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Offline yummycookie

Since admin has stopped granting access to the SA board. I thought it would be useful to start a Yorkshire based SA board where we can share tips and info on girls either directly or by pm. I am fairly new to SA so don’t have that much to offer. I have found a lot of girls willing to sell pics and vids, but struggling to find many actually willing to meet up, would appreciate some links via PM for girls in the West Yorkshire area.

Offline yorkieyorkie

Would love to get involved with this too.

Offline wolfiesmith69

Why can we not see the SA girls etc ??
Banned reason: Blatant tout, posting multiple reviews and starting a thread to advertise his reviews.
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Offline demonic

I have been on and off SA for a number of years and have seen a number of Sheffield based girls. Am currently off the site and no longer have access to the thread.
Admin has locked down the thread to certified active members of SA for good reason and I have no issue with that.
I suspect he may have a view if a breakaway thread is started however that is a decision above my pay grade.

To summarise my experiences:
Numerous meet and greets where there was no spark
2 freebies
3 regulars at an agreement better than a typical SP
1 attempted blackmail
Plenty of one off meetings which were fun but not worth repeating

Numerous princesses and girls with deluded expectations   .

It is not cheap to become a member. It is very time consuming generally requiring significant messaging effort. It is full of timewasters, picture sellers and scammers. However, it can pay off and gems do exist.
The motivation for the girls really does vary.
If you get access to the main thread, it is all detailed on that. The thread is around 1000 pages now I believe.


« Last Edit: January 13, 2019, 10:08:52 am by demonic »

Offline filthy.john

I've been a member of SA perhaps 4 times over the last 3 years - once for an extended period of about 4 months, the other times just for a month at a time.

I did not and have not had ANY luck at all with it.

You can get a goon 1 hour session with an AW girl for the cost of 1 month's membership and my advice would be to go for the former and ignore the latter.

I had a number of responses on SA and not one of them proved to be genuine. On 2 occasions I booked hotels and made arrangements to meet - on one occasion she cancelled an hour before and on the other occasion (different girl, I should add) just didn't rock up and simply stopped responding.

I'm sure that there might be some genuine girls out there in the big, big cities - London, Birmingham and Manchester - but elsewhere it's a fantasy world.

My more recent memberships have gathered approaches from women nowhere near my location despite my profile expressly saying 'don't contact me unless you live within XX miles of XXXXXX' - it's a complete and total waste of cash and I think the majority of the profiles are fake.

Stick with the lottery of AW.

Offline daveev

I to have been on and off because of the price, i just put down i'm looking for filth for a pay per meet, had a couple of good ones, just the prices keeps me off it now.

Offline DM69er

Am I being a thicko but what is SA?

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Offline filthy.john

Is it s website or something?

Seeking Arrangement, now re-branded as just 'Seeking'

It is the most well-known sugar-dating website. Some claim incredible success on it but more claim it to be totally and utterly hopeless - and a few claim modest success with it.

Offline steve7458

demonic makes some very good points.  I am on the locked down thread, having been a member several times in 4 years or so of SA.  I would add that the "expected amount" that girls on SA seem to want has really gone up in the last year or so.  You can spend hours/days/weeks chasing to no avail, because these girls see themselves differently in the majority of cases, but there genuinely is gems out there.  I currently see a girl weekly for £200 per month.  She is 23 and simply stunning and ticks every box.  I am more than double her age and my issue, which is more typical of SA, is that she wants me to leave my wife and move in with her.  That type of connection is far easier on the site.

I would add though that via SA I have had bad experiences as well, wasted journeys, wasted lunch meets etc.  But this is my 3rd girl that is below the price of AW and its great fun.  I have yet to encounter a freebie, many others seem to have.

Oh and back to the pricing, I spoke to a girl 6 months ago.  I had spoken with her a year previously and we nearly met, back then she was happy with £100 per meet.  This time around, she wouldn't budge below £500 per month.

