeps out during play

A Gel consistency of female ejaculation is not normal

Offline LLPunting

Gel pessaries inserted in vagina before meet, melt in vagina while in warm bath and seeps out during play

A Gel consistency of female ejaculation is not normal

Is this a pessary designed specifically for play?  Brand? 
Google seems to be just suggesting treatment-based ones.

Offline Festa

Gel pessaries inserted in vagina before meet, melt in vagina while in warm bath and seeps out during play

A Gel consistency of female ejaculation is not normal

Gosh...and we all thought we were the sex machines responsible for this gushing!


Offline ik8133


I had seen a Brazilian escort and we would always begin with a shared bath, so no chance to lube, and nicely warmed up

Once the shared bath is done, quick dry down, and the escort begins to give me a massage, and once I have turned over, I get my toys out

I usually have two toys, once inserted into pussy, and the other one on her clit, and her orgasms are never faked.   When the escort started to cum, some fluid started to ooze out, fluid was clear, but not waterery, it was more of a gel like substance

Funnily enough I saw a Brazilian SB a few times that I met via off of Secret Benefits, the last time I saw her, before she departed home to Brazil, she encouraged me to "suck her pussy" as she put it.  Afterwards I noticed there was a fair bit of "cream", no smell or anything, just a creamy gel like substance, as you described. 
« Last Edit: December 21, 2022, 09:46:50 am by ik8133 »

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Gosh...and we all thought we were the sex machines responsible for this gushing!

Only the naive ones do

Offline Mkhelen

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It's not the most obvious lol
Not in sex shops it's in the pharmacy under
Menopausal vagina lube and pessaries

Is this a pessary designed specifically for play?  Brand? 
Google seems to be just suggesting treatment-based ones.
« Last Edit: December 21, 2022, 08:09:51 pm by Mkhelen »

Offline IdenV

Interesting topic, and I've definitely seem this "white cream" on a few civvies before. I have noticed that it usually happens after some time into sex (whether I use fingers, toys, dick, etc) and my physicist's brain thought that it appeared due to air mixing with the vaginal fluid, if the fluid conditions are right (the air can be trapped in the fluid for long enough, usually thanks to a protein), then the fluid changes into a foam, which is often white and creamy. Don't know if that's correct at all, but is my educated guess.

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I have come across this once or twice before and have always put it down to a combination of the girls natural juices mixed with the lubricant gell if I have used a dildo / vibrator on her beforehand  :unknown:

Offline heehaw

Women can 100%, definitely cream. It’s not thrush (which is lumpy) and it’s not a gel insert or whatever else will be suggested.
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Offline LLPunting

It's not the most obvious lol
Not in sex shops it's in the pharmacy under
Menopausal vagina lube and pessaries

Thanks, was hoping it was just a pleasure product in case the active ingredient might affect an otherwise healthy poonani.

Offline Joball87

May also depend on monthly cycle, medication or other things.

Offline Mr Sinister

Had only 1 prossie cream on me once in reverse GC, had civvies cream on me many times, it has been said when a woman is fully aroused and 'turned on' she can secreate the cream.

Offline Doc Holliday

May also depend on monthly cycle, medication or other things.

This ^

Normal secretions produced by the vaginal lining are clear and watery and would normally increase in amount during sexual stimulation, especially when the Bartholin Glands kick into action. However when it mixes with cervical fluid/mucous then the consistency and colour changes. The latter is mostly dependent on the stage of the menstrual cycle, but thicker white secretions are both normal and common. Seen it many many times.

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Please let's not go down the route of female ejaculation, which is an entirely different discussion  :D

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Definitely had this with both escorts and civvies so not fake or BV. It's one of those things some get wet, some squirt, some cream. I would be dubious about anything in porn outside homemade stuff though.

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Thanks, was hoping it was just a pleasure product in case the active ingredient might affect an otherwise healthy poonani.

It can be used in any aged healthy vaginas
Menopausal vagina are healthy too

You mean young girl not healthy enough lol

Offline LLPunting

It can be used in any aged healthy vaginas
Menopausal vagina are healthy too

You mean young girl not healthy enough lol

By "healthy" I meant their biome was in their respective optimal conditions, women having different individual balances that work best for them, adding anything more to them could disrupt this causing irritation and infection.
The menopausal products seem to be oestrogen supplements but I've no idea if that's all they contain that different women may or may not react to.

