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Offline jimbobted

Had a fine punt this week. Met the girl on the street a short walk from the venue. Nice chat. She starts telling me about a guy who messed her around and has EAS. I concurred he sounded weird. Then she pipes up "And someone told me there's a rumour going round I offer bareback". I've seen no such rumour on these forums. I just kind of shrugged and said "that doesn't seem very likely given your requirements to partake in OWO".
Didn't think much of it but I did wonder if it was an UTC bareback offer? She wants recent std checks for OWO, so perhaps she thinks low risk in that case?  :unknown:
No further mention of it during the rest of our time together.

My first successful AW reverse booking though. Had very seocific requirements and for once most of the girls who responded had actually read them and got about 15 offers. So it can work!
She did mention a lot of RBs are guys looking for bareback apparently. Needless to say, I'm not one of those guys.
« Last Edit: September 29, 2022, 02:31:53 am by jimbobted »

Offline LLPunting

Did she say where the rumours were circulating?

Did you discuss UKP with her?

Why would OWO prevent her from offering bareback?

Did you both go to the clinic on the day of the meet and get same day testing and results done before it?

Offline Stevelondon

Did she say where the rumours were circulating?

Did you discuss UKP with her?

Why would OWO prevent her from offering bareback?

Did you both go to the clinic on the day of the meet and get same day testing and results done before it?


Ditto

If you think an UTC offer was in place (Took me a while to realise what it actually meant…….. why so many fuckin abbreviations) then you may as well think she actually does offer BB.

Offline jimbobted

Did she say where the rumours were circulating?

Did you discuss UKP with her?

Why would OWO prevent her from offering bareback?

Did you both go to the clinic on the day of the meet and get same day testing and results done before it?
She didn't say where rumours were circulating a d I did t ask. uKP not mentioned by her or me. But it's the only major forum I can think of where such rumours might circulate, hence why I said I've seen nothing on here.
She's a minor porn performer and gets tested regularly. I got myself tested before the meet so she would provide OWO and CIM. We viewed each others results electronically.
Not sure I follow your OWO question..I meant she perhaps thought "well I know he's not got anything because he's tested so I'll give him OWO, so I could safely do BB".
Just wondering if the "rumours I'm a barebacker" was a come on "Oh really? Is it true then, do you?". Safer than outright asking if I wanted it in case.i told her to fuck off and cancel the booking. It was a long booking so a lot of money at stake.
I've never been offered BB before, and not sure I was. Just wondering how it's been done when others have been offered UTC OWO so I can recognise and avoid a potential barebacker in future.

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Why not include this in your review instead of starting a thread about it, that way we will all know who it is.   :unknown:

Offline Waterhouse

Bit of a pointless thread without knowing who the SP is.  :unknown:

Offline jimbobted

Why not include this in your review instead of starting a thread about it, that way we will all know who it is.   :unknown:
I'm crafting a review but I need to be careful and leave a lot of details out otherwise I will out myself to the SP due to the rather unique nature of the booking. I will also leave it sometime before reviewing as I always do. I don't know if she lurks here but if she does and reads even a generic review and then sees this thread she'll know exactly who I am. She knows my real name as I paid her by bank transfer (rather that than carry a grand round East London). If you google my real name and the rough area if the country where I live (which she also knows) you find me, mugshot on employers website etc. So I need to be ultra catious, especially if there is any implied UTC BB. I'm not even sure she was offering BB, 95% sure she was just venting steam about some bad punters. Hence asking how UTC BB is usually broached, as it's not a situation I've been in before.
I'm certainly not going to start throwing suggestions around that a specific SP offered me BB when I'm not even sure she did.
She does porn bareback obviously with certed performers, and I know she's had issues with punters not understanding her requirement for tests for OWO when she's on film sucking multiple bare cocks. I can quite imagine someone suffering from EAS or just a bit dim making something up out of spite and her then venting about it to me.

Like I said, at this stage I'm more.wondering how UTC BB is usually offered so I can spot and avoid the SP in future.

Offline PumpDump

This is such a bizarre confusing thread. OP were you drunk when you wrote this?