Offline yorkieyorkie

demonic makes some very good points.  I am on the locked down thread, having been a member several times in 4 years or so of SA.  I would add that the "expected amount" that girls on SA seem to want has really gone up in the last year or so.  You can spend hours/days/weeks chasing to no avail, because these girls see themselves differently in the majority of cases, but there genuinely is gems out there.  I currently see a girl weekly for £200 per month.  She is 23 and simply stunning and ticks every box.  I am more than double her age and my issue, which is more typical of SA, is that she wants me to leave my wife and move in with her.  That type of connection is far easier on the site.

I would add though that via SA I have had bad experiences as well, wasted journeys, wasted lunch meets etc.  But this is my 3rd girl that is below the price of AW and its great fun.  I have yet to encounter a freebie, many others seem to have.

Oh and back to the pricing, I spoke to a girl 6 months ago.  I had spoken with her a year previously and we nearly met, back then she was happy with £100 per meet.  This time around, she wouldn't budge below £500 per month.

Hi Steve

Is there any way you could provide info of this girl who’s at £200 per month. Happy to discuss via PM.

I was a member on SA (before I joined this site) and my experiences were that there’s lots of timewasters on there.

Offline mrfishyfoo

demonic makes some very good points.  I am on the locked down thread, having been a member several times in 4 years or so of SA.  I would add that the "expected amount" that girls on SA seem to want has really gone up in the last year or so.  You can spend hours/days/weeks chasing to no avail, because these girls see themselves differently in the majority of cases, but there genuinely is gems out there.  I currently see a girl weekly for £200 per month.  She is 23 and simply stunning and ticks every box.  I am more than double her age and my issue, which is more typical of SA, is that she wants me to leave my wife and move in with her.  That type of connection is far easier on the site.

I would add though that via SA I have had bad experiences as well, wasted journeys, wasted lunch meets etc.  But this is my 3rd girl that is below the price of AW and its great fun.  I have yet to encounter a freebie, many others seem to have.

Oh and back to the pricing, I spoke to a girl 6 months ago.  I had spoken with her a year previously and we nearly met, back then she was happy with £100 per meet.  This time around, she wouldn't budge below £500 per month.

This is why I can no longer be bothered with SA.

If I wanted a relationship I'd use a dating site.  :hi: :hi:

Offline DM69er

I can go out drinking and pull a psycho. I ain’t going online to do it. That’s why I started doing this as the women out on the pull wanted more than a one off thing. It’s a no from me.

Offline Kingy28

I agree with a lot of what has already been said by guys with experience of SA. You have to put in a lot of work. A lot of work. There are deluded princesses, scammers & picture sellers on there. There are timewasters who will let you down at the last minute. Some are probably blokes who are just taking the piss. The girls also get flakey when they get a new boyfriend so be prepared to be blocked without notice. Hardly any of the girls see themselves as whores even though it is sex for cash. The whole experience can be incredibly frustrating & at £70 a month, it ain't cheap. Only experience can help you develop an inbuilt filter to sift through the shite.

I join for a month, find what i want & then don't renew. It is now automatic renewal but it is easy to cancel in account settings.

I've met plenty of girls & have a very high success rate of bedding them. I would even say that some of them were stunners.  Real head-turners. It is easy to see them once & move on but I have had no trouble in seeing girls multiple times. I am at least double their age too. I've had a free overnighter but that was a one off.

From my overall experience, I would recommed it BUT, It can be very hard work.

Offline BingoHJ

From my experience specifically in the Yorkshire region, I found that the girls on SA were actually pricing themselves higher than London  - probably to do with supply and demand. York seems to be very barren for SB whereas Leeds is better due to the university population. I have not had a PPM for less than £250 yet in the Yorkshire area.

Offline bazza

i have used sa, again off and on for short periods. had a few meets mainly one offs, most girls do have a crazy idea that you should pay them fortunes just to meet and it gets quite draining after a while. id actually quite fancy joining again just as i have not been on in a while but last time i checked paypal option had been pulled.

