Would you be an Escort / WG ?

[PunterNumber69]

Sending cash through the post ? :I would say you were at more risk of the cash being stolen in transit, rather than from the wg. And if it did get lost in transit, you would forever have suspected the wg of stealing it.

Yeah, you're right but other options weren't available in those days. She became a regular for 2 years and I no longer had to deposits after a few visits.

[jkrieg]

Yeah, you're right but other options weren't available in those days. She became a regular for 2 years and I no longer had to deposits after a few visits.

The other option is just not paying a bloody deposit  Bloody daft idea, but each to their own!

[daviemac]

Sending cash through the post ? :I would say you were at more risk of the cash being stolen in transit, rather than from the wg. And if it did get lost in transit, you would forever have suspected the wg of stealing it.

I don't know about that, Dave Gorman sent 4 five pound notes in envelopes with see through panels in, so the money was clearly visible, through the post to himself and got them all, he did it with 4 £10 and 4 £20 and all were delivered. The PO even put some in their own plain envelopes to hide the money.

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[PunterNumber69]

The other option is just not paying a bloody deposit  Bloody daft idea, but each to their own!

True, but I think it has it's place as a time waster deterrent. More seasoned punters will think it's not needed as we make bookings only when we intend to actually visit the SP. However, SPs have learned through experience that there are a lot of time wasters. If you're a low volume provider and you take a booking from a time waster and then they don't turn up you may have lost your opportunity to make money that day. That's f**kin' annnoying, so I can see it from a SP's perspective. Ask the potential time waster to pay a deposit and they fail to make it and thus no booking taken and the opportunity to make money is saved for a non-time waster.

The only time I wouldn't pay a deposit if it was some newbie SP charging high rates and asking 50% deposit by bank transfer as I'd be expecting to be scammed.

[pythondan]

This thread is quite interesting in that it has made us consider things from the girls point of view.

I do not think that I could work as an escort having to accept whoever comes through the door.  Just imagine being a tiny woman and having to berate someone more than twice your age and weight about their hygiene or dealing with drunk arseholes 

[willie loman]

It may be an easy job, but it’s a difficult job to do well.

100% agree with that, but having sexual contact with someone you dont fancy is not that hard, the majority of girls throw in the towel, as there arent nearly enough customers, its ideal stop gap employment,

[willie loman]

Everybody?
Seems a bit unlikely.

ok, more would be doing it.

[alabama1]

100% agree with that, but having sexual contact with someone you dont fancy is not that hard, the majority of girls throw in the towel, as there arent nearly enough customers, its ideal stop gap employment,

You surmise a lot don't you Willie.

[MissWolf]

You surmise a lot don't you Willie.

Mostly bollocks 

[standardpostage]

Sending cash through the post ? :I would say you were at more risk of the cash being stolen in transit, rather than from the wg. And if it did get lost in transit, you would forever have suspected the wg of stealing it.

Yes, I sent £20 in a birthday card once to grandchild. Card never arrived. I think they can tell when money in envelope.
Not sent money in post since.

[jkrieg]

Yes, I sent £20 in a birthday card once to grandchild. Card never arrived. I think they can tell when money in envelope.
Not sent money in post since.

The irony with your name and profile picture 

[tynetunnel]

You surmise a lot don't you Willie.

Mostly bollocks 

I only inadvertently see what he says if one of you buggers quotes him, otherwise I live in ignorant bliss 

[Jayj]

It’s impossible to say I don’t honestly know, would I want to be an escort knowing what I know now as a punter absolutely not.
 
So many of the SP’s are clearly vulnerable they have chosen to do this because of necessity not choice in fact how many women would actually do this out of choice, I know plenty of women go swinging and plenty have lots of sexual partners but that’s through choice, letting anyone have sex with you because you have no options is a step over a line, to many SP have fallen into this because of abuse and as punters it troubles me to think we are just exploiting this to our own ends.

I punt less and less because I try to find individuals who are not being exploited so no east European / Brazilian girls (I do have some exceptions for massage and HE with workers that I think are empowered) definitely no street workers no younger women (ideally only over 30) you can see from the chaotic existence of a lot of the SP’s they are not mentally in the space to be allowing men to use them for sex.

It’s a difficult moral dilemma shouldn’t we really be helping a lot of these women to become empowered to make different choices.

So am I applying double standards yes I’m guilty of that as I still punt but I try to punt responsible

Interesting article from an ex SP

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[Pie Eater]

Only if I could screen all my customers first and set the hourly rate accordingly. One of the most attractive WGs I ever met said I should consider being a male escort as "you'd be really good at it"  probably the best fake flattery I've received (even better than you should start your own only fans) but I appreciated the effort.

