A Day of Interest

[jackofalltrades]

Okay so first time signing up to this site and not sure if this is in the right place, if not can someone direct me to the right thread etc.

Before i go on, i just wanted to ask if this was the right place to talk about a meeting with an AW escort and some questions i have about it?

[jackofalltrades]

anyone?

[HarryRoss]

anyone?

Welcome! Free free to ask any question here.

If you wanna talk about a meeting with wg and rate her service, then you can write a report in the 'review'.

[vorian]

anyone?

Yes it is, what sort of thing are you wanting to ask about.

[Metal Geek]

Bit impatient aren't you, you waited all of 7 minutes. Might help if you're a bit more specific with your question and then you might just get a response.

[jackofalltrades]

Welcome! Free free to ask any question here.

If you wanna talk about a meeting with wg and rate her service, then you can write a report in the 'review'.

Thanks!

Its more of a question type deal really. I'll post on here as it seems to be the most popular one, apologies for this but im a but concerned and have some questions that hopefully people can answer etc.

Okay, so I just met an escort in the morning, her link is External Link/Members Only

I will write down what i did, i hope its not too graphic or anything, im just looking for some help, i regretted it as soon as i left the room but i can't change it now, just want to know what i can do in the future if i have anything to be concerned with etc. I also apologies for the grammar and general writing in this piece, im just confused and want to get everything down and hopefully put it in a way that you guys can understand the situation fully. Also apologies if some of the questions sound stupid and really basic and also if some of the stuff i did sounds pathetic etc.

Anyway onto the meeting, it was not very long, time was short so i only paid for about 15mins - I don't do this often and had heard lots about STDs and prostitutes but i had a lot stress in my life and just wanted to escape it however brief a moment.

Now bear in mind this in one of the few times i've done this so i had a million things running through my mind about STDs and all that during and after the encounter. Its a bit difficult to try and write it all out after reading it a few times but i'll just post what i did with her and hopefully that will make things a bit clearer.

She wore a top with no sleeves (not sure what its called) and very short jeans - like ridiculously short

First of all i shock her hand (nothing dangerous there i suppose)

Then she proceeded to give me a lap dance, i was still clothed at the time. I then removed her top and began to feel her breast. She then turned around and continued with the lap dance. I attempted to pick her up by grabbing her legs whilst she held onto my back (not sure how she would do the lap dance like that) but then told her to go back to how she was before.

Anyways after that i started to finger her with her jeans still on and then with them off but her underwear was still on. She didn't like to be fingered, so i stopped immediately after she said.

She then felt my cock with my joggers still on and then she went inside and felt it but over my underwear.

It was a series of dry humping doggy style while i felt her breast and body - mainly legs the side of her back / stomach.

After i got on top of her with my joggers still on and ejaculated on her breasts.

For all of it i was not undressed until the end when i sat lightly on top of her.

The only touching i did was when i shock her hand, touched her breasts, fingering her on top of her jeans and briefly when she just had underwear showing, picked her up and sometimes felt around her body.

Now i've asked before, during and after if she had any STDs or anything of that nature and she said no, and that she got tested recently etc. She didn't speak excellent english but i would say a bit below conversational.

And i know you don't go to a hooker and ask for a hug (not go the full way and have sex etc) but i'm so anxious and stressed that i didn't want to do something dramatic that i can not undo. I'm recalling the meeting now and trying to think if i did anything dangerous.

My questions are:

Is there a chance i might have been infected by HIV (there was no blood, semen(apart from mine at the end), don't think there was vaginal fluid, i touched her vagina over her underwear and i could not tell if it was wet. I honestly don't remember but i doubt it. When i felt her body i did not feel any lumps, bumps or anything like that. In the moment i wasn't really looking out for them but subconsciously i thought about it.)

I know its way too early to get tested but even if i am not at risk should i test for some STDs anyway, if above all else to give my crazy mind peace?

I used anti-bacterial gel straight after i put my pants back up and drove home, washed my hands straight away and in about 10 mins later had a shower. The only place she touched me or i touched her from memory is my hands. I touched her breast, some parts of her body, vagina and anus with her jeans and then her underwear on. My phone fell on her bed at one point but i cleaned that too with the gel. Should i clean the steering wheel too or is that going too far? I've heard these types of diseases don't tend to live well outside the body and on dry external surfaces, should i be worried as other people drive that car as well. And also for my phone?

And finally, i noticed that people use AW escorts a lot. Does anyone have a requirement or a special checklist / precaution type thing that they have before hand. Obviously things like don't use needles, touch blood etc all the mains tuff is there but do you go in there asking for specific requests each time with different women and have a forbidden list like anal or bareback?

