That’s a real shame that you’ve had a poor experience.
I’ve seen her 6 times now, and she’s one of my favourites... in the first meeting she was very dominant like you say... and I enjoyed it because I went with it.. (see my review from 2017).
The more I see her the more she let’s go... she does keep up the pretence for around 5/10 mins... and that’s just part of the game for me... but different horses for different courses I guess..
Kissing has always been full on for me... never done a facial because it’s not my thing tbh