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Offline Little Joe

How much of an exchange with the SP do you have when booking a punt.
I noticed a comment on another thread where a punter mentioned that he exchanges a few emails making clear his expectations and seeks to build up some sexual tension at the same time.
For my part I generally just book either by a txt or via AW and leave it at that...I don’t go into chapter and verse or try to build a rapport I wonder if I’m in the minority 🤔
« Last Edit: February 24, 2021, 12:29:28 pm by Little Joe »
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Offline teddyking

I just send a standard text “hi are you available for an incall later today at x’ o clock?” Then I get a yes or no and I then I ask for the postcode and tell them il give them a call before I set off to their address. If they don’t pick up the phone or text back to confirm, I don’t start my journey there
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Offline JonasG

I'll always text them unless their profile says only calls. (I've never booked through AW, not interested in building up AW feedback and 99% of WGs will take bookings by phone)

I'm not interested in long drawn out convos by text, I ask if they're available at said time for whatever duration and that's it. Booking made.

Offline Hobbit

Keep it short and simple. Most Hookers don't like long emails or message exchanges. You'll soon piss them off.

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

I just send a standard text “hi are you available for an incall later today at x’ o clock?” Then I get a yes or no and I then I ask for the postcode and tell them il give them a call before I set off to their address. If they don’t pick up the phone or text back to confirm, I don’t start my journey there

Also confirm how long you want to meet for, and also how mucho £££ then theres no argy bargy!...

Offline Watts.E.Dunn

Keep it short and simple. Most Hookers don't like long emails or message exchanges. You'll soon piss them off.

Yes it also pisses punters off as they reply to prosective punters whilst the existing punter is balls deep in them and starting to loose it with the distractions!!!

Offline Hobbit

Yes it also pisses punters off as they reply to prosective punters whilst the existing punter is balls deep in them and starting to loose it with the distractions!!!

Girls should never be replying whilst your balls deep in her. If a girl did that I would never see her again.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2021, 01:02:26 pm by Hobbit »

Offline Home Alone

With the Regular who I see one Sunday a month - she's got a 'Day job' in Civvy Street so Sundays are the best day for us these days - we fix the next meet before I leave her.

When I want to see someone who's new to me, I'll open negotiations up to 10 days in advance. At present, because of the virus, I'm trying to keep it in my trousers until April or May, when I hope most of those services we used to compare with Escorting last year will be back working so that we can use that comparison again.
« Last Edit: February 24, 2021, 01:38:04 pm by Home Alone »

Offline cideruk

Find out if they are available on certain date, usually a few days ahead or more
Then when they reply
Clarify what they do and don't, ideally get a better idea of location as I try and avoid town centres, clothing request
Then confirm it all

Usually all via AW unless they insist on using phone


Offline Little Joe

With the Regular who I see one Sunday a month - she's got a 'Day job' in Civvy Street so Sundays are the best day for us these days - we fix the next meet before I leave her.

When I want to see someone who's new to me, I'll open negotiations up to 10 days in advance. At present, because of the virus, I'm trying to keep it in my trousers until April or May, when I hope most of those services we used to compare with Escorting last year will be back working so that we can use that comparison again.
Bloody hell that is starting out on a serious mission.......10 days in advance will open up negotiations 😳

So, do you ever successfully negotiate a price reduction .
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Offline advent2016

Quite a few regular providers charge me their previous fee which is nice. Surbiton Sarah, Klassy Katie, Crystal in London and Martina

Offline Colston36

To me this is a business, involving an investment and I don't want to waste any money. So I say precisely what I like and want and ask whether they do it.
In case they are worried about seeing a 300 year old perve I also point to how much favourable feedback I have.

Offline Home Alone

Yes; that's something ^ ^ ^ I've taken to doing, too. Also, if she's someone I've not seen before and says she offers a service I want - to tick a box on my bucket list, for example - I make a point of asking if she still delivers that service.

Offline Marquis

Clarifying that FK is on offer is the main item on my pre-punt checklist, unless it's obvious from her Adultwork/parlour page. I occasionally request stockings too, and, once in a while, a certain outfit.

That said, by the time I get out of lockdown (looks like late May or early June in my situation) I'll be so gagging for it I'll probably just ask if they have a pulse.

Offline Colston36

Clarifying that FK is on offer is the main item on my pre-punt checklist, unless it's obvious from her Adultwork/parlour page. I occasionally request stockings too, and, once in a while, a certain outfit.

That said, by the time I get out of lockdown (looks like late May or early June in my situation) I'll be so gagging for it I'll probably just ask if they have a pulse.

They usually ask me if I have one. And if so where is it? Cue to waggle massive member in shocked face ...