Offline Stevelondon

I’m unsure why the OP was started to be honest. But let’s face it, sometimes things get written in a moment of understanding. Then later you wonder why.
I’m sure I’ve done it.

But questions raised.
This SP saying she believes a lot of punters placing RB want BB.
How has she reached this conclusion. ?

Anyone else heard about this. ?

I’ve never placed a RB so not my territory.

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I only  occasionally take a look at RB and in my experience  50% mention BB as a requirement or preference.

As an experiment I have just logged into AW and had a look at the RB scroll 3rd one and 5th stipulated bareback.
« Last Edit: September 29, 2022, 11:35:08 am by Strawberry »

Offline sim0256

  Steve , me too

In my world UTC means Universal Co-ordinated Time.  Another one I will never look at in the same way. :thumbsdown:

Offline jimbobted

This is such a bizarre confusing thread. OP were you drunk when you wrote this?
No. Suffering from insomnia though.

Offline RedKettle

 Not sure why people are confused, OP seems clear to me. Apart from the abbreviation  :D

Perhaps we are just on the same strange wavelength.

I do not think it was an offer of BB but frankly as you were there I would go with what your gut told you at the time. The only time BB was offered to me by a WG it was very much more direct, she tried to guide my knob into her! That was a true test of willpower.


Offline jimbobted

I only  occasionally take a look at RB and in my experience  50% mention BB as a requirement or preference.

As an experiment I have just logged into AW and had a look at the RB scroll 3rd one and 5th stipulated bareback.
Thanks, that tallies with what the girl told me on the day.

It's all a bit curious, there's definitely no mention of her being a barebacker on here. In fact she's only mentioned in a few threads and isn't reviewed (yet). But she does parties etc (not my thing) and possibly it's gossip in that scene she was referring to.

Offline jimbobted

Not sure why people are confused, OP seems clear to me. Apart from the abbreviation  :D

Perhaps we are just on the same strange wavelength.

I do not think it was an offer of BB but frankly as you were there I would go with what your gut told you at the time. The only time BB was offered to me by a WG it was very much more direct, she tried to guide my knob into her! That was a true test of willpower.
Aha, someone who understands me :cool:.
I didn't think it was an offer of bareback. She's actually the least likely barebacker outside of her porn work I could think of.

Had a similar experience to you once. Girl getting me going for round 2 and rubbed her pussy against my bare cock, asking if it felt good...

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I wouldn't worry too much about outing yourself to the WG if you post a review. If she is on UKP, you already have.

Offline Blackpool Rock

I wouldn't worry too much about outing yourself to the WG if you post a review. If she is on UKP, you already have.
That's what I was thinking.

Also if the OP cancelled the booking having paid a grand by bank transfer my guess is he wouldn't get any of that money back, interested to know what the rating will be  :unknown:
My suspicion is Negative if he's parted with a grand and not had a booking but then again he's cancelled on the basis she may possibly in theory have eluded to BB in the booking but didn't actually offer it so i'm not sure how the girl is at fault here  :unknown:

Offline lillythesavage

That's what I was thinking.

Also if the OP cancelled the booking having paid a grand by bank transfer my guess is he wouldn't get any of that money back, interested to know what the rating will be  :unknown:
My suspicion is Negative if he's parted with a grand and not had a booking but then again he's cancelled on the basis she may possibly in theory have eluded to BB in the booking but didn't actually offer it so i'm not sure how the girl is at fault here  :unknown:

Think you misread it, first words say it was a fine punt  :unknown:

Offline jimbobted

Yes it was a really good punt. I paid by bank transfer there and then once we were at the venue and had confirmed what we were going to get up to.
True if she's on UKP or reads it then I've outed myself, but no drama as I haven't named her so nothing for her to worry about. Asking an anonymous question is a bit different to asking it in a review where it's linked to the girl and inevitably some mud would stick.
So, I shall leave a suitable time period for this thread to disappear into the ether before reviewing, if indeed I can review without making it obvious who I am.

I didn't suspect I was being offered BB at the time, that thought only popped into my head much later.