Offline hungrypunt

Have a blink at this chaps
Trust me, overall the one thing about SA is , very time consuming

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Offline DM69er

Okay so my curiosity got the better of me. I’ve joined. Within 5 minutes I know two girls off AW and one girl who is from my village I know her well to do parents kind of and a girl who hasn’t shown her face but I know her house as I’ve been there from fabswingers. It’s a small small world.

marlboro20

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Okay so my curiosity got the better of me. I’ve joined. Within 5 minutes I know two girls off AW and one girl who is from my village I know her well to do parents kind of and a girl who hasn’t shown her face but I know her house as I’ve been there from fabswingers. It’s a small small world.
Would it be against UKP Forum Rules for DM69er to post the AW links to these two girls?

Offline mrfishyfoo

Would it be against UKP Forum Rules for DM69er to post the AW links to these two girls?

I for one don't see why as I'm pretty sure it's been done before.

I do though question why anyone would want to see a "proper" pro$$ie as an SA meet. My experience is that whores are whores regardless of how the introduction is made whereas the "proper" SA lasses don't see themselves as being whores and tend to be where the bargains are if you're willing to put the effort in.

marlboro20

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Hooking up as fuck buddies for £200 a month could be a bargain  :rolleyes:

Offline hungrypunt

Would it be against UKP Forum Rules for DM69er to post the AW links to these two girls?

No, its a punters forum, they are prossies :) happens a lot on SA this does

Offline mrfishyfoo

Hooking up as fuck buddies for £200 a month could be a bargain  :rolleyes:

Indeed it would be.....with a "proper" SA girl.

My experience was that I could tell who the whores were on SA as they wanted just about full price and they wouldn't touch a fuck buddie arrangement for £200 a month with a barge pole.

TBH my biggest issue with SA was the "liberal" attitude to condoms, as in not wanting to use them, that the lasses had. One lass told me it would be fine to fuck her raw up her ass as she couldn't get pregnant that way. FFS how fucking dumb and dangerous.

Anyways each to their own.

marlboro20

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Reckon Steve7458 just got lucky then... apart from her wanting to make golden memories  :rolleyes:

Offline yorkieyorkie

Hooking up as fuck buddies for £200 a month could be a bargain  :rolleyes:

I think that’s very rare malboro.

marlboro20

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But I'm a Yorkshireman... I like a bargain :)

Justanotheruser

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I found tons of non aw girls to meet up with for between 100 and 150 a meet on there and it was a lot of fun. Also ended up with a number of freebies. The messaging basically took over my life at one point though so I'd echo others who said it takes a huge amount of effort to use the website if you're engaging with a lot of people. When I was using the main thread the general impression I got was that it was a mixed bag and I think it's down to a number of factors, given girls are far more selective than aw. Basically,

If you are already  at least relatively attractive it'll be easier.
If you have a genuinely big budget it will be easier.
If you have good chat it will be easier.
If you luck out on location or are willing to travel it will be easier. For instance Leeds and Manchester are great, but Sheffield had far less accounts for some reason.

Offline stevedave

If you are already  at least relatively attractive it'll be easier.
If you have a genuinely big budget it will be easier.
If you have good chat it will be easier.

So, if you're good looking, have good chat and loads of cash, you'll pull.

Sounds like real life to me, I'll stick to punting  :lol:

Justanotheruser

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So, if you're good looking, have good chat and loads of cash, you'll pull.

Sounds like real life to me, I'll stick to punting  :lol:
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Well I think you're right and that's definitely the better option for an easier life! I definitely didn't have all those qualities and I don't even use it anymore. It just opened up opportunities with girls I'd never normally have had the chance to see at the time.

