I agree but please put yourself in my shoes. I have to do something and I need to know if it’s her or not? Hope people understand, it’s awful
Whilst I'm tempted to get the popcorn to watch this all go Jeremy Kyle, I don't think you're going to get what you're after here. You do get that this is an anonymous forum, don't you? You might be genuine; you might be nefarious.
However, indulging you to a point, it's clear you have some serious communication issues with your other half, and getting concrete evidence about her alleged past to shove in front of her face isn't going to help. The fact she's unwilling to engage on this says something is up. If she had nothing to hide, I'd expect a punch in a face for making such an accusation.
Speaking hypothetically, if I were in that situation and loved a woman enough to deal with her past, I would probably want to know for sure, so I was strong enough to deal with any cunts who told me they had fucked my wife when she was on the game. That would involve an adult conversation with my wife, to have that transparency. If she's unwilling to have that conversation, then perhaps the love isn't as strong as I thought. In which case, I'd leave her.
If I weren't strong enough to deal with it, I would still have an adult conversation with my wife. The likely outcome is that someone would be leaving.
Stop whining here, man up and speak to her.
