When sex with prossie doesn't satisfy anymore...

[Type_O_Negative]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

[marty_mcfly]

I wish you all the best in your new job. Maybe a new job and a short break from punting will help your mood.

[BeesKnees]

I reckon changing the job might have some play on your libido. It's a daunting process/event but once you're in your stride at the new place, I'm sure you'll be punting again.

But if you think deep down you're tired of the gfe and want a genuine gfe, then I hope it goes well finding a girl mate. Maybe you'll see some hotties at your new place?

[SirFrank]

I changed jobs last year as i was bored and needed a new challenge etc. a bit strange for a few weeks - change is strange and all that but it did me the world of good. I'd also suggest you reframe from punting for a while. Sounds like you need to think about what you want out of life at the moment. Try not to sweat it though

[Type_O_Negative]

It was nice to work there a few months ago. But our new manager - fuck me, she runs this place like prison camp. I wake up in the morning and my stomach is upset because i'm stressed. Because i know there will be another daily row at work. And this money i get is not worth this hassle and aggravation. I have very short fuse and i would quickly tell her to fuck off - but we know what it means - instant dismissal. That's why i decided to change my job. I have only 2 shifts to do in that shithole.

It will take some time to see another change in me. I hope my new job will put me on the track - again. And sex will prossies will be exciting - like it was months ago.

[Cuntminion]

Hope you feel better dude

I find my visits make the rest of life and its monotonous patterns bearable

[Bigus Dickus]

It was nice to work there a few months ago. But our new manager - fuck me, she runs this place like prison camp. I wake up in the morning and my stomach is upset because i'm stressed. Because i know there will be another daily row at work. And this money i get is not worth this hassle and aggravation. I have very short fuse and i would quickly tell her to fuck off - but we know what it means - instant dismissal. That's why i decided to change my job. I have only 2 shifts to do in that shithole.

It will take some time to see another change in me. I hope my new job will put me on the track - again. And sex will prossies will be exciting - like it was months ago.

Sometimes it's good to re-boot your life, whether it's punting or work! I think there's always something new and fresh to be found! You just need to get dig yourself out of a rut every so often!

I am sure you'll be back when you've had some time out! I know I did and it's getting to the point again when I'll shelf my 'hobby'

Good luck! 

[aerofan5]

Good luck with regard to a regular relationship, if everything clicks it's great.

Just one thing - if she doesn't swallow, she doesn't love you!!

[Pdubz]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

+1
Need to get back into the dating life
Meaningless sex was fun most of the time but at the end of the day im out of pocket with nothing to show for it....il see how i feel next week

[Bigus Dickus]

At least with escorts you know what is on the table! Relationships then it's crazy mind games!

Relationships cost too! I lost a house and lots of pride over my last one!

With the girls we meet on here, it's only cash!

Life's never greener on the other side of the fence!

[Turtle Z]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

It sounds to me like your unrest is more deeply seated. You've got to sort your work life balance out though. You spend far too much time there to be unhappy. I went through a series of jobs before realising that I wasn't meant to work for anyone else and I'm very happy running my own business now. No more arsehole bosses to deal with and I can cope with the occasional arsehole client.

[Pdubz]

Each to their own, im 24 and in hindsight shouldnt be really seeing escorts (only started after 2 year relationship ended, looking for guilt free sex)..brilliant most of the times and ticked pretty much all my bucket list.

Its been 2 days since my last punt and instead of planning my next one for the next week, just went on xvideo/porn hub for a wank and all feeling for it is lost thus saving me £100-£150.
 
yes porn is no subsitute for a wg but in the long run can save you £££ esp if your young like me and have a life to think about.

[SamLP]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

I can relate. Been feeling pretty much the same way for a while. Nearly took a hiatus last month but it lasted less than a week, but still seriously contemplating it. Steering clear of UKP would help as reading reviews only helps build the HL 

I started punting when I went 6 months without sex after my last relationship ended. Kinda miss being in one atm but happy I discovered punting as I got to sample lots of different girls. It's got to the stage though where as you said it's no longer satisfying.

[hendrix]

Good luck with the new job  hopefully it's less stressful and once you've settled in you may feel like punting again. A break from punting when it stops being fun (as it was for me a while back and getting that way again) is always a good idea.

[Trevor12]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit?

I do think there's a limit to what you can get from just prossies, and for me (and by the sounds of it you too) it's not enough. I was single when I started punting (also why I turned to punting), but somehow, I'm not single anymore. I had similar thoughts to you not so long ago, mixed with guilt, and decided on a break (actually at the time, I decided to quit).

I do agree that a break is the best thing to do. It'll help you re-evaluate punting and other things.

[Punting Valley]

I agree with others, a break is good as moderation applies for everything.  Though sometimes when I am especially stressed i find a punt is a good stress relief.

[Turtle Z]

I agree with others, a break is good as moderation applies for everything.  Though sometimes when I am especially stressed i find a punt is a good stress relief.

Yes but I think theres a danger of using punting as a band aid for more deeply rooted problems and if that is the case then ultimately it will leave the OP feeling a little hollow.

[tonysoprano]

I'm having a bit of a break at the moment as well. It's partly because I've had other things to do in life and work has been crazy but also the quality of WG's in my area has plummeted in the last year or so. I know i'll probably get back into it in a while but right now I just can't be bothered.

One thing I don't want to do is punt just for the sake of it. I'd rather have a wank than spend money on bad sex with girls I don't fancy.

Also it seems to be getting harder to find girls that will happily do CIM or facials, 2 services that i enjoy and I don't like to punt with girls who act like they're going to die if you bust your nut on their face!

[smiths]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

You might just need a break from punting as I did for 6 months in autumn 2010, I wasnt enjoying punting anymore then, it was a matter of routine which is a terrible reason to punt.

[yorkshire123]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

Similar situation ref punting with the exception of feeling sad, I just didn't get the usual thrill & it became very mechanical almost a twice a week habit.
I haven't punted for 6 months & have no real desire to do so but never say never.

[Dogfather]

I'm having a bit of a break at the moment as well. It's partly because I've had other things to do in life and work has been crazy but also the quality of WG's in my area has plummeted in the last year or so. I know i'll probably get back into it in a while but right now I just can't be bothered.

One thing I don't want to do is punt just for the sake of it. I'd rather have a wank than spend money on bad sex with girls I don't fancy.

Also it seems to be getting harder to find girls that will happily do CIM or facials, 2 services that i enjoy and I don't like to punt with girls who act like they're going to die if you bust your nut on their face!

Amen to that.
Re-evaluate that hotlist often. "Do I really want to fuck her or not?".

[smiths]

At least with escorts you know what is on the table! Relationships then it's crazy mind games!

Relationships cost too! I lost a house and lots of pride over my last one!

With the girls we meet on here, it's only cash!

Life's never greener on the other side of the fence!

Depends how you look at it of course. I punt for the sex but just sex doesn't fulfil me, I also want and desire to love and be loved so the risk of the downsides of relationships are worth that risk to me but I also want variety so wouldn't stop punting which being selfish is ldeal.

[Pdubz]

Yup couldnt agree more, a break helps you think straight!

screw next week, il see how i feel after 2 months!

[Malvolio]

If it's not satisfying you