Woodpecker69

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I have met two very elegant and classy girls through SA. One of them I am still seeing regularly.
I don’t think I would have found these  type of girls in the escorti industry especially as one of them is exclusively seeing me. The other one remained online even after meeting me which I found off-putting.
Intimacy is much better than with the usual girls from aw and I understand why these girls don’t see themselves as escorts. It really is very different.
The disadvantage is that arrangements can be rather expensive and there is a greater risk of developing EAS. One of the girls would
The relaxed attitude of some girls towards the use of condoms may partly stem from the fact that they don’t see themselves as escorts. One of the girls did not expect to use a condom, the other girls thankfully insists on using condomes but I recently got the impression that she passively would now allow unprotected intimacy. I would never go for this, but in her case it is a nice touch that she probably would allow it to happen.
If you are for for nsa fun then I would recommend you stick with seeing escorts. As others have stated here, the “recruitment “ process can be rather time consuming and at some point took over my life to an extent I did no longer fully concentrate on my job. With some experience I became much better at judging which profiles are worth going after (in fact, I only contacted two girls in earnest resulting in the two arrangements).
I haven’t  joined  SA again since they removed the PayPal option. I reckon they will be done by some hackers at some point.....

Offline DM69er

I have met two very elegant and classy girls through SA. One of them I am still seeing regularly.
I don’t think I would have found these  type of girls in the escorti industry especially as one of them is exclusively seeing me. The other one remained online even after meeting me which I found off-putting.
Intimacy is much better than with the usual girls from aw and I understand why these girls don’t see themselves as escorts. It really is very different.
The disadvantage is that arrangements can be rather expensive and there is a greater risk of developing EAS. One of the girls would
The relaxed attitude of some girls towards the use of condoms may partly stem from the fact that they don’t see themselves as escorts. One of the girls did not expect to use a condom, the other girls thankfully insists on using condomes but I recently got the impression that she passively would now allow unprotected intimacy. I would never go for this, but in her case it is a nice touch that she probably would allow it to happen.
If you are for for nsa fun then I would recommend you stick with seeing escorts. As others have stated here, the “recruitment “ process can be rather time consuming and at some point took over my life to an extent I did no longer fully concentrate on my job. With some experience I became much better at judging which profiles are worth going after (in fact, I only contacted two girls in earnest resulting in the two arrangements).
I haven’t  joined  SA again since they removed the PayPal option. I reckon they will be done by some hackers at some point.....
I can go on a night out and pull a girl if I wanted this. If you think they’re being exclusive you’re deluded. I don’t get the payment part of it. They’re still SP’s but in a different name. Anyone thinking different are kidding themselves.

Woodpecker69

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I can go on a night out and pull a girl if I wanted this. If you think they’re being exclusive you’re deluded. I don’t get the payment part of it. They’re still SP’s but in a different name. Anyone thinking different are kidding themselves.
Go for it then. I don't think you would pull that girl. She is highly selective.

Offline yorkieyorkie

Go for it then. I don't think you would pull that girl. She is highly selective.

Highly selective- LOL

Offline DM69er

Go for it then. I don't think you would pull that girl. She is highly selective.
Hahaha. Okay course she is. Listen I ain’t bad looking and I’m decent at pulling so Nearly every woman I’ve met, classy, posh, chavvy or girl next door will blaze your brains out if you can make laugh enough.

Offline hungrypunt

Hahaha. Okay course she is. Listen I ain’t bad looking and I’m decent at pulling so Nearly every woman I’ve met, classy, posh, chavvy or girl next door will blaze your brains out if you can make laugh enough.

And how do you do that  :lol: :lol:

Offline Al1245

No mate you don’t understand she is quite selective probably explains why she’s on SA in the first place 🤣

Kammy

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Does anyone know with free membership on SA if you can message?