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Most are actually non hormone based
Replens  : :yahoo:

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By "healthy" I meant their biome was in their respective optimal conditions, women having different individual balances that work best for them, adding anything more to them could disrupt this causing irritation and infection.
The menopausal products seem to be oestrogen supplements but I've no idea if that's all they contain that different women may or may not react to.

I don't usually post and for transparency, I am a SP, albeit one whom is resting (and not advertising anywhere) at present.  so please do change my user name and status accordingly).  Am only posting on this thread because I want to bring a little clarity to it.

You're confusing two very different things - the vagina's biome and hormone levels. 

There are topical oestrogen products that are used in menopausal, most notably something called Vagifem.  This is a very low dose of estriol in the form of a small pill-like pessary that is absorbed directly into the vaginal walls.  It does not enter the blood stream.  Also available are various vaginal moisturisers which are very different to lube. Vaginal moisturisers are water-based, much like KY Jelly and do not contain any kind of hormones.  They are tasteless, so you won't notice them but they will make the vagina beautifully moist, but not soaking wet. Regrettably, the idea of 'dried up old hags' is true to a degree.  Some, after menopause find their vaginas no longer lubricate and sex is horribly painful.  But it is not just about sex, if the vagina gets too dry, the skin can split and infection set in.  In some instances, the vaginal walls can stick together and seal shut.  This comes under the term 'atrophy'.  Atrophy has many facets. Another is shrinkage of the labia and clitoris, and even the vagina itself, the latter of which makes penetrative sex painful, if not impossible. Vagifem will stop all of this, but not all women know about it.  Also, many women are too embarrassed to talk to their GP about it.

A woman's hormone levels will not affect her vagina's biome. The vagina, like the gut, has its own biome.  For those whom don't understand, this is a delicate balance of bacteria, or flora as it is known.  Oestrogen suppositories like Vagifem or any other topical oestrogen do not affect this.  BV is caused by the biome being off - lots of things can also upset the vagina's biome - scented toilet paper, soap, cheap nylon knickers, douching, washing with soap or other intimate products, latex condoms, not wiping properly after urinating to name just a few things. 

The long and short of it is that a woman's vaginal secretions are caused by hormone levels.  Hormone levels do not remain static, they are constantly in flux and variable dependent not only on the time of day, but also the time of the month. No two women will work in the same way.  Every single woman's hormone balance is unique to them.  This is why there is no female version of viagra, and nor is there one-size fits all HRT supplement either as it's just too difficult to produce. 

There's a chart linked to upthread about cervical secretions.  It is absolutely spot-on.  I realised I was likely going through a premature menopause/no longer ovulating because I wasn't no longer getting the associated discharge.  Prior to menopause, I always needed lube. Even when I was massively turned on by someone, my vagina didn't always self-lubricate, yet, sometimes, I could be walking down the street and be as wet as anything.  Now I am post-menopause and use Vagifem, I no longer need lube. It's a wonder product. My vagina secretions tend to by viscous and white.

So, and to conclude - vaginal secretions - in an ideal world, when a woman becomes sexually aroused, they're vaginas self-lubriacate.  But for many, this isn't the case.  It is not a reflection of the man they are with, it is just the way their bodies work. This is why many women use lube, so sex is more comfortable (and also so the condom does not dry out).  Some women produce lots of secretions, others do not.  Like men, all women are unique, so there is not a one-size fits all answer or solution.

I hope my post makes sense.  It's a huge topic, that many, not even medical professionals understand fully, and it has been hard to write comprehensively and concisely.  I only know a lot because I made it my business to find out when I went through a premature menopause in my 30s and various GPs refused to believe me.

Any questions, please do ask.
« Last Edit: December 22, 2022, 05:47:41 pm by daviemac »

Offline akauya

Thanks Dunhill. Very informative post.


