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Offline MikeJacobs73

Hi guys so just before I fire into it just to let you know I've looked everywhere and have read a lot of the stuff on the wiki to try and cut down the recycled questions. I see a bunch of newbies getting shut down for being fake or trolls but I'm 100% serious with this and will be reviewing after each punt.

So I'm a 19 year old guy who pretty much looks it, I've got the disposable income and although a bit nervous I'm 100% going through with this. I've already got the PAYG phone as a precaution (I don't really care  if anyone finds out but everyone advised it). At this point I'm ready to go for it and book something up. But before that I just have a couple of questions that I hope I can get some straight answers to.

1. What etiquette is there to follow apart from the blatantly obvious (being clean, pay before etc.)?

2. Will my age be an issue? I'm 19 and I look it, do I make the wg aware of that on the phone?

3. in terms of bookings is it one pop then off you go? Or are you allowed a couple of rounds?

4. Are you allowed to review the same WG twice if you are a regular? I.E two reviews for two punts.

That's a couple of questions I've been struggling to get an answer from the other posts on here. Like I said I know some of you will think this is a troll but it's not.

Any helps appreciated guys,

Cheers.


LL

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1. What etiquette is there to follow apart from the blatantly obvious (being clean, pay before etc.)?

2. Will my age be an issue? I'm 19 and I look it, do I make the wg aware of that on the phone?

3. in terms of bookings is it one pop then off you go? Or are you allowed a couple of rounds?

4. Are you allowed to review the same WG twice if you are a regular? I.E two reviews for two punts.

1. It's basically common sense plus whatever's in the punting wiki.
2. Depends upon whom you see. Give her a call and ask.
3. See 2.
4. Yes but ask yourself whether you have new info to add in the second review.

JimmRed

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Hope that isn't your real name. as a profile :)

I am no expert myself, and have only just recently started this, so have gone through some of these very recently. Others will chime in I am sure, so take the below as my opinion only.

1.) Decide what services you want and be clear to the WG, OW, OWO etc politeness etc go along way. Engage in conversation, being silent will just lead to awkwardness.
2.) May be, depends on the WG I've seen a lot of profiles looking myself that say over 21, 25 etc. You may find you are limited to girls closer in age to you, hope you don't have a MILF fantasy.
3.)Again depends on the WG, some smaller sessions (15, 30 minutes) have a 1 pop rule (mostly Easter European's (EE's) I've noticed).
4.) Haven't seen a rule on this, but in all the reviews I've read by members (trying to understand stuff) I've not seen one review the same girl twice. I think there may be some benefit to it, but only if she changed her performance or offerings.




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1. Depends on the girl, some give you chapter and verse of what they expect, others just want your money out of your wallet and spunk out of your balls as quickly as possible so that they can forget all about you.

2. If on aw, most girls will specify if they have an age range. If they do they'll be probably check the age you've put on your profile. Being honest helps, some may turn you down, others may be into it. If you're legit then it's a chance to strike up a bit of chat with an escort so you've got something to talk about before she starts sucking your cock. If your going through an agency or a parlour then they tend not to be as fussy, but if you really do look like a little schoolboy be prepared to be turned away. If it happens, find somewhere else.

3. Depends on how much disposable income you have. If it's £50 then one pop will probably be your lot. If it's £250 and you're planning a two hour meet, tell the girl before hand. If you find the right one she will encourage you to pop as many times as possible.

4. Do one review first and see if your profile survives. Unless something changes with the service, no need for the update. You could always add it as a reply to the first review.

Offline MikeJacobs73

Hope that isn't your real name. as a profile :)

I am no expert myself, and have only just recently started this, so have gone through some of these very recently. Others will chime in I am sure, so take the below as my opinion only.

1.) Decide what services you want and be clear to the WG, OW, OWO etc politeness etc go along way. Engage in conversation, being silent will just lead to awkwardness.
2.) May be, depends on the WG I've seen a lot of profiles looking myself that say over 21, 25 etc. You may find you are limited to girls closer in age to you, hope you don't have a MILF fantasy.
3.)Again depends on the WG, some smaller sessions (15, 30 minutes) have a 1 pop rule (mostly Easter European's (EE's) I've noticed).
4.) Haven't seen a rule on this, but in all the reviews I've read by members (trying to understand stuff) I've not seen one review the same girl twice. I think there may be some benefit to it, but only if she changed her performance or offerings.