Thanks for any feedback and advice and help you can give.

P.s i know how lame and stupid it sounds reading it back, and im not really up for trolling or piss taking, so please only give advice and help and don't bash on me, believe me ive done enough since this morning to myself already :/

Also my left hamstring seems to be hurting when i walk not sure if its related to the lifting of that women or to dodgy shoes i wore a few days ago

[vorian]

Short answer you will be fine, longer answer punting is not for the squeamish and there is always some risk involved, as there is a risk when you get out of bed, that today is the day you get run over by a bus. You can be aware and reduce risks but that is all.

In all honesty reading your post, you might want to rethink punting altogether as the level of concern and fear you have seems overwhelming and there is no point putting if you are not going to enjoy it.

[jackofalltrades]

Short answer you will be fine, longer answer punting is not for the squeamish and there is always some risk involved, as there is a risk when you get out of bed, that today is the day you get run over by a bus. You can be aware and reduce risks but that is all.

In all honesty reading your post, you might want to rethink punting altogether as the level of concern and fear you have seems overwhelming and there is no point putting if you are not going to enjoy it.

Thanks Vorian for the response

I've had a few personal problems over the last few years and just been depressed. At the time of first doing it, it seemed like an escape. I know the general idea of sex is enjoyable and normal but this kind of stuff is something i never even thought about. But like i said it was just there to get away and plus it felt good im not going to hide that fact. But the more and more i hear about STDs and stuff and then try to link a STD to say a problem i'm having on a particular day let say headache or sore throat, my mind literally goes crazy and i can't stop thinking about it. I want sex to be enjoyable, i don't want to have to worry about if a women has a disease or infection and i know strangers i meet in a bar or what not might have it etc but i keep thinking that because i went with one, its my fault and i deserve it.

It may be the upbringing or something but i need to get that thought process out of my mind. I love being with a women and am only respectful whenever im with one, so i didn't really feel like doing anything extreme with this lady as i was only going to see her for 15mins. I'm a total mess it seems 

[jackofalltrades]

Bit impatient aren't you, you waited all of 7 minutes. Might help if you're a bit more specific with your question and then you might just get a response.

i juts wanted to find out if it was allowed in this part of the forum before i ask away.

[Barry Shipton]

P.s i know how lame and stupid it sounds reading it back, and im not really up for trolling or piss taking, so please only give advice and help and don't bash on me, believe me ive done enough since this morning to myself already :/

Also my left hamstring seems to be hurting when i walk not sure if its related to the lifting of that women or to dodgy shoes i wore a few days ago

Glad you realise that - and if you are not taking the pee then Vorian is right, punting is not the hobby for you - go take up something safer like train spotting or stamp collecting. It'll be a lot cheaper and you will probably have more fun without worrying you have an STD.

[vorian]

Thanks Vorian for the response

I've had a few personal problems over the last few years and just been depressed. At the time of first doing it, it seemed like an escape. I know the general idea of sex is enjoyable and normal but this kind of stuff is something i never even thought about. But like i said it was just there to get away and plus it felt good im not going to hide that fact. But the more and more i hear about STDs and stuff and then try to link a STD to say a problem i'm having on a particular day let say headache or sore throat, my mind literally goes crazy and i can't stop thinking about it. I want sex to be enjoyable, i don't want to have to worry about if a women has a disease or infection and i know strangers i meet in a bar or what not might have it etc but i keep thinking that because i went with one, its my fault and i deserve it.

It may be the upbringing or something but i need to get that thought process out of my mind. I love being with a women and am only respectful whenever im with one, so i didn't really feel like doing anything extreme with this lady as i was only going to see her for 15mins. I'm a total mess it seems 

I think to be fair, you are best to seek professional help with regard to your issues, this site can help advise about punting and how to have a good punt but the issues you mention seem more related to underlying problems. A forum will only have armchair psychologists without the correct training. It is incredibly unlikely that you have ant STD from the contact you described but that does not mean you should punt again until you can permanently deal with your feeling of concern.

[jackofalltrades]

Glad you realise that - and if you are not taking the pee then Vorian is right, punting is not the hobby for you - go take up something safer like train spotting or stamp collecting. It'll be a lot cheaper and you will probably have more fun without worrying you have an STD.

Im not taking the p, although it may seem like it looking back at what i wrote.

lol As for the hobby suggestion, i'll take a look at them

Just curious, if you don't mind me asking how do you narrow down your punting - specific requests or something. If you don't want to say, thats okay as well, just curious as to what people who know what to do, do.