Offline LLPunting

Unless you're planning on writing the review with a different account there's fuck all chance you haven't outed yourself.
Even if you were allowed to use another account the association would likely be made unless you lie about the length of booking, which services she delivered and the order in which they were taken.  Unlike this thread you will have to omit any mention of what was talked about, any details about behaviours in the throes of passion, any specific instructions given by either of you during the meet to ensure any act was particularly memorable or pleasurable.  Presumably you will be inclined to omit anything that might be considered "hurtful" to her for fear of recrimination?

Basically posting this thread with the detail that you have about the encounter has pretty much sabotaged any intent or freedom to post a true account of the punt itself, regardless of how long you leave it.

You know she's aware of review sites and other punters are discussing reviews with her.  Whilst there are several "popular" review sites there aren't so many that she wouldn't have heard of this one if punters are spilling beans.  There is at least one forum dedicated to BB so she could've been discussed on there.

If you're so concerned about your privacy why are you using your personal bank account for transactions?  Revolut and other online banking services have been discussed so many times here and can be used to anonymise the process.
Why did you tell her where you live/work?  Or any other significant facts about your personal life?

The idea of a porn star being coy in private face to face conversation about offering BB seems more than a little far fetched.

She clearly doesn't really care about hygiene if she's accepting your test results from a test taken days/weeks prior to her giving you OWO.   Not kissing because of her sex work, particularly if she's citing your sex health history rather than protecting you from her unprotected promiscuity is a whole load of ignorant horseshit.  What "proof" did she need that you hadn't engaged in any unprotected sexual acts since the test or in the week prior to it?  Did she ask if you have herpes? Hepatitis? Any other human fluid born infections that can be transmitted via oral sex or contact with the eyes in case of an (accidental) facial?

Best advice?  Take a break and reconsider how you protect your privacy when booking and in the company of SPs.  Read up the many threads here discussing outing, privacy, writing anonymous reviews and making online payments and if you're still unsure ask in a relevant thread without mentioning any SP unless she has already proved to be a risk or threat because of what she's asked for or subsequently done.

Offline Blackpool Rock

Think you misread it, first words say it was a fine punt  :unknown:
I was in a rush to read the whole thread on my break, the bit that stuck in my head was -

.i told her to fuck off and cancel the booking. It was a long booking so a lot of money at stake.

However re-reading the lead up to that it was a theoretical question / response, think the missing gap between words led me to misread it

Offline Mr Sinister



Well said, agreed just seems pointless writing a review now

I'm still not sure what OP is asking? At the end of the day why didn't you just ask the WG there and then does she BB and get that out the way?  What's the point bringing this up post punt especially since you went ahead with it?

Offline jimbobted

Well said, agreed just seems pointless writing a review now

I'm still not sure what OP is asking? At the end of the day why didn't you just ask the WG there and then does she BB and get that out the way?  What's the point bringing this up post punt especially since you went ahead with it?
Cos I didn't think that at the time. It was only later I thought there was maybe more.too it. As I've said several times now, I was just wondering how WGs broach the subject so I can avoid in future.

Offline Thephoenix


Ditto

If you think an UTC offer was in place (Took me a while to realise what it actually meant…….. why so many fuckin abbreviations) then you may as well think she actually does offer BB.

Carried on reading and still didn't know what UTC meant.
 For the benefit if other uncool codgers:- Up The Can (Anal Sex).

Offline LLPunting

Carried on reading and still didn't know what UTC meant.
 For the benefit if other uncool codgers:- Up The Can (Anal Sex).

Under The Counter i.e. on the sly, off menu, available at discretion (for the right price or free)

Offline jimbobted

Unless you're planning on writing the review with a different account there's fuck all chance you haven't outed yourself.
Even if you were allowed to use another account the association would likely be made unless you lie about the length of booking, which services she delivered and the order in which they were taken.  Unlike this thread you will have to omit any mention of what was talked about, any details about behaviours in the throes of passion, any specific instructions given by either of you during the meet to ensure any act was particularly memorable or pleasurable.  Presumably you will be inclined to omit anything that might be considered "hurtful" to her for fear of recrimination?