The funny thing is I was making a HL and it mainly features MILFS... Sod's law that!

Offline Malvolio

Regarding the number of pops, make a realistic assessment of how long you're likely to last before the first pop.  If it's not that long, then ensure you can get another one in or you may find it all rather unsatisfying.

JimmRed

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Regarding the number of pops, make a realistic assessment of how long you're likely to last before the first pop.  If it's not that long, then ensure you can get another one in or you may find it all rather unsatisfying.

+1 to this, Practice edging make sure you get your moneys worth or it all becomes a bit disappointing.


Offline stevedave

1. Just be normal, polite and chatty. But don't chat too much early doors or she might take the piss.

2. This might be an issue for some lasses, just be open and honest about it when booking.

3. Check before confirming a booking.

4. Personally, I wouldn't review the same girl twice unless there has been a noticeable change in service or appearance.

Offline cueball

1, turn up on time, clean, polite with the right money and don't act like a twat.

2, tell her what you're looking for, word it properly... "I wanna smash your back door in" seldom works.

3, don't try and fit all your bucket list items into your first punt. Go with the flow, relax and enjoy yourself. You'll get plenty of opportunities to do the things you've been pulling your pud over in future punts.

4, choose a well reviewed lass. You're not savvy enough to go TOFTTing yet.

5, don't get all soppy and fluffy no matter how lovely she is, remember its a paid encounter. She'll not  appreciate you inviting her on a date to the next englebert umperdink concert.

6, post the links of your prospective candidates.

7, do a review.

Offline mrdiamond77

1. Be clean, showered, polite, turn up on time and hand over the money ASAP.

2. A lot of girls only see guys who are say over 25 because according to them, a lot of younger guys can be twats.

3.  Depends on the girl. Ask.

4. I have only reviewed each girl I have seen once.  I would only review a second time if there was something big and important to add.

Offline Punting Valley

2. Will my age be an issue? I'm 19 and I look it, do I make the wg aware of that on the phone?

I can relate, I started young as well (not as young as you though). There is no need to tell them your age, just be mature and polite, doesnt hurt to say a little please and thank you, which is why I prefer aw message instead of calling them.

Some WG got policies saying no under 21 or no under 25, they will usually make an exception for you if you appear mature and polite enough.


Offline MikeJacobs73

Cheers guys thanks for the advice and answers. Im going to have a bit more of a browse on AW then probably go for something within the next couple of days.

I appreciate the help!

Offline mrfishyfoo

Just one piece of advice from me.

Whatever you do not for your first punt go with a stunningly good looking top end girl.

How's it go....... once you have had a Ferrari everything else is just a come down. Unless your plan is just to fuck top end lasses all the time in which case OMFG are you going to need a big punting fund as once you have driven the best nothing else is good enough.

np500

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All good advice, would add, you may not be too bothered if people you know, know what your up to, but your 19, so it's a bit of an ego thing maybe, but remember shit sticks, people talk, and when all your social network knows , because Thay will all tell each other ! And  the civvys you fancy get to know,  thay may not be as impressed as your mates, society looks down on prostitution and us dirty fuckers who pay for it, this will stick with you for many years, just give it a bit of thought, good luck, wish I'd found this hobby at 19 and not my 50's !

Offline pewpewpew

On point #4 i would say to review more than once if there's a noticeable difference in the service as others have already said OR if there's a significant time between reviews. If i see a review from 2 years ago for a girl i want to see it means nothing to me as people change. The more recent reviews is what i go by as I'm sure many others do too

Offline Nagilum

Not sure I can add anything else that has already been said youngun.  Are there anymore questions outside of those you have or are you happy to start booking?

If you look your age, don't lie just admit it.  I would say you are perhaps a little too young for this game and I would give it another 3 - 4 years.  This way you are not going to be turned down on age by some. 

Either way welcome to the board and let us know how you get on.

Offline MikeJacobs73

Not sure I can add anything else that has already been said youngun.  Are there anymore questions outside of those you have or are you happy to start booking?

