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Offline limarasa9

This might look more like my confession story but it has always intrigued me the reasons and the circumstances in which people have started punting. In my case, I have been married for 15 years, never had sex before marriage nor had sex outside of marriage (until I started punting of course!). Since the birth of our last child, our sex life went downhill with frequency of sex once in 4 to 6 weeks. I was disappointed and frustrated. My wife could see this and had a frank chat with me. She said she has lost her libido and cannot do it as before. This is where she drops the bomb and says I can seek sexual satisfaction “outside” but with the condition that she shouldn’t get to know about it. I was rather shocked hearing this and brushed it aside as a joke. Few months down the line, she booked a holiday to go to her home country with the kids. The day before she was leaving, she tells me the same thing again. This time I take it as confirmed license to punt and start my punting spree while she is away  :yahoo: Since she has returned from the holiday I have not managed to punt as much as it’s a bit difficult to make sure that I meet her condition while she is around :D

That’s my story and it would be interesting to hear some of yours if you are willing to share.

PS: Apologies if this topic has been discussed before in which case happy for a mod to close or merge this topic with the original.
« Last Edit: August 15, 2022, 10:42:28 am by limarasa9 »

Offline lillythesavage

This might look more like my confession story but it has always intrigued me the reasons and the circumstances in which people have started punting. In my case, I have been married for 15 years, never had sex before marriage nor had sex outside of marriage (until I started punting of course!). Since the birth of our last child, our sex life went downhill with frequency of sex once in 4 to 6 weeks. I was disappointed and frustrated. My wife could see this and had a frank chat with me. She said she has lost her libido and cannot do it as before. This is where she drops the bomb and says I can seek sexual satisfaction “outside” but with the condition that she shouldn’t get to know about it. I was rather shocked hearing this and brushed it aside as a joke. Few months down the line, she booked a holiday to go to her home country with the kids. The day before she was leaving, she tells me the same thing again. This time I take it as confirmed license to punt and start my punting spree while she is away  :yahoo: Since she has returned from the holiday I have not managed to punt as much as it’s a bit difficult to make sure that I meet her condition while she is around :D

That’s my story and it would be interesting to hear some of yours if you are willing to share.

PS: Apologies if this topic has been discussed before in which case happy for a mod to close or merge this topic with the original.


Take the bull by the horns and tell her you are going out  :unknown:, sure she might guess, but if she does not actually know you have kept your side, and if she keeps her side, will ask no questions.

As it was her suggestion I cannot see any problems, unless she lied or has changed her mind, and you really need to test that, just to be sure  :D.

Offline Hobbit

Maybe she is having an affair or wants to see a male escort and that's why she has suggested this to you so you can give her some freedom.

Offline Stevelondon

That’s a question that’s going to be answered with all kinds of replies.
I’ve just punted all my life, end of.

I did know someone (sadly now no more) who was in a similar position to the OP.
As long as he was discreet, could afford it and most importantly, not seek to have an affair (a mistress) His wife would accept it.
That was the theory and it did work for quite a while until the inevitable female logic reared up and it went tits up.
Hey ho.
« Last Edit: August 15, 2022, 11:08:46 am by Stevelondon »

Offline lillythesavage

Maybe she is having an affair or wants to see a male escort and that's why she has suggested this to you so you can give her some freedom.

If she was honest enough to make the suggestion she did and the reasons for it, I am sure being honest about spicing up a sex life with others, rather than saying lost libido, would not have been a too difficult conversation  :unknown:.

You always look for the negatives on every thread subject  :thumbsdown:

Offline limarasa9


Take the bull by the horns and tell her you are going out  :unknown:, sure she might guess, but if she does not actually know you have kept your side, and if she keeps her side, will ask no questions.

As it was her suggestion I cannot see any problems, unless she lied or has changed her mind, and you really need to test that, just to be sure  :D.

As I have now got the “taste” of punting, I wouldn’t want her to change her mind  :D

Offline limarasa9


That was the theory and it did work for quite a while until the inevitable female logic reared up and it went tits up.
Hey ho.

Lol, fingers crossed that doesn’t happen with me but as you rightly said the dreaded female logic  :wackogirl:

Offline Cheltclient

My story. Always been useless with women (generally). But always been a horny little fucker. Lost my virginity to an escort. Many moons ago. Pretty shit experience but prob more my fault than hers. This was when you booked through an ad in the paper. Then somehow got someone daft enough to marry me. Never considered booking an escort again. Was just my dirty little secret.