Basically posting this thread with the detail that you have about the encounter has pretty much sabotaged any intent or freedom to post a true account of the punt itself, regardless of how long you leave it.

You know she's aware of review sites and other punters are discussing reviews with her.  Whilst there are several "popular" review sites there aren't so many that she wouldn't have heard of this one if punters are spilling beans.  There is at least one forum dedicated to BB so she could've been discussed on there.

If you're so concerned about your privacy why are you using your personal bank account for transactions?  Revolut and other online banking services have been discussed so many times here and can be used to anonymise the process.
Why did you tell her where you live/work?  Or any other significant facts about your personal life?

The idea of a porn star being coy in private face to face conversation about offering BB seems more than a little far fetched.

She clearly doesn't really care about hygiene if she's accepting your test results from a test taken days/weeks prior to her giving you OWO.   Not kissing because of her sex work, particularly if she's citing your sex health history rather than protecting you from her unprotected promiscuity is a whole load of ignorant horseshit.  What "proof" did she need that you hadn't engaged in any unprotected sexual acts since the test or in the week prior to it?  Did she ask if you have herpes? Hepatitis? Any other human fluid born infections that can be transmitted via oral sex or contact with the eyes in case of an (accidental) facial?

Best advice?  Take a break and reconsider how you protect your privacy when booking and in the company of SPs.  Read up the many threads here discussing outing, privacy, writing anonymous reviews and making online payments and if you're still unsure ask in a relevant thread without mentioning any SP unless she has already proved to be a risk or threat because of what she's asked for or subsequently done.
Well, I've always written truthful reviews, including where I'm easily identifiable by the activities carried out and am critical where criticism is due. Look at the recent one where I say the girl had bad breath.
Nobody said anything about no kissing? There was loads of kissing.
She wants recent tests for OWO and CIM for very good reason and I was happy to comply. I told her I expected her to reciprocate and she did. We agreed timescales and processes that we were happy with. Most girls will do these activities with no testing, so how you can say this one "clearly doesn't care about hygiene" is bizarre.

It doesn't oesnt matter what bank account I used, there's this thing in the banking industry called Know Your Customer, you can't just open a revolut or any other bank account with a made up name.

She definitely is not mentioned on any bare baking threads here. She isn't reviewed here, other than in passing in other reviews, so no one is discussing her here. That's why I thought it odd she mentioned that people were talking about her barebacking. As far as I'm aware this is the only escort review site that has any significant activity.  :unknown:

I was perfectly happy with revealing my name and other details to her. She's not going to blow my life up, but she might if I review and a load of folk say I've accused her of bare backing even though I haven't. In hindsight I perhaps shouldn't have started this thread, or should have worded it differently.
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Offline jimbobted

Oh and I never tell a WG where I work or even where I used to work (or even the industry sector of either employer). Don't even need to know where I live to find me with that info. "Consultant" and "when I worked in a factory" are as specific as I get.

Offline LLPunting

Well, I've always written truthful reviews, including where I'm easily identifiable by the activities carried out and am critical where criticism is due. Look at the recent one where I say the girl had bad breath.
Nobody said anything about no kissing? There was loads of kissing.
She wants recent tests for OWO and CIM for very good reason and I was happy to comply. I told her I expected her to reciprocate and she did. We agreed timescales and processes that we were happy with. Most girls will do these activities with no testing, so how you can say this one "clearly doesn't care about hygiene" is bizarre.

It doesn't oesnt matter what bank account I used, there's this thing in the banking industry called Know Your Customer, you can't just open a revolut or any other bank account with a made up name.

She definitely is not mentioned on any bare baking threads here. She isn't reviewed here, other than in passing in other reviews, so no one is discussing her here. That's why I thought it odd she mentioned that people were talking about her barebacking. As far as I'm aware this is the only escort review site that has any significant activity.  :unknown:

I was perfectly happy with revealing my name and other details to her. She's not going to blow my life up, but she might if I review and a load of folk say I've accused her of bare backing even though I haven't. In hindsight I perhaps shouldn't have started this thread, or should have worded it differently.