If you look your age, don't lie just admit it.  I would say you are perhaps a little too young for this game and I would give it another 3 - 4 years.  This way you are not going to be turned down on age by some. 

Either way welcome to the board and let us know how you get on.

Hi mate, cheers for the welcome! I guess the question I  have is why do you think I'm too young for this game, also why is this generally more of an older Guys hobby? For me I'm looking to punt as it lets me experience things I wouldn't get to do in my normal life. Having only a handful of girlfriends in the past couple of years everything is very vanilla and standard. Also I have an itch with MILFS which most definitely needs to be scratched!

Offline MikeJacobs73

All good advice, would add, you may not be too bothered if people you know, know what your up to, but your 19, so it's a bit of an ego thing maybe, but remember shit sticks, people talk, and when all your social network knows , because Thay will all tell each other ! And  the civvys you fancy get to know,  thay may not be as impressed as your mates, society looks down on prostitution and us dirty fuckers who pay for it, this will stick with you for many years, just give it a bit of thought, good luck, wish I'd found this hobby at 19 and not my 50's !

Yea, you make a good point. I've taken the PAYG phone precaution, I'll make sure I keep it all to myself and take all the precautions  :)

Offline Nagilum

Hi mate, cheers for the welcome! I guess the question I  have is why do you think I'm too young for this game, also why is this generally more of an older Guys hobby? For me I'm looking to punt as it lets me experience things I wouldn't get to do in my normal life. Having only a handful of girlfriends in the past couple of years everything is very vanilla and standard. Also I have an itch with MILFS which most definitely needs to be scratched!

Because at 19 you have a lot more relationships to have, women to understand etc.  At this age you should be dating and shagging those 19 year olds until you are blue in the balls!  You could go down this path and become disillusioned by what you will see and find, for a young man it can become confusing.  It is a hobby that will change you to some degree, those that say it will not are not being honest.  Your outlook towards women can become skewed if not careful because you haven't experienced enough yet.

The other reason is the age policy some girls operate on. You may find it hard at 19 to convince them to see you.  At your age you have the energy of a jack rabbit.  Which some of us can only wish for still  ;)

Go ahead, but just be aware that things will never be the same or revert back to what they were after this. 

Some guys on here started around 21 or 22.  Maybe they can chip in and give their thoughts on it.




Offline Punting Valley

Because at 19 you have a lot more relationships to have, women to understand etc.  At this age you should be dating and shagging those 19 year olds until you are blue in the balls!  You could go down this path and become disillusioned by what you will see and find, for a young man it can become confusing.  It is a hobby that will change you to some degree, those that say it will not are not being honest.  Your outlook towards women can become skewed if not careful because you haven't experienced enough yet.

But can he get the same quality experience shagging these 19 year olds?  :drinks: It is true that nothing is guaranteed with punting but there is still a certain level of expectation as a paying client.

Also not sure if OP is into any kink, but I would assume it would be harder to find a civvie girl to do some of the 'filthier' things :yahoo:

Offline cueball


I appreciate the help!

Well, you've had your advice and you've done your research....

Have you narrowed down the lucky candidates?

And

Have you sorted a punt now?

You don't need to announce the exact day and time though, tell us all about it after the event.

Offline smiths

Not sure I can add anything else that has already been said youngun.  Are there anymore questions outside of those you have or are you happy to start booking?

If you look your age, don't lie just admit it.  I would say you are perhaps a little too young for this game and I would give it another 3 - 4 years.  This way you are not going to be turned down on age by some. 

Either way welcome to the board and let us know how you get on.

I don't agree, i started punting when i was 19 and don't regret doing so, and i punted and pulled at the same times, the best of both worlds for me then. I had one advantage though i looked a bit older so never had any WGs turn me away on age grounds.

Offline Silver Birch

All good advice, would add, you may not be too bothered if people you know, know what your up to, but your 19, so it's a bit of an ego thing maybe, but remember shit sticks, people talk, and when all your social network knows , because Thay will all tell each other ! And  the civvys you fancy get to know,  thay may not be as impressed as your mates, society looks down on prostitution and us dirty fuckers who pay for it, this will stick with you for many years, just give it a bit of thought, good luck, wish I'd found this hobby at 19 and not my 50's !

Agree with this 99%  :thumbsup:

The other 1%?

