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[CroPunter]

Damn. Sorry you got scammed 

How did you pay - any chance to reclaim?

700 for an overnight duo is TGTBT 

Many of those girls that are doing PPM for 250 are keen to do 350-400 for an overnight.

[Atrueyorkie]

Olivia Jackson

Cool I would just fact file so anyone else who comes across a lot of buzzwords etc will flag up the post and so on.

Did you report her seeking page?

P.s. her room looks absolutely filthy af

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[Tailgate]

Cool I would just fact file so anyone else who comes across a lot of buzzwords etc will flag up the post and so on.

Did you report her seeking page?

P.s. her room looks absolutely filthy af

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One of my big Red Flags is photos where the room is a shit tip.
Cluttered, understandable, crap lying around everywhere......not

[Budgiesmuggler]

with respect, it has nothing to do with "calling out members" or "wannabe mod" - its about seeing if I (and probably others too) can help them by providing information as they requested. as i said, for my own reasons i have currently deactivated my Seeking account and if i log back in (to see who it is in the link) it reactivates it and starts the auto-renewal again so its a real pain  - and i suspect any other guy in a similar position won't do it and therefore we don't know who he talking about and whether we can provide any info.

also, its not just me,  a number of other guys have asked as well a number of times over the last few months as they don't want to click on a link as it leaves a trace - the lady can see who has viewed them and it often leads to unwanted messages etc.

i really do not want to be a "wannabe mod" - in fact i don't remember asking to be a forum helper!  I agree my wording could have been a little better and i will take note of your comment - and in future i just won't bother to see whether i can help them or not!

10000% agree...when i just see a link, i usually cant be arsed to click on it given its a faff to log in with verification sometimes but if i see the name, place etc and i recognize it then i typically will!! As a premium member, i can adjust settings so that a lady cant see when i view them so thats not an issue for me but for others, that might not be the case.

[tj87354]

This, you never pay until the deed is done, same protocol with a normal punt. Pay when done and keep an eye on your belongings till their gone

Do you normally get away with paying after the deed with a normal punt.
I don't think I've ever seen a SP who was ok with that?

[Maximi]

I’ve always been asked to pay pre deed when it’s your classic escort booking (AW style) but 99% of the time with seeking girls it’s after the deed

[Atrueyorkie]

Do you normally get away with paying after the deed with a normal punt.
I don't think I've ever seen a SP who was ok with that?

Always been the case for me, I’m not saying I’m a saint, far from it lol but usually for an sp punt I’m asked after due to initial rapport/friendliness they know I won’t cheat them or do anything dumb. YMMV obviously.

With the seeking scene it’s always after always without a shadow of a doubt. Asking for money upfront is a red flag in my personal opinion on the seeking scene. Setting up “potentially” for either a poor experience because they don’t need to work for it anymore or to be robbed.

[Reallytired86]

Always been the case for me, I’m not saying I’m a saint, far from it lol but usually for an sp punt I’m asked after due to initial rapport/friendliness they know I won’t cheat them or do anything dumb. YMMV obviously.

With the seeking scene it’s always after always without a shadow of a doubt. Asking for money upfront is a red flag in my personal opinion on the seeking scene. Setting up “potentially” for either a poor experience because they don’t need to work for it anymore or to be robbed.

It’s not a red flag I think that’s harsh, it just works both ways the risk mitigation. Yes people here have been scammed sadly but so have girls - it’s actually more common than you might think for guys to make an excuse of I’ll pay later or not bring enough cash or not even pay at all so a lot of girls are scared of being scammed too. It’s an unfortunate situation that either parties can get scammed. Not long ago there was a guy on this thread saying what could happen if he doesn’t pay but he tried to pretend it was a hypothetical and not that he was planning to, ye right! I’ve also been told personally about some advantage taking (sexually/being drugged)  that some of these girls have had to deal with along with the financial side. It’s a cruel world sadly and some of the narcissistic psychopaths on that site are all charm and good at tricking girls into their game.

