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FredMcBobson

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Just curious really, how many people on here either punt with their partners knowledge / consent, or punt WITH them (as a couple) ?

I am guessing the number will be fairly low given how many threads and comments there are about hiding our little hobby.

For those that do, did you suggest it or did they?  How was it taken initially etc.

FredMcBobson

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Surprised no-one has responded to this.  Given that a huge number of WGs (mostly the BI ones) list "couples" in their profiles, I would have expected at least a couple of people on here to have taken part.

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

I have to say I'm not surprised at the lack of response at all lol. Maybe I'm projecting my own opinions on to this but I'd guess 99% of punters see this as a very solitary pursuit, and would be pretty mortified if their friends/casual acquaintances knew about it, let alone their missus.

I suspect most people who want to branch out as a couple do so as swingers, rather than seeing WGs.

'Hey hun, I think we're both agreed we really want to shag other people ... swing for free or pay someone £120 an hour to pretend to be up for it, what do you think!?!?'

Offline Richthescouser

I have to say I'm not surprised at the lack of response at all lol. Maybe I'm projecting my own opinions on to this but I'd guess 99% of punters see this as a very solitary pursuit, and would be pretty mortified if their friends/casual acquaintances knew about it, let alone their missus.

I suspect most people who want to branch out as a couple do so as swingers, rather than seeing WGs.

'Hey hun, I think we're both agreed we really want to shag other people ... swing for free or pay someone £120 an hour to pretend to be up for it, what do you think!?!?'

Why would I swing (which comes with a seriously limited pool of ladies who want to meet me and my female partner) when I can spend a relatively small amount of money and get to fuck a stunned, and then watch my partner fuck the same girl?  I get to pick exactly who we meet, no compromising on looks or similar, and keeping it as a transaction with money involved helps ensure that everyone knows it's just good fun, no feelings are involved :-)

Offline Jeff_withpetersen

Fine man, all power to you. As I conceded, I'm partly projecting my own situation on to this - I can assure you there's no chance that me saying to my missus 'shall we see a working girl together' would end in a 3some. Divorce, maybe, but not a 3some.

And I know from my experience of seeing swinging ladies on my own that there are plenty of hot women that are part of verified swinging couples. But yeah, if you have a woman who is happy to indulge in 3somes with hot WGs, awesome!  :cool:

Offline Richthescouser

Fine man, all power to you. As I conceded, I'm partly projecting my own situation on to this - I can assure you there's no chance that me saying to my missus 'shall we see a working girl together' would end in a 3some. Divorce, maybe, but not a 3some.

And I know from my experience of seeing swinging ladies on my own that there are plenty of hot women that are part of verified swinging couples. But yeah, if you have a woman who is happy to indulge in 3somes with hot WGs, awesome!  :cool:
The other issue is that I have no interest at all in there being another man involved - it just doesn't do anything for me.  So we need ladies who are happy to see a MF couple, and both of us  have a particular type that we've struggled to find on shining websites.  Young, pert and dirty as fuck - easy enough to find on AW, not so much swinging in our experience ;-)

It was the wife idea to give it a whirl, she thought she was bi and wanted to check.  Who was I to say no?  Now I do some meets with her, and some without her (but with her full knowledge) because she likes to hear what I got up to and who with.  It makes life a lot easier not having to have a cover story when I go out shagging, no worries about having to get cash without it showing on the joint account :-)

Offline Honolulu

I think it's wonderful Richthescouser has such a great partner.  Allowing to be meet SPs and return home to replay the visit. Open relationships are great when both partners get equal sex outside of the relationship.


Offline bbwandy72

I don't punt with my other half, but I do punt with her knowledge and consent. I initially suggested it, because of one of my fantasy porn stars being in town. Life is for living and all that. She thought about it for a minute or so before agreeing and saying she thought I should go for it. We're both pretty open with each other, so I suspected she would be OK with it. Had she not been, I would have accepted her wishes.

Offline joe diddley

My partner has suggested on a few occasions that we might at some point engage a WG to come and participate in a threesome. Have thought about it but the odd threesome and parties I've been to (without her) have convinced me that I'm more a one-to-one man. That said I always make (genuinely) appreciative noises when she mentions this as a possibility, particularly as I know she probably expects me to be proactive in organising such a thing.
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Offline Richthescouser

My partner has suggested on a few occasions that we might at some point engage a WG to come and participate in a threesome. Have thought about it but the odd threesome and parties I've been to (without her) have convinced me that I'm more a one-to-one man. That said I always make (genuinely) appreciative noises when she mentions this as a possibility, particularly as I know she probably expects me to be proactive in organising such a thing.

