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Offline Payyourwaymate

When you're stuck in a problem like this, the best advice comes from those who know you the most, like your close family.
A problem shared often resolves itself. Chat with your wife and daughter, explain that you've realised that punting prossies isn't for you and it costs too much money, and ask for their help in stopping. I'm sure that if you're wholly truthful they'll  find a way to end your confusion.


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Offline mr.bluesky

When you're stuck in a problem like this, the best advice comes from those who know you the most, like your close family.
A problem shared often resolves itself. Chat with your wife and daughter, explain that you've realised that punting prossies isn't for you and it costs too much money, and ask for their help in stopping. I'm sure that if you're wholly truthful they'll  find a way to end your confusion.

Good advice Scutty  :D all his money will be going towards his divorce lawyer so he won't be able to afford a punt.

Offline Thephoenix

When you're stuck in a problem like this, the best advice comes from those who know you the most, like your close family.
A problem shared often resolves itself. Chat with your wife and daughter, explain that you've realised that punting prossies isn't for you and it costs too much money, and ask for their help in stopping. I'm sure that if you're wholly truthful they'll  find a way to end your confusion.

Excellent advice!
.......Also arrange a meeting with your family priest.
They're often well versed in matters of a sexual nature.
........Or ask advice about joining a monastery. I believe the foods good!
That could be an option when your divorce comes through.

Offline itk

You are probably all thinking "Just don't go on adultwork and text them anymore dickhead" , but I always end up going back, browsing the whole southeast and London for a quickie, sending out texts to multiple wgs to try and arrange something, then I end up having a lacklustre time feeling very empty inside, maybe I am expecting too much from seeing strangers for sex. I saw a wg that I had visited quite a few times over the past few years and even that didn't satisfy me. I need to stop this now.

Is there anyone else that has felt similar? Is there any software I could use to block sites like adultwork so I can never go back or is it all just down to your own willpower?

Just stay focused. I’ve now gone 9 months without punting, which is the longest I’ve gone for over 25 years. I just got fed up with the wasted time and money with crap punts and even regulars became boring to me. I’ve continued to stay on here, but I’ve barely looked on AW, even when I do I’m not remotely interested in punting.  Partly it’s down to there being hardly any  punts that interest me, but the main reason is I’ve just lost all interest in punting. Looking back I think I was just punting to keep up with a punting mate of mine who was punting twice a week every week.  To be honest, I doubt I’ll punt again, unless Lolly Badcock decides to sell herself in Norwich. 

Offline itk

When you're stuck in a problem like this, the best advice comes from those who know you the most, like your close family.
A problem shared often resolves itself. Chat with your wife and daughter, explain that you've realised that punting prossies isn't for you and it costs too much money, and ask for their help in stopping. I'm sure that if you're wholly truthful they'll  find a way to end your confusion.

 :lol:

Offline ZeroCount

SAA- sex addicts anonymous

Do they do group therapy sessions with mixed groups? I definitely think my problem could be helped by talking with some like-minded people.  :blush:

Do they do group therapy sessions with mixed groups? I definitely think my problem could be helped by talking with some like-minded people.  :blush:

They are not really therapy per se. It's more a fellowship of mentors who take you through a programme.

Offline Home Alone

You are probably all thinking "Just don't go on adultwork and text them anymore dickhead" , but I always end up going back, browsing the whole southeast and London for a quickie, sending out texts to multiple wgs to try and arrange something, then I end up having a lacklustre time feeling very empty inside, maybe I am expecting too much from seeing strangers for sex. I saw a wg that I had visited quite a few times over the past few years and even that didn't satisfy me. I need to stop this now.

Is there anyone else that has felt similar? Is there any software I could use to block sites like adultwork so I can never go back or is it all just down to your own willpower?

I've found that growing old helps!!  ;)  :D  :lol:

I'm now nearer 80 than 70, and have begun to feel my age and was finding it increasingly difficult to get hard, even with Sildenafil. Also, with one or two very occasional exceptions to 'tick' a Service I really wanted, I'd really only been seeing one lass - once a month - for certainly the last six or seven years. We've become friends; and after one of our 4-hour Sunday afternoon sessions, I said something fluffy like, "I never thought this day would dawn, but I think I'd rather be your friend than your client."