To clarify I am not accusing you of lying previously I am saying that in order to leave an "anonymised" review for this SP, now that you have this thread on record, you would have to tell some "lies".  Depending on just how much memorable, individual detail you'd enjoyed between you two you might have to withhold or alter what happened, including services partaken and how they were delivered.  That might compromise the review, at least compared to your previous ones'.

For your previous reviews, did the girls also have your real name and bank details?  That was your specific concern.  Having your number tagged to your UKP id is inconvenient but manageable, having a girl know your RL personal details is a whole other thing. 

The point being made is that she has more potential leverage to make things difficult for you if she decides to, regardless of the review contents.  We have had SPs get upset from things said in positives that may not have even been that critical.

The point about the tests is that they are of limited comfort given incubation periods and what you and she could've gotten up to separately in the days before the tests were performed and since but before the meet.  The tests would therefore miss anything in incubation or not yet active enough to trigger a positive.  You get some reassurance and perhaps an HIV all clear.
Were your tests results a comprehensive list of STIs and positive or negatives for each or did she ask you to be tested for specific ones?

I'm not talking about BB threads on this site.  There are plenty of active sites with reviews on.

My bank card only lists my initials and surname, so even if an SP were to glimpse it, she wouldn't get my exact identity.   The transaction record for a transfer lists account no., sort code and whatever you choose to state as a reference, it doesn't necessarily reveal the full name of the account holder.  Setting up a separate account to punt from removes the transactions from your personal account and also keeps the SPs at least one step away from your real life.  The bank/provider you set up the account/prepaid card with will know whatever personal credentials you register with but those details are not disclosed to any payee.

Offline jimbobted

No I've never paid by bank transfer before, well once to an agency in Cardiff as a deposit but that wasn't to the girl.

I think you'll find Revolut sends your name to the recipient. Might be a good way to hide your proclivities from your spouse, but I don't think it preserves you anonymity. Certainly it sent my name to my bona fide account when I did a test transaction ages ago to test exactly this theory out. My bank app even popped up a notification telling me I'd received ten quid from my name.

I realise the tests are of limited use for the reasons you state. Personally I wouldn't have bothered but her body her rules and if I wanted to do certain things that was the price of entry so the speak. As I said, she has good reasons for being more cautious than is perhaps normal (but then you come across a video of her sucking off about 20 random blokes at a party and think hmmm how does that work then, hooker logic I guess).

Offline LLPunting

No I've never paid by bank transfer before, well once to an agency in Cardiff as a deposit but that wasn't to the girl.

I think you'll find Revolut sends your name to the recipient. Might be a good way to hide your proclivities from your spouse, but I don't think it preserves you anonymity. Certainly it sent my name to my bona fide account when I did a test transaction ages ago to test exactly this theory out. My bank app even popped up a notification telling me I'd received ten quid from my name.

I realise the tests are of limited use for the reasons you state. Personally I wouldn't have bothered but her body her rules and if I wanted to do certain things that was the price of entry so the speak. As I said, she has good reasons for being more cautious than is perhaps normal (but then you come across a video of her sucking off about 20 random blokes at a party and think hmmm how does that work then, hooker logic I guess).

Thanks for sharing about Revolut, other options available that may be more discrete in that case.

If she's not working that often and not usually running a train or conveyor when she does then she's probably seeing less than many parlour, brothel and popular indies.  Not familiar with her work so no idea if her video work involves BBing other "talent".   Good on her for being cautious but her reasoning is somewhat flawed if she's trying to protect herself so she can keep working "safely" in porn.

Offline southcoastpunter

Thanks for sharing about Revolut,

Revolut seems to be used by a lot on guys who use Seeking/SA. If i remember correctly from a seeking thread, i am sure some guys have said that after setting Revolut up, they then change their surname on their Revolut account - so if it sends a name, it would be the wrong name. I personally have not tried that but when setting my Revolut account up, i changed one letter in my surname and my road /address by one letter and postcode by one letter - and Revolut accepted it. So although it close, it is not an exact match to me. Not sure why i did that as I am single and don't have a significant other to worry about but just being cautious i guess!

