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Offline watsey

I've never tried these sites or any other of their ilk but wondered what people think of these two.
SA is often mentioned but I've not heard anybody comment on SB.

Offline shrewsmale

I've never tried these sites or any other of their ilk but wondered what people think of these two.
SA is often mentioned but I've not heard anybody comment on SB.

never used SB. Sa served a purpose for me. different talent pool, potentially lower rates. Flip side is many nutty women. required time to search around. Some women genuinely think they will get paid to go for lunch with you.

I think it is now about £60 per month. if you have the time and capital you might find it fun.

Offline Beamer

This has been covered in another thread but can't find it at the moment.
I agree too many nutters on SA. IMO not worth the hassle dealing with them.

Offline Madone1

I’ve had a go with SA an there is some serious talent on there but it’s not cheap and like Beamer said it’s a lot of hassle so of those girls are delusional and there demands are insane.

Offline watsey

Thanks guys - consistent comments so I'll drop the idea.  :drinks:

Offline Madone1

It might work out for you pal but in my experience punting is a lot easier and with a lot less chance of blow back if it goes tits up.

Ethan James

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Yes i agree with Beemer too msny fruit cakes that are disillusioned with their worth. The bottom line what do you want on the shady world of SD's and SB's the sex or the honeymoon period with 4 dates thrown in for good measure. At one time Tom Jones was considered a Sugar Daddy lol how times have changed. When the assumption is made the man is coughing up the cash the transaction is shrouded with ambiguity of your wants and her needs. SD perks remain distinctly undefined. Do you really want to pay £2000+ per month. Think how many escorts you could see with that...

Offline Madone1

I meet a couple of girls in my time and yeah they are always after a monthly allowance and claim your there one and only sugar daddy I was never paying out anything like 2000 a month this is Shropshire not London lol.

Offline Fabaceous

I joined SA two years ago. Met and fucked some great girls as one offs and met a few fucking nutters and one who tried to blackmail me.
I did meet a great young lass who has since been a regular because she's young, (23) is a filthy bitch and ticks every box for me.
I see her at least once or twice a month.
I met another girl who was a university lecturer - 36 - a big girl who shagged like a demon - never wanted money - just a shag. Alas - now relocated to Abu Dhabi.
I maintain a fake account (free) to check on goings on in my small region.
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Busterthecat

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Have to agree with the above poster. Been on their since 2014 and its a sure thing 9 times out of 10.  I'm not really interested in the professionals and while there's fair few of them on there you can easily tell, so its good for finding the broke students/part-timers. Met approx 15 girls on there from students, milfs, single mums, models so its great if you like variety :D. Personally i set a budget and let the girls find me rather than pester them unless one really takes my fancy. There's some real arseholes on there so if you're reasonably polite and don't come across as a total perve/potential serial killer then you can usually negotiate something. Only once had to go on a date first before getting my end away and have never paid an allowance -if they're after a mug to pay for everything in exchange for a peck on the cheek its pretty easy to weed them out talking to them and even then they often change their mind when faced with cold hard cash - End of the day i never meet them unless we both fully understand what's gonna happen. Secret benefits is like SA but with half the girls on there so i wouldn't bother.

Have fun! :hi:
« Last Edit: November 01, 2018, 06:39:23 am by Busterthecat »


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Offline kurnlittle

Had premium and its been shit for me so far

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

Seeking Arrangement is fucking awesome. You have to work to sort the wheat from the chaff but once you uncover a diamond it’s fantastic.

I’m in my early 50’s and regularly fuck girls 30 years younger than me. These are girls that are just fucking you that day rather than a WG who may see 5 or more punters in a day. It’s like civvie sex.

Offline kurnlittle

Fuckin how? I am mid 30s with a decent body. Get as far as getting a mobile number for what's app then silence. I ain't rude or anything forward!

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

Fuckin how? I am mid 30s with a decent body. Get as far as getting a mobile number for what's app then silence. I ain't rude or anything forward!

Patience and perseverance. Also don’t approach it with a punting mindset. A typical SB thinks of SA as traditional dating with benefits. Of course they’re women taking money in exchange for sex but they don’t view themselves as prostitutes.

Offline ScouserRod

How do you approach the girls in the first instance ?
Do you offer to take them out for dinner ?
Do you offer to meet at a hotel for the evening/night to discuss arrangements ?
Hint that there maybe finance involved in the future ?