I think anyone who can do this job and do it with professionalism and enthusiasm is worth every penny. Not something I could even contemplate.

[jkrieg]

It’s impossible to say I don’t honestly know, would I want to be an escort knowing what I know now as a punter absolutely not.
 
So many of the SP’s are clearly vulnerable they have chosen to do this because of necessity not choice in fact how many women would actually do this out of choice, I know plenty of women go swinging and plenty have lots of sexual partners but that’s through choice, letting anyone have sex with you because you have no options is a step over a line, to many SP have fallen into this because of abuse and as punters it troubles me to think we are just exploiting this to our own ends.

I punt less and less because I try to find individuals who are not being exploited so no east European / Brazilian girls (I do have some exceptions for massage and HE with workers that I think are empowered) definitely no street workers no younger women (ideally only over 30) you can see from the chaotic existence of a lot of the SP’s they are not mentally in the space to be allowing men to use them for sex.

It’s a difficult moral dilemma shouldn’t we really be helping a lot of these women to become empowered to make different choices.

So am I applying double standards yes I’m guilty of that as I still punt but I try to punt responsible

Interesting article from an ex SP

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We should empower them to make any choice they want. Some may choose to be in this industry because they genuinely enjoy it and its a win win at that point for everyone involved.

I do feel for the ones that obviously aren't enjoying what they do though. But if they are making the choice to do it of their own free will then what can you do?

What we absolutely do need to be wary of is the ones being trafficked... I'd like to think I have never been with a girl who's been trafficked... but you never know really what goes on behind closed doors.

[willie loman]

I only inadvertently see what he says if one of you buggers quotes him, otherwise I live in ignorant bliss 

thats the fourth time you have told the forum you ignore me, do you know what ignore means?

[Anadin]

I'd probably try to be a sugarbaby. I mean it's clearly sex work but it offers the opportunity of being a paid girlfriend of someone you can tolerate. If I was a WG I'd end up being the type who seemingly retires but only sees their favourite regulars. What I definitely wouldn't do is become a Parlour touring girl, I mean brothels are grim at the best of times but ending up in some shitty town being paid the absolute lowest price for a 15 min pump and dump has gotta be terrible.

[extraa]

In principle I'd love to. But could I shag some fat sweaty hairy punter, let alone kiss them, nope.

[davey.edwards1969]

The reason I asked the question was that I was talking to a WG i know quite well
Many years ago she and a university mate had just moved into an upmarket apartment together and got on well - unfortunately they both worked for the same big company and got made redundant at the same time
As they did not want to give up the apartment and liked living together they decided to start work for an escort agency purely as a temporary solution
Her friend quit after a year and returned to civvy street but she continued working
Now over 10 years later she has worked at agencies,parlours and also as an indie
She says she probably has earned about the same as if she had stayed in  civvy street but has had a lot more freedom to enjoy life away from the normal 9-5 rat race - holidays whenever she wants and can choose her working hours
She is very intelligent and articulate and actually said that getting made redundant was probably the best thing to happen as she would never have dreamt of becoming an escort otherwise
She has admitted that there are downsides - the occasional bad punter - the social stigma and fear of being outed to her friends ( her family already know )and the problems she has had with enjoying a normal relationship
However she now has a partner who whilst not in total agreement with her lifestyle is it seems tolerant - so she has no real regrets about her decision

that was why i asked the question

[Strawberry]

The reason I asked the question was that I was talking to a WG i know quite well
Many years ago she and a university mate had just moved into an upmarket apartment together and got on well - unfortunately they both worked for the same big company and got made redundant at the same time
As they did not want to give up the apartment and liked living together they decided to start work for an escort agency purely as a temporary solution
Her friend quit after a year and returned to civvy street but she continued working
Now over 10 years later she has worked at agencies,parlours and also as an indie
She says she probably has earned about the same as if she had stayed in  civvy street but has had a lot more freedom to enjoy life away from the normal 9-5 rat race - holidays whenever she wants and can choose her working hours
She is very intelligent and articulate and actually said that getting made redundant was probably the best thing to happen as she would never have dreamt of becoming an escort otherwise
She has admitted that there are downsides - the occasional bad punter - the social stigma and fear of being outed to her friends ( her family already know )and the problems she has had with enjoying a normal relationship
However she now has a partner who whilst not in total agreement with her lifestyle is it seems tolerant - so she has no real regrets about her decision

that was why i asked the question

There are other complications which can be restrictive but I don't want to write about them here.