I’ve always been okay to pay upfront and haven’t been scammed fortunately. To be honest I’ve had really good success on seeking but I think I’m usually quite diligent to who the scammers are.

[Froomey]

I’ve always been okay to pay upfront and haven’t been scammed fortunately. To be honest I’ve had really good success on seeking but I think I’m usually quite diligent to who the scammers are.

I concur wholeheartedly. I'd say that over the years I've front-loaded payment on around 1 in 3 of my many SA meets, either at the request of the woman involved or because it seemed the right time for it to fit with the flow of the meeting. I have never been scammed or short-changed on performance as a consequence. But then I am very picky about who I meet.

[AffAlchemist]

I also pay upfront on a meet
Its common courtesy and stops the girl wondering when she will get the money and lets you get on with enjoying the night
I also always go for dinner and drinks
However I dont go for the £150 girls as these are most likely just after an hour of two bedroom time (Sp's) instead of real sugar babies
I spend time making sure I find someone I can have a longer term arrangement with instead of a one off hookup

Im off tonight to meet my new reg (5th meet) and we are having a 2 nighter
She's mid 20s, smoking hot and great fun let alone great in between the sheets (and im into many kinks)
I have personally just switched to a monthly arrangement too but did have had a fair PPM with her and as an ongoing option swell so they are out there

[Teejay]

I also pay upfront on a meet
Its common courtesy and stops the girl wondering when she will get the money and lets you get on with enjoying the night
I also always go for dinner and drinks
However I dont go for the £150 girls as these are most likely just after an hour of two bedroom time (Sp's) instead of real sugar babies
I spend time making sure I find someone I can have a longer term arrangement with instead of a one off hookup

Im off tonight to meet my new reg (5th meet) and we are having a 2 nighter
She's mid 20s, smoking hot and great fun let alone great in between the sheets (and im into many kinks)
I have personally just switched to a monthly arrangement too but did have had a fair PPM with her and as an ongoing option swell so they are out there

what ppm or monthly allowance you agreed on with them?

[AffAlchemist]

what ppm or monthly allowance you agreed on with them?

I agreed £350
I usually pay £300 to £400 Ppm as an average guide and usually meet them at 7pm and spend until 2am with them
I buy dinner and drinks and have a good night with them before hotel time

Once I get to know them and want to see them more I switch to a monthly arrangement that suits them more than me but I’m looking to be a sugar daddy and not a punter

Current deal is £1k a month, then I cover all beauty treatments and gifts from time to time

As a result I’m getting a full weekend this weekend


Im also planning a weekend overseas next month with her

So she gets a good deal she’s happy with and I get a deal I’m also comfortable and happy with

[Atrueyorkie]

I’ve never gone above 200, with that I’ve bagged 8’s and 9’s, freebies and a random overnight.

My red flags does not mean you have to conform to them or adopt them, I’m sure I mentioned in the previous statement that it was my own “personal” red flag and my “own” experience etc.

What works for me may not work for you, ymmv etc. same with the way you want to operate.

The ones “I have seen”, have never had an issue with getting it at the end. Mainly because there’s already a trust built beforehand. I just don’t turn up and whip out my dick. I tend to meet beforehand have a human conversation etc.

I always make sure that it’s handed to them at the end, no funny business.

People have had experiences, yes, on this same page being one of them, I make it clear from the beginning what I expect from the arrangement and how I would typically conduct myself in one, typically all spelled out in a meet and greet or a phone conversation, either or. If they are not interested after that then we’d wouldn’t start an arrangement.

I find the way I operate has allowed me stress free meets and meet some genuinely cool ass people on the seeking journey.

[AffAlchemist]

It really is each to their own
We all have different budgets and requirements
 

[southcoastpunter]

It really is each to their own
We all have different budgets and requirements

100% yes and we may want different things and offer different things, be different ages, look different to one another etc. And, of course, like different types of ladies - what is a 8/9 to someone might only be a 5 to me and vice versa! And that is all good.

I have only done monthly allowance now for about 3 or 4 years - i usually do a M&G followed by one or two dinner "dates" (unpaid of course) and then, if we are both happy, make an arrangement - paying half the monthly amount after our first time "together" and the remainder after the second time.