I am glad I did not punt as a young man because it has made me lazy regarding relationships. I no longer make much effort to find/have sex in the real world, and if I were a 19 year old, that would be tragic.

Offline smiths

Hi mate, cheers for the welcome! I guess the question I  have is why do you think I'm too young for this game, also why is this generally more of an older Guys hobby? For me I'm looking to punt as it lets me experience things I wouldn't get to do in my normal life. Having only a handful of girlfriends in the past couple of years everything is very vanilla and standard. Also I have an itch with MILFS which most definitely needs to be scratched!

Its for you as an adult to make your own decisions, as i posted above i don't agree your too young to punt if that's what you choose to do, but don't ONLY punt is my advice, continue to pull as well as you wont find more than sex from punting whereas like me round the next corner while pulling could be the next one for you.

Offline smiths

Agree with this 99%  :thumbsup:

The other 1%?

I am glad I did not punt as a young man because it has made me lazy regarding relationships. I no longer make much effort to find/have sex in the real world, and if I were a 19 year old, that would be tragic.

Which isn't something that i allowed to happen in my case when i started punting at 19.

Offline MikeJacobs73

Well, you've had your advice and you've done your research....

Have you narrowed down the lucky candidates?

And

Have you sorted a punt now?

You don't need to announce the exact day and time though, tell us all about it after the event.

I'm still narrowing down my search. Where I'm from there isn't a huge selection and reviews are a bit scarce. I may have to wait for someone on tour who is reviewed well. I don't want my first experience to be a shite one!

Offline MikeJacobs73

Its for you as an adult to make your own decisions, as i posted above i don't agree your too young to punt if that's what you choose to do, but don't ONLY punt is my advice, continue to pull as well as you wont find more than sex from punting whereas like me round the next corner while pulling could be the next one for you.

I'm still very much active with civvies, and I don't plan to stop with that. Like I said before I'm just looking for something different that I don't already get. It may be a case of curiosity killing the cat but I'm willing to give it a try :)

Again thanks everyone for the help and once I've narrowed it down/booked up I'll let you guys know!

Offline Nagilum

There you go. You have smiths. The advice is spot on. Keep experiencing relationships with civvies. Don't substitute one for another.

We will agree to disagree about the age. 19 is still too young for me, but as I said, go ahead if you must, just be aware this hobby will change you invariably.

Offline Nagilum

I'm still very much active with civvies, and I don't plan to stop with that. Like I said before I'm just looking for something different that I don't already get. It may be a case of curiosity killing the cat but I'm willing to give it a try :)

Again thanks everyone for the help and once I've narrowed it down/booked up I'll let you guys know!

Keep reading the reviews and go safe for your first punt, don't try to go with an unknown provider.

Online Direwolf

I agree with most of whats been said above, i'm similar age to the op myself and I definitely don't regret punting so far but i'd recommend setting some rules to help keep yourself from getting carried away. (monthly budget, limit of punts a month etc)

I'd tell the wg its your first punt and your age in comms especially if you look it as you might be turned away if the wg thinks youre under-age, most of mine have been with 30+ wgs and i usually mention my age and have never had problems
Also for your first punt i'd go for someone well reviewed on here (not just looks but attitude and service etc)
« Last Edit: August 17, 2016, 05:22:33 pm by Direwolf »

Online Direwolf

There you go. You have smiths. The advice is spot on. Keep experiencing relationships with civvies. Don't substitute one for another.


Think this is a trap I might have fallen into... I just cba with relationships and havent been on a date since I started all this  :unknown:, and I do agree that it changes you.

dude86

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Disagree with those saying 19 is too young. Most of us would punt a 19yo WG given the chance so why can't it work the other way round?

Good luck to the OP. I've only been doing this since last winter, I'm 10 years older than OP and find the experience a real mixed bag of experiences.

Offline Nagilum

Think this is a trap I might have fallen into... I just cba with relationships and havent been on a date since I started all this  :unknown:, and I do agree that it changes you.

Agreed it makes it too convenient.  I have tried to balance datingredients, but ultimately still punt. Not that I'm complaining here ;)

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Have a look at the regional board, both info and reviews in case your chosen lady is mentioned or there is one that takes your fancy.
I started at 21 and I am still at it over 50 years later. (There were some gap years).