Offline LLPunting

Revolut seems to be used by a lot on guys who use Seeking/SA. If i remember correctly from a seeking thread, i am sure some guys have said that after setting Revolut up, they then change their surname on their Revolut account - so if it sends a name, it would be the wrong name. I personally have not tried that but when setting my Revolut account up, i changed one letter in my surname and my road /address by one letter and postcode by one letter - and Revolut accepted it. So although it close, it is not an exact match to me. Not sure why i did that as I am single and don't have a significant other to worry about but just being cautious i guess!
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Interesting that it will allow you to declare false information rather than just hide your details behind a more anonymous pseudonym.  Would've thought FCA (or whatever watchdog) would have words to say about that.

Offline datwabbit

Revolut seems to be used by a lot on guys who use Seeking/SA. If i remember correctly from a seeking thread, i am sure some guys have said that after setting Revolut up, they then change their surname on their Revolut account - so if it sends a name, it would be the wrong name. I personally have not tried that but when setting my Revolut account up, i changed one letter in my surname and my road /address by one letter and postcode by one letter - and Revolut accepted it. So although it close, it is not an exact match to me. Not sure why i did that as I am single and don't have a significant other to worry about but just being cautious i guess!


Revolut will let you change name but needs proof. It will let you change address without proof. So if you think your card number, name and address details could be used against you, you can create a new virtual card and a new address. Tbh not unlike a normal bank except it's quicker and easier.

But you cannot change your name easily. In fact your real name is used to create the account because it has to follow money laundering rules. I have not tried a different name initially.

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You could try cashapp, link your chosen card and account to it then give yourself a pseudonym and that is all the receiver sees, it's fast, its free and it's anonymous and lots of girls use it now.
Can be a bit of a fiddle to set up but once done it's really easy to use, all they do is send you their pseudonym and you type it in, type the amount and hit pay, it then sends me an email confirming the transaction.

Offline Moby Dick

Then she pipes up "And someone told me there's a rumour going round I offer bareback". I've seen no such rumour on these forums. I just kind of shrugged and said "that doesn't seem very likely given your requirements to partake in OWO".
Didn't think much of it but I did wonder if it was an UTC bareback offer? She wants recent std checks for OWO, so perhaps she thinks low risk in that case?  :unknown:
No further mention of it during the rest of our time together.
If it bothers you so much go back and ask her what she meant?
You didn’t think much of it at the time, so what has changed?
It’s more likely she meant she needs all clear on STD checks before doing OWO, so unprotected sex isn’t going to happen because of the greater risks.

I think you should have kept this between you and the SP until you know what was meant.
Going back and asking her may confirm she is a barebacker or not and get you blocked (if you aren’t already).

Offline petermisc

Not familiar with her work so no idea if her video work involves BBing other "talent".   Good on her for being cautious but her reasoning is somewhat flawed if she's trying to protect herself so she can keep working "safely" in porn.

The OP has already told us that she does BB for her porn work.
She does porn bareback obviously with certed performers

Basically, in requiring her punting clients to get tested, she is treating them the same as her porn partners.  But to then deny her punters services that she offers her far more risky porn partners seems bizarre.

We all have our own perceptions of risk, but as far as I am concerned, someone who is openly and regularly BBing multiple strangers is off the menu, whether they are doing it as prossies or porn stars.  I agree that both sides getting tested reduces the risk, but not enough for my liking.

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But to then deny her punters services that she offers her far more risky porn partners seems bizarre.

This part I don’t think I agree with at all.
You see no difference in risk if all pornstars that do bare in their films (so basically all mainstream porn) also did bareback service to punters? The risk difference is massive lol.  for one you probably see far more clients escorting than porn. And pornstars are not *far more risky* than regular clients as they’re doing this for their career so more incentive to stay safe than clients where this is only a HOBBY not a job to you

Porn performers usually get STD certs done at least every 28 days by the way

Offline petermisc

This part I don’t think I agree with at all.
You see no difference in risk if all pornstars that do bare in their films (so basically all mainstream porn) also did bareback service to punters? The risk difference is massive lol.
I was comparing the risk to her from her porn partners as opposed to the risk to her from her punting partners, both of which she requires to be recently tested.  Her porn partners will have had far more BB with strangers than most of her punting partners.


