Fingering question

[shyleo]

Why is it that some SPs wont let you finger.. when stroking the g spot is supposed to be heavenly.
Noticed even more so from Asian girls.

[big-al93]

Presumably because we are not all as gentle as we could be and it can be painful. Also sharp edges on fingernails can scratch inside and cause infection.

[markballoon]

A lot of men can only just find the correct hole     Can you imagine being fingered for hours each day.

[MissWolf]

Presumably because we are not all as gentle as we could be and it can be painful. Also sharp edges on fingernails can scratch inside and cause infection.

This....

Plus most guys idea of it is to literally finger blast you as hard as possible to make you squirt

I've lost count of the number of times I've had to show a guy how to finger for pleasure not pain, it's about curving your fingers slightly so you still have the pads of them against the inner walls of the vagina and applying gentle to medium pressure as you move in and out, or for me it is.

What I get a lot of is someone shoving their fingers as deep as possible then curling and uncurling them back towards their palm which has the result of running their fingernails against my vagina wall as hard as they can like they are scratching an itch, if they have uncut nails it's frankly excruciatingly painful and I've been cut on a few occasions where I've been caught off guard or not been strong enough physically to stop the quick enough.

Fingering done well is absolute bliss 

[Dipper]

See also: over vigorous oral and h/j’s. Ouch! Slow down 

[Strawberry]

This....

Plus most guys idea of it is to literally finger blast you as hard as possible to make you squirt

I've lost count of the number of times I've had to show a guy how to finger for pleasure not pain, it's about curving your fingers slightly so you still have the pads of them against the inner walls of the vagina and applying gentle to medium pressure as you move in and out, or for me it is.

What I get a lot of is someone shoving their fingers as deep as possible then curling and uncurling them back towards their palm which has the result of running their fingernails against my vagina wall as hard as they can like they are scratching an itch, if they have uncut nails it's frankly excruciatingly painful and I've been cut on a few occasions where I've been caught off guard or not been strong enough physically to stop the quick enough.

Fingering done well is absolute bliss 

For me it's all about my clit, fingering my g-spot at best creates a want to wee sensation. I much rather the finger was on my clit, and I have climaxed from fingering my clit so I will guide. Also as you say some men whether they realise it or not, are very rough with fingers so SPs may decide to eliminate the risk of damage or soreness.

[Atrueyorkie]

Why is it that some SPs wont let you finger.. when stroking the g spot is supposed to be heavenly.
Noticed even more so from Asian girls.

Multiple reasons. Some people don’t cut their nails, so like mentioned that is actually painful.

Supposedly it messes up their PH balance, don’t quote me though not sure if that’s factual.

Some guys just don’t no how to do it. Too much porn showing finger blasting at the speed of light. I remember seeing a comment years ago how to properly do it. Gentle and then a “come here” motion with your 2nd and middle finger. Never went wrong since I learnt that trick. Mix that up with “gentle” rubbing/licking of the clit and you’ll create wonders.

I guess also some just don’t like it. Same way some guys don’t like handjobs

[Dipper]

Multiple reasons. Some people don’t cut their nails, so like mentioned that is actually painful.

Supposedly it messes up their PH balance, don’t quote me though not sure if that’s factual.

Some guys just don’t no how to do it. Too much porn showing finger blasting at the speed of light. I remember seeing a comment years ago how to properly do it. Gentle and then a “come here” motion with your 2nd and middle finger. Never went wrong since I learnt that trick. Mix that up with “gentle” rubbing/licking of the clit and you’ll create wonders.

I guess also some just don’t like it. Same way some guys don’t like handjobs

I’ve yet to hear of any bloke who doesn’t like a nicely done hand job.

[usroads]

This....

Plus most guys idea of it is to literally finger blast you as hard as possible to make you squirt

I've lost count of the number of times I've had to show a guy how to finger for pleasure not pain, it's about curving your fingers slightly so you still have the pads of them against the inner walls of the vagina and applying gentle to medium pressure as you move in and out, or for me it is.

Fingering done well is absolute bliss 

Hey Wolfie am I correct in thinking the average depth of the G spot within the vagina is about to the second knuckle of your middle finger?

[Lou2019]

Hey Wolfie am I correct in thinking the average depth of the G spot within the vagina is about to the second knuckle of your middle finger?

Did Google tell you that

[JontyR]

Did Google tell you that

No. E.T. did.

[Lou2019]

No. E.T. did.

You joker lol that was proper funny 

[Hobbit]

Personally, I don't think fingering does anything for women if they are not relaxed, horny, and into you. So I don't think it would have much effect on hookers. Even though they say it does, it doesn't IMHO.

The human body is not some kind of mechanical instrument, it relies on consciousness to function and arousal requires both consciousness and mental stimulation with a huge degree of relaxation. Anyone that thinks pumping a finger in and out of a pussy without these attributes is going to make it very wet or squirt is a fool.

[Crockers]

I now never meet girls who don't like fingering.

In my early days I saw girls who had loadsa men a day. Their pussies tended to be sore, so a lot of no fingering, or only slight fingering.