Got divorced many years later. Hit quite hard. In my depression, booked my second escort. Enjoyed this one a lot more. Was a bit younger at the time so was a one off and did manage some dating. And then after one serious relationship ended, that’s when the dam burst. AW was around then. My 3rd escort was a polish older lady. Suddenly, OWO and kissing was available. She fucked my brains out. Was hooked from there on. If I have been fortunate enough to have a civvy relationship, I’m alter that good boy and I do not see escorts. But I’m getting too old, they’re few and far between - and this hobby, I do get to fuck some amazingly beautiful and young women.

Not much of a story really but it’s mine. Sure others have far more interesting tales

Offline Dipper

The simple desire to fuck women of all kinds.

New and varied sexual acts.



That about sums me up, I just enjoy handing over cash to a total stranger, knowing minutes later my cock will be inside them. It’s thrilling.

Offline tp69

Lost someone before her time. Not interested in seeing anyone else. Punting helps.

Offline Hobbit

If she was honest enough to make the suggestion she did and the reasons for it, I am sure being honest about spicing up a sex life with others, rather than saying lost libido, would not have been a too difficult conversation  :unknown:.

You always look for the negatives on every thread subject  :thumbsdown:

How can her wanting to see a male escort be negative? If he wants to do it, then she can also.

Also, just because she suggested it doesn't mean the subject is easy to talk about. When women say they have lost their libido, there is usually more to it than that.

Offline Cheltclient

The simple desire to fuck women of all kinds.

New and varied sexual acts.



That about sums me up, I just enjoy handing over cash to a total stranger, knowing minutes later my cock will be inside them. It’s thrilling.

The transactional side of the deed has always been a huge turn on for me too. Everything about it. And it can be quite taboo too. I like heading for a punt, passing people who have no idea what im up to. I love getting in the building or the hotel, passing people who may know what im up to but not caring. I love the wait after the knock, the sound of heels approaching on the other side of the door. When it’s a new girl, love seeing her for the first time and knowing you’re going to be fucking her!!!

The taboo side of it has always been very appealing for me

Offline Dipper

The transactional side of the deed has always been a huge turn on for me too. Everything about it. And it can be quite taboo too. I like heading for a punt, passing people who have no idea what im up to. I love getting in the building or the hotel, passing people who may know what im up to but not caring. I love the wait after the knock, the sound of heels approaching on the other side of the door. When it’s a new girl, love seeing her for the first time and knowing you’re going to be fucking her!!!

The taboo side of it has always been very appealing for me

This is it, there are so many more facets to it than the sex/relief. All part of the fun.

Offline rubric

As long as he was discreet, could afford it and most importantly, not seek to have an affair (a mistress) His wife would accept it.
That was the theory and it did work for quite a while until the inevitable female logic reared up and it went tits up.
Hey ho.

And this is why, were I the OP, I'd act as if the conversation(s) never happened and would never refer to them.  Of course there are exceptions but people in general (and women in particular) are not very good at gauging their actual emotions while a situation is purely hypothetical. Some time ago I was in a civvy relationship with a girl who really wanted to push boundaries and eventually suggested a threesome, everything was fine until the actual event whereupon it turned out she didn't actually like seeing her parter having sex with another woman - cue massive floods of tears ("you were enjoying it when she was sucking your cock").

As to why I punt, it's rarer these days, but the ability sex with a wide variety of attractive women is a big motivator - especially as I started punting just before all those lovely EE girls started coming over to the UK.

Offline Mr Sinister

The transactional side of the deed has always been a huge turn on for me too. Everything about it.

For me cutting out the middleman so to speak was one of my reasons, as someone said in wanting to fuck many types of women. I don't have the time to try find and pinpoint the exact women I want to fuck while going through the dating process etc..as much as I enjoy dating civvies in the end time and money is lost with no successful result.


I had a big boob fetish, trying to get with a civvie girl with a large pair of chebs is a long process. So yeah I found a big titty polish bird for £60ph and did the deed, over 10 years ago big titty EE birds was the norm especially between the 60-80ph range so I had my fill.

Offline hfe689343

Was a virgin and before I turn 27 I got fed up of being embarrassed about it (even though I would lie to people) and started like that. First time wasn't as good as I thought and I didn't climax. In fact I didn't climax in any of my punts :dash: but learned that I could enjoy myself nevertheless.

Offline Tender.french.kiss

This is it, there are so many more facets to it than the sex/relief. All part of the fun.
Proof that our biggest sexual organ is not our cock, fingers or tongue but actually our brain!

Offline versace

The simple desire to fuck women of all kinds.