Some, after menopause find their vaginas no longer lubricate and sex is horribly painful.  But it is not just about sex, if the vagina gets too dry, the skin can split and infection set in.  In some instances, the vaginal walls can stick together and seal shut.  This comes under the term 'atrophy'. 

Didn't know about this (highlighted bit) sounds awful and painful.

« Last Edit: December 23, 2022, 10:42:04 am by akauya »


Offline tigerbiker

It is definitely natural in some cases. My ex wife would tend to get creamy on the days of her cycle when she was horny. She had a large black rabbit type vibrator and when she got going with that, particularly when fully inserted and she got to an orgasm, there would be a ring of creamy white residue at the top of the shaft. It was not lube, smelly infection or spunk. Probably cervical secretions as described above that was oozed out by the large vibrator shaft. Having said that, she was not a good sex parther - most of the time she was fridgid, sexless and had a pussy as dry as the desert - I think she had big hormone swings that gave big ups and downs in her libido (which is what pushed me over to escorts and divorce!). I don't miss cleaning up that secrtion (but it tasted quite nice :dancegirl:)

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Awesome post, many thanks for it.

In my brevity I did not mean to suggest that biome and hormone levels weren't different things or that the biome controlled vaginal secretions (which are clearly not just those resulting from arousal).  I had not looked at medical research about any relationship between the state of the biome and hormones levels or indeed any other biochemical state of a woman's body (Google, filtered for past year, does throw up a number of medical research links suggesting impact on the biome by hormone level and resultant secretion levels).  It would not surprise me if the behaviour/properties of secretions once they mixed and interacted with the biome might be different to just pure secretion, which would include arousal emissions.

Thanks again for your insight and sharing your personal story.  :drinks:

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Awesome post, many thanks for it.

In my brevity I did not mean to suggest that biome and hormone levels weren't different things or that the biome controlled vaginal secretions (which are clearly not just those resulting from arousal).  I had not looked at medical research about any relationship between the state of the biome and hormones levels or indeed any other biochemical state of a woman's body (Google, filtered for past year, does throw up a number of medical research links suggesting impact on the biome by hormone level and resultant secretion levels).  It would not surprise me if the behaviour/properties of secretions once they mixed and interacted with the biome might be different to just pure secretion, which would include arousal emissions.

Thanks again for your insight and sharing your personal story.  :drinks:

I didn't mean to jump on you/your post personally, it's just that you (and others in this thread) are trying to quantify something that healthcare/medical  professionals, scientific researchers and big pharmaceutical companies and the like don't fully understand, so there isn't really a definitive answer.

Was hesitant to post but there is so much supposition on this thread I wanted to clarify things. As woman, I can given you a personal account of my own body which will be far more useful than reading a myriad of sources online and trying to synthesise the information.  But that won't give you a complete picture, because this isn't a well-researched subject. Seriously. Medical research companies just aren't interested in women's health, more so women's reproductive health and the endocrine system as there's just too many variants.

There’s a reason it is said women are ruled by their hormones, because to a degree, it is true. At puberty, women start producing ‘sex hormones’, that is the hormones that allow them to ovulate and carry a foetus to terms.  These are oestrogen, progesterone, testosterone to name the main three, although there are more, seven in total.  Puberty not only triggers the production of these hormones, it also switches on receptors for these hormones - there are receptors in every single cell in a woman's body (much like men's cells have receptors in their cells too), and if the hormone levels are not in harmony, the body won't won’t work as it should.  What this can mean varies from women to women and is a whole other topic, although of course, some women have no issues whatsoever. When going through menopause, the sex hormones cease production. (It's like puberty in reserve).  However, every single cell still has receptors for these so-called sex hormones.  Some women’s bodies can cope fine without the hormones, others, like mine did not.  A classic sign I'm sure you all know of are hot flushes, but there's actually 38 known symptoms and I had to deal with 37 of them.  I take HRT which comprises two different types of oestrogen, (one of which is vagina specific), progesterone and testosterone.  The latter does not cause my clit to enlarge. As I said in my previous post, for the first time in my sexual active life, my vagina has never been happier and have no problem getting wet! In a way, the gift of a premature menopause was I finally found a solution for my less than wet pussy. Many women do not take HRT.  Maybe doctors/GPs don't even know about the vagina specific topical oestrogen that will save a woman's sex life (and vagina). But then again, some women don't need it.