Offline Fuggedaboutit

Other than specifying/confirming that I'd like them to dress in something particular, I don't really bother going into too much detail with newbies. With regulars (one former in particular), because I've been going for a certain amount of time, and sort of know her boundaries as much as she is aware of mine I feel more comfortable suggesting particular activities/scenarios*.



*oh, ok...."depraved filth"... ;)
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Offline Stevelondon

If I’ve seen the SP before and I want something in particular. Then an email explaining things and a booking a few days in advance is accepted.

If I know I am going to be up North for instance. I will usually get in touch with Emily_Fox a week or so in advance and arrange something.
In fact with Emily it’s probably the best thing to do.

But if I am just out for the day and fancy an impromptu punt. Then an easy text asking availability is adequate. Followed then with the usual stuff about kissing, RO, OWO etc.

Of course as we will all have found out at some point in our punting lifetimes. A yes to DFK request by text, often leads to a “I don’t do that” on arrival.


Offline Mr Doodle

Just about when the itch needs a scratch, I find a number (usually between AW and AceMassage), check UKP for a review, and call for a meet, usually within the hour. If she isn't available, then find another, wash, rinse, repeat.

If there is no UKP review, I will take a chance.

Only did it very occasionally before lock down.. after lock down, I will dispense with another hobby that takes up cash and divert it to punting

Offline Dave33ws6

Usually a quick phone call or text message asking if they are available at a certain time and what their postcode is

Offline Home Alone

Bloody hell that is starting out on a serious mission.......10 days in advance will open up negotiations 😳

So, do you ever successfully negotiate a price reduction .
Well, I've been on Mate's Rates/Loyalty Bonus with my Sunday Regular for about six of the nine years or so that I've been seeing her.

The negotiations are usually with the other girls I see who I've usually contacted because something in their Profile indicates that they offer a Service which is: still on my Bucket List; and my fairly vanilla Sunday Regular doesn't offer. The negotiations concern whether she still offers that service - e.g. anal - and if so, how much extra it will cost me.

Offline Supersix4

for an immediate or within the next couple of hours, unless stated not to, i'll give them a call. I'll ask if they are available that afternoon or evening and take it from there.

Something a little more special i'll arrange by text. One the day i'll text to confirm the time and address. Seems to work for me.

Offline chocolategiver

For me it would be either by text, phone call or AW email but always, i like to think, friendly polite and brief. I'll always reconfirm if i've booked a day or more in advance.


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Offline Jerk Chicken

If a number is shown I ALWAYS call first. Nothing beats getting some sort of impression of you fuck for the day by hearing a voice. Equally if it’s a maid you can pick up good or bad vibes too.

I get all the essentials out pronto no need for pre punt phone romance. So day, time, duration and I reconfirm services for my queensheads so there are no “extra” shit in room.

If they don’t answer I fire off a polite text ... some text back before I get a chance to do so. I follow the same procedure as I do for voice. Most are going down the text route these days probably because too many punters wanking on the phone :D or English is weak.

Some WGs are flirty but they are getting rarer and rarer. All they want to know is are you going to be knocking the door at x time.
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Offline Little Joe

Some good interesting replies.
As a supplementary question....I wonder if any of you send off multiple requests at maybe half/hourly intervals if no reply to a request. I.e. do you spread your options and cancel a multiple precautionary booking if necessary.
Personally I do one at a time to be fair to the SP’s.
« Last Edit: February 25, 2021, 01:23:19 pm by Little Joe »
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Offline petermisc

Then an easy text asking availability is adequate. Followed then with the usual stuff about kissing, RO, OWO etc.
Of course as we will all have found out at some point in our punting lifetimes. A yes to DFK request by text, often leads to a “I don’t do that” on arrival.
Unless the profile page is unclear, I see no point in confirming services, the answer is likely to be no more or less truthful than her profile page. 

I will always phone as first preference, with text as second preference, for first contact.  Keep it short and simple, just ask if she is available at a particular time.  For someone I've not seen before, I don't initially specify how long I want to stay - if she doesn't ask, that is a bad sign.  Once the meet has been agreed, I will confirm the time, duration and cost by text to ensure there has been no misunderstanding, plus any requirements such as a particular uniform that she may need to arrange before I arrive.

Offline petermisc

Some good interesting replies.
As a supplementary question....I wonder if any of you send off multiple requests at maybe half/hourly intervals if no reply to a request. I.e. do you spread your options and cancel a multiple precautionary booking if necessary.
Personally I do one at a time to be fair to the SP’s.
I usually give regulars time to reply, as don't want to piss them off. 

Offline Little Joe

For someone I've not seen before, I don't initially specify how long I want to stay - if she doesn't ask, that is a bad sign. 

