I have been lurking I've had nothing constructive to say just reading so I've not posted anything. Until now when I actually had something to say. I hope she can pop up soon I enjoyed my punt with her and found her profile gone from my HL when I had an itch to scratch.
You don't have to justify yourself to me; a little self awareness goes a long way.
To that point, proposing that "something constructive to say" is "something you want" suggests your quite happy being selfish. If you've punted in the last 6 months, you can contribute (a review) to the site.