Sugarbabies / Seeking Regional Thread (SE)

[SwenyTodd]

Starting a regional thread for those of us who like to treat likes who don't think there hookers but are "sugarbabies". 

This will make it easier for us who don't travel or are in the area and don't wanna search through the main seeking thread.

[SwenyTodd]

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Lana, receptionist, Reading
£100 for a few hours

We've been chatting for a few months but lockdown restricted our meetings.  She doesn't travel so I visited her in Reading.  Whilst chatting we realised we would never wine and dine because of closures so we just set a date for a shag    very good blow job!  I would see her again just for this!  we did various positions and it was great to release some sexual tension after lockdown.

[Hantsolo]

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Lana, receptionist, Reading
£100 for a few hours

We've been chatting for a few months but lockdown restricted our meetings.  She doesn't travel so I visited her in Reading.  Whilst chatting we realised we would never wine and dine because of closures so we just set a date for a shag    very good blow job!  I would see her again just for this!  we did various positions and it was great to release some sexual tension after lockdown.

Well done for the thread, a great idea.

With regards Lana, chatted with her at the start of the year but sadly never arranged a meet or a fee.

[Beavis0007]

Interesting idea ST, though I found most of the relationships I formed through SA to be much more personal that those with escorts. I guess that’s what they’re going for though.

£100 for a couple of hours is a great rate though! Most of the girls I’ve chatted to on here, those who didn’t have some strange delusion that I was going to pay them for an ‘online relationship’ or platonic dates, tended to ask for markedly more than that, £250 for a meet seemingly being the going rate. I don’t know where they all got that figure from, but it kept seeming to pop up. Oh, apart from the London based ones, who seemed to think they had the right to ask for more (typically £300).

I have learned that a lot more regular girls than I realised are into anal though, which has been a pleasant surprise. Now if I’m going to pay £250 for a meet, anal is pretty much a dealbreaker for me.

[Furry]

I used to have an arrangement with a nurse called Anna from hungerford, a few years back. Amazing shag. £300 for overnight. Haven't been on SA for a while. Is it worth reactivating the account?

[sisyphus]

I used to have an arrangement with a nurse called Anna from hungerford, a few years back. Amazing shag. £300 for overnight. Haven't been on SA for a while. Is it worth reactivating the account?

For my two cents, if you can manage to find the time to arrange it, it's a good shout. Of late, I've found myself increasingly moving to the SA scene (partly though because the WG scene around me is dire).

[sisyphus]

Interesting idea ST, though I found most of the relationships I formed through SA to be much more personal that those with escorts. I guess that’s what they’re going for though.

£100 for a couple of hours is a great rate though! Most of the girls I’ve chatted to on here, those who didn’t have some strange delusion that I was going to pay them for an ‘online relationship’ or platonic dates, tended to ask for markedly more than that, £250 for a meet seemingly being the going rate. I don’t know where they all got that figure from, but it kept seeming to pop up. Oh, apart from the London based ones, who seemed to think they had the right to ask for more (typically £300).

I have learned that a lot more regular girls than I realised are into anal though, which has been a pleasant surprise. Now if I’m going to pay £250 for a meet, anal is pretty much a dealbreaker for me.

Totally agree on the personal relationship that can be developed with SBs. Funnily enough I have found that anal is slightly more common among civilian/SBs than before, but rimming has definitely skyrocketed in popularity. I've yet to find a SB who's up for anal, though, so maybe I'm been unlucky so far.

[Beavis0007]

Totally agree on the personal relationship that can be developed with SBs. Funnily enough I have found that anal is slightly more common among civilian/SBs than before, but rimming has definitely skyrocketed in popularity. I've yet to find a SB who's up for anal, though, so maybe I'm been unlucky so far.

Oh yeah, I completely agree regarding rimming! Even a SB I met on there, one of the few who said anal was an absolute no-no for her, LOVES being rimmed! Maybe it’s just something that straight people didn’t use to do?

I also agree with your assessment of the current WG scene. All AW seems to be full of now is foreign, typically Romanian girls. Most of whom appear to offer a pretty shitty service. All the half decent English girls who are open to the basic concept of sex for financial gain are heading over to SA these days it seems, particularly those under 25 (my preferred age range).