Not quite sure why you see it as a bad sign. I quite like it when they don’t confirm how long I may want. Firstly as it does indicate they are not rushing you in and out (I know, no guarantee) secondly it gives me an option to shorten or lengthen what I had in mind dependant upon what vibes I get when I turn up.

Agree what you say about giving regulars time to reply
« Last Edit: February 25, 2021, 01:35:30 pm by Little Joe »
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Offline Jerk Chicken

Not quite sure why you see it as a bad sign. I quite like it when they don’t confirm how long I may want. Firstly as it does indicate they are not rushing you in and out (I know, no guarantee) secondly it gives me an option to shorten or lengthen what I had in mind dependant upon what vibes I get when I turn up.

Agree what you say about giving regulars time to reply

Defo red flag mate when the SP does not ask you how long you are booking for. Multiple sins include

- conveyor belt service
- double booking
- bumped on arrival
- disorganised
- Possible ghosting

If you think about it this way. You call and book for 4pm she agrees. Another punter calls and book for 5pm she also agrees. You arrive you like what you see and say I want 1 hour. Is she gonna give a fuck about the 5pm? Will she try kick you out at 4:50. If you leave at 5pm does that mean no time to wash as the 5pm punter is outside ?

All the above hypothetical situation plays out as she is not fussed in asking how long you’re booking for.
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Offline Little Joe

Defo red flag mate when the SP does not ask you how long you are booking for. Multiple sins include

- conveyor belt service
- double booking
- bumped on arrival
- disorganised
- Possible ghosting

If you think about it this way. You call and book for 4pm she agrees. Another punter calls and book for 5pm she also agrees. You arrive you like what you see and say I want 1 hour. Is she gonna give a fuck about the 5pm? Will she try kick you out at 4:50. If you leave at 5pm does that mean no time to wash as the 5pm punter is outside ?

All the above hypothetical situation plays out as she is not fussed in asking how long you’re booking for.
Get your drift but I’ve never had a bad experience....don’t get me wrong, 80% of my bookings will be for a stated time.
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Offline Chief_smasher

I always prefer to speak with them on the phone before agreeing anything. Gives me a chance to hear what they sound like and if they could be B+S. heard some “rough ones” which has saved me time and money. Getting increasingly more difficult to judge these as so many photoshopped pics and bull profiles.

Offline cideruk

Some good interesting replies.
As a supplementary question....I wonder if any of you send off multiple requests at maybe half/hourly intervals if no reply to a request. I.e. do you spread your options and cancel a multiple precautionary booking if necessary.
Personally I do one at a time to be fair to the SP’s.

I will send out lots, just to see who replies
Then whittle them down as I get nearer the time

Say I send out 6 emails, half won't reply quick enough

Offline Haruki

How much of an exchange with the SP do you have when booking a punt.
I noticed a comment on another thread where a punter mentioned that he exchanges a few emails making clear his expectations and seeks to build up some sexual tension at the same time.
For my part I generally just book either by a txt or via AW and leave it at that...I don’t go into chapter and verse or try to build a rapport I wonder if I’m in the minority 🤔

Whoever posted that is kidding himself of he is building sexual tension with a sp!!

Offline Silencio

If I'm horny and looking to bust a nut, I'll browse AW, fire off texts to WGs who take my fancy and find out what their location is (can't be arsed with travelling far when I just want to cum) and if they're ok with kissing and OWO, if yes, agree a time and then job done. With some British or higher-priced WGs there can sometimes be a bit of pre-meet flirting over text, quite like that, adds something but I don't need it and would never ask for it.

If I'm booking with someone in advance, it's usually because I really want to see that particular WG or looking for a particular service and then there's a lot more agreeing of things up front usually.

Also agree with whoever said that if they don't ask for how long that's a bad sign. The "I'm at <postcode>, text me when outside" reply is code for "whoever gets here first" and a definite conveyor belt.

Offline Jerk Chicken

Get your drift but I’ve never had a bad experience....don’t get me wrong, 80% of my bookings will be for a stated time.

Same here really probably 90/95% start on time and rarely bumped. But I keep it real. If I call and the maid or WG answers and does not bother to ask me how long I want to fuck for I know what type of set-up is running.
« Last Edit: February 25, 2021, 08:21:38 pm by Jerk Chicken »
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Offline Little Joe

Whoever posted that is kidding himself of he is building sexual tension with a sp!!
Can’t recall what thread it was but that was his take so suggest you take it up with him. If he says it builds sexual tension who are you to say it doesn’t....sexual tension does not need to be a two way street....if it works for home well, good on him.
« Last Edit: February 25, 2021, 10:28:00 pm by Little Joe »
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Offline Little Joe

. The "I'm at <postcode>, text me when outside" reply is code for "whoever gets here first" and a definite conveyor belt.