New and varied sexual acts.



That about sums me up, I just enjoy handing over cash to a total stranger, knowing minutes later my cock will be inside them. It’s thrilling.

+1

Offline Billy no mates

Pretty much exactly the same as the OP (didn’t want to quote your whole post again)

I feigned disinterest for at least a year.

Only slight differences, my wife wanted to hear my tales, and eventually (on a few occasions) we punted together.

The upside is, I didn’t have an affair due to frustration and we are still very much together and happy.

Offline Rayray23k

Similar to Op except wife just gave up on trying anything so I devorced her ass. As a single parent of 2 still Co living and parenting, it was extremely difficult and frustrating to get over her and I fell into depression.
Eventually I decided to focus on myself and I fucked my way out of depression.

Offline PheasantPlucker

. This is where she drops the bomb and says I can seek sexual satisfaction “outside” but with the condition that she shouldn’t get to know about it. I was rather shocked hearing this and brushed it aside as a joke. Few months down the line, she booked a holiday to go to her home country with the kids. The day before she was leaving, she tells me the same thing again. This time I take it as confirmed license to punt and start my punting spree while she is away  :yahoo: Since she has returned from the holiday I have not managed to punt as much as it’s a bit difficult to make sure that I meet her condition while she is around :D

That’s my story and it would be interesting to hear some of yours if you are willing to share.

PS: Apologies if this topic has been discussed before in which case happy for a mod to close or merge this topic with the original.

Well you’re the lucky one!  :thumbsup:

My own story goes back to 1983 when I started working further afield and my travels took me to Nottingham amongst many other places.

I had remembered a friend of mine telling me about Nottingham Goose Fair and it was while driving around early one evening looking for the location I drove past some ugly, concrete slab-like flats and noticed a not unattractive woman with a mop of permed hair standing with her arms folded to keep warm near a stepped entrance to said flats wearing a short, furry type jacket, mini skirt and thigh-high boots and I instinctively slowed down as you would. She looked at me and mouthed something as I glided past in a not exactly inconspicuous heavily sign-written works van plastered with Company name and telephone number.

I wasn't sure what she said but seeing that expanse of thigh above the boot/below the skirt reminded me of a stocking top and so I was drawn to her like a moth to light/fly to shit and had no alternative but to go round again to see what it was all about.

I drove around the block spotting the Goose Fair I had started out looking for in a large area across the road at the bottom of the hill but by now my mind was firmly fixated on another type of ride and by the time I turned right, right and right again she had disappeared from view.

However another similarly attired woman had suddenly sprung out of nowhere a bit further down the hill. This one was wearing jeans and didn't look quite as cold as the first one but I was still fixated on that bare flesh at the top of those thighs rather than jeans and so drove the circuit a couple more times before finding somewhere to park up near where I first saw her.

Sure enough she reappeared shortly afterwards together with a bloke but as they stepped out of the stairwell he turned left and she turned right without saying so much as a word like a couple who had just had an argument. She walked a few paces, stopped, spotted my non-stealth Company van, looked directly at me and nodded.

I got out of the van and walked towards her feeling very self conscious like everybody was watching me but at the age of 23 driven by hormones my cock had by now taken control and the rest of me was just hanging on for the ride. In more ways than one.

By the time I was close enough to hear her well practiced catchphrase of 'Looking for business?' all I could do was meekly reply like a ventriloquist's dummy where my testicles had turned into the driving force of Roger de Courcey while the rest of me transformed into Nookie the Bear and somehow forced a reply of 'Yeah!'

I didn't even ask how much nor can I remember what I paid not that it would have much difference at this stage. I was locked on target like an Exocet. I certainly can't remember her name.

It felt like an out of body experience as I followed her up those concrete stairs eyes firmly set on the prize but feeling very nervous and more than a little self conscious we entered the flat through a door that was well past its sell by date into a scruffy hallway and into a small bedroom.

I held out the money with a shaking hand (£20 maybe?) but I don't remember too much detail apart from she did take the fluffy jacket off, pulled her thick woolly jumper up, popped a tit out and laid on her back on a plain single bed still wearing those fucking boots.

I was already rock hard and so she rolled the rubber on with little effort which I thought was amazing not stopping to think how many times a day she must practice this particular manoeuvre.

The lingering memory was her attitude & behaviour resembled her boot & body temperature ie pretty fucking cold and she held her hand around the base of my cock and positioned her legs to stop it going all the way in which pissed me off but didn't deter me from putting a hand on each icy knee and pumping away until I started to shoot my bolt into the johnny at which point she was instinctively saying 'Have you come?' while simultaneously changing into reverse gear (not that she was actually fucking moving in the first place) and backing off my cock still jerking with me instinctively having to finish the job in hand.