[HarryRoss]

Dude, you're too nervous, take a deep breath and relax.

As your description, you will be fine. I mean even the male/female contained HIV and had sex with his/her partner without condom, the probability of affection is still too low.

If a guy with HIV and fucked the girl without condom, then the probability of getting HIV for the girl would be 0.1% or 1/1000
On the contrary, the guy who may get affected by the HIV is half probability than female, that's 0.05% or 1/2000

For you, you don't have any dangerous contact with the wg and you cannot suspect that she's a HIV carrier, so don't bother. If you're too nervous to get sleep, get a HIV test tomorrow and you will find you're absolutely fine.

For rest of STD things which I may not know, but most of them should not be fatal as HIV and most of them can be cured, so no worries about that.

Speaking of precaution, I would say ALWAYS use the condom when having sex with unknown or unfamiliar females (Use your own condom, that would be safer and more comfortable.), btw if you have any injury in your mouth, then you should not make french kissing with the random girl (if she's a HIV carrier and she also got a injury in her mouth, then you might have a very very little chance to gain HIV).

I mean, for the very low probability, we should consider them as well, but no need to worry too much. As you know, there're more than thousands way of death, even you walking on the street, eating a burger, sitting in front of laptop etc. That's human's life, there's is no 100% safety. So just be yourself, do what you wanna do.

At last, happy punting. 

[jackofalltrades]

I think to be fair, you are best to seek professional help with regard to your issues, this site can help advise about punting and how to have a good punt but the issues you mention seem more related to underlying problems. A forum will only have armchair psychologists without the correct training. It is incredibly unlikely that you have ant STD from the contact you described but that does not mean you should punt again until you can permanently deal with your feeling of concern.

I appreciate the fact that you took time to respond to my post, i really mean it, its helped me a lot.

As for the issues, i need to control them i know but i've just been putting it off and under-looking them.

Therapy is costly and is something that i feel i can't really talk about. Like i feel the counsellor is just thinking WTF is wrong with this kid when i talk about something lol, but i suppose everyone thinks like that to some extent.

[vorian]

Im not taking the p, although it may seem like it looking back at what i wrote.

lol As for the hobby suggestion, i'll take a look at them

Just curious, if you don't mind me asking how do you narrow down your punting - specific requests or something. If you don't want to say, thats okay as well, just curious as to what people who know what to do, do.

Best take a deep breath and spend sometime looking around this forum, practically any question you could think of about punting would have been asked and debated on here many times over. Once you have had a good look around then you will be able to ask more specific questions. Just take your time.

[Metal Geek]

Well if you're seriously that concerned about catching something, the first big mistake you made is to choose a barebacking Romanian girl 

But as has already been said, given what you've said about what happened there's minimal chance you caught anything at all. It really sounds like punting may not be for you, but if you do want to continue be more careful with who you choose next time - and chill out a bit 

[vorian]

I appreciate the fact that you took time to respond to my post, i really mean it, its helped me a lot.

As for the issues, i need to control them i know but i've just been putting it off and under-looking them.

Therapy is costly and is something that i feel i can't really talk about. Like i feel the counsellor is just thinking WTF is wrong with this kid when i talk about something lol, but i suppose everyone thinks like that to some extent.

Therapy is free on the NHS, and mental health issues taken very seriously, start with your GP, you don't have to mention WG's you can say it is a women you met in a club. A counsellor is trained to do a job as are any mental health professionals, take the first step and see your GP.

[jackofalltrades]

Dude, you're too nervous, take a deep breath and relax.

As your description, you will be fine. I mean even the male/female contained HIV and had sex with his/her partner without condom, the probability of affection is still too low.

If a guy with HIV and fucked the girl without condom, then the probability of getting HIV for the girl would be 0.1% or 1/1000
On the contrary, the guy who may get affected by the HIV is half probability than female, that's 0.05% or 1/2000

For you, you don't have any dangerous contact with the wg and you cannot suspect that she's a HIV carrier, so don't bother. If you're too nervous to get sleep, get a HIV test tomorrow and you will find you're absolutely fine.

For rest of STD things which I may not know, but most of them should not be fatal as HIV and most of them can be cured, so no worries about that.

Speaking of precaution, I would say ALWAYS use the condom when having sex with unknown or unfamiliar females (Use your own condom), that would be safer and more comfortable., btw if you have any injury in your mouth, then you should not make french kissing with the random girl (if she's a HIV carrier and she also got a injury in her mouth, then you might have a very very little chance to gain HIV).