Many women have no idea how their bodies really work. I only learnt to understand mine because I had too.  Many women are bought up to believe their bodies are dirty and it’s shameful to talk about them.  No-one really talks about the realities of the menopause or menstruation for that matter, even women themselves, because we all have such different experiences anyway, it’s not always helpful as the issues I have, others might not.  And when we don’t have lived-in experience of something, it makes it difficult to empathise with others.  Many doctors/GPs just aren’t interested in women’s gynaecological health or well being.  (Indeed, my own GP told me when I was having issues that it’s something women went through and I needed to put up with it. Thankfully, I was able to throw money at the problem and see a specialist on Harley Street).

Much of the problem is society as a whole and how much value is put on young women and as women age, they are seen (by some) as less desirable.  After all, women dry up, isn't that the joke.  Except it's not for some.  As a result, the whole menopause and even one’s vagina not performing in the expected way is hard to talk about, and for many, taboo. Woman are made to feel lesser and undesirable for something beyond their control.  Often, women simply stop having sex rather than investigate why sex has suddenly become painful or the desire is no longer there.  Or they know doctors aren’t massively interested in the root cause.  Again, one’s hormones, and most notably.  After pregnancy, ones hormones are all over the place and for some, never settle back again. Again, some women have no interest in sorting this out. 

Lube, while many of you loathe it (indeed, one recently banned poster even used to mark SPs negatively for using it) is a necessity for many many women otherwise sex is painful.  To be angry or feel cheated about use of lube is a form of misogyny, particularly in an environment when you are remunerating a woman for penetrative sex. Why would you want to have sex with a woman who feels discomfort?

On a related note (and based on what I have read in many threads) - the size of a woman’s vagina bears NO relation to her size/weight - bigger women do not have larger vaginas, and more petite women do not have smaller vaginas.  It’s like saying all men with large and hands and feet have a big dick, and those with small hands and feet have a little dick.  There’s simply no correlation. Vaginas are like penises in this respect. They come in all sizes, and are unique to the individual - you cannot tell simply by looking at a woman if she has a large or small pussy. 

Hopefully this extra information is all useful ;)

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PS. Apologies for these two rather waffly posts that cover a multitude of bases but it's such a huge topic the OP is asking about, one that it's difficult to explain all the variants.  If you, the reader that is, takes just one thing from my posts, is to stop trying to classify women into a type - treat each woman/as the individual she is, rather than focus on something she might have little control of or knowledge about.


Peace and love to you all, and of course, Happy Christmas!  :drinks:





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Thanks for sharing that.  Definitely not waffly, two very insightful posts.

On a related note (and based on what I have read in many threads) - the size of a woman’s vagina bears NO relation to her size/weight - bigger women do not have larger vaginas, and more petite women do not have smaller vaginas.
Would vouch that in my experience size/weight does not correlate to vagina size.

Offline Thephoenix

Thanks for your insightful posts dunhill.

I think both women and men are 'ruled' by their hormones far more than we realise.

At the end of an interesting article I've linked below, the author concludes:-
Sexual motivations and individual motivations aside, one thing is certain:
We are, despite our modern advancements and sophistication, animals whose genes and hormones continue to drive our behaviour at the most basic levels.
Without our realizing it, bodily chemicals are constantly at work to ensure our continued existence.

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Thanks for your insightful posts dunhill.

I think both women and men are 'ruled' by their hormones far more than we realise.

At the end of an interesting article I've linked below, the author concludes:-
Sexual motivations and individual motivations aside, one thing is certain:
We are, despite our modern advancements and sophistication, animals whose genes and hormones continue to drive our behaviour at the most basic levels.
Without our realizing it, bodily chemicals are constantly at work to ensure our continued existence.

