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Offline def456

A letter in The Spectator, reproduced in The Week.

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Oh dear - I thought I had attached a .pdf of the letter and I can't see how to delete the original post.   :dash:

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This is the text of the letter:

The "happy hooker" myth
To The Spectator

I've spent years investigating prostitution. I've conducted interviews in more than 40 countries and interviewed hundreds of survivors of the sex trade, and almost all of them have told me the same story: don't believe the "happy hooker" myth, as perpetuated by Lloyd Evans. The truth is that men who visit brothels don't want to get a real date. And women in prostitution absolutely despise the punters.

Most women in the sex trade are particularly vulnerable to being trafficked. Often these women will tell punters they aren't being exploited because it feeds into the fantasy that they are willing participants. The women scrub themselves raw when they go home. A number have told me that they don't even want to kiss their children good night. Women in prostitution often dissociate. to avoid confronting their hideous reality.

It's lovely isn't it, being able to have sex when the woman doesn't want to?'We often call that rape of course, but the cash seems to sanitise this transaction legally and morally for these men. Prostitution is not a public service to be cheerfully reviewed; it is, always and everywhere, a human-rights violation against women and girls.

To confess to having visited a brothel doesn't make you bold or brave. It makes you a sad, disgusting piece of work.

(authors name stated)


I do not know the context - for example, is this part of a series of exchanges in The Spectator or is it a one-off to spark a debate.


Offline MissWolf

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I absolutely fucking dispise shit like this, how dare jumped up little idiots like this with an agenda dare to speak for every prostitute  :mad:
I am not trafficked or coerced,
I choose to do this because I want to,
I really like the majority of my clients and those I don't like I chose not to see again.
I do not scrub myself raw every night
Nor do I disassociate

Yes there are all of the things going on in prostitution that the letter talks about but there are also a lot of very 'Happy hookers' in this industry,  of which I am one.

To call it rape in every case and to label every punter a rapist is imo disingenuous and dangerous

Offline PilotMan

Sounds like it was written by a misandrist.

Offline PMAC123

Straight up garbage.

There is brothels run by pimps, and street walkers run by pimps, and trafficked escorts, that absolutely match this letter.

But for independent women working for themselves with no pimp (which 99% of this site is about), this couldn't be further from the truth.
« Last Edit: May 08, 2024, 11:06:44 am by PMAC123 »

Offline PilotMan

I absolutely fucking dispise shit like this, how dare jumped up little idiots like this with an agenda dare to speak for every prostitute  :mad:

I'm not surprised, it paints you (and any SP) to be a victim, when I would surmise from your contributions on here, that's exactly the opposite.

By your own account, you are working of your own free will and choosing and not from a place of desperation or hopelessness, but from a place of personal and professional choice, for whatever reasons and motivations you have.

In fact, one could argue that many housewives are bound financially by their working husbands, and they could therefore be in a financially controlled situation as described in the letter.