I mean, for the very low probability, we should consider them as well, but no need to worry too much. As you know, there're more than thousands way of death, even you walking on the street, eating a burger, sitting in front of laptop etc. That's human's life, there's is no 100% safety. So just be yourself, do what you wanna do.

At last, happy punting.

Thanks HarryRoss for replying.

If not HIV then its the STD by contact im worried about. There did not appear to be any scars or sores and my hands, the only bit i used to touch her does not have any cuts. I used one hand to ejaculate but there is no sore down there that i can see / tell.

She said she hasn't got anything and has been tested which is a good sign but on the flip side people lie and you can't fully trust them to be honest especially escorts. She was an independent escort which makes me think she is at more risk because agency escorts are told to have regular checks? Is that right?

I think i have the thought that escorts are dirty, liers and just not good people lol. a very backward thinking i know and its obviously wrong but im trying to not see it like that. And im sure a lot of you guys will say the opposite of what i've just said. Its a feeling of loosing everything for my 15 mins of fun kind of mentality. She is romanian and her english is conversational, which is another reason why im worried. I understand british escorts with fluent escorts could be just as risky but i think that way i would be able to ask her fully and repetitively about STDs and things of that nature.

PS what does wg mean?

[jackofalltrades]

Well if you're seriously that concerned about catching something, the first big mistake you made is to choose a barebacking Romanian girl 

But as has already been said, given what you've said about what happened there's minimal chance you caught anything at all. It really sounds like punting may not be for you, but if you do want to continue be more careful with who you choose next time - and chill out a bit 

haha yeah not the smartest choice but at the time i was depressed and looking for a way out. I figured doing this was better than the other route. Bareback is a reason im worried as well but i didn't touch her down there without at least something between my finger, be it jeans or underwear.

Im not a punter by any means, just a sad guy with little sense of direction and a lot of regret 

[jackofalltrades]

Therapy is free on the NHS, and mental health issues taken very seriously, start with your GP, you don't have to mention WG's you can say it is a women you met in a club. A counsellor is trained to do a job as are any mental health professionals, take the first step and see your GP.

i went once to one and said it was a women i met out of embarrassment but i think he brushed me off quickly saying most women you meet at a club or bar don't have anything. He acted as if they don't have it and only escorts who charge 40 a pop do.

Guess he wasn't a good counsellor and at giving advice as i wasn't any better after i saw him. I'll try the NHS though i always though it was expensive and not free on NHS

[jackofalltrades]

Best take a deep breath and spend sometime looking around this forum, practically any question you could think of about punting would have been asked and debated on here many times over. Once you have had a good look around then you will be able to ask more specific questions. Just take your time.

Just curious also what is punting, like is it going to see escorts or is there more to it. Or should i not know as i probably will end up messing it up and asking a million questions again on a new thread lol

[cockneybstrd]

Mate

I would suggest you go see your GP and get some assistance with the depression. Its a horrible illness and I have seen how it has affected people. I would also suggest that you might be suffering from some kind of anxiety attack.

On a side note ditch the trackie bottoms... its never a good look outside of the gym! 

[vorian]

Just curious also what is punting, like is it going to see escorts or is there more to it. Or should i not know as i probably will end up messing it up and asking a million questions again on a new thread lol

Then as I said take your time and read first, before asking the questions. The internet is a great source of information. To start you off punting is simply paying money to women in return for sexual services, no more, no less.

[k]

Why did you use a goo.gl shortening link, rather than the AW link?

[smiths]

Thanks!

Its more of a question type deal really. I'll post on here as it seems to be the most popular one, apologies for this but im a but concerned and have some questions that hopefully people can answer etc.

Okay, so I just met an escort in the morning, her link is External Link/Members Only

I will write down what i did, i hope its not too graphic or anything, im just looking for some help, i regretted it as soon as i left the room but i can't change it now, just want to know what i can do in the future if i have anything to be concerned with etc. I also apologies for the grammar and general writing in this piece, im just confused and want to get everything down and hopefully put it in a way that you guys can understand the situation fully. Also apologies if some of the questions sound stupid and really basic and also if some of the stuff i did sounds pathetic etc.

Anyway onto the meeting, it was not very long, time was short so i only paid for about 15mins - I don't do this often and had heard lots about STDs and prostitutes but i had a lot stress in my life and just wanted to escape it however brief a moment.

Now bear in mind this in one of the few times i've done this so i had a million things running through my mind about STDs and all that during and after the encounter. Its a bit difficult to try and write it all out after reading it a few times but i'll just post what i did with her and hopefully that will make things a bit clearer.