That was a first for me and I have hated it ever since when I am asked 'Have you come?' or 'Hurry up and come.' which seems to do the reverse of what they were hoping for or worse still having sensory deprivation just at money shot time.

So my first paid experience was not exactly satisfying but served a purpose and was responsible for kick-starting me on the slippery slope.

And so apart from a few breaks when I've been in serious relationships and these last couple of years due to COVID and other health problems I've been punting for 40 years now but I'm not hooked! :lol:

Closest I ever got to your experience would be taking a girlfriend to Amsterdam for her 40th birthday weekend as she harboured a little bi-curiosity from a sleepover when she was 16 and woke up to find her girl friends hand between her own legs. My perverted mind decided a visit to a swingers club was in order so I lined up my little surprise. Story for another day maybe.

Anyway as we wandered around the RLD the night before her surprise she decided she would like to see me fuck another girl and so under extreme protest from me knowing she would probably have second thoughts after the event we trawled the RLD for a couple of hours with me pulling every excuse because I didn’t want her to say in the cold light of day; ‘You only picked her because she looks like ____ [insert name of friend here] I finally relented but only if she chose the girl herself. I was running out of excuses to put this thing off and was tired and ready for bed and so the deed was done.

She sat on a chair in the corner with a sickly smile on her face while I struggled to shoot my bolt but I finally got there in the end. It was back in the days of suck 50 gilder/fuck 50 gilder/suck & fuck 100 gilder and I remember having to pay 50 gilder just for her to watch.

Needless to say by the time we got back to the hotel she was blaming me saying I didn’t have to go through with it and by the time breakfast came around she wasn’t talking to me at all.

Happy days… :dash:

-pp

Offline limarasa9


Only slight differences, my wife wanted to hear my tales, and eventually (on a few occasions) we punted together.


Wow, that’s interesting!! Saves you the effort of the hiding game.

Offline limarasa9

@PheasantPlucker - Brilliant  :lol:

Online Kieslowski

I was 26, still a virgin, and had been going on a few dates with women off of Match.com (this was before Tinder etc existed). I never seemed to get past the first date, and I felt like the lack of bedroom experience was making me cock-block myself.

Around the same time, I spent something like £300 on one incredible Estonian woman at a strip club during a friend's stag party. I was speaking to another friend about it a couple of days later and we joked about how it would probably be cheaper just hiring an escort for a shag. That got me to look it up, and of course, it turned out it was indeed far, far cheaper to just have sex with an escort. The idea was thus planted in my head.

I made a booking with this great woman who was happy to oblige when I said I had no idea what I was doing and wanted her to teach me. She was a nurse who did escorting on the side because she liked buying shoes - pretty much the ideal "first", because when I think of some of the women I've seen in the years since, I could very easily have been put off punting for life with some of them. Wish I'd seen her more than once, because it hadn't occurred to me that she would disappear a few months later.

I didn't see escorts very regularly at first - however, there was one girl I'd had on my wishlist for months, who I got to the point of trying to book once, but then disappeared before I ever actually got to meet her. After that, I decided if I liked the look of someone, I should just shag her while I could in case she disappeared and never came back. That got me into a fairly regular punting habit.

I've always taken breaks from punting any time I'm in a relationship. However, I've reached a point in my life where it feels unrealistic to think I'm suddenly going to meet someone, get married and have kids, so I'm less fussed about having relationships now. I'm too used to my own company these days anyway. I've even had a couple of instances where I've dated someone for a short while, and ended it because I would rather carry on punting, so it looks like I'm completely institutionalised by the world of punting.

That said, I was close to giving it up recently, with the quality drying up in my area recently, but sugar dating has given my punting a new lease of life and added another bit of intrigue and excitement to things.

Offline sim0256

Interesting reading these posts, I could say that there is a  little in each post that applies to me and possibly to many of us . Very few started punting for one reason only. My reason was the  thought of never having proper sex again but also wanted the thrill of a new woman with me who I knew I was going to fuck on first meeting.

I didn't punt prior to marriage ,in fact I was in my 60's before starting . Sex at home was a distant memory , we just grew out of it  after many years .  I became  very ill and totally incapable with no guarantee of the ability ever returning . During this  time  my OH had a long ,long menopause and completely lost any remaining urge to ever have sex again .  Of course I got the ability back. thankfully and thought about escorts for far too long before taking the plunge . I was lucky the first one a was a gem who I visited a number of times and she told me of a friend , also a SP , who she thought I would like, so off I went . This one was Gods gift and became and still is my regular go to.
She in turn introduced me to several of her mates and between these and many ones I found myself I have been having a great time. I regret not doing it sooner so have lost time to make up for.