The previous poster who asked if it’s worth signing up? £69.95 plus 20% VAT for a month’s subscription IS a piss take, but I’ve found the best way to play it is to get as many contacts as possible during that month and then make subsequent arrangements thereafter once you have their WhatsApp.

[Furry]

Last time I was on there it was £80 sign up. I did the same as you. One month of gathering contacts. Then nothing until I'd exhausted the list. I had a browse earlier. Some potentials in my area. Just have to invest the time and effort and filter the time wasters out. Not sure I can do SA anymore as my personal circumstances have changed. I'd be noticed if I disappeared for long periods of time.  Few hours here or there is different. I am, however, sorely tempted again though..

[superman64]

Do i just have awful luck I literally got permanent banned and warned they might call the police on me after sending a single message to a girl in the area.

I stated monetary compensation for a meetup, a place and said we could have a meal.

Got banned for soliciting sex even though I never mentioned sex or anything of the sort. Tried to take it up with the customer support and they said they have verified reports I was soliciting for sex and their decision is final.

Stupid bitch.

[DrConners]

Do i just have awful luck I literally got permanent banned and warned they might call the police on me after sending a single message to a girl in the area.

I stated monetary compensation for a meetup, a place and said we could have a meal.

Got banned for soliciting sex even though I never mentioned sex or anything of the sort. Tried to take it up with the customer support and they said they have verified reports I was soliciting for sex and their decision is final.

Stupid bitch.

I suppose they never offered to refund whatever money would have been owed to you, depending on the amount of subscription months you had left ? Of course they didn't, they are a business, easy money for them.

You did break their rules though mate.

I'm quoting advice given to me by another UKP member, I let my subscription lapse & haven't been back - Too many scammers & fake profiles in the SE when I was a member.

NEVER and I mean NEVER mention the phrase ppm or pay per meet on the site, you will get banned - use allowance or consideration.  If the SB uses it, still don't use it.

The amount of hard luck stories you will hear are unbelievable, there are scammers on there (like anywhere really) so be aware.

[DrConners]

Well done for the thread, a great idea.

It is, I agree. However :

Guys, you are surely aware that presently UKP main threads are able to be viewed by absolutely anyone - As a guest. Up to 20 times at the moment.

Obviously that means it would be easy for this thread to get dobbed in & pertinent information solely shared for the benefit of UKP members who use SA could be compromised.

I'd say it would be best shared in Off-Topic - But it's not really an off topic thread.

Post carefully IMO - Just saying 

[superman64]

I suppose they never offered to refund whatever money would have been owed to you, depending on the amount of subscription months you had left ? Of course they didn't, they are a business, easy money for them.

You did break their rules though mate.

I'm quoting advice given to me by another UKP member, I let my subscription lapse & haven't been back - Too many scammers & fake profiles in the SE when I was a member.

NEVER and I mean NEVER mention the phrase ppm or pay per meet on the site, you will get banned - use allowance or consideration.  If the SB uses it, still don't use it.

The amount of hard luck stories you will hear are unbelievable, there are scammers on there (like anywhere really) so be aware.

I don't know where they get off threatening to report me police either. Soliciting isn't even illegal in the UK.

[sisyphus]

Oh yeah, I completely agree regarding rimming! Even a SB I met on there, one of the few who said anal was an absolute no-no for her, LOVES being rimmed! Maybe it’s just something that straight people didn’t use to do?

I also agree with your assessment of the current WG scene. All AW seems to be full of now is foreign, typically Romanian girls. Most of whom appear to offer a pretty shitty service. All the half decent English girls who are open to the basic concept of sex for financial gain are heading over to SA these days it seems, particularly those under 25 (my preferred age range).

This is my thinking exactly. The WG scene around me is mostly Roms with terrible service or WG who are well out of my preferred age range (also under 25). The student(-aged) ones who are looking for cash on the side, best found in university towns, often think the WG scene is too 'professional' and prefer SB/SD arrangements. If you're decent looking and keep in shape, Tinder and other more 'dating' apps are also a good shout. To be honest, the only reason I've gravitated away from the WG scene is simply because the type of girl I like has also gravitated away from it. I don't really care which platform I use to meet them. It does become more difficult to arrange MMF/MFF sessions though and I do sometimes miss the sheer convenience of being round the corner from a hot young WG for a quick fuck on the way home from work.

[DrConners]

I don't know where they get off threatening to report me police either. Soliciting isn't even illegal in the UK.