Hope you don't mind my asking but it is something I have considerd
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jbird123

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I have tried these sites, I offer £800 to spend a few hours with the girls, but as soon as hotel is mentioned they're off. They want £1000's just to go out shopping with them and I've asked hundreds all over the country. Nuts.

midlandz_boy88

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I've not had success either. I don't even say intamacy first. Offering dinner drinks first. Girls want 200 minimum. The days of 150 for a whole day of sex are not there nymore. The publicity of these sites have made the girls ask for more

Offline dog999

Just joined SB and had a good look at what's on offer!. Lots on there too far away or have not been active for a long while. The only one close enough and with recent activity was a friends sister!, I did hear she split up from her other half. A few years ago I had some success on a site called LOVEISTHEBUG, I think the site is no more. Met three ladies on there two of which wanted no strings sex, I was happy to oblige!. Met the one in a small country park place not far from M5 junct 4, she gave me a good blowjob after snoggin my face off. Those were the days. :hi:

Offline Jumping Jack Flash

SA women view the site as a traditional dating site so want to be treated with respect and “chatted up”. It’s the closet thing to civvie dating for us married men.

Don’t approach it with a punting mindset and obviously keep your wits about you because there are scammers on there. However there are loads of genuine girls on there who will fuck you. Some have daddy issues, others prefer older men.

Don’t offer them cash up front as this makes them feel like hookers. Suggest shopping and a “treat”. I’ve never paid for a social meet and never paid more than £150 for a few hours hot sex. Treat them as you would a girl you chat up in a bar be flirtatious and suggestive and get them onto a Whatsapp asap. Oh and never EVER pay cash up front.

I’ve got regulars on there including freebies who accommodate. It takes time but they are out there if you remain patient. We’re also approaching peak SB months, December and January so bear that in mind too.

Offline ScouserRod

Thanks JJF for this info-may be tempted to have a go ??

midlandz_boy88

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I may join back in jan. If u use phone app u can join for 20 quid 7 day trial

Offline shrewsmale

I may join back in jan. If u use phone app u can join for 20 quid 7 day trial

is that a new offer? may go for that and hammer the shit out of it

midlandz_boy88

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is that a new offer? may go for that and hammer the shit out of it

No ive done it twice. Register on pc . Download app and 7 day trial comes up

Offline T0pgun

There are plenty of uni students look to be taken out and or go travelling.. some without wanting payment. Albeit they want to go to a hotel and have diner in a quality restaurants

Offline robx66

Which sites are you talking about?
 Thanks

Offline shrewsmale

Which sites are you talking about?
 Thanks


see the topic at the top

Offline robx66

I mean any particular sites (good ones)

Offline Cesc187

Ive used pof in the past but not had much luck, most the girls want a relationship, im after some fun and simply nsa.

Would love to hear of people who know any decent sites though!

Offline workinallweek

Ive used pof in the past but not had much luck, most the girls want a relationship, im after some fun and simply nsa.

Would love to hear of people who know any decent sites though!

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Offline Mrniceguy165

I've had three quite long relationships with girls from SA and Sugardaddie. You end up with a girlfriend much younger with a fantastic body and sex drive and an insatiable hunger for cash! You are the magic money tree.
I have loved spending time with these girls but don't have the time anymore.
As a guide my last one, who messages me regularly asking to meet, because of my sex appeal of course not money (haha).  I give her £250 a night, usually get a couple of shags BB, but now have to stay in a hotel with her and it's getting a bit expensive! Sometimes things have got the better of me and we've had to visit Boots for the morning after pill haha!  :wacko:

Offline shed

I've had three quite long relationships with girls from SA and Sugardaddie. You end up with a girlfriend much younger with a fantastic body and sex drive and an insatiable hunger for cash! You are the magic money tree.
I have loved spending time with these girls but don't have the time anymore.
As a guide my last one, who messages me regularly asking to meet, because of my sex appeal of course not money (haha).  I give her £250 a night, usually get a couple of shags BB, but now have to stay in a hotel with her and it's getting a bit expensive! Sometimes things have got the better of me and we've had to visit Boots for the morning after pill haha!  :wacko:

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Offline The Owl

Isn't it obvious mr notsoniceguy????

I suspect he's a fantasist anyway. He talks about getting to bareback SB's but then just a little later talks about having to get the morning after pill after getting carried away. Seems a bit odd.

Scank

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There are plenty of uni students look to be taken out and or go travelling.. some without wanting payment. Albeit they want to go to a hotel and have diner in a quality restaurants

From experience or are you just repeating the crap in the newspapers, or what you heard from a mates mate?

Offline Mrniceguy165

Isn't it obvious mr notsoniceguy????
It's not obvious to me. Those are all true experiences that happened to me over the last few years. Just trying to help those who are interested in those sites

Offline Mrniceguy165

I suspect he's a fantasist anyway. He talks about getting to bareback SB's but then just a little later talks about having to get the morning after pill after getting carried away. Seems a bit odd.
Everything I said happened to me. Not fantasy. Why would I make it up?

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It's not obvious to me. Those are all true experiences that happened to me over the last few years. Just trying to help those who are interested in those sites

If you have barebacked these girls as you say, then also post on here AW girls that you have seen, as most punters on here apply the BB rule veryt strictly. Not only will they not see any girls offering BB, they will also avoid WGs who have been seen by punters (such as you) who themselves delve into BB with SA/AW girls. 