Offline Moby Dick

Can’t believe what I am reading on this thread.
STDs don’t care if you are a pornstar, prossie, punter or a slapper of a skank who fucks anybody and everyone for free.

For all you know the most selective or cautious SP may have a bi sexual boyfriend who take bare cock up his arse n vice versa.

Offline petermisc

Can’t believe what I am reading on this thread.
STDs don’t care if you are a pornstar, prossie, punter or a slapper of a skank who fucks anybody and everyone for free.
For all you know the most selective or cautious SP may have a bi sexual boyfriend who take bare cock up his arse n vice versa.
So there is no point in trying to limit your risk, we might all just as well go around BBing everyone?

Offline Moby Dick

So there is no point in trying to limit your risk, we might all just as well go around BBing everyone?
No the opposite.
BB no one.
Wear a condom.
You have no control or understanding of what safe or not so safe practices occur when you are not there.
But if you wear a condom you will reduce the risk.

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No the opposite.
BB no one.
Wear a condom.
You have no control or understanding of what safe or not so safe practices occur when you are not there.
But if you wear a condom you will reduce the risk.

Yes that was what I meant by just because they may work in porn, all clients need to use a condom still and to say the risk is the same is not true

And if you also really care about being safe that you should be doing OW too, as oral/throat chlamydia and gonorrhea are very real as well, though the risk is less it’s still a risk

Offline jimbobted

Yes that was what I meant by just because they may work in porn, all clients need to use a condom still and to say the risk is the same is not true

And if you also really care about being safe that you should be doing OW too, as oral/throat chlamydia and gonorrhea are very real as well, though the risk is less it’s still a risk
Agree. Pron performers are tested much more frequently and I believe have to have more than one consecutive negative test to be "certed". It's not no risk but it's lower risk.
And yep, I know to my cost that you can pick something up from OWO. Fortunately antibiotics cleared it up quickly, but it was unpleasant (actually the entire punt was unpleasant so it was misery heaped upon expensive misery).

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The banking industry recently added account holders name to send and check against when making bank transfers. Before recently, names were not checked against account info and sent in the transaction. It was a technical and regulatory limitation of the old digital ledger system but the prevailance of scams and mistyped account numbers meant adding name to the transfer was needed to reduce the likelihood of error (with other open banking benefits). Most banks show the name of the sender in the transaction record (or somewhere where it can be retrieved.)
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Carried on reading and still didn't know what UTC meant.
 For the benefit if other uncool codgers:- Up The Can (Anal Sex).

Thanks very much for that, Phoenix, I thought it may have stood for Under The Covers. :unknown:

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Thanks very much for that, Phoenix, I thought it may have stood for Under The Covers. :unknown:
It means 'Under the Counter' as in an unadvertised service provided on the quite, not covers or anything to do with anal sex.

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It seems to have different interpretations as I discovered.
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Including sexual connotations:-
Up the crack, as in camel toe,
Up the can, as in anal sex,
Or even....Unbelievably thick cock.

Didn't realised I'd lived such a sheltered life. :angelgirl:



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It seems to have different interpretations as I discovered.
External Link/Members Only

Including sexual connotations:-
Up the crack, as in camel toe,
Up the can, as in anal sex,
Or even....Unbelievably thick cock.

Didn't realised I'd lived such a sheltered life. :angelgirl:
Forget what the urban dictionary says and trying to complicate matters, in the context of this thread it means Under the Counter as described above.

Do you really need me to edit the post to spell it out in it's full form.   :unknown:

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It seems to have different interpretations as I discovered.
External Link/Members Only

Including sexual connotations:-
Up the crack, as in camel toe,
Up the can, as in anal sex,
Or even....Unbelievably thick cock.

Didn't realised I'd lived such a sheltered life. :angelgirl:

Or
University Technical College
Universal Time Coordinated (dunno what was up with GMT)

I think “under the counter” was what the OP meant.