Agreed - It was just a threat IMO.

[markymarkfb]

I get that we pay 100 or 150 to meet WG but i find seeking so pricey, is there any discount codes or blags on the account we can use, as I had my KIK account on there but they remove any contact details now

[bhudda]

I get that we pay 100 or 150 to meet WG but i find seeking so pricey, is there any discount codes or blags on the account we can use, as I had my KIK account on there but they remove any contact details now

If there are any ways around paying it most certainky is not a good idea to reveal them in an open forum ... or they will quickly be shut down.

[bhudda]

I don't know where they get off threatening to report me police either. Soliciting isn't even illegal in the UK.

I thought soliciting was illegal ... but paying for sex isnt.

The bloke who owns seeking is the biggest pimp on the planet ane is responsible for more women becoming prostitutes than any other i reckon ... but his whole business depends on his ability to atteact women to prostitution who can do it in such a way as to convince themselves they are not prostitutes.

Also his biggest market is america where prostitution is illegal, so he has 2 incentives for making an effort to pretend that his site is not a place where people go to buy and sell sex.

[sisyphus]

... but his whole business depends on his ability to atteact women to prostitution who can do it in such a way as to convince themselves they are not prostitutes.

I made the mistake once of suggesting this to a SA girl, that it comes to the same thing, but in different form. A spade is a spade, I reckon. She was displeased. 

[Hantsolo]

Seeking can pay dividends. Yes, there are a lot of scammers, fakes, photo sellers etc. But I have been on and off there for a few years now and have had some fantastic experiences (as well as a couple of shockers) and it had replaced punting for me.

In terms of costs, the monthly subscription is a complete waste of time at the moment, I'd save the money until its safe to meet. But costs for meetings have ranged from £300 overnight down to nothing. Yes, there are girls who want hundreds (or even thousands) but thats not to much different to punting. If you can't afford it, don't pay it!

I have a decent number of regulars and certainly the connections you get with the girls you meet is far beyond anything you get with an escort. There are pros on there sure, but there are a lot of girls who just want a bit of extra cash, some company, to get to know a man with a bit of disposable income or just the thrill of sex with a stranger / older man.

As many have said on here on other threads, if you put a bit of work in then you will have a great time.

[Hantsolo]

It is, I agree. However :

Guys, you are surely aware that presently UKP main threads are able to be viewed by absolutely anyone - As a guest. Up to 20 times at the moment.

Obviously that means it would be easy for this thread to get dobbed in & pertinent information solely shared for the benefit of UKP members who use SA could be compromised.

I'd say it would be best shared in Off-Topic - But it's not really an off topic thread.

Post carefully IMO - Just saying 

Agreed. I feel that only scammers and similar should be shared openly. The genuine girls should be kept off an open thread.

[SwenyTodd]

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SA and Kik Username: Daxielove

A normal lady who justs want to date.  She won't chat on WA and only Kik.  After the formalities we agreed to meet but with a difference!  She's into her fitness so given the pandemic we agreed to go for some jogs and outdoor exercise in a park near to her's.  It was nice to get to know each other in this way ; )  We did fuck and she gives a good GFE.  It doesn't feel like a SD SB arrangment but more FWB.
We're still chatting and going out for walks/jogs when we're not working.
TBH she's a decent lady and very different to the other women I've met which goes to show a mature lady does know what they want.  Be clear with expectations and the rewards will be there!

[markymarkfb]

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SA and Kik Username: Daxielove

A normal lady who justs want to date.  She won't chat on WA and only Kik.  After the formalities we agreed to meet but with a difference!  She's into her fitness so given the pandemic we agreed to go for some jogs and outdoor exercise in a park near to her's.  It was nice to get to know each other in this way ; )  We did fuck and she gives a good GFE.  It doesn't feel like a SD SB arrangment but more FWB.
We're still chatting and going out for walks/jogs when we're not working.
TBH she's a decent lady and very different to the other women I've met which goes to show a mature lady does know what they want.  Be clear with expectations and the rewards will be there!

How much did you spend

[SwenyTodd]

This one is looking for easy money and gifts with minimal effort unless you are spending £££££, I would avoid:

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She and her friend are both on SA and OF.

[Jeffpike]

cool post. Was very active on SA 2 years ago in Kent and Sussex.  May revisit as fond memories. Great 40 year old in Ashford and lovely nympho in Brighton.