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Yes, as I state in my post (and know first hand), women are very much ruled by their hormones.  What is particularly fascinating is that hormonal contraception can influence women's choice of mate - External Link/Members Only


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Yes, as I state in my post (and know first hand), women are very much ruled by their hormones.  What is particularly fascinating is that hormonal contraception can influence women's choice of mate - External Link/Members Only

Your posts are both easy to read and very informative, hormones have played a big part in my life, my own probably, but most certainly with my wives and partners.
Trying to understand them, particularly around the menopause and the body clock has saved me far more heartache than it has caused me. I think a better person too  :D.

Offline Greenman365

I didn't mean to jump on you/your post personally, it's just that you (and others in this thread) are trying to quantify something that healthcare/medical  professionals, scientific researchers and big pharmaceutical companies and the like don't fully understand, so there isn't really a definitive answer.

Was hesitant to post but there is so much supposition on this thread I wanted to clarify things. As woman, I can given you a personal account of my own body which will be far more useful than reading a myriad of sources online and trying to synthesise the information.  But that won't give you a complete picture, because this isn't a well-researched subject. Seriously. Medical research companies just aren't interested in women's health, more so women's reproductive health and the endocrine system as there's just too many variants.

There’s a reason it is said women are ruled by their hormones, because to a degree, it is true. At puberty, women start producing ‘sex hormones’, that is the hormones that allow them to ovulate and carry a foetus to terms.  These are oestrogen, progesterone, testosterone to name the main three, although there are more, seven in total.  Puberty not only triggers the production of these hormones, it also switches on receptors for these hormones - there are receptors in every single cell in a woman's body (much like men's cells have receptors in their cells too), and if the hormone levels are not in harmony, the body won't won’t work as it should.  What this can mean varies from women to women and is a whole other topic, although of course, some women have no issues whatsoever. When going through menopause, the sex hormones cease production. (It's like puberty in reserve).  However, every single cell still has receptors for these so-called sex hormones.  Some women’s bodies can cope fine without the hormones, others, like mine did not.  A classic sign I'm sure you all know of are hot flushes, but there's actually 38 known symptoms and I had to deal with 37 of them.  I take HRT which comprises two different types of oestrogen, (one of which is vagina specific), progesterone and testosterone.  The latter does not cause my clit to enlarge. As I said in my previous post, for the first time in my sexual active life, my vagina has never been happier and have no problem getting wet! In a way, the gift of a premature menopause was I finally found a solution for my less than wet pussy. Many women do not take HRT.  Maybe doctors/GPs don't even know about the vagina specific topical oestrogen that will save a woman's sex life (and vagina). But then again, some women don't need it.

Many women have no idea how their bodies really work. I only learnt to understand mine because I had too.  Many women are bought up to believe their bodies are dirty and it’s shameful to talk about them.  No-one really talks about the realities of the menopause or menstruation for that matter, even women themselves, because we all have such different experiences anyway, it’s not always helpful as the issues I have, others might not.  And when we don’t have lived-in experience of something, it makes it difficult to empathise with others.  Many doctors/GPs just aren’t interested in women’s gynaecological health or well being.  (Indeed, my own GP told me when I was having issues that it’s something women went through and I needed to put up with it. Thankfully, I was able to throw money at the problem and see a specialist on Harley Street).

Much of the problem is society as a whole and how much value is put on young women and as women age, they are seen (by some) as less desirable.  After all, women dry up, isn't that the joke.  Except it's not for some.  As a result, the whole menopause and even one’s vagina not performing in the expected way is hard to talk about, and for many, taboo. Woman are made to feel lesser and undesirable for something beyond their control.  Often, women simply stop having sex rather than investigate why sex has suddenly become painful or the desire is no longer there.  Or they know doctors aren’t massively interested in the root cause.  Again, one’s hormones, and most notably.  After pregnancy, ones hormones are all over the place and for some, never settle back again. Again, some women have no interest in sorting this out. 

Lube, while many of you loathe it (indeed, one recently banned poster even used to mark SPs negatively for using it) is a necessity for many many women otherwise sex is painful.  To be angry or feel cheated about use of lube is a form of misogyny, particularly in an environment when you are remunerating a woman for penetrative sex. Why would you want to have sex with a woman who feels discomfort?

