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Online Markc

Have you ever bought a regular SP a Christmas Present or been given a present from an escort?

Offline the_exile

Got a bottle of wine from the lady who runs a Chinese place!

Online Punterperson1971

Same a bottle of wine from my regular

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Offline tynetunnel

Last year's thread: Christmas Presents?

Well done, you saved me the job of finding last years thread  :drinks:

Offline king tarzan

I go for my Christmas present
There heavenly beauty 😋😋😋😋👅👅👅👅👅😋😋😋👅👅👅
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Offline Blackpool Rock

Well done, you saved me the job of finding last years thread  :drinks:
Yeah and me, i've seen a few girls in the lead up to Xmas this year and we've both exchanged presents, i've given them money and they've given me a condom and sex, works for me just like that  :hi:

Offline JonasG

The thought has never entered my mind.

Offline Philmeboots

just like Santa ,I pop round to empty my sack. Don't even enter the chimney chute or sneak out the back door very often..Just let her ring the  turkeys neck and leave.

Offline Thephoenix

I usually go and see my favourite at Christmas and she always says I remind her of Santa.
She says you only come once a year, but when you do, you fill my stockings.

Offline sharpshoes78

No, the same way I don't buy one for people working at Tesco
I am there for a service and our relationship is purely transactional

Offline Blackpool Rock

just like Santa ,I pop round to empty my sack. Don't even enter the chimney chute or sneak out the back door very often..Just let her ring the  turkeys neck and leave.
There's a joke in there somewhere about stuffing but I can't quite find it  :D

Offline MysteryManNo.7

No, the same way I don't buy one for people working at Tesco
I am there for a service and our relationship is purely transactional

This. I was with a popular escort recently and we got to talking about how so many clients don't seem to understand that this relationship is purely transactional. I like and respect these women but the whole reason I am paying for sex is because it's easy and keeps things simple .To me things such as buying presents for them muddies the water and starts to smack of getting too attached.

Online r1buoy

I have given a regular a bottle of champagne at Christmas time in the past, she was very grateful :dance:

Sadly she moved on a while ago.

Offline big-al93

No, the same way I don't buy one for people working at Tesco
I am there for a service and our relationship is purely transactional

Yet a lot of people still do gifts/tips for the postie and dustmen, to thank them for their service throughout the year. I don't do it, but if I did, I'd consider the lass that sucks my cock more deserving than the person that shoves random junk mail and bills through my letterbox.

Online MissWolf

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This. I was with a popular escort recently and we got to talking about how so many clients don't seem to understand that this relationship is purely transactional. I like and respect these women but the whole reason I am paying for sex is because it's easy and keeps things simple .To me things such as buying presents for them muddies the water and starts to smack of getting too attached.

Kind of this, I find it a bit uncomfortable receiving gifts from clients, the only gift I want is repeat business.

I have 2 exceptions, both have been seeing me for 6 and 7 years now,  one gives me double my fee for Xmas, the other gets me chocolates and gives me a tip, both are absolutely top guys who have never given me a moment of worry .


Online finn5555

I exchange gifts with the SB I’m seeing but wouldn’t with a prostitute
Neither would I expect a gift either  :hi:

Offline king tarzan

Kind of this, I find it a bit uncomfortable receiving gifts from clients, the only gift I want is repeat business.

I have 2 exceptions, both have been seeing me for 6 and 7 years now,  one gives me double my fee for Xmas, the other gets me chocolates and gives me a tip, both are absolutely top guys who have never given me a moment of worry .

You should not be taking more than your advertised fee..
Taking double fee is denying someone close to him a Christmas gift..
You should decline the acceptance of the double fee..
Chocolate is ok to take..
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Offline Lou2019

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You should not be taking more than your advertised fee..
Taking double fee is denying someone close to him a Christmas gift..
You should decline the acceptance of the double fee..
Chocolate is ok to take..

Please tell me you are joking  :rolleyes:

Online finn5555

You should not be taking more than your advertised fee..
Taking double fee is denying someone close to him a Christmas gift..
You should decline the acceptance of the double fee..
Chocolate is ok to take..

KT they are in it for the money so if a punter offers more they will take it  :sarcastic:



« Last Edit: December 17, 2022, 01:47:54 pm by finn5555 »

Offline JD1

No I wouldn’t give them gifts nor would I expect any.

If they want to charge me half price that is fine, but I’m not paying double. :D

I was with an SP the other day who told me a client she saw before me gave her a £500 tip for christmas.  :wacko:
« Last Edit: December 17, 2022, 01:50:07 pm by JD1 »

Online MissWolf

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You should not be taking more than your advertised fee..
Taking double fee is denying someone close to him a Christmas gift..
You should decline the acceptance of the double fee..
Chocolate is ok to take..