[londonroad]

Shame this is an open thread as severely restricts what can be posted. I normally see SBs in London, but don’t fancy travelling to London on trains/tube wearing face covering so have switched to SE. Having mixed success but in general it is much the same pattern as in London. A lot of effort but do eventually find some gems.

[SwenyTodd]

Well done for the thread, a great idea.

With regards Lana, chatted with her at the start of the year but sadly never arranged a meet or a fee.

This is her new profile
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She's fine with dating on weekends provided you give her gifts and treat her e.g. shoes, clothes, dinner dates.  Very down to earth, and up for all sorts in private as mentioned before.

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[SwenyTodd]

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More closer to Swindon than Reading.  After speaking for a few weeks we managed to meet last night.  She's a single mum so it's recommended to book her in advance and give her as much notice of what your interests are.  She's very open minded and talkative and bubbly!  Treated her to a few small gifts for her and her child (t'is xmas season afterall!).  The sex was very good.  She enjoys toys and is submissive and great at dirty talk.  We're planning to meet again before the end of the year if Boris doesn't change our plans.

[Gunnarman]

Since lockdowns are easing I'm starting to get back on SA, have had some good matches so far.  What's everyone else's experience been like?

[20thcentury]

Do i just have awful luck I literally got permanent banned and warned they might call the police on me after sending a single message to a girl in the area.

I stated monetary compensation for a meetup, a place and said we could have a meal.

Got banned for soliciting sex even though I never mentioned sex or anything of the sort. Tried to take it up with the customer support and they said they have verified reports I was soliciting for sex and their decision is final.

Stupid bitch.

same experience here.. I have found that Secret Benefits actively advertises itself as an alternative to escort agency, so they are not trying to hide what its all about. Lots of familiar faces on the site who were on SA.

[Deku69]

Oliviadarling1
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Can Anyone confirm if she's legit ?

[Jason1971]

Oliviadarling1
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Can Anyone confirm if she's legit ?

Hi.

I have been chatting to her for a while seems legit, not had chance to set up a meeting yet, as she can only accommodate daytime during the week, and is a little bit a way from me. Will try and sort something next time I am heading north.

Has a cracking pair of tits on if the pics she has sent are anything to go by.

Jason

[Deku69]

  appreciate

[Danj89]

Can't confirm if she is legit but she has been on and off seeking for about 2 years and has a friend on there as well.

When I did speak to her i got straight up prossie vibes as she was just after quick daytime meets during school hours which wasn't for me.

[Hantsolo]

Can't confirm if she is legit but she has been on and off seeking for about 2 years and has a friend on there as well.

When I did speak to her i got straight up prossie vibes as she was just after quick daytime meets during school hours which wasn't for me.

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Looks good and sent me some nice photos and videos.... but can only do daytimes during the week, cant do weekends or evenings etc. We arranged a meet at hers, but the day before she said that she would be working from home so I would have to be in Andover for 9am, gone by 11am and also that her housemates might come home. Also rather vanilla, although amazing tits!

Sounded a lot of hassle and also potentially risky, so didn't go through with it.

They will do a threesome, but no interaction with each other and wanted £300 for an hour if my memory is correct, again I declined

[Gunnarman]

Oliviadarling1
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Can Anyone confirm if she's legit ?

Was chatting to her last year but could never arrange anything.  To be honest the more I chatted with her the more I got some crazy vibes- only wants to host, during the daytime, is married (might be a hotwife situation, if you're cool with that), talk of drug use mid afternoon, and just the manic nature of some videos she sent made me best to put it off.

[sugardaddy0511]

I have exchanged messages with her mate and she did not give a sugarbaby vibe to me hence declined . She wanted 300 ppm if memory serves me right

[Danj89]

She had another mate 2 years back (girl C based in Winchester) I was chatting to as well but she is no longer on it, similarly dropped some random outrageous 3some offer out of the blue and blocked her, all 3 seem  to have prossy vibes.

Funnily enough another girl (girl D) who I was chatting to locally, but didn't end up in an arrangement with gave me her mates snap (girl E) who turns out is a friend of Olivia (girl A) as well, and another one of her friends (girl F) I saw on seeking a while back as well for a one off freebie.