Scank

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I've just joined but it's a bit of a nightmare without any guidance.  Not quite sure what might be a scam and what might not be.  Would be good if there was somewhere to discuss with other punters what rices they were paying for the same services without exposing them all over the forum

Offline kurnlittle

I've just joined but it's a bit of a nightmare without any guidance.  Not quite sure what might be a scam and what might not be.  Would be good if there was somewhere to discuss with other punters what rices they were paying for the same services without exposing them all over the forum

Lot of scammers trying to tempt you with paying for pics vids etc. You check there join date and they are new.

Offline Mrniceguy165

If you have barebacked these girls as you say, then also post on here AW girls that you have seen, as most punters on here apply the BB rule veryt strictly. Not only will they not see any girls offering BB, they will also avoid WGs who have been seen by punters (such as you) who themselves delve into BB with SA/AW girls.
They are not working girls that's the point. Just girls who need a helping hand. All of mine were students. I would never BB a WG.
I wouldn't review those girls here, they are not "available" in that sense. They were my girlfriend for a time. A couple of years in one case.
« Last Edit: March 22, 2019, 06:29:45 am by Mrniceguy165 »

Offline cob35

They are not working girls that's the point. Just girls who need a helping hand. All of mine were students. I would never BB a WG.
I wouldn't review those girls here, they are not "available" in that sense. They were my girlfriend for a time. A couple of years in one case.


Are you serious ?

Theres no difference between BB with a wg or someone off SA or are you one of these deluded idiots who think that girls on SA only see 1 guy at a time ?  She may not to seeing loads of guys each day like a wg but how do you know she isn't seeing a different guy every night or a student that's out on the piss fucking random uni mates each night ?

No need for reviews but could you at least put there profile names up so its a warning for the rest of us that use SA to stay well away from them


Scank

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So this morning had an unknown number call me "opened with my first name, I've got screenshots of all your seeking conversations", how would your wife feel? (Fine we've been separated for 3 years), apparantly about to dump it all on the internet unless I agreed to pay £400 within 12 minutes.

Luckily I had only given that name (a derivative of my own) to one person so I know who it is. Then I've had a bunch of calls off other numbers and finally a message saying "good luck with the fall out from all this, it'll be a lesson to others just to pay the money straight away".

I've asked admin if I can give details on the seeking thread
« Last Edit: March 25, 2019, 09:37:17 am by Scank »

Offline Brumish

They are not working girls that's the point. Just girls who need a helping hand. All of mine were students. I would never BB a WG.
I wouldn't review those girls here, they are not "available" in that sense. They were my girlfriend for a time. A couple of years in one case.

Probably not a good idea to share any SA profiles links etc on here as youll probably going to end up identifying yourself.
Regarding what you do in your own time with SBs, It’s totally up to you.
My logic would be that, if ever you’re taking ‘the’ risk then a WG would be far less riskier than a student SB. These girls are far less experienced and far less likely to seek immediate help if there’s any sign of any STIs.

One of the beauties of SA is that you can form your own relationship on your own terms and it could well include that you both have check ups etc to verify that your both singing from the same hymn sheet and Take things as you wish.

In terms of approach, the thing that’s worked for me is, like others have mentioned, treat it as a dating game and spell it out as an arrangement.

One over riding rule I’d suggest you always keep to is NEVER PAY ANYTHING UPFRONT.
Other than that it’s just a matter of conversations and avoiding flakes.
Hotel tip would be - book if it feels right but bear in mind they can flake at the last minute so plan b,c,d won’t go amiss.
In my early days, after a no show and wasting money on the five star Britannia in Brum, I always booked once we were in the hotel bar having a drink.
« Last Edit: March 25, 2019, 03:46:40 pm by Brumish »

Offline Brumish

Oh and this one had been in contact with a few of us who are in the main SA thread - so just beware of how you approach potential SBs

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Tried that with me a good few months ago.

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Oh and this one had been in contact with a few of us who are in the main SA thread - so just beware of how you approach potential SBs

External Link/Members Only

Tried that with me a good few months ago.

Yep, need another thread to stop this happening warn each other off quicker.  Admin has asked me to put the details out on the general forum but I don't want to antagonise who it is if they have an account on here so I'll need to leave it.

Offline qu3rky1

So this morning had an unknown number call me "opened with my first name, I've got screenshots of all your seeking conversations", how would your wife feel? (Fine we've been separated for 3 years), apparantly about to dump it all on the internet unless I agreed to pay £400 within 12 minutes.

Luckily I had only given that name (a derivative of my own) to one person so I know who it is. Then I've had a bunch of calls off other numbers and finally a message saying "good luck with the fall out from all this, it'll be a lesson to others just to pay the money straight away".

I've asked admin if I can give details on the seeking thread

Scank, PM me the details and I'll put up on the seeking thread
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