I've found that I prefer one on one generally. The fun of watching a sexy girl get my wife off is the main appeal of the threesomes. We've done a foursome which was fun but not twice as good, despite it costing twice as much.

Offline joe diddley

I've found that I prefer one on one generally. The fun of watching a sexy girl get my wife off is the main appeal of the threesomes. We've done a foursome which was fun but not twice as good, despite it costing twice as much.

Yes, I see that and my wife is very bi-curious. If I do take up her offer on this, that'd be one aspect that would really tempt me to go through with it. I think my wife also has a fantasy about seeing me get it from another woman with a strap-on, something I'm a little less certain about!

Offline Richthescouser

Yes, I see that and my wife is very bi-curious. If I do take up her offer on this, that'd be one aspect that would really tempt me to go through with it. I think my wife also has a fantasy about seeing me get it from another woman with a strap-on, something I'm a little less certain about!

If you're exploring this with her, then you have to set the ground rules.  My wife is happy enough that I've straight, not at all interested in men sexually and having another man there would ruin my fun.  So we only meet ladies, it's always MFF (or MFFF :-) ).  Yes it might seem like a double standard, but we enjoy what we do and because everyone involved is happy with the arrangement, it stops jealousy.  And has even improved our own "normal" sex life, which was never that bad to start with ;-)

If you're interested in pegging, why not give it a whirl?  Or start smaller, anal toys on you, see if you like it?  I know I don't mind being rimmed, but anything more than that is a turn off for me.

avalon123

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I'm reporting on a punt I had 10 years or so ago, while I was in a relationship. She suggested it as she was genuinely bi but shy and was in a sexual relationship with a lesbian when I met her. We met socially on a few occasions but the other lady was lesbian not bi so a threesome was out of the question and was never raised apart from jokingly. I was not keen at first, probably because it was a new relationship and I had concerns it would damage what was at best a fledgling relationship. But she was keen to give me the 'experience' or as I suspected wanted to experience it for herself. We selecting a WG on AW and plenty of communication to confirm she was bi. It was a failure as the WG was not bi at all and in effect it ended up with me shagging the WG then shagging my partner. Result a big dampener on our relationship that never recovered. Bad luck on our part or is just common that WG's lie about being genuinely bi as part of the sales pitch to us punters. I should have known better but the wrong head was in charge. I got the impression that the WG thought the girl I was bringing with me was a WG and that my partner was a genuine bi took her by surprise. What was interesting was that the lesbian had no issue with us being in a relationship as she was and I quote "in it for the sex" but was upset by what happened.

Lexieloo

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First post so be gentle ;) we have only just started on punting together, I'm bi and husband knew when we met, although the reality of seeing me actively bi surprised him I think! It was a great experience and would definitely do it again, we also tried swinging initially but like rich we found there was a serious lack of unicorns and neither of us have any interest in another man being involved 

avalon123

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How do you make sure the lady is genuinely Bi when making a booking, in my limited experience as my previous post explains it was this that messed things up.

mrhappypants

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Just curious really, how many people on here either punt with their partners knowledge / consent, or punt WITH them (as a couple) ?

Been a member for a year and not one review....I am guessing the only sexual activity you engage in of any sort involves your right hand and a box of Kleenex.

Lexieloo

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How do you make sure the lady is genuinely Bi when making a booking, in my limited experience as my previous post explains it was this that messed things up.

Well I did a reverse booking on AW and was pretty clear in the description. Spoke to SP via email and on the phone prior to make sure. Maybe good luck on our part as well?

Offline The Owl

I have a female friend who booked an escort for a threesome with her husband, she has a very non-standard view on unfaithfulness. She booked an escort because she wanted to try a woman, didn't want her husband to miss out and wanted a woman who wouldn't try to disrupt their marriage. A good time was had by all.