[JPin]

Mentioned this in another thread on here but I put up a profile on AW for male escorting services to see what came back... With the idea of making myself available to couples who want a cuck experience. Honestly, the amount of weirdos and timewasters I've encountered has been such a headache. I can't even begin to imagine what female SPs have to contend with.

On top of that, just reading through the warnings on SAAFE, and then considering the physical condition of some of the clients escorts have to deal with. I'm way too sensitive plus I'm introverted, the mental (and physical) exertion would be too much for me. Not knowing who I'm opening the door to each time would send me doolally as it is!

From the beginning I've had the utmost respect for women who escort and the ones who do it well, with a great sense of humour, kindness and an open-hearted nature, are a very special kind of human being.

[Home Alone]

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From the beginning I've had the utmost respect for women who escort and the ones who do it well, with a great sense of humour, kindness and an open-hearted nature, are a very special kind of human being.

Hear hear! 👏

[teddyking]

Personally no. I’ve always been someone that believes in hard work and struggling in order  to achieve something great.

[scutty brown]

Personally no. I’ve always been someone that believes in hard work and struggling in order  to achieve something great.

In your case it must be a very long struggle to achieve anything

[girthyrod]

I would but I would offer massages with h.e

sex would be optional if I liked and fancied the person.

[Punterperson1971]

I don’t think I could ever do what wg’s do plus the fact you can get some very nasty/vile punters out there wanting more than just a fuck, it’s all too much hassle in vetting people and being on edge most of the time

[Drekszter]

I couldn't - I don't have enough mental strength and will to do their job.

You just don't know who you might encounter behind the door even if you screen as best as you. What if you come across some psychopath or even someone with serious bipolar disorder (no offense to those who do suffer from this). I just wouldn't feel comfortable and would fear for my safety. Sure, the money will probably be good but I'm just not the type to exposure myself to potentially unhinged and dangerous individuals.

[dubs]

I couldn't, as I hate having my work reviewed and to add to that, having my appearance reviewed too.  I'd be fucked, and not in a good way.

Decent WGs, as well as being a good shag, also have to be a marketing exec, communications administrator, logistics admin, cashier and customer service provider, all while leading a double life to hide it from their friends & family.  No thanks!

[Thephoenix]

Would I take money to fellate, rim, French kiss and penetrate a bunch of women 3-4 times my age on a daily basis?

"Hell NO"

At my age.....Hell Yes!!!!........what a way to go!

Oooops!...brain fog made me think it was 3-4 times a day!
I'll have to change my mind 320 years old might be stretching it a bit.

[Payyourwaymate]

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The Dark Side of Being an Escort | Informer

[lewisjones23]

I don't know about that, Dave Gorman sent 4 five pound notes in envelopes with see through panels in, so the money was clearly visible, through the post to himself and got them all, he did it with 4 £10 and 4 £20 and all were delivered. The PO even put some in their own plain envelopes to hide the money.

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posties probably thought they were being checked up on

[geostorm1]

I couldn't - I don't have enough mental strength and will to do their job.

You just don't know who you might encounter behind the door even if you screen as best as you. What if you come across some psychopath or even someone with serious bipolar disorder (no offense to those who do suffer from this). I just wouldn't feel comfortable and would fear for my safety. Sure, the money will probably be good but I'm just not the type to exposure myself to potentially unhinged and dangerous individuals.

I think I would work in a parlour if anything, for a bit more safety.

[Colston36]

Agree with what's been said already. I couldn't do it so fair play to those that do. Deserve every penny they earn.

Remember reading an article by a male giggolo, forced into it by his gambling debts. Said it was pretty tough going most of the time, banging women 'who looked like Dawn French with a moustache' but every now and then he would get a hot one and be absolutely delighted

It's an incredibly risky and stressful job besides being hard work. How many manage to end up with real money?And how many end up strung out on drugs, booze or both?

When young and pretty I lived with one who'd made the equivalent of well over a million in 5 years - and done it all on meth. After we split up she went back on the game - and must be dead by now. One of my sons had a whore gf. She ended up on the rocks too after making tons in Dubai.

[Colston36]

On second thoughts, sign me up for extreme dom. No touching, and I can think of plenty of men who I would be happy to thrash for an hour or so.

Quite a few switch from straight whoring to domination or massage. Blue Sienna is one example I rather fancy.

[Moby Dick]

Nah don’t think I would like sucking cheesy dick.