She knew what I meant - it was bloody hard work for both of us for me to get satisfactorily hard - so we agreed that I'd never have another session like the ones we'd had 8 - 10 years ago, but wasn't able to manage any more. We're still in regular contact with each other and are on the phone two or three times a week but I've not had any properly enjoyable sex since that Sunday afternoon. And to be honest, even that wasn't anything worthy of posting a review!

Like I say, I really am beginning to feel old and frail. I've moved into semi-sheltered accommodation - I can imagine what the company who run the accommodation would have to say if "women of the night" started visiting me! - and I'm getting my own flat ready to put on the market.

I'm just hoping my general health holds out; I've still some ambitions left, mainly to do with travel. The discussions I'd had with one of the "mates I've never met" on here, involving a punting holiday once the pandemic was over, possibly in Kyiv :scare:, may have been hit on the head; but there are still places to go and people to see.

But I still pop back on here very occasionally to see how you all are. I know there are certain honourable members - and their members! - who are older than me and still punting; but this is my answer to Llanfair571's initial post.

Online Punterperson1971

I've found that growing old helps!!  ;)  :D  :lol:

I'm now nearer 80 than 70, and have begun to feel my age and was finding it increasingly difficult to get hard, even with Sildenafil. Also, with one or two very occasional exceptions to 'tick' a Service I really wanted, I'd really only been seeing one lass - once a month - for certainly the last six or seven years. We've become friends; and after one of our 4-hour Sunday afternoon sessions, I said something fluffy like, "I never thought this day would dawn, but I think I'd rather be your friend than your client."

She knew what I meant - it was bloody hard work for both of us for me to get satisfactorily hard - so we agreed that I'd never have another session like the ones we'd had 8 - 10 years ago, but wasn't able to manage any more. We're still in regular contact with each other and are on the phone two or three times a week but I've not had any properly enjoyable sex since that Sunday afternoon. And to be honest, even that wasn't anything worthy of posting a review!

Like I say, I really am beginning to feel old and frail. I've moved into semi-sheltered accommodation - I can imagine what the company who run the accommodation would have to say if "women of the night" started visiting me! - and I'm getting my own flat ready to put on the market.

I'm just hoping my general health holds out; I've still some ambitions left, mainly to do with travel. The discussions I'd had with one of the "mates I've never met" on here, involving a punting holiday once the pandemic was over, possibly in Kyiv :scare:, may have been hit on the head; but there are still places to go and people to see.

But I still pop back on here very occasionally to see how you all are. I know there are certain honourable members - and their members! - who are older than me and still punting; but this is my answer to Llanfair571's initial post.
I wish you all the best we’ve all got old age to come and I hope I’m like you when I get to 80 and I really hope you get that holiday you desire  :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :drinks: :drinks:

I think punting can become, if not an adddiction, then a hard to break habit.  For some people it's great and they're clear about why they do it, but for others I suspect it fulfills other desires than simply sex... intimacy, validation, power etc.  It's the same reason that people get into routines and habits that leave them unfulfilled and disappointed afterwards (eating disorders spring to mind... sometimes we eat crap we know we shouldnt because it makes us feel good in the short-term)
It's hard to step away from this strong pulls and you might need to seek help if you've really decided that it's time to stop.

I've found that growing old helps!!  ;)  :D  :lol:

I'm now nearer 80 than 70, and have begun to feel my age and was finding it increasingly difficult to get hard, even with Sildenafil. Also, with one or two very occasional exceptions to 'tick' a Service I really wanted, I'd really only been seeing one lass - once a month - for certainly the last six or seven years. We've become friends; and after one of our 4-hour Sunday afternoon sessions, I said something fluffy like, "I never thought this day would dawn, but I think I'd rather be your friend than your client."