On a related note (and based on what I have read in many threads) - the size of a woman’s vagina bears NO relation to her size/weight - bigger women do not have larger vaginas, and more petite women do not have smaller vaginas.  It’s like saying all men with large and hands and feet have a big dick, and those with small hands and feet have a little dick.  There’s simply no correlation. Vaginas are like penises in this respect. They come in all sizes, and are unique to the individual - you cannot tell simply by looking at a woman if she has a large or small pussy. 

Hopefully this extra information is all useful ;)

If anyone has any other vagina-related questions, just ask! Alternatively, for those who are really interested, External Link/Members Only is well worth your time

PS. Apologies for these two rather waffly posts that cover a multitude of bases but it's such a huge topic the OP is asking about, one that it's difficult to explain all the variants.  If you, the reader that is, takes just one thing from my posts, is to stop trying to classify women into a type - treat each woman/as the individual she is, rather than focus on something she might have little control of or knowledge about.


Peace and love to you all, and of course, Happy Christmas!  :drinks:
How do I send this to the missus?
She needs to get her fanny sorted.

Joking aside, it is why am here (and many more)
Not getting enough at home.

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Women can 100%, definitely cream. It’s not thrush (which is lumpy) and it’s not a gel insert or whatever else will be suggested.
Isn't it about time you contributed on this forum by way of a review ? You have been a member here almost seven and a half years, and judging by your posts, you are an active punter. Poor form mate, poor form.  :thumbsdown:

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Women can 100%, definitely cream. It’s not thrush (which is lumpy) and it’s not a gel insert or whatever else will be suggested.
I don’t seem to be able to find any of your reviews in the last 7 years matey, is there a reason?

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How do I send this to the missus?
She needs to get her fanny sorted.

Joking aside, it is why am here (and many more)
Not getting enough at home.

If you talk to your wife with that kind of compassion, then maybe that's part of the reason you're going without.  Have you actually tried talking to her? 

If your wife is going through menopause/is post-menopause, it might not even be this, it might be her libido has dropped off a cliff and the thought of sex revolts her, or maybe she doesn't even think about sex whatsoever.  I speak from experience as this is another charming result of this magical time in a woman's life. Some women never have any interest in sex at all and only participate because they want children. 

Many women just do not join the dots and realise the bigger picture, so you should try talking to her.  Vagifem only works for the vagina, HRT will work for everything else and if her loss of libido is due to her hormone levels, then theoretically, it should make her interested in being sexual with you again.  But not all women want HRT or can take it.  But, as it's topical and does not enter the bloodstream, all can use Vagifem.  It's also now available over the counter at Boots and other chemists without a prescription under the name External Link/Members Only. It is also advertised on tv, so if you see it on tv, that might be an opportunity to discuss things with her.

If you do talk to her, be kind, which I am sure you will be.  Good luck!

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I was incredibly reticent to post on this thread, you're all very intimidating. Thank you for being so kind. 

Will dip into this thread over the next few days, so if anyone does have any questions, will respond to them and also to LilytheSavage's post too

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I was incredibly reticent to post on this thread, you're all very intimidating. Thank you for being so kind. 

Will dip into this thread over the next few days, so if anyone does have any questions, will respond to them and also to LilytheSavage's post too

I hope we're not 'all very intimidating.'
You're posts have been very interesting.
Thanks for taking the time to express your thoughts so eloquently.

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I hope we're not 'all very intimidating.'
You're posts have been very interesting.
Thanks for taking the time to express your thoughts so eloquently.

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I was incredibly reticent to post on this thread, you're all very intimidating. Thank you for being so kind. 

Will dip into this thread over the next few days, so if anyone does have any questions, will respond to them and also to LilytheSavage's post too

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You get a thick skin after a while, the not so pleasant are in the minority. Good posts by the way. I did laugh at the assumption by some that your body size reflects your vagina size  :D
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You get a thick skin after a while, the not so pleasant are in the minority. Good posts by the way. I did laugh at the assumption by some that your body size reflects your vagina size  :D

I have enjoyed the snuggest of froufrous in some of the heaviest or stoutest/tallest of ladies I have romped with.  Also been bitterly disappointed with the lack of contact felt in petite ladies under 5'.