[Hobbit]

I’ve never gone above 200, with that I’ve bagged 8’s and 9’s, freebies and a random overnight.

My red flags does not mean you have to conform to them or adopt them, I’m sure I mentioned in the previous statement that it was my own “personal” red flag and my “own” experience etc.

What works for me may not work for you, ymmv etc. same with the way you want to operate.

The ones “I have seen”, have never had an issue with getting it at the end. Mainly because there’s already a trust built beforehand. I just don’t turn up and whip out my dick. I tend to meet beforehand have a human conversation etc.

I always make sure that it’s handed to them at the end, no funny business.

People have had experiences, yes, on this same page being one of them, I make it clear from the beginning what I expect from the arrangement and how I would typically conduct myself in one, typically all spelled out in a meet and greet or a phone conversation, either or. If they are not interested after that then we’d wouldn’t start an arrangement.

I find the way I operate has allowed me stress free meets and meet some genuinely cool ass people on the seeking journey.

I presume you are based outside London as in the city there is no chance you'd get someone that is an 8/9 for £200. Trust me, I have tried.

I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but symmetry unfortunately doesn't lie and there is some commonality in aspects of beauty that are not only agreeable by the many but also undeniable.

[Punting2022]

I agreed £350
I usually pay £300 to £400 Ppm as an average guide and usually meet them at 7pm and spend until 2am with them
I buy dinner and drinks and have a good night with them before hotel time

Once I get to know them and want to see them more I switch to a monthly arrangement that suits them more than me but I’m looking to be a sugar daddy and not a punter

Current deal is £1k a month, then I cover all beauty treatments and gifts from time to time

As a result I’m getting a full weekend this weekend


Im also planning a weekend overseas next month with her

So she gets a good deal she’s happy with and I get a deal I’m also comfortable and happy with

I offered a monthly arrangement on my last to pay rent. Said rent paid you dont worry.  We just meet. To most having rent covered is a bonus. She was like ok. Then said i still want a ppm when we meet. So would have cost me more.
Left it as ppm and eventually slowly cut her off.

I would stick to ppm really. More control on your finance and you not meet when you want a luxury for yourself. Seeking recenly in london is a ripoff. Hotels 100 quid or more. Drinks meals bout 60 to 100 dependds where you go.
Also average allowance is 300 to 500 ppm. So if afternoon talking 700ish per meet adding stuff on. Could have a few more prossess or longer prosse session for that. Minus all the gifts hassle.

To me its only worth it if 300 to 500 overnight or a proper day like 10 to evening. Just a few hours in the afternoon nope.

Used to be 200 got you a day.
I said lets keep simple.

[Maximi]

I’ve never gone above 200, with that I’ve bagged 8’s and 9’s, freebies and a random overnight.

My red flags does not mean you have to conform to them or adopt them, I’m sure I mentioned in the previous statement that it was my own “personal” red flag and my “own” experience etc.

What works for me may not work for you, ymmv etc. same with the way you want to operate.

The ones “I have seen”, have never had an issue with getting it at the end. Mainly because there’s already a trust built beforehand. I just don’t turn up and whip out my dick. I tend to meet beforehand have a human conversation etc.

I always make sure that it’s handed to them at the end, no funny business.

People have had experiences, yes, on this same page being one of them, I make it clear from the beginning what I expect from the arrangement and how I would typically conduct myself in one, typically all spelled out in a meet and greet or a phone conversation, either or. If they are not interested after that then we’d wouldn’t start an arrangement.

I find the way I operate has allowed me stress free meets and meet some genuinely cool ass people on the seeking journey.

Mans definitely operating in Jaywick

[Atrueyorkie]

I presume you are based outside London as in the city there is no chance you'd get someone that is an 8/9 for £200. Trust me, I have tried.

I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but symmetry unfortunately doesn't lie and there is some commonality in aspects of beauty that are not only agreeable by the many but also undeniable.

No before I moved I was based in London, so 90% of my meets were London based girls. The people who I converse with on here know this.