She knew what I meant - it was bloody hard work for both of us for me to get satisfactorily hard - so we agreed that I'd never have another session like the ones we'd had 8 - 10 years ago, but wasn't able to manage any more. We're still in regular contact with each other and are on the phone two or three times a week but I've not had any properly enjoyable sex since that Sunday afternoon. And to be honest, even that wasn't anything worthy of posting a review!

Like I say, I really am beginning to feel old and frail. I've moved into semi-sheltered accommodation - I can imagine what the company who run the accommodation would have to say if "women of the night" started visiting me! - and I'm getting my own flat ready to put on the market.

I'm just hoping my general health holds out; I've still some ambitions left, mainly to do with travel. The discussions I'd had with one of the "mates I've never met" on here, involving a punting holiday once the pandemic was over, possibly in Kyiv :scare:, may have been hit on the head; but there are still places to go and people to see.

But I still pop back on here very occasionally to see how you all are. I know there are certain honourable members - and their members! - who are older than me and still punting; but this is my answer to Llanfair571's initial post.

Great to see you are still alive and kicking buddy. I am about ten years behind you in age but I always imagined my next ten years will see me trail off slowly. I am already a lot more pernickety than I was when I started 8 years ago.

I have chatted to you here and on EH and I think UKE and you were always a voice of reason. Good luck with the move and yes I will be checking in here as well when I ‘retire’, probably until the day I shed this mortal coil.  :hi:

Offline Thephoenix

I've found that growing old helps!!  ;)  :D  :lol:

I'm now nearer 80 than 70, and have begun to feel my age and was finding it increasingly difficult to get hard, even with Sildenafil. Also, with one or two very occasional exceptions to 'tick' a Service I really wanted, I'd really only been seeing one lass - once a month - for certainly the last six or seven years. We've become friends; and after one of our 4-hour Sunday afternoon sessions, I said something fluffy like, "I never thought this day would dawn, but I think I'd rather be your friend than your client."

She knew what I meant - it was bloody hard work for both of us for me to get satisfactorily hard - so we agreed that I'd never have another session like the ones we'd had 8 - 10 years ago, but wasn't able to manage any more. We're still in regular contact with each other and are on the phone two or three times a week but I've not had any properly enjoyable sex since that Sunday afternoon. And to be honest, even that wasn't anything worthy of posting a review!

Like I say, I really am beginning to feel old and frail. I've moved into semi-sheltered accommodation - I can imagine what the company who run the accommodation would have to say if "women of the night" started visiting me! - and I'm getting my own flat ready to put on the market.

I'm just hoping my general health holds out; I've still some ambitions left, mainly to do with travel. The discussions I'd had with one of the "mates I've never met" on here, involving a punting holiday once the pandemic was over, possibly in Kyiv :scare:, may have been hit on the head; but there are still places to go and people to see.

But I still pop back on here very occasionally to see how you all are. I know there are certain honourable members - and their members! - who are older than me and still punting; but this is my answer to Llanfair571's initial post.

 Hello old chum.

Good to hear your still ticking over.
I was concerned we might have heard the last from you.

I'm a few years older and understand exactly how you feel.
I'm living in similar accommodation and diagnosed as moderately frail, whatever that means.

As the years go by, I've decided to 'retire' from Punting more often  :(
but then think, maybe one last time.
The problem is I'm getting worried that I might peg it in Fifi's massage parlour. :scare:

I hope you're still able to do some traveling.
Maybe back to Australia?
Unfortunately if you're like me, even long haul flights can be a problem.

I hope you can continue to pop in here occasionally.
We always enjoy your contributions.

« Last Edit: May 13, 2022, 08:51:58 am by Thephoenix »

Offline Fuzzyduck

I've found that growing old helps!!  ;)  :D  :lol:
...

Good to hear from you HA. I somewhat fear the day when I just can't be bothered any longer but I know that when I get there, that I'll be fine with it. I don't know how you are, but I find that sex with the same person excites me less and less over time. Perhaps a new experience (maybe abroad somewhere) might rekindle some yearning down below.

Offline Doc Holliday

Good to hear from you again HA  :hi: