Surrey Kitty - Haslemere

[I want Candy]

Thought it was worth telling this one how it is. It includes lessons for me.
If you've read enough you can stop here with a basic NO SHOW. But it's deeper than that.
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A former escort with videos on her profile of dildos and anal action that now only offers sensual massage with minimal touching.
I saw nothing wrong with that change of direction at all and fancied the service so got into comms about a visit.
Time was offered to me and I accepted that time.
Haslemere is 40 miles from where I live but I had to almost pass the area on other business so fortunately all was not lost as I had to make a trip regardless.

On my acceptance I started the message with (can't remember exact words)....
I'm perfectly happy with your service limits but as a former escort I thought I would ask for a background fantasy that you normally only offer straight service but we knew each other prior to my appointment and on seeing me at the door memories flooded back and I got the HE because of previous encounters.

After a fair amount of time without reply and me in her neck of the woods..."No sorry I don't do role play"
Thats fine by me as I said in the confirmation time message. So is time still good for you?.....NO REPLY and message unread.
So I hang around ever the optimist with 20 plus minutes ahead of schedule in the approximate location and send another message to say hope my alternative idea wasn't offensive (she was an escort FFS!!!) and hopefully you will read these 2 messages in time....NO REPLY 20 mins past agreed time so I trundled home.
Checked AW and saw she read emails 1 hr after the appointment and still no reply of explanation.

And it's only that total lack of disregard in the comms EVEN if my hopeful suggestion was not welcome that has made me post the negativity.
I think we are clearly paying too much for them to be bothered about an ounce of courtesy.
A few words would have gone a long way for good impression even if she said, sorry your suggestion put me off and I won't see you now.

Annoyed!!!!

[RH22]

Thanks for this review. I have attempted to arrange things with her recently but her comms aren't great. She's really tempting but it's such a bloody long way for me that I'm not going to risk the time and expense for someone potentially risky of playing silly buggers.

[Cee92]

I think this is your bad rather than hers. You obviously put her off with your bizarre role play suggestion despite the fact that you knew you were going for an erotic massage and there is no mention of role play being offered in her services. You mention that she used to be an escort as if that somehow excuses your behaviour, to which i would implore you keep in mind that despite the profession (or in this case ex profession) of choice, these women are still human beings and should be treated as such. In future, if the SP doesn't offer a service you are looking for, don't attempt to push it as you have so blatantly done here. Instead, simply look elsewhere. I don't mean to be so critical of you but stuff like this really gives punters a bad rap.

[Opollici]

I only discovered that Surrey Kitty was my nearest outcall escort about a two years ago when I forgot to tick the 'in calls' box when searching for local escorts. She only offered massage as an in call and not a full service. The 'It's my job' comment on her profile suggests that she does legitimate massage work. I looked earlier this year with the idea of getting her to come over as my first in call (I like skinny women) only to find that she had stopped this line of business.

Someone may be able to tell us what her actual set up is, but I suspect that your role play message could have really spooked her if she shares her workplace facilitates with other legitimate therapists. Or if she uses her own home, may be worried about neighbours.

Otto