Yes I deffo have two persona's ,,in civvies life sex is clearly a two way affair, ire try to make girl cum if eating her out, finger her ifvthat what she likes etc etc, and will not 'demand' too much chopping and changing positions etc
When punting I likes what I likes, I'm there for me, so get things some partners may not enjoy doing, i.e. Them facesitting, 69' I like to instruct the working girl how I like my cock sucked and don't move on from that or anything else until I'm ready, I go for the positions I like to have the girl, i.e. Cowgirl, reverse cowgirl etc if eating her out I move on from that when I'm ready,
All in all during civvie sex I'm a willing and caring partner or generally try to be ...in punting I'm there for me and my needs alone, that's not to say I don't try to have a bit of banter with the wg, but I tell them much more my needs and wants, as they want me in and popping and out in quick time where in real life you get chance to explore and work out your partners needs/likes
I remember one wg telling me or asking me what I liked, as she wasn't a mind reader so I instructed her during cock sucking and she did it exactly as advised it was fucking awesome
So yes I have 2 personas in that sense