As a Senior Citizen or O.A.P. (Old Aged Punter
) I prefer longer bookings these days, as it takes me, and little Sir John Thomas, longer to "get going"
I find a minimum of an hour, preferably 90 minutes, is best for me, even for a first meeting.
Progressively longer bookings with girls who "float my boat", can eventually lead to overnights with the right ones, and even longer appointments, such as 48 hours, if she's good company, intelligent and can hold a good conversation (British born and bred have a distinct advantage here, although this does not exclude others, as I am not in the least bit Nationalist or Racist
) and I have found that such arrangements work well for and "Oldie" such as me
However, there is no way I would consider a booking of more than 90 minutes, and certainly not an overnight, with a girl I had not met before and taken a liking to.