That’s a load of bollocks......can’t think I’ve ever visited an SP where that has not been the instruction unless she is a regular and a regular to me would be just a couple of punts. Surely I cannot be alone in experiencing this instruction upon arrival.
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Offline s0whatsnew?



Also agree with whoever said that if they don't ask for how long that's a bad sign. The "I'm at <postcode>, text me when outside" reply is code for "whoever gets here first" and a definite conveyor belt.

I agree with this.  Its not only whats said, its the vibe that comes with it.  The  'whoever gets here first'  attitude usually comes with an impersonal automatic-ness that says to me 'don't know, don't care.'   I  always insist on a live phone call for a new SP and start off by asking "Hi, is that ...."  Of course i know that its going to be her or her maid, but it forces her to reveal a vibe, which is for me the crucial thing i want to get an idea of.   Seems to work for me about 8/10 of the time.
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Offline Silencio

That’s a load of bollocks......can’t think I’ve ever visited an SP where that has not been the instruction unless she is a regular and a regular to me would be just a couple of punts. Surely I cannot be alone in experiencing this instruction upon arrival.

You misunderstand, I'm saying when that's their _only_ reply, without even mentioning the time. I literally text "What's your location, are you free?" and they reply with that.

Offline Marquis

Unless the profile page is unclear, I see no point in confirming services, the answer is likely to be no more or less truthful than her profile page. 


The point as far as I'm concerned is usually to clarify what they mean if they have 'French Kissing (discretion)' on their Adultwork profile. IIRC there has been a few times when the girl has specified that I must be a non-smoker and use mouthwash just before the meet, which is fine by me. If I get a reply along the lines of 'it depends what I feel like on the day' then I know to move on. It's worked pretty well for me so far - or maybe it's my irresistible charm and good looks?

Offline char45

I text/whatsapp with a clear message, e.g. I'm after an hour incall at 4 with OWO, massage, and covered sex. It that's ok, can you send me your postcode and is that £120? I then reconfirm when I arrive before handing over the cash. If the WG won't do it I just walk.

I don't like calling because if there is a maid involved who is just trying to get you there and let the WG sort it out I end up either pissed off or over paying.

The other reason I don't like calling is I prefer to see part timers and independents who don't have time to field calls because they are working or studying. They are going to avoid those who keep calling or send loads of messages as that comes across as annoying/insane/drunk.

Offline magnetico

I noticed a comment on another thread where a punter mentioned that he exchanges a few emails making clear his expectations and seeks to build up some sexual tension at the same time.

Dumb  idea :sarcastic:

Offline theejaculator

"Your protocol when booking a punt"

To OP...none of your fucking business :hi:

Offline Little Joe

You misunderstand, I'm saying when that's their _only_ reply, without even mentioning the time. I literally text "What's your location, are you free?" and they reply with that.
Get it and agree 👍👍
« Last Edit: February 26, 2021, 03:12:53 pm by Little Joe »
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Offline Little Joe

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Offline Little Joe

"Your protocol when booking a punt"

To OP...none of your fucking business :hi:
Well, thank you for that.....you could pretty well put that reply down to any post but we would end up with a shite forum. If you don’t want to reply or engage on any particular thread you can opt out rather than display a limited level of intellect.
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Offline MrBeano

i would exchange a few messages, about availability, maybe services and you should get a feel from them if it would be a good punt or not,.

Offline mrbluerunner

As I have only limited opportunity, I prefer to be planned and to give myself the best chance of getting my preferred SP.  I text the day before asking if they will be available tomorrow at xx:xx for xxmins and can i have the postcode so that I can plan my travel.  Then assuming they're free another text to agree the service required/rate.

On the day of the booking, I send a follow up text to confirm I'll still be taking the booking and ask they confirm they are still available.

Finally, a text 10 minutes before the booking that I'm in the area and ask for the address (if it wasn't given earlier).

Seems to work for me, where the SP can't reconfirm it give me the chance to make an alternative arrangement.


Offline Uncle Bob

MrBlueRunner has saved me having to type in a response. :cool:

Have really had no issues following this protocol in general. Can also help flag up if someone isn't what they say they are.

Offline Munter84

As with the majority - just enough to politely confirm time, place, duration, price (to make it known I'll be coming with correct money, so best we discuss any "extras" now to avoid mutual disappointment), and to confirm any make-or-break services. If I've booked in advance I'll text again that morning to confirm, and then perhaps one last text to say I'm on my way and in good time, 10 minutes late, whatever.

I go on the assumption that the SP doesn't want to read War and Peace, and set my comms accordingly. A shame some of their AW profiles don't follow the same rationale...