Basically I thunk there is a small group of friends or friends of friends (mainly single mums) who signed up on seeking at various times based between Basingstoke, Overton, whitchir, Andover and Tidworth.

[Vanquish]

You've linked to your inbox not their profiles

[Gunnarman]

You've linked to your inbox not their profiles

Well I'm an idiot.  Fixed.

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[nawtybutniceboy]

Oliviadarling1
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Can Anyone confirm if she's legit ?

She's legit. Saw her last summer. Wanted £250 for a daytime meet (anytime from 10am, if I recall correctly). Stay as long as you like, so long as you were gone before she got 'caught' by whoever was due home at 4pm.

There didn't appear to be any limit to number of rounds on offer (other than your stamina) - this was definitely for her pleasure, as much as the cash.

Box ticked and enjoyed myself. Don't feel the need to return though.

[nawtybutniceboy]

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Looks good and sent me some nice photos and videos.... but can only do daytimes during the week, cant do weekends or evenings etc. We arranged a meet at hers, but the day before she said that she would be working from home so I would have to be in Andover for 9am, gone by 11am and also that her housemates might come home. Also rather vanilla, although amazing tits!

Sounded a lot of hassle and also potentially risky, so didn't go through with it.

They will do a threesome, but no interaction with each other and wanted £300 for an hour if my memory is correct, again I declined

Yes - this is definitely her mate and the better option from my experience. Circa £200 from memory for a few hours (Summer 2020, I forget exactly when).

Very tight and great tits (enhanced, if that's your thing). Mad as a box of frogs, but a good shag and one for the wankbank.

I probably should book her again.... However, having had a number of disappointing 2nd/3rd meets recently (esp. when the first meet was great), I'm in two minds about 'playing the same hole twice'.

[Man99999]

Hey, all have messaged a few of the ones above. Will let you know ow it goes

[Cunning Punt]

Great to see there is a SE Seeking regional thread as I must admit I wasn't aware there was one, and thought there should be. Hopefully now lockdown is easing, it can stay active. 

[Man99999]

Same here. The Reading based girls seem to be flanker than their London sisters. I've had more success in enticing London based girls to Reading

[updownandaround]

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Lucy, Dorking, quite submissive and works in recruitment. 300 for a few hours, I generally don't need more than a couple of hours and I'm not a fan of staying over. Her comms are a bit flakey so persistence is key.

[updownandaround]

Yes - this is definitely her mate and the better option from my experience. Circa £200 from memory for a few hours (Summer 2020, I forget exactly when).

Very tight and great tits (enhanced, if that's your thing). Mad as a box of frogs, but a good shag and one for the wankbank.

I probably should book her again.... However, having had a number of disappointing 2nd/3rd meets recently (esp. when the first meet was great), I'm in two minds about 'playing the same hole twice'.

I met her last year too, 150 is what it cost for an hour or so. And you're right, she's nuts and a bit of a stalker.

[LastTen]

Hi guys,

I just wanted to ask a question

I know it's probably not going to warrant an answer but let's see...

I'm a big chap, with wgs and stuff it doesn't really matter... You're paying for a service sort of thing but how do people fair on SA? Im looking to join

Thanks

[SpaceRaiderDave]

Hi guys,

I just wanted to ask a question

I know it's probably not going to warrant an answer but let's see...

I'm a big chap, with wgs and stuff it doesn't really matter... You're paying for a service sort of thing but how do people fair on SA? Im looking to join

Thanks

I assume you are referring to body size not cock size but tbh it doesn't matter which the answer is the same. You are who you are and it will be up to the lady to decide if they want an arrangement with you. With SA there is more lf a choice element given to the lady so if you are extremely overweight then there will be ones who won't be interested but equally there will be ones who don't like baldness or beards or short men or tall men etc etc.

My advice is join and see what reaction you get. The first connection will be by message and if the lady likes your sttitude the looks, age and size are less important. One thing you shouldn't do is lie about your size, just send a flettering (relatively) recent photo and let her decide

[rubric]

Basically I thunk there is a small group of friends or friends of friends (mainly single mums) who signed up on seeking at various times based between Basingstoke, Overton, whitchir, Andover and Tidworth.

In my experience - hookups via pof etc - a lot of the girls in those areas have exes from the forces and seemingly because of that tend to be fairly stalkerish to see if you are 'cheating' on them (nutter exes seem to be thankfully rare).