What makes it so good ? probably that you pay your way and can choose what you want.  Something young and small and blonde today, let's see what we can turn up.!! when i started I thought go young but soon learned that the older escort can be better thru having more experience. So if you have preferences don't always limit yourself . try new things you are paying so you get to choose.  will I give it up only when I have to but many SP's seem happy to work with older guys and often ask a bit about your history etc. and are content to work within any limitations you might have, Only one pop etc.
I have heard from several, and have been surprised , about how many young single guys who use SP's. I would never have considered it in my 20/30's and this promiscuous society today make it even more surprising. Who am I to judge .  Only advice to anyone - if you like her and what she does _ at least treat her with respect.  I feel you get it returned and more..
« Last Edit: August 15, 2022, 11:48:39 pm by sim0256 »

Offline Atrueyorkie

Hmm interesting thread. I’ll try and compress mine as much as possible.

So probably i’m one of the younger punters  from what I see I’m the descriptions and ages in previous posts. I had a interesting entry to punting.

The dating apps were all trash, don’t get me wrong there was some hot women and I have memories that could reel off for days but the criteria/ideal preference I have/had none of them would meet. If I knew the punting terminology back then I’d say they were mainly attractive P&D’s  It was pretty easy to fuck/link up but it would become draining to keep up the comms.

I came through knowledge of the site by a random Google search and was skeptical at first, plus with being a guest at the time I had a limit of 10 pages  :D

Fast forwarding the story a bit, I saw a quicker way of essentially bypassing dates etc and getting what I want without feeling like I need to maintain comms. A bee line to nut  :lol:

First visit I had my head on a swivel approaching that door. It was Latina WG, I remember distinctively. After that visit I became hooked. Mainly started the masseuse route but dipped later back into FS.

Only downside is I think I’ve probably only a handful FS providers who’d I’d actually consider attractive personally. On the masseuse side a lot more.

I too was surprised how many younger punters there is. Shocked me the first few times. Probably because of social media/internet it has increased. Remember just being like no way, really. As I saw them clearly exhibiting punter like behaviour  :lol:

So in short I quick way to nut without the constant comms or drama is why I started  :rolleyes:

Offline estats

Good posts.

Taking a long story and making it short and looking back I'd certainly say I have strong autistic traits. This wasn't even a talked about thing when I was growing-up. It isn't to the degree where I'd say it is severe, but it certainly has shaped who I am (good and bad).

So I've always found social situations difficult. But to be honest, this isn't really a problem to me as my interests are also quite narrow and ones where I am just in my own company a lot and enjoy it. Don't get me wrong, I can be quite outgoing, but it's something I often don't want to do in pursuing other interests. I'm sure others would see me as ghosting them or being rude, that's far from what I try and do, but I'm sure I come over like that and it creates problems and obviously in meeting and staying with girlfriends.

Honestly all this has never really bothered me, but I'd say my confidence over the years has been a bit low and my sex drive low as a result as I just couldn't understand what was going on.

A few chance meetings and seeing and hearing different things and by total chance I ended-up in a company that I now know perfectly matched my personality to what they did and they spotted it through how they assessed and had a lot of resources. Quite quickly as I was most comfortable in problem solving and enjoyed creating routines and efficient processes etc for myself, they and then more importantly I actually realised I could be (relatively) successful professionally by doing that for others and just by being myself and enjoying it.

This was pretty much a revelation moment for me, it boosted my confidence a lot and with that came an increased sex drive and more and more disposable income as I kept being promoted and I started punting in my later 20's.

I think as much as punting for someone like me is a god send, that transactional thing of both the client and the escort getting what they want most makes sense and I am comfortable with, i.e I would like x,y,z from this escort and she would like x,y,z from me over this set period I get, This lady would like me to take her maybe x place and do z on some day and maybe I take the wrong flowers or maybe not and then she may text me back, but she may not and all that variables stuff I just cannot understand.

I still don't have a massively high sex drive and I am also still pretty wary of punting as I think my personality and punting could be a pretty toxic combination if I didn't create structures for myself.