She wore a top with no sleeves (not sure what its called) and very short jeans - like ridiculously short

First of all i shock her hand (nothing dangerous there i suppose)

Then she proceeded to give me a lap dance, i was still clothed at the time. I then removed her top and began to feel her breast. She then turned around and continued with the lap dance. I attempted to pick her up by grabbing her legs whilst she held onto my back (not sure how she would do the lap dance like that) but then told her to go back to how she was before.

Anyways after that i started to finger her with her jeans still on and then with them off but her underwear was still on. She didn't like to be fingered, so i stopped immediately after she said.

She then felt my cock with my joggers still on and then she went inside and felt it but over my underwear.

It was a series of dry humping doggy style while i felt her breast and body - mainly legs the side of her back / stomach.

After i got on top of her with my joggers still on and ejaculated on her breasts.

For all of it i was not undressed until the end when i sat lightly on top of her.

The only touching i did was when i shock her hand, touched her breasts, fingering her on top of her jeans and briefly when she just had underwear showing, picked her up and sometimes felt around her body.

Now i've asked before, during and after if she had any STDs or anything of that nature and she said no, and that she got tested recently etc. She didn't speak excellent english but i would say a bit below conversational.

And i know you don't go to a hooker and ask for a hug (not go the full way and have sex etc) but i'm so anxious and stressed that i didn't want to do something dramatic that i can not undo. I'm recalling the meeting now and trying to think if i did anything dangerous.

My questions are:

Is there a chance i might have been infected by HIV (there was no blood, semen(apart from mine at the end), don't think there was vaginal fluid, i touched her vagina over her underwear and i could not tell if it was wet. I honestly don't remember but i doubt it. When i felt her body i did not feel any lumps, bumps or anything like that. In the moment i wasn't really looking out for them but subconsciously i thought about it.)

I know its way too early to get tested but even if i am not at risk should i test for some STDs anyway, if above all else to give my crazy mind peace?

I used anti-bacterial gel straight after i put my pants back up and drove home, washed my hands straight away and in about 10 mins later had a shower. The only place she touched me or i touched her from memory is my hands. I touched her breast, some parts of her body, vagina and anus with her jeans and then her underwear on. My phone fell on her bed at one point but i cleaned that too with the gel. Should i clean the steering wheel too or is that going too far? I've heard these types of diseases don't tend to live well outside the body and on dry external surfaces, should i be worried as other people drive that car as well. And also for my phone?

And finally, i noticed that people use AW escorts a lot. Does anyone have a requirement or a special checklist / precaution type thing that they have before hand. Obviously things like don't use needles, touch blood etc all the mains tuff is there but do you go in there asking for specific requests each time with different women and have a forbidden list like anal or bareback?

Thanks for any feedback and advice and help you can give.

P.s i know how lame and stupid it sounds reading it back, and im not really up for trolling or piss taking, so please only give advice and help and don't bash on me, believe me ive done enough since this morning to myself already :/

Also my left hamstring seems to be hurting when i walk not sure if its related to the lifting of that women or to dodgy shoes i wore a few days ago

Why on earth would a guy as worried about getting infected as you book a WG who advertises she offers bareback, makes no sense.

Anyway my advice is to take up full time wanking or that and pulling until you meet someone, punting most certainly isnt for someone as paranoid as yourself in my view.

[sarahjayneleeds]

Therapy is free on the NHS, and mental health issues taken very seriously, start with your GP, you don't have to mention WG's you can say it is a women you met in a club. A counsellor is trained to do a job as are any mental health professionals, take the first step and see your GP.

Vorian is spot on whatever we say on here it's in your head now that you may of caught something and the only way to put your mind at rest is to go get tested. You should really go back to your GP as you mentioned depression and sound like you have some anxiety issues too.

Good Luck 

[jackofalltrades]

Mate

I would suggest you go see your GP and get some assistance with the depression. Its a horrible illness and I have seen how it has affected people. I would also suggest that you might be suffering from some kind of anxiety attack.

On a side note ditch the trackie bottoms... its never a good look outside of the gym! 

Thanks Cockneybstrd

Yeah im certainly considering it, its affected people i've known and it absolutely f'n sucks. Just want to be confident in myself and not have to shit my pants at the very mention of STD or Disease

Trakies are going, only reason i wore them was easy of movement and easy to put on / off compared to jeans and trousers etc

[jackofalltrades]

Why did you use a goo.gl shortening link, rather than the AW link?

i have no clue, i thought it would not get passed moderation. Never used this website and guess...im not even sure why i did it tbh

just want to reiterate i am no punter, im a punter virgin or more like punter dumbass.

[jackofalltrades]

Why on earth would a guy as worried about getting infected as you book a WG who advertises she offers bareback, makes no sense.

Anyway my advice is to take up full time wanking or that and pulling until you meet someone, punting most certainly isnt for something as paranoid as yourself in my view.

In the heat of the moment, i made a rash decision, one i am clearly not proud of, or to some extent comfortable dealing with.

On the bareback note, it is a concern and a worrying factor, my only saving grace is that i didn't f her either bb or with protection and i didn't touch her apart from with underwear / jeans in between us in that area

I have no interest in punting and like i said i used it as a way to escape and try and get away from the stress for a while, however short.

[jackofalltrades]

Vorian is spot on whatever we say on here it's in your head now that you may of caught something and the only way to put your mind at rest is to go get tested. You should really go back to your GP as you mentioned depression and sound like you have some anxiety issues too.

Good Luck 

Thanks for replying,

I know i must sound like a nutcase and its probably going to be a good laugh looking at it. I should have known better than to go in all guns blazing but at the time i just wanted to be free. I need to control the anxiety and depression for sure, its going to be hard though.


P.S Just want to say thanks to everyone replying. I'm trying to reply to each post individually

[smiths]

In the heat of the moment, i made a rash decision, one i am clearly not proud of, or to some extent comfortable dealing with.

On the bareback note, it is a concern and a worrying factor, my only saving grace is that i didn't f her either bb or with protection and i didn't touch her apart from with underwear / jeans in between us in that area

I have no interest in punting and like i said i used it as a way to escape and try and get away from the stress for a while, however short.

Well you wont of been infected then so nothing to worry about on that front. However i am not a Doctor so if that worried go and seek qualified medical advice.

[HarryRoss]

Thanks HarryRoss for replying.

If not HIV then its the STD by contact im worried about. There did not appear to be any scars or sores and my hands, the only bit i used to touch her does not have any cuts. I used one hand to ejaculate but there is no sore down there that i can see / tell.

She said she hasn't got anything and has been tested which is a good sign but on the flip side people lie and you can't fully trust them to be honest especially escorts. She was an independent escort which makes me think she is at more risk because agency escorts are told to have regular checks? Is that right?

I think i have the thought that escorts are dirty, liers and just not good people lol. a very backward thinking i know and its obviously wrong but im trying to not see it like that. And im sure a lot of you guys will say the opposite of what i've just said. Its a feeling of loosing everything for my 15 mins of fun kind of mentality. She is romanian and her english is conversational, which is another reason why im worried. I understand british escorts with fluent escorts could be just as risky but i think that way i would be able to ask her fully and repetitively about STDs and things of that nature.

PS what does wg mean?

WG=Working Gril

Get both HIV and STD test tomorrow if that can make you feel better and eliminate your doubts, but I believe you're healthier than the doctor 

For the correction of independent escort and agent, I would say the situation can be vary. Just like you know the agent will have regular healthy check, but who knows they did it or not. If yes, then when? We still don't know.

I believe the most reason as more girls are going to be independent are the 'sharing'. Girls need to share the income with the agent, I don't know the ratio, but I believe the agent would charge at least 40%.
For now, more girls can make advertisement by themselves and gain 100% income without sharing with agent, so why not. If I were a wg, I will never share the money with agent. It's legal in UK and wg can mange herself rather than relying on others.

My advice for future punting, don't use your instinct or your previous experience, but observe the girl carefully. A healthy girl will look like stunning and confident, especially with a smiling, and she should be energetic and passionate.
On the contrary, a girl with any disease make not act like above, especially her face will look dark without shining and her eyes tend to be cold etc.

So before picking a girl, do your homework, compare with other girls and observe their appearance on the picture. Before walking in the door, check the girl again, is she accurate with the pic, is she look like energetic and healthy? If not, then even she's okay with her health, but you may not get proper service, so just walk away. Also her place condition is very important too, that can reveal her living habit, which can partly show her health condition.

This forum is a nice place, loads of experienced guys here, sharing their punting experiences, and we do learn many thing from the details. If you have any unhappy experience with Romanian girl, then just move on, pick the local girl or french girl, I like them so much 

[cockneybstrd]

If you just want sex as a physical and emotional relief then go see an escort

However I would say you are probably quite vulnerable at the moment and some escorts may use this to exploit you for financial gain and try and rinse you, As i think your looking for some kind of emotional support and some people will see this and see $$ signs

[jackofalltrades]

WG=Working Gril

Get both HIV and STD test tomorrow if that can make you feel better and eliminate your doubts, but I believe you're healthier than the doctor 

For the correction of independent escort and agency, I would say the situation can be vary. Just like you know the agency will have regular healthy check, but who knows they did it or not. If yes, then when? We still don't know.