It’s true that beauty is subjective, and it’s not my job or jurisdiction to convert you or demand you agree with what I think is a good looking girl.

A lot of mine have been students or just recently graduated and then the rest are misc.

I would happily present the  instances where I have continuously obtained this but if I posted it’d come across as “bragging” or willy waving.  More than happy to share via dm, all my claims are easily backed up with truth/screenshots etc.

[Atrueyorkie]

Mans definitely operating in Jaywick

Man’s not based there…. Unfortunately… blud! 

[harryhavanagh]

I agreed £350
I usually pay £300 to £400 Ppm as an average guide and usually meet them at 7pm and spend until 2am with them
I buy dinner and drinks and have a good night with them before hotel time

Once I get to know them and want to see them more I switch to a monthly arrangement that suits them more than me but I’m looking to be a sugar daddy and not a punter

Current deal is £1k a month, then I cover all beauty treatments and gifts from time to time

As a result I’m getting a full weekend this weekend


Im also planning a weekend overseas next month with her

So she gets a good deal she’s happy with and I get a deal I’m also comfortable and happy with

1k/month is a ridiculously good deal. I have never been quoted less than 3k/month. 

[Maximi]

1k/month is a ridiculously good deal. I have never been quoted less than 3k/month.

Quoted 😂

[cunningman]

Has anyone else chatted with DynamicFan?  (External Link/Members Only)

I'm thinking that the conversation is very much like (in a parallel way) conversations I've had with mid 30s eligible and wealthy (hah!) east asians - the phrasing and strange conversation directions seem similar.  But I've not been invited into the inner circle of uncle's FX or crypto investment tips.

Its a bit like talking to ChatGPT.  I've felt this before and its ended in a scammer request fairly quickly but they clearly have plenty of photos of the lass in the picture.

She also has a habit of going to bed early (just said goodnight) and when did any native of Madrid do that, even if they claim to be in Canary Wharf in their deceased father's (rather spiffy) flat?

I wonder if LLM providers are actually trying to train their models, even if not actually trying to maneuver for a scam?

[cunningman]

1k/month is a ridiculously good deal. I have never been quoted less than 3k/month.

FFS even 1K a month is probably funded by £50k a year and more before tax as a top end tax payer.
Surely a toy company that you can really pay them from for some personal services would feasible?
Its just nuts.
3k a month is bonkers - unless money is just no object and you think a Bugatti Chiron is a daily driver.

[Teejay]

I presume you are based outside London as in the city there is no chance you'd get someone that is an 8/9 for £200. Trust me, I have tried.

I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder but symmetry unfortunately doesn't lie and there is some commonality in aspects of beauty that are not only agreeable by the many but also undeniable.

I'm seeing 2 of my SB's and I'd rate both of them 9/10 and first one was £200 from the beginning and 2nd one I have managed to get down from £350 to £150 and just last week I increased to £200 so it's all depends on if they like you or your company.

[Heph]

1k/month is a ridiculously good deal. I have never been quoted less than 3k/month.

1 x £600  2-3 pm  several hours each
1 x £750  ""          no time limit, usually 5hrs+
1 X £780  as often as (in reality 1x 2/3 weeks (incl. O/Ns)
1 x £800  1-2 pm  no time, several hours

varying from GND, very pretty student, fine looking 30y/o, to super-fit pro-level athlete. All great company.

They're out there

[Tailgate]

Has anyone else chatted with DynamicFan?  (External Link/Members Only)

I'm thinking that the conversation is very much like (in a parallel way) conversations I've had with mid 30s eligible and wealthy (hah!) east asians - the phrasing and strange conversation directions seem similar.  But I've not been invited into the inner circle of uncle's FX or crypto investment tips.

Its a bit like talking to ChatGPT.  I've felt this before and its ended in a scammer request fairly quickly but they clearly have plenty of photos of the lass in the picture.

She also has a habit of going to bed early (just said goodnight) and when did any native of Madrid do that, even if they claim to be in Canary Wharf in their deceased father's (rather spiffy) flat?