I still don't know if I'll ever meet someone I get and they get me, again it has never really bothered me and I don't think it will ever bother me and I will punt as and when while I'm single. How I approach things is I budget every week to punt, but often I'm far too busy to punt or an appointment cannot be scheduled, and then we had covid, etc, but regardless what I budget goes to a punting fund and will be spent on that over the years, maybe more so as my life changes, etc, But if I did meet someone I know I would stop.

I often wonder if I hadn't by chance fallen into the career I did, would I have been struggling a lot more, or actually would I have been forced to be more social. I guess I'll never know, but that is my story.

Offline JonasG

The transactional side of the deed has always been a huge turn on for me too. Everything about it. And it can be quite taboo too. I like heading for a punt, passing people who have no idea what im up to. I love getting in the building or the hotel, passing people who may know what im up to but not caring. I love the wait after the knock, the sound of heels approaching on the other side of the door. When it’s a new girl, love seeing her for the first time and knowing you’re going to be fucking her!!!

The taboo side of it has always been very appealing for me

I love the drive up to the punt! Put some music on, all the anticipation. ❤

Offline lillythesavage

I got into through a job  :D, finding that sex was available any time for a few quid fascinated me and it would not go away.

Back in the day of porn mags, contact mags and ads in the local papers.

My job was to take the delivery from the wholesalers, mark up the paper rounds, and open the shop after putting the magazines onto the shelves, not all of them made it  :D.

Took a while to grow the balls and then got knocked back on my first attempt, the second was an epic fail, but once I succeeded there was no going back.

it has never made me less social ,  and having been married twice for most of my adult life, and more affairs and shorter relationships over the years, cannot say it effected civvy life in anyway. Except when rumbled  :D

It did though, mean I struggle with monogamy, even the fake punter monogamy, and my second marriage probably lasted so long because it was not monogamous and she knew it would not be from the start.

I know men do not like to talk  :D and talking sex with the OH seems to never happen for most, but sex is a very important part of a relationship and you will be surprised where it will take you sometimes, if you actually talk to the person you trust the most about it.

Just accepting a sexless relationship and finding sex elsewhere can be a slippery slope, the OP was given a green light, but needs to sit down and discuss it with her, not brush it aside and carry on, you talk to a life partner on every subject, why not sex or lack of it?

Offline Cheltclient

I love the drive up to the punt! Put some music on, all the anticipation. ❤

I used to be quite nervous before a punt. Like I was up to something really dodgy. Days long gone. I recall a punt, not too long ago, where two girls were working in the flat and me and a guy turned up at the same time. I could tell what he was up to as he loitered outside. I got let in first. Met my girl. Went to use the bathroom and the other girl was waiting in the hallway, scantily clad.
Had a quick wee and as I came out, my girl was waiting in the bedroom doorway with her tits out (as I asked her to take her bra off), the other guy was coming through the door, his girl welcoming him and in her thong. We’re all in the hall, going off to our different rooms to fuck. The other guy looked like the ground would swallow him up, was bright red, and wouldn’t make eye contact. At this stage in my life I didn’t care less. I was there to fuck and happy to be open about it.

Then a few weeks later I booked in and fucked the other girl. Sometimes you got to love punting. I def love the taboo and transactional nature of it. Of course, afterward l often have the Catholic guilt, but the build up and anticipation - fucking love it

Offline oli7474

I used to be quite nervous before a punt. Like I was up to something really dodgy. Days long gone. I recall a punt, not too long ago, where two girls were working in the flat and me and a guy turned up at the same time. I could tell what he was up to as he loitered outside. I got let in first. Met my girl. Went to use the bathroom and the other girl was waiting in the hallway, scantily clad.
Had a quick wee and as I came out, my girl was waiting in the bedroom doorway with her tits out (as I asked her to take her bra off), the other guy was coming through the door, his girl welcoming him and in her thong. We’re all in the hall, going off to our different rooms to fuck. The other guy looked like the ground would swallow him up, was bright red, and wouldn’t make eye contact. At this stage in my life I didn’t care less. I was there to fuck and happy to be open about it.

Then a few weeks later I booked in and fucked the other girl. Sometimes you got to love punting. I def love the taboo and transactional nature of it. Of course, afterward l often have the Catholic guilt, but the build up and anticipation - fucking love it

Agreed, i went to a Chinese brothel a few months back and narrowly missed a guy walking in just after I left. I do like the discreetness and taboo of doing it. One place i went to was right above a shop which was open and was rather thrilling.

Offline Cheltclient

Agreed, i went to a Chinese brothel a few months back and narrowly missed a guy walking in just after I left. I do like the discreetness and taboo of doing it. One place i went to was right above a shop which was open and was rather thrilling.