I believe the most reason as more girls are going to be independent are the 'sharing'. Girls need to share the income with the agency, I don't know the ratio, but I believe the agent would charge at least 40%.
For now, more girls can make advertisement by themselves and gain 100% income without sharing with agent, so why not. If I were a wg, I will never share the money with agent. It's legal in UK and wg can mange herself rather than relying on agent.

My advice for future punting, don't use your instinct or your previous experience, but observe the girl carefully. A healthy girl will look like stunning and confident, especially with a smiling, and she should be energetic and passionate.
On the contrary, a girl with any disease make not act like above, especially her face will look dark without shine and her eyes tend to be cold etc.

So before picking a girl, do your homework, compare with other girls and observe their appearance on the picture. Before walk in the door, check the girl again, is she accurate with the pic, is she look like energetic and healthy? If not, even she's okay with her health, but you may not get proper service, so just walk away.

This forum is a nice place, loads of experienced guys here, sharing their punting experiences, and we do learn many thing from the details.

Thanks for your reply man. She looked the same as her pic, her hair was tied up. She wasn't overly enthusiastic like jumping up and down but she did do a lap dance with some effort.. She was more confused and in shock at what i was asking her or not asking her to do (plain sex). My constant asking her about STD didn't bode well as she seemed annoyed, in part my fault i'll admit.

As for the face and eyes, it was a bit dark but they seemed fine and she wasn't gassed or tired and unresponsive lol. She was okay i would say, but would the test even show anything in 24 hours. The general waiting time is around 1 month for most things right? Or is it just for my peace of mind?

[jackofalltrades]

Well you wont of been infected then so nothing to worry about on that front. However i am not a Doctor so if that worried go and seek qualified medical advice.

Hi Smith thanks for the response, i will consult a doctor and get advice as its probably going to drive me mad if i let it continue just googleing things

[jackofalltrades]

If you just want sex as a physical and emotional relief then go see an escort

However I would say you are probably quite vulnerable at the moment and some escorts may use this to exploit you for financial gain and try and rinse you, As i think your looking for some kind of emotional support and some people will see this and see $$ signs

I think i just wanted something, not sure of what but nothing dangerous to my or their health. Its a number of things that are in affect but yeah i hear you about the exploitation, just got to be stronger, right?

[smiths]

Thanks HarryRoss for replying.

If not HIV then its the STD by contact im worried about. There did not appear to be any scars or sores and my hands, the only bit i used to touch her does not have any cuts. I used one hand to ejaculate but there is no sore down there that i can see / tell.

She said she hasn't got anything and has been tested which is a good sign but on the flip side people lie and you can't fully trust them to be honest especially escorts. She was an independent escort which makes me think she is at more risk because agency escorts are told to have regular checks? Is that right?

I think i have the thought that escorts are dirty, liers and just not good people lol. a very backward thinking i know and its obviously wrong but im trying to not see it like that. And im sure a lot of you guys will say the opposite of what i've just said. Its a feeling of loosing everything for my 15 mins of fun kind of mentality. She is romanian and her english is conversational, which is another reason why im worried. I understand british escorts with fluent escorts could be just as risky but i think that way i would be able to ask her fully and repetitively about STDs and things of that nature.

PS what does wg mean?

Dont believe a strangers word on whether they do actually go to the GUM and get checked out or not, look after your own sexual health as thats the only definite you know is true.

An Agency is just a pimp who illegally takes an agreed cut of a WGs fees, they can be run from the pimps parents back bedroom with a mobile and laptop. Dont assume Agencies tell WGs they offer work to to have regular GUM checks.

[jackofalltrades]

Dont believe a strangers word on whether they do actually go to the GUM and get checked out or not, look after your own sexual health as thats the only definite you know is true.

An Agency is just a pimp who illegally takes an agreed cut of a WGs fees, they can be run from the pimps parents back bedroom with a mobile and laptop. Dont assume Agencies tell WGs they offer work to to have regular GUM checks.

thats true, the ones ive been with in the past were from big agencies, well i think they were lol. Like the 'call centre' was professional and everything seemed reasonable for the price they charged - it was on the medium- high end

[HarryRoss]

Hi Smith thanks for the response, i will consult a doctor and get advice as its probably going to drive me mad if i let it continue just googleing things

No worries dude, stop googling, that will make you crazy.

Let me tell you a funny story which may make you relax.