I wonder if LLM providers are actually trying to train their models, even if not actually trying to maneuver for a scam?

I think I have but blocked 'her' on Seeking and Telegram.
Slow burner Forex/Crypto scam, told me should had just bought a Ferrari, pictures of her in the gym(when zoomed in you could see the exit signs were in Chinese), very successful step father in the Foreign Exchange world.
I played along for a bit, got bored and blocked.

[Prifessionallondinguy]

Getting a number of “supposedly” Asian ladies messaging me on Telegram.  Pretending to message someone else initially, then apologising profoundly for inconveniencing me.  Unable to tell me how they discovered my contact details. They then go on to ask to move to WhatsApp as they find me handsome. even when I say no thanks. Firstly I’m not handsome so I know it’s bollocks.  Funnily enough they all appear in my contacts. Likely to be from my short time on netbirds = a group fishing for business or attempting to steal my details.
I’m very wary now who I give my details to from seeking. Have 2nd spare phone. As someone mentioned earlier I find it safer meeting (Asian) students looking for extra funds.   More simpler.

[Hobbit]

I'm seeing 2 of my SB's and I'd rate both of them 9/10 and first one was £200 from the beginning and 2nd one I have managed to get down from £350 to £150 and just last week I increased to £200 so it's all depends on if they like you or your company.

I would like to see what they look like and your opinion of 9/10. In my opinion, no woman is a 9/10 in looks. That would be almost close to perfection, which you can only get with heavenly angels; they are not here in this mortal world. The average woman is about 5/10, a 6/10 would be very attractive, and a 7/10 would be model-like.

[Atrueyorkie]

I would like to see what they look like and your opinion of 9/10. In my opinion, no woman is a 9/10 in looks. That would be almost close to perfection, which you can only get with heavenly angels; they are not here in this mortal world. The average woman is about 5/10, a 6/10 would be very attractive, and a 7/10 would be model-like.

I think we can curtail this part and say beauty is subjective. Otherwise the going round in circles will be endless.

Going back to a one of your earlier comment “there is no chance you'd get someone that is an 8/9 for £200. Trust me, I have tried.”

So because “you”, hobbit from Ukp can’t secure it nobody else can?

[Maximi]

It’s just probability mate. A 9/10 probably isn’t going to just in bed for £200… all things considered. It’s a unicorn. Extremely rare and mythical to most. So in the real world you’re probably either increasing the rating, paying a touch more or both…. If you go to the casino, you’re probably not going to win, but people do.

[Hantsolo]

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is also.....

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[harryhavanagh]

1 x £600  2-3 pm  several hours each
1 x £750  ""          no time limit, usually 5hrs+
1 X £780  as often as (in reality 1x 2/3 weeks (incl. O/Ns)
1 x £800  1-2 pm  no time, several hours

varying from GND, very pretty student, fine looking 30y/o, to super-fit pro-level athlete. All great company.

They're out there

Is this London based?

[che_666999]

My first foray into SA world. I am looking at this lady, seem nice enough but is Romanian so punting red flag is going off. Any inter?

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[finn5555]

Posted elsewhere

Wanted £400 ppm

[stampjones]

I would like to see what they look like and your opinion of 9/10. In my opinion, no woman is a 9/10 in looks. That would be almost close to perfection, which you can only get with heavenly angels; they are not here in this mortal world. The average woman is about 5/10, a 6/10 would be very attractive, and a 7/10 would be model-like.

FFS who made you the world arbiter of beauty. Ive seen you say some stupid things but that is bad even by your standards. Saving two numbers in a 10 value scale that only non-existant things can reach? Still I guess in the world stupidity scale only you hit 10 so maybe it works after all

[kutch]

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Endearingdame

Wanted £400 an hour or £700 for 2 hours.  I replied by saying I’m not looking for something who charges by the hour.  She said that she was told to do this by other guys in SA!   Really?

[che_666999]

I've met Chloe a lot of time and she is genuine. She will ask you money on the first meeting as she don't know you and been scam in the past.

Anymore intel on this lady? How was the sex?