Do not forget to get on with civvies but do not tell them about punting.

Please confirm that the name you use here is NOT your real name and if it is change it fast
« Last Edit: August 17, 2016, 06:10:31 pm by Horizontal pleasures »

Offline Nagilum

Agreed it makes it too convenient.  I have tried to balance dating, but ultimately still punt. Not that I'm complaining here ;)

Offline Brazilian Martian

My advise is get a cheaper hobby or start hitting the club scene on a weekend lots of girls for you to pick up there  :hi:

Offline favwasteoftime

I remember my first punt in my late twenties went all wrong, though it was in the days before Adultwork and WGs were found in the classifieds of the local paper - no pictures. Much, much older than expected, ugly as sin, horrible service - just a very rapid handjob. Couldn't get a hard-on and received a "is that all you can manage" look as I yanked up my Y fronts and left dejectedly.
Not to be deterred, went to a parlour for second punt and had a brilliant time with a very fit WG who took pity on this punting virgin. Never looked back but still learning!

What I'm trying to say in a roundabout way is don't expect too much from your first time. Nerves, inexperience and high expectations can all play a part and it takes a few decent punts to discover what you actually like and how to guide the WG.

Advice: don't let her talk too much as she may take advantage. Same with a massage - reject completely or keep it short by moving her onto a blowjob.

Best of luck and enjoy.


Offline smiths

I'm still very much active with civvies, and I don't plan to stop with that. Like I said before I'm just looking for something different that I don't already get. It may be a case of curiosity killing the cat but I'm willing to give it a try :)

Again thanks everyone for the help and once I've narrowed it down/booked up I'll let you guys know!

And don't fall into the trap of thinking because a WG licks your arse and offers spunking in her mouth your next girlfriend will, though you might get lucky of course. :D

Offline niceguy30!!

Shag as many different ones as you can before you settle down with a real relationship.

Offline hantshagger

Shag as many different ones as you can before you settle down with a real relationship.
or....

Shag as many different ones as you can , after you settle down with a real relationship.   :cool:


Offline MikeJacobs73

Is he still with us?

I am :) Like I have said in previous responses, my area is quite dead and I don't want to rush into something. I have 3 that I need to choose between! It's a big choice :D

Offline OakTree

What ever you do, don't forget the cash.  :hi:

Offline niceguy30!!

What ever you do, don't forget the cash.  :hi:

Fuck all 3 of them simple.

Offline niceguy30!!

I am :) Like I have said in previous responses, my area is quite dead and I don't want to rush into something. I have 3 that I need to choose between! It's a big choice :D
Fuck all 3 of them simple

Offline Ali Katt

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My advise is get a cheaper hobby or start hitting the club scene on a weekend lots of girls for you to pick up there  :hi:
It's still a cheaper hobby than Warhammer, or at least a friend told me it was.

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I am :) Like I have said in previous responses, my area is quite dead and I don't want to rush into something. I have 3 that I need to choose between! It's a big choice :D
Simple solution, avoid the one you have a nagging doubt about maybe the profile doesn't seem right, maybe she looks older than the photos or maybe something else. Have a first choice and a back up. You usually find girls will let you down often last minute. I went through three escorts on AW, one didn't call me back with a postcode, the other didn't answer her phone and the last one was fully booked. In the end I had to go to a parlour.

Offline Nagilum

I am :) Like I have said in previous responses, my area is quite dead and I don't want to rush into something. I have 3 that I need to choose between! It's a big choice :D

Which three?

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1) Most girls will say on profile or on phone if age is an issue.
2) Rounds depends on the girl, find out before hand on the phone. Most of the EEs will allow and encourage it.
Only a few British girls (White\Black\Indian) etc will.
3) Of course you will be nervous, just don't get to touch feely or try shit you haven't agreed on the first few meets.
As the girls become your regulars, feel free to explore.
I would say stick to 15 to 30 min sessions first few times.
4) Stick to areas you know and are familiar with. Avoid bad parts of town, council estates and bait venues for punting.
Be wary of how many public civvys are roaming etc.
5) First few sessions, encourage the girls to take lead, until your a few months into punting.

Offline Horizontal pleasures

Which is your area and is your ID your real name - in which case change it fast.