Sadly the husband died a few years back and my mate has turned to swinging as she doesn't think another person could replace him but she still wants a sex life

avalon123

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Hi Lexiloo and the owl

It must be luck or our bad luck after paying £250 for 2 hours the first time (10 plus years ago so not cheap) she claimed on her advert she was "genuinely bi" and would met with women or couples and was fine if the husband just watched. It all sounded fine and she also reassured us via text email and verbally on the phone that she was bi. It was not a complete waste as she was really good and my partner at the time got some good pics and video of both with me which we still have.

We tried again twice but having been burnt the first time just booked 30mins for my partner to test the lady out both time the lady was not bi or maybe we were expecting to much. One even discussed with my partner the specifics of using strap ons, rimming both of us and various positions, but once we got there it was clear as far as the lady was concerned it was a 'show' not the real thing.

While she is my ex partner we still see each other occasionally as friends and sometimes casual sex if she is not in a relationship (usually female lesbians or bi but not interested in me). We have discussed a couple of times having another go as she has had good threesomes with couples. So I am interested in any contacts with ladies who are genuinely bi.

mediumjoe

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 I don't know if it's of any help but on the AW main search page if you tick the female ,escort ,and gay box's    11 only in the whole country but at least  there's a good chance that they are lesbians.

 Just warn you that there are some strange profiles there, one offers companionship and dinner dates - - and no sex! £700 for half an hour and £1500 for an hour  completely and utterly barking,

avalon123

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Thanks I tried it a while ago and got similar results.

Offline jackdaw

How do you make sure the lady is genuinely Bi when making a booking, in my limited experience as my previous post explains it was this that messed things up.

Realistically?

You don't...you can ask questions beforehand, place a well worded reverse bid, pray to Allah...but none of it works.

A significant number of WG's tell you what they think will get them the gig. And because m/f/f punts reviewed here are rare (especially ones where guy is interested in girl on girl action as opposed to having both women concentrate on him) there are no reliable reviews.

avalon123

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Your assessment (Jackdaw) match's my experience. Outside swinging circles I suspect that its rare enough (I never expected it) to met a female partner who is no only bi but interested in threesomes and happy to accept her male partner in a MFF, the chances of finding a genuinely bi service provider I suspect is equally rare. I suspect it would be easier (for me) if I was bi as couple - couple meets seem fairly easy in swinging circles. If the opportunity ever came up again I would probably look for another couple with a straight male and bi female. Being straight how I would feel about another male involved I'm not sure, it would certainly be an experience. Still there is an old expression "never say never" but I'm not going to hold my breath.

Offline Billy no mates

Hi Lexiloo and the owl

It must be luck or our bad luck after paying £250 for 2 hours the first time (10 plus years ago so not cheap) she claimed on her advert she was "genuinely bi" and would met with women or couples and was fine if the husband just watched. It all sounded fine and she also reassured us via text email and verbally on the phone that she was bi. It was not a complete waste as she was really good and my partner at the time got some good pics and video of both with me which we still have.

We tried again twice but having been burnt the first time just booked 30mins for my partner to test the lady out both time the lady was not bi or maybe we were expecting to much. One even discussed with my partner the specifics of using strap ons, rimming both of us and various positions, but once we got there it was clear as far as the lady was concerned it was a 'show' not the real thing.

While she is my ex partner we still see each other occasionally as friends and sometimes casual sex if she is not in a relationship (usually female lesbians or bi but not interested in me). We have discussed a couple of times having another go as she has had good threesomes with couples. So I am interested in any contacts with ladies who are genuinely bi.

We have had some experience up and down the country, and I could probably give you a few names. What area are you looking for?

Offline Billy no mates

there are no reliable reviews.

I have only been here just over a year, but my couple reviews (from that time period) are definitely reliable.

There are more girls we have seen, prior to that and had a mixed bag of excellent, to abysmal. One young agency girl called, if I remember correctly, shanelle, from Manchester, my partner kicked out, and took the money back from, because she wasnt in the least bit 'bi' :D

avalon123

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Hi Billy

If my ex partner is still interested we would be looking for a bi girl slim any nationality that both of us can play and have sex with, if there is any bias in the action then its weighted towards me watching and joining in where invited by my ex who will be in charge or leading everything.

avalon123

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I've read the other thread u (billy) contributed to and have sent a link to my ex, its clear I got it wrong the first time in terms of making her the center of everything still it was 10 years ago maybe she will give me chance. I've sent her a link to roxette hot and your review. I will let u know what if anything happens.