[stampjones]

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£100 extra for a quickie 

[Punting2022]

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Endearingdame

Wanted £400 an hour or £700 for 2 hours.  I replied by saying I’m not looking for something who charges by the hour.  She said that she was told to do this by other guys in SA!   Really?

Ppl like this are c### the girls then think they can do that

[Hantsolo]

£100 extra for a quickie 

Yeah, I didn't carry on the conversation after seeing her Vivastreet advert 

[toddroman456]

Ppl like this are c### the girls then think they can do that

I'm guessing she is lying mate. She is defusing the conversation.

If other men told her to charge £50 an hour would she do that too ?

[Punting2022]

£100 extra for a quickie 

Still cheap tbh for a seeking girl. They usually charge 300 per meet or so. So 100 pound quickie is ok id say.
Yes shes an escort, but all of them are tbh.
Some are just deluded and say they are not

[WKD123]

... Yes shes an escort, but all of them are tbh.
Some are just deluded and say they are not...

You are clearly meeting the wrong sort of girl on seeking....  yes of course there are a lot of escorts who see it as another way to drum up business, but in my experience if you swerve them you can find plenty that understand the difference between paying for a fuck by the minute and building a mutually beneficial "relationship" (no, I am not deluded in thinking that it is not about the money).  The more that we treat girls on Seeking or similar as whores, the more it will turn into just another AW....

[stampjones]

Still cheap tbh for a seeking girl. They usually charge 300 per meet or so. So 100 pound quickie is ok id say.
Yes shes an escort, but all of them are tbh.
Some are just deluded and say they are not

£100 EXTRA for a quickie so not cheap at all. Its not even cheap in your 300 quid as normal ppm gets you a few hours which is a cheaper rate overall. Personally I almost never pay 300 ppm when there are plenty of great girls who’ll do it for 200-250. And to say they are all just escorts says more about you than it does about seeking tbh.

[evejma123]

Hi everyone.

I had a sucesfull meet with a lady from seeking and over the last few months have met some great people. What threw me off yesterday was that durign the meet the lady in question was messaging on her phone and what she did not realise was that i caught a glimpse of a whatssapp Group called Seeking something something. I caught a 1 second look and could not see the messages but i was wondering if some of the female members of seeking has some form of whatsapp group with our intel which would worry me on what type of information they are sharing etc.

[southcoastpunter]

Hi everyone.

but i was wondering if some of the female members of seeking has some form of whatsapp group with our intel which would worry me on what type of information they are sharing etc.

yes they do. some ladies are on it, other not. It first started as a means of safety / warning ladies of dangerous guys, guys that wouldn't pay etc but i think, has widened to include other more general info - related to our safety record, financial standing and reliability etc. Remember, ladies get scammed as well as guys and they have more safety fears than we do.

Unless others can say differently, i don't think its anything to be too concerned about!

[MLawro93]

Hi everyone.

I had a sucesfull meet with a lady from seeking and over the last few months have met some great people. What threw me off yesterday was that durign the meet the lady in question was messaging on her phone and what she did not realise was that i caught a glimpse of a whatssapp Group called Seeking something something. I caught a 1 second look and could not see the messages but i was wondering if some of the female members of seeking has some form of whatsapp group with our intel which would worry me on what type of information they are sharing etc.

Just like we share intel, so do they. You'd have to be a hypocrite to say it was a concern to you. 

They share standard things, like who to avoid, time wasters, etc.

[evejma123]

no i dont blame them sharing intel i would do the same thing too however was concerned with things such as home addresses etc etc. I totally understand the need the have for it however we are unsure what type of people are on that group, for example we dont share home addresses in any of these forums. I just wondered what type of data was being shared

[PumpDump]

no i dont blame them sharing intel i would do the same thing too however was concerned with things such as home addresses etc etc. I totally understand the need the have for it however we are unsure what type of people are on that group, for example we dont share home addresses in any of these forums. I just wondered what type of data was being shared

I think you would be crazy to take a hooker to your home. That is the risk you take. Better to book a hotel.