Oh do shut up and fuck off you silly little man

I have no idea who you think you are telling others what they should and shouldn't do or take, you really are a joke  :lol:

Go shove a mango up yer arse it might improve your disposition somewhat  :hi:

Merry Xmas  :coolgirl:

Offline JD1

Go shove a mango up yer arse
After reading a couple of KTs reviews and seeing his obsession with mangos I couldn’t help but laugh at this one. :lol:

Online MissWolf

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KT they are in it for the money so if a punter offers more they will take it  :sarcastic:

And here comes the cavalry riding in on his white horse to save KT  :lol:


Online finn5555

And here comes the cavalry riding in on his white horse to save KT  :lol:

I’m disagreeing with him!
His statement is rubbish

Nice of you to stalk me mind you 😂

Online MissWolf

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I exchange gifts with the SB I’m seeing but wouldn’t with a prostitute
Neither would I expect a gift either  :hi:

You pay your SB in some way though.....Yes?  :rolleyes:

Online finn5555

No I wouldn’t give them gifts nor would I expect any.

If they want to charge me half price that is fine, but I’m not paying double. :D

I was with an SP the other day who told me a client she saw before me gave her a £500 tip for christmas.  :wacko:

I know of one who got a John Lewis gift card for £1000 😳

Online MissWolf

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I’m disagreeing with him!
His statement is rubbish

Nice of you to stalk me mind you 😂

Odd way to disagree

Not stalking you Finn don't flatter yourself  :rolleyes:

Online finn5555

Odd way to disagree

Not stalking you Finn don't flatter yourself  :rolleyes:

Here we go again  :dash:
just put me on ignore and for the record your not my type  :hi:

Offline Lou2019

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KT they are in it for the money so if a punter offers more they will take it  :sarcastic:

Obviously 🙄 who’s gonna refuse free money! Of course we are in it for the money it’s our job! Do you work for free  :unknown:

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Oh do shut up and fuck off you silly little man

I have no idea who you think you are telling others what they should and shouldn't do or take, you really are a joke  :lol:

Go shove a mango up yer arse it might improve your disposition somewhat  :hi:

Merry Xmas  :coolgirl:

Fucking brilliant  :thumbsup: I love you lol

Online finn5555

Obviously 🙄 who’s gonna refuse free money! Of course we are in it for the money it’s our job! Do you work for free  :unknown:


Exactly Lou, that’s my point. Whilst I personally don’t agree with punters paying extra or giving money as gifts it’s their money their choice

Offline Blackpool Rock

Oh do shut up and fuck off you silly little man

I have no idea who you think you are telling others what they should and shouldn't do or take, you really are a joke  :lol:

Go shove a mango up yer arse it might improve your disposition somewhat  :hi:

Merry Xmas  :coolgirl:
Best laugh i've had in ages this post  :D Merry Xmas  :hi:

Offline alabama1

This. I was with a popular escort recently and we got to talking about how so many clients don't seem to understand that this relationship is purely transactional. I like and respect these women but the whole reason I am paying for sex is because it's easy and keeps things simple .To me things such as buying presents for them muddies the water and starts to smack of getting too attached.
Nothing to do with them being out of your league then in civvy street.  :rolleyes:

Offline Blackpool Rock

No I wouldn’t give them gifts nor would I expect any.

If they want to charge me half price that is fine, but I’m not paying double. :D

I was with an SP the other day who told me a client she saw before me gave her a £500 tip for christmas:wacko:
Could have been bullshit or could have been a tip but less but sounds like it was designed to make to feel like a tight cunt if you also didn't tip her at the end  :thumbsdown:

Online finn5555

Could have been bullshit or could have been a tip but less but sounds like it was designed to make to feel like a tight cunt if you also didn't tip her at the end  :thumbsdown:

I can’t say I’ve ever felt the expectation from a prossie to tip

Maybe the “that’s extra baby” is the subtle hint 😂😂😂


Offline JD1

Could have been bullshit or could have been a tip but less but sounds like it was designed to make to feel like a tight cunt if you also didn't tip her at the end  :thumbsdown:

Yeah it did make me think about it, although I don’t think that was her intention to be fair.

Either way, I didn’t tip - I always take the exact amount of money with me.

I already spend too much on punting without tipping. :D

Offline dubs

Michelle Independent once gave me a card and a small box of chocolates after a December punt.  I was very grateful, but had to refuse the card as there's no way I could have taken it home, and I thought it wasteful to take it and then to bin it.  Chocs were nice though and were consumed on the journey.