Woodpecker69

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No mate you don’t understand she is quite selective probably explains why she’s on SA in the first place 🤣

There are clearly very different type of girls on SA. Of course, you will get AW girls there but there are a few that are looking for arrangements with someone they click with. That makes them and the whole experience different to seeing agency escorts or AW escorts.  In comparison to those girls SA girls are generally more selective.
The girl I am seeing now told me she had 100s of offers but has never met someone she clicked with and therefore did not enter any arrangements before. From the entire experience of her and her character I just know she is honest in this respect. She has also not been online anymore since we started our arrangement. You can call me naive but I trust my instinct here.

Woodpecker69

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Does anyone know with free membership on SA if you can message?
SA encourages members to add public pics in order to be able to message. However,  you can write messages you cannot read messages sent by girls to you. So the communications is not two ways unless you subscribe to full membership.
There was a short period when free members could message and read messages due to a glitch in their system but they have fixed that.

Offline TPreston

There are clearly very different type of girls on SA. Of course, you will get AW girls there but there are a few that are looking for arrangements with someone they click with. That makes them and the whole experience different to seeing agency escorts or AW escorts.  In comparison to those girls SA girls are generally more selective.
The girl I am seeing now told me she had 100s of offers but has never met someone she clicked with and therefore did not enter any arrangements before. From the entire experience of her and her character I just know she is honest in this respect. She has also not been online anymore since we started our arrangement. You can call me naive but I trust my instinct here.

Yep you're being naive. Try suggesting you're going to stop paying her and see if the loyalty continues.

You aren't in a relationship and even if you were, you've met her on a site were she is offering sex to bidders. Shes simply telling you what you want to here.

I've met about a large number of women off seeking for all sorts of backgrounds. None are long term wife material for the simple fact they're using seeking - they'll have their head turned by more £

Woodpecker69

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Yep you're being naive. Try suggesting you're going to stop paying her and see if the loyalty continues.

You aren't in a relationship and even if you were, you've met her on a site were she is offering sex to bidders. Shes simply telling you what you want to here.

I've met about a large number of women off seeking for all sorts of backgrounds. None are long term wife material for the simple fact they're using seeking - they'll have their head turned by more £


as I said, there are many different types of girls on there. A few gems are among them. I have been on there for nearly 18 months but only arranged two meets. So it takes time to find the right girl for you. I never pretened I am in a relationship btw. and of course financial support plays a role.

Offline hungrypunt

Most are prossies in training, and dont have the balls to go full time.

Ive met the odd diamond whom Im still seeing and are friends with for a few years but mostly, NAH

Offline Al1245

Honestly if it works for you and your happy then I’d say enjoy it mate. Let’s me honest nothing wrong with a good consistent shag from time to time. Have fun buddy

Offline Al1245

Btw always wondered has anyone ever got sex exchange for something else than money. Must be some weird exceptions out there haha

Offline DeanoDeano


as I said, there are many different types of girls on there. A few gems are among them. I have been on there for nearly 18 months but only arranged two meets. So it takes time to find the right girl for you. I never pretened I am in a relationship btw. and of course financial support plays a role.

So you've spent £1400 on membership to meet two girls?

Plus their arrangement allowances?

 :lol:

Offline DM69er

And how do you do that  :lol: :lol:
You haven’t lived pal. Stick to “the highly selective” girls. I guarantee she’s getting slipped off a few others.

Offline DM69er

So you've spent £1400 on membership to meet two girls?

Plus their arrangement allowances?

 :lol:
😂😂😂😂😂😂 lol. What a sucker.

Offline Paris69

Yep you're being naive. Try suggesting you're going to stop paying her and see if the loyalty continues.

You aren't in a relationship and even if you were, you've met her on a site were she is offering sex to bidders. Shes simply telling you what you want to here.

I've met about a large number of women off seeking for all sorts of backgrounds. None are long term wife material for the simple fact they're using seeking - they'll have their head turned by more £


+1  :thumbsup:
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Offline hungrypunt

You haven’t lived pal. Stick to “the highly selective” girls. I guarantee she’s getting slipped off a few others.

I think your getting me mixed up with someone else