2 years ago, I was stung by a wasp (they made a nest on my roof  ), then my finger felt painful continually every 15 sec, just like someone uses a needle to stab you time by time 

Then I googled online and the news said each year more than 20 European people dead by the fatal Japanese wasp due to allergy. I mean those wasps on my roof were so damn big and they did look like the Japanese Killer wasp, then I felt my heart was heating fast and even could not breath, btw my finger was so painful. The whole situation made me feel I was going to be dead 

Thus I called an ambulance rather than took a taxi to the hospital (I don't wanna die just because the stupid wasp), then the ambulance came within 5 mins, the driver and doctor thought I was drunk as I could still walk. After my description, they made several tests just make sure I was totally fine. Then the result was I was much healthier than the doctor 

So dude, just relax, you are totally fine. Meet with a doc, describe your experience and consult your doubt and issue with him/her, I believe you will gain a certain answer. 

[jackofalltrades]

No worries dude, stop googling, that will make you crazy.

Let me tell you a funny story which may make you relax.

2 years ago, I was stung by a wasp (they made a nest on my roof  ), then my finger felt painful continually every 15 sec, just like someone uses a needle to stab you time by time 

Then I googled online and the news said each year more than 20 European people dead by the fatal Japanese wasp due to allergy. I mean those wasps on my roof were so damn big and they did look like the Japanese Killer wasp, then I felt my heart was heating fast and even could not breath, btw my finger was so painful. The whole situation made me feel I was going to be dead 

Thus I called an ambulance rather than took a taxi to the hospital (I don't wanna die just because the stupid wasp), then the ambulance came within 5 mins, the driver and doctor thought I was drunk as I could still walk. After my description, they made several tests just make sure I was totally fine. Then the result was I was much healthier than the doctor 

So dude, just relax, you are totally fine. Meet with a doc, describe your experience and consult your doubt and issue with him/her, I believe you will gain a certain answer. 

That was pretty relaxing actually. Thanks man.

I know i may sound / be paranoid and i don't want to cry wolf as such but i just don't want that to be the biggest mistake of my life. I want it to be my last but not something that i can't deal with if you know what i mean.

But anyways thanks a lot for your responses, its really helped me and calmed my nerves somewhat, for that i appreciate it dude 

[HarryRoss]

You're welcome. Have a good night.

[jackofalltrades]

You're welcome. Have a good night.

You too man 

[cunnyhunt]

Just curious also what is punting, like is it going to see escorts or is there more to it. Or should i not know as i probably will end up messing it up and asking a million questions again on a new thread lol

Is everybody asleep on here tonight ? when you have been had by a troll with a post like this one you need some help yourselves. 

Fucking lol again.

[vorian]

Is everybody asleep on here tonight ? when you have been had by a troll with a post like this one you need some help yourselves. 

Fucking lol again.

Maybe, but then again maybe not. I would prefer to at least try and help a new member before assuming that have malicious intent.  After all nothing has been lost by trying to help them and maybe another punter has gained from it.

[Johny Stone]

I may seem rude and insensitive but..
For me his post sounds like an review/add and not like something to worry about..
Just saying..

[jackofalltrades]

Is everybody asleep on here tonight ? when you have been had by a troll with a post like this one you need some help yourselves. 

Fucking lol again.

I'm glad you are amused. I'm not trolling, if i were it would be a lot more clear. I'm looking for proper advice, obviously you can't seem to be able to give that so i'd appreciate if you don't comment on this thread.

Have a nice day 

[jackofalltrades]

I may seem rude and insensitive but..
For me his post sounds like an review/add and not like something to worry about..
Just saying..

New to the site, not sure where i should have posted it. Posted it here as it seemed most popular and had a lot of quick responses

[jackofalltrades]

Maybe, but then again maybe not. I would prefer to at least try and help a new member before assuming that have malicious intent.  After all nothing has been lost by trying to help them and maybe another punter has gained from it.

Not sure how many trolls there are on this forum but tbh i would not waste my time even creating an account just to mess around with people, esp on things like this

[vorian]

Not sure how many trolls there are on this forum but tbh i would not waste my time even creating an account just to mess around with people, esp on things like this

A hell of a lot, don't take it personally, the subject matter of this forum is constantly under attack from all sides and people have a right to be suspicious and challenge others on threads.

[jackofalltrades]

A hell of a lot, don't take it personally, the subject matter of this forum is constantly under attack from all sides and people have a right to be suspicious and challenge others on threads.

Oh okay i didn't know that, thought there weren't that many (i've not been to this forum very much).

Anyways like is said before the post may be pathetic and stupid but the reason i asked on here was to get advice and some answers. I didn't intend to come off as a troll or spammer or anything of that nature