Offline king tarzan

I’m disagreeing with him!
His statement is rubbish

Nice of you to stalk me mind you 😂

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Online Atrueyorkie

No, the same way I don't buy one for people working at Tesco
I am there for a service and our relationship is purely transactional

Haha golden comment  :D

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Michelle Independent once gave me a card and a small box of chocolates after a December punt.  I was very grateful, but had to refuse the card as there's no way I could have taken it home, and I thought it wasteful to take it and then to bin it.  Chocs were nice though and were consumed on the journey.
That is something a lot of people don't consider, I have no idea about an escort's personal situation they may not be in a position to take a gift home or have to explain where it came from.

Far better keep it as a business transaction, it's often been said the best gift is repeat visits.

Offline king tarzan

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Online Atrueyorkie

This. I was with a popular escort recently and we got to talking about how so many clients don't seem to understand that this relationship is purely transactional. I like and respect these women but the whole reason I am paying for sex is because it's easy and keeps things simple .To me things such as buying presents for them muddies the water and starts to smack of getting too attached.

100% we can get on and be cordial but the main fact some, can’t speak for all, is the no strings attached element. I don’t have to say good morning texts every day or buy gifts. In and out.

Online Atrueyorkie

You should not be taking more than your advertised fee..
Taking double fee is denying someone close to him a Christmas gift..
You should decline the acceptance of the double fee..
Chocolate is ok to take..

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

Online MissWolf

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Here we go again  :dash:
just put me on ignore and for the record your not my type  :hi:

Thank god for small mercies  :rolleyes:

Look I never said we don't do this for money, of course we do,what I'm saying is you are like a broken record with your prossies are all money grabbing, liars, cheats etc

Of my two regs one is a cross dresser and as the wife doesn't know I do his smalls washing for him, giving me a gift makes him happy,  it's not always the receiving that matters or what you recieve, its how you receive it.

I don't need to put you on ignore I'm not that woke but if you're ever having trouble sleeping just talk to yourself,  you will drop off in no time  :hi:

Offline MysteryManNo.7

Nothing to do with them being out of your league then in civvy street.  :rolleyes:

You say that and when starting punting over 4 years ago I would have agreed but over those years I have dated an escort, been asked out by multiple escorts that I would consider way out of my league and had quite a few contact me out of the blue flirting with me and offering to see me again for a steep discount.

Punting has really helped me learn a lot about myself and build my confidence. I still have low self-esteem but the points listed above have helped this.

I think one of the reasons I don't develop EAS is because I've dated an escort and experienced how complicated it makes things. I am looking to meet a woman for an actual relationship but I do not go and see escorts for a relationship, its purely to have no strings attached sex. Sure, some girls I like more than others and I respect all of the escorts I see and love that they are all unique but the only 'gift' they will gey from me if I like them is that I see them more than once.

Online finn5555

Thank god for small mercies  :rolleyes:

Look I never said we don't do this for money, of course we do,what I'm saying is you are like a broken record with your prossies are all money grabbing, liars, cheats etc


Never said all just the vast majority  :rolleyes:

Leading a double life many start believing the lies themselves  :hi:

Same can be said of punters of course we all lie and cheat to some degree.

Stay safe on your pedestal  :D

Online finn5555

Michelle Independent once gave me a card and a small box of chocolates after a December punt.  I was very grateful, but had to refuse the card as there's no way I could have taken it home, and I thought it wasteful to take it and then to bin it.  Chocs were nice though and were consumed on the journey.

Did she have some Tipex for the card to recycle for the next punter 😂😂😂

Offline Kool Keef

I generally don't have regulars cos variety is the spice of life & all that but I had an SP I was seeing regularly last year & we got along great & had some great sessions, she was gonna be stopping working around Xmas last year due to personal circumstances so for my last booking with her just before Christmas I took her a bottle of her favourite drink as a present and in return she gave me free A levels :D
Best prezzie I had last year

Only other time i've bought anything resembling a gift was a few years ago I used to buy another reg bags of her favourite Haribo because she'd been great to me during a lot of bookings, not charging me for extras on a few occasions.
« Last Edit: December 17, 2022, 05:00:44 pm by Kool Keef »

Offline KatieEdinburgh

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Leading a double life many start believing the lies themselves  :hi:

Same can be said of punters of course we all lie and cheat to some degree.

We all lie and cheat? Do we? Lol speak for yourself I guess  :hi:
I’m fully honest with my entire circle of friends and family all know what I do…… and in this day in age it’s actually increasing that you can be open with sex work on applications for jobs especially third sector work, and companies with more modern values. I’ve seen lots of sex worker friendly creative jobs advertised. You say “vast majority” of us are money grabbing cheats wow… must be a sad time to believe that yet also use us, that’s all. And so far from the truth.