We’re on the same page. I get it though, where some guys really need to be discreet. But I quite like being quite brazen.

I’ve always quite liked the idea - and this is a fantasy of mine - of booking two really hot escorts for an overnight. Going for dinner, getting them to wear really short and revealing dresses,  and asking them to be quite touchy/feely. (Not so you get chucked out of course). Then onto a club where I’d hope they get into kissing with me and each other. To build up the anticipation. At my age I have no doubt anyone who saw it would guess I was paying them for their time but I wouldn’t give a shit. Then of course back to a hotel for a night of threesome sex.

The reality. I’d never afford it and probably couldn’t find escorts who would be so brazen. But a nice thought :)

Offline king tarzan

That’s a question that’s going to be answered with all kinds of replies.
I’ve just punted all my life, end of.

I did know someone (sadly now no more) who was in a similar position to the OP.
As long as he was discreet, could afford it and most importantly, not seek to have an affair (a mistress) His wife would accept it.
That was the theory and it did work for quite a while until the inevitable female logic reared up and it went tits up.
Hey ho.

The man having an affair is acceptable, need different flavours here and there..
Woman having an affair no way acceptable, as she's lady of the honourable household and raise the children to be very decent..
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Offline lillythesavage

We’re on the same page. I get it though, where some guys really need to be discreet. But I quite like being quite brazen.

I’ve always quite liked the idea - and this is a fantasy of mine - of booking two really hot escorts for an overnight. Going for dinner, getting them to wear really short and revealing dresses,  and asking them to be quite touchy/feely. (Not so you get chucked out of course). Then onto a club where I’d hope they get into kissing with me and each other. To build up the anticipation. At my age I have no doubt anyone who saw it would guess I was paying them for their time but I wouldn’t give a shit. Then of course back to a hotel for a night of threesome sex.

The reality. I’d never afford it and probably couldn’t find escorts who would be so brazen. But a nice thought :)


Have done this with the wife and a friend, only difference was home instead of hotel, and I was not paying by the hour  :lol:

And it was in a small Irish town, the band and DJ were friends of ours, and probably knew most in there who were not tourists.

That kind of brazen  :lol:
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Offline tp69

The man having an affair is acceptable, need different flavours here and there..
Woman having an affair no way acceptable, as she's lady of the honourable household and raise the children to be very decent..

 :wackogirl:   :wacko:   :crazy:

Offline Cheltclient


Have done this with the wife and a friend, only difference was home instead of hotel, and I was not paying by the hour  :lol:

And it was in a small Irish town, the band and DJ were friends of ours, and probably knew most in there who were not tourists.

That kind of brazen  :lol:

Oh that is the very definition of brazen!!! Love it. Lucky bastard!

Offline versace


Have done this with the wife and a friend, only difference was home instead of hotel, and I was not paying by the hour  :lol:

And it was in a small Irish town, the band and DJ were friends of ours, and probably knew most in there who were not tourists.

That kind of brazen  :lol:

I used to live in Ireland. Just curious, What town was it?

Offline JontyR

I used to live in Ireland. Just curious, What town was it?

I used to work in a bank. Just curious. What's your sort code and account number?

Offline versace

I used to work in a bank. Just curious. What's your sort code and account number?

 :lol:

Not even remotely the same thing.

Offline hairdownthere

I was in my mid 20's when I started punting.  Street girls in Glasgow in the mid-90's, Anderson area, the thrill of a knee-trembler down a basement stairway whilst folk where milling about above was amazing.  I graduated onto girls in the Glasgow Green area when I got a car, at the time I stayed very local to there so I just took them back to mine.  Plenty great experiences.

I then got married and only punted a few times, street girls again, plus one in Amsterdam.  When I got divorced I tried dating civvies but the pish and hassle made me turn to punting again, by this time Adultwork was about (late 2000's) and I was getting girls to come to my home.  I then somehow got into another relationship and the punting stopped.

When that failed after a couple of years again I tried the dating scene but by then it seemed men couldn't even look at a woman without being called a dirty bastard so back to Adultwork I went.

I dont punt very often now, and I have a 'type' - older and curvy, or black/foreign (no EE's though).  Sometimes though, I just prefer a good wank

Offline lillythesavage

I used to live in Ireland. Just curious, What town was it?


A nice one  :lol:

Offline lillythesavage

I used to work in a bank. Just curious. What's your sort code and account number?