Offline jackdaw

I have only been here just over a year, but my couple reviews (from that time period) are definitely reliable.

There are more girls we have seen, prior to that and had a mixed bag of excellent, to abysmal. One young agency girl called, if I remember correctly, shanelle, from Manchester, my partner kicked out, and took the money back from, because she wasnt in the least bit 'bi' :D

Apologies, lax wording on my part...should have said something like "a much smaller number of reliable reviews than for other types of services...".

i don't know if Nik has seen this thread, but I've got a feeling he covered the subject of M/F/F bookings where F to F action is being sought in his book. Think "verdict" was that it's very difficult to arrange with any confidence.

Offline Laney08

Tried it a few times. Mixed results.

Depends on each couples circumstances imo. I think you've got to be proper secure and upfront and it can't be during an iffy point like within a month or 2 of an argument :D


Offline SJ772

Have done it with the wife on several occasions, initially as she wanted to explore her bi side, which she realised she was far more than just curious, fantastic experiences.   I also punt alone as she get's off on hearing about it afterwards, but I much prefer going with my partner and don't feel at all seedy afterwards like I sometimes do when I go on my own.    Currently planing on adding 2 girls next time we go for MFFF , can't wait.  :yahoo:

Offline Richthescouser

Have done it with the wife on several occasions, initially as she wanted to explore her bi side, which she realised she was far more than just curious, fantastic experiences.   I also punt alone as she get's off on hearing about it afterwards, but I much prefer going with my partner and don't feel at all seedy afterwards like I sometimes do when I go on my own.    Currently planing on adding 2 girls next time we go for MFFF , can't wait.  :yahoo:

I've done the MFFF. It was good fun, but for me (and my wife) a MFF twice as often is much better value for money. Glad to have ticked it off the list mind you :-)

JV547845

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Great to hear these success stories - cheers lads.  How did you all breach the subject with your partners, without letting them catch a hint of your punting history?

Offline Richthescouser

Great to hear these success stories - cheers lads.  How did you all breach the subject with your partners, without letting them catch a hint of your punting history?

I didn't have a punting history.  She'd been nagging me for ages but I kept putting it off because I was wary of the issues it can bring up with a practical perfect wife (very keen on sex, CIM, swallow etc after over 8 years of marriage and about 14 years together - I don't want to spoil that :-) ).  When we did it, it was because she'd been nagging me to take her to a strip club, and I figured I'd rather pay a similar amount to actually have sex.  So we found a genuinely bi girl (we were very lucky, I'll admit) and found that we both loved it.

Offline Billy no mates

Great to hear these success stories - cheers lads.  How did you all breach the subject with your partners, without letting them catch a hint of your punting history?

Similar the previous poster, she mentioned it, a few times, I nurtured the interest and made jokes about it, but didnt activley pursue it. Eventually she said she wanted to try, the rest is history.

Offline threechilliman

Similar the previous poster, she mentioned it, a few times, I nurtured the interest and made jokes about it, but didnt activley pursue it. Eventually she said she wanted to try, the rest is history.

I mentioned it to my Mrs. She said no. :(

tcm

Offline SJ772

I've done the MFFF. It was good fun, but for me (and my wife) a MFF twice as often is much better value for money. Glad to have ticked it off the list mind you :-)

Yeah I think it's one to tick off the bucket list and we will probably draw the same conclusion, but we like the idea of being able to have a girl each, then swap girls etc then all getting back together.    We are a lucky few on hear I think.

Offline SJ772

Great to hear these success stories - cheers lads.  How did you all breach the subject with your partners, without letting them catch a hint of your punting history?

Same as Rich, no history, first punt was with the Mrs, scared as hell and had agreed either could back out at any time before and during.  Fortunately didn't take long for her to realise she really did like girls too, and not just in porn/fantasy but real life too.  I guess we were luck to find a genuinely bi escort or could have gone very different.

Offline Richthescouser

Yeah I think it's one to tick off the bucket list and we will probably draw the same conclusion, but we like the idea of being able to have a girl each, then swap girls etc then all getting back together.    We are a lucky few on hear I think.

The highlight of my punting career has got to be having one fit as fuck 20 year old bouncing on my cock, another stunner sat on my face, having them kiss each other while the wife plays with herself watching. 

When you put it like that, you realise how lucky you can be :-)