When a few became regs and lliked and trusted me they allowed 'proper' fingering. However by that point they were seeing me on their 'off' days.

Recently I've been more circumspect and mostly only see(n) girl who have very few customers.

I'm now mainly chasing genuine SA girls.

These girls varied/vary in how they like fingering. 

So I just ask them how they like it.

Some like it gentle with two love-making fingers.

Some like a proper four finger hard fuckfest bordering on fisting whilst they piss themselves as I lick and bite their clit. Sometimes with a finger or two up their bum.

Horses for courses, innit.

[Rayray23k]

Some good information here.
I like to trim my finger nails and file them the day before for consideration.
But I think most men who likes fingering, do it for self satisfaction.

[Doc Holliday]

... bite their clit.

Jeez

[willie loman]

its only recently been realised that nerve endings in the genitalia of women vary from person to person. so some ladies encourage you to bunch your fingers together and jam them in, others dont want any fingers, its really down to the individual girl. you just have to ask her. incidentally if you think men are clueless about fannies, the average girl even a hooker, has "never had a good look at another girls fanny", just as blokes dont have a clue about cocks.

[WelshClipper]

I used to love fingering but so many girls say they prefer a nice juicy cock that I just have to oblige.

During RO I usually just stroke inside the entrance with my imiddle finger and rarely had a complaint with that.

[MissWolf]

Jeez

  exactly my thought  closely followed by....'I'm sure a black eye won't offend' 

[lamboman]

Jeez

Yeah that always works FFS.
I think it's pretty obvious why some if not most girls don't like it,dirty fingers/nails,uncut and filed nails and the inevtiable copying from porn of ramming fingers in which I imagine is tiresome.

[Crockers]

Jeez

Well, if they ask...  anyways, try to. By the time I find it with my fingers, I can't see it when my mouth arrives.

[WelshClipper]

I tried fisting once. ‘Twas weird watching my wrist poking out of her vag.

Not really my thing.....

[Doc Holliday]

Well, if they ask...  anyways, try to.

Women ask you to bite their clitoris?

By the time I find it with my fingers, I can't see it when my mouth arrives.

How long does it take you to find it? Why do you need to see anything? Your tongue alone should be quite capable of locating it.

[Stevelondon]

Personally speaking, I just go with the flow. (No pun intended)
If she enjoys it then ok. They soon tell you if they don’t.

[ik8133]

its only recently been realised that nerve endings in the genitalia of women vary from person to person. so some ladies encourage you to bunch your fingers together and jam them in, others dont want any fingers, its really down to the individual girl. you just have to ask her. incidentally if you think men are clueless about fannies, the average girl even a hooker, has "never had a good look at another girls fanny", just as blokes dont have a clue about cocks.

Yes every day is a school day, I did some research on fingering, watched a couple of video's on Pornhub and yes every woman is different.  I particularly liked this video, explains quite a lot and gives a good insight on the woman's perspective. 

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[LLPunting]

I tried fisting once. ‘Twas weird watching my wrist poking out of her vag.

Not really my thing.....

At least it wasn't hers out of your anus.

It's not so much for the giver, some ladies like to be filled up/stretched and depending on what you safely do, the sensations can be quite stimulating.  Read her responses and listen to her instructions.

[Dipper]

Yes every day is a school day, I did some research on fingering, watched a couple of video's on Pornhub and yes every woman is different.  I particularly liked this video, explains quite a lot and gives a good insight on the woman's perspective. 

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Enjoyed this vid

She’s lovely.

[Crockers]

Women ask you to bite their clitoris?

How long does it take you to find it? Why do you need to see anything? Your tongue alone should be quite capable of locating it.

Just 'cos women haven't asked you doesn"t mean none like it. I've been with some very dirty girls.

In the same way, some girls I've been with love hard spanking, some don't. Some like drinking piss, some won't even let me watch them piss.

This is basic grade level sexual preference stuff.

Anyway, finding a clit with a tongue is completely different with finding it with a nibble.

[hendrix]

With regulars who squirt, fingering with the "come here" motion pretty much always works.

Can't say I've ever found a clit though no need as there's no enjoyment to be had for me with one.

[Doc Holliday]

Just 'cos women haven't asked you doesn"t mean none like it. I've been with some very dirty girls.

True, though in over 50 years and perhaps 700+ different women (civvy and paid sex) I have never been asked. Nothing to do with being dirty ... it is painful.

Are you a fan of toothy blow jobs? Would you enjoy someone biting your glans? The two anatomical structures are very akin to each other just on a different scale size wise.

Unless someone was actually into pain, then it is not something most women would tolerate, let alone ask for. Just my opinion. 

[Crockers]

I've tried being bitten by a reg. She bit my nips, lips, tongue whilst I was inside her. I lost my erection. I mananged to stop her before she tried to bite my cock to resurrect it. I hated it.

I only see regs and SA girls now, and trust and empathy has been built. A couple of them are real dirty English Girls. One started menstruating as I fisted her pussy before she asked. I loved it. She loved it and even let me film it.

But if you look at my reviews I also love gentle love making with a couple of soft fingers inside.

Depends on girl, time, mood, place (and amount of drink drunk). Lols.