Brilliant  :D

Offline mikef2008

I was fascinated by the soho walk-ups when I moved to London for uni and one day took the plunge. What's definitely kept me going has been the transactional nature it, theres something so hot about meeting a hot young woman (hopefully!!) for the first time and knowing she's about to let you fuck her the moment you had over the money. That and obviously the variety, the fact we can fuck who we want, within reason and money limits!

Offline oli7474

We’re on the same page. I get it though, where some guys really need to be discreet. But I quite like being quite brazen.

I’ve always quite liked the idea - and this is a fantasy of mine - of booking two really hot escorts for an overnight. Going for dinner, getting them to wear really short and revealing dresses,  and asking them to be quite touchy/feely. (Not so you get chucked out of course). Then onto a club where I’d hope they get into kissing with me and each other. To build up the anticipation. At my age I have no doubt anyone who saw it would guess I was paying them for their time but I wouldn’t give a shit. Then of course back to a hotel for a night of threesome sex.

The reality. I’d never afford it and probably couldn’t find escorts who would be so brazen. But a nice thought :)

Some like dinner dates etc who knows about clubs, but i'm sure there's ones who would be your companion for that.

And yeah, it's just that thing of doing something you shouldn't while being close to people who have no idea. I had that for a bit with massage parlours with the rush of uncertianty on who you will see and whether the guy in the booth next door is coming for a legit one or not. I think the next thing for me is attending a party, but sadly the nearest ones to EA seem to be Leicester or London

Offline Jayjay1

Always like a milf and was probably my favourite porn.

Always meet girls around my age until I was in a casino , meet a women late 30s early 40s who lost her job that day and was recently divorced (clearly need satisfying)and we just got chatting and one thing lead to next and I spent the night at hers. Was a crazy night and got hooked on a milf but never meet another one. So decided to punt to satisfy my milf urge, lucky it was a good 1st time punting experience.

Then since then I decided to experience all body types, improve my skills and try out stuff civvies not be comfortable with (anal)

Offline r1buoy

Having got to the second divorce and yet another house gone, fortunately no children.

Didn't want to get involved with anyone again until I had got finances stable, first punt was in 2010have a couple of regulars who no longer advertise and see others when time allows.

I won't be buying anyone else a house!!!!

Offline Cheltclient

Some like dinner dates etc who knows about clubs, but i'm sure there's ones who would be your companion for that.

And yeah, it's just that thing of doing something you shouldn't while being close to people who have no idea. I had that for a bit with massage parlours with the rush of uncertianty on who you will see and whether the guy in the booth next door is coming for a legit one or not. I think the next thing for me is attending a party, but sadly the nearest ones to EA seem to be Leicester or London

Yeah it is a turn on.

On one of my recent reviews, the SP was sharing the room with a TS escort. When I turned up, the TS was with a punter and we had to wait. My girl started the booking in the living area next to the bedroom. Kissing, oral, and we both ended up naked and fucking. All whilst waiting for the room to be available. The TS knocked on the door, her chap had gone and then we gathered the clothes and off to the bedroom to continue. That was enjoyable

Offline king tarzan

Having got to the second divorce and yet another house gone, fortunately no children.

Didn't want to get involved with anyone again until I had got finances stable, first punt was in 2010have a couple of regulars who no longer advertise and see others when time allows.

I won't be buying anyone else a house!!!!

Cheaper and easier and far far less stressful to punt fuck enjoy move on..

Simpletto signor 🙌🙌🙌
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Offline bigbird

A number of years ago i had a serious medical condition that could have ended in my death, my wife was a non supportive miserable cow and so i decided if i was going, i was going with a bang.
Like Jelly babies i wanted to try one of every colour, race and in every different way. So many pretty girls of different races and nationalities out there.
I left the wife and got divorced and punting stopped me getting into trouble for a shag, not getting into a relationship or even bothering talking to women I was not really interested in in the first place. In my younger years when i was single i was always looking for a new bird because i needed to empty my balls. Knowing i can plough a sexy lass for about the same as taking a bird out for meal meant i never bothered chatting up birds for the sake of it.

Offline oli7474

Yeah it is a turn on.

On one of my recent reviews, the SP was sharing the room with a TS escort. When I turned up, the TS was with a punter and we had to wait. My girl started the booking in the living area next to the bedroom. Kissing, oral, and we both ended up naked and fucking. All whilst waiting for the room to be available. The TS knocked on the door, her chap had gone and then we gathered the clothes and off to the bedroom to continue. That was enjoyable

Wow that's a great story! In one of mine i had to creep around a terraced house with creaky floorboards to not alert the neighbours lol. I found it funy but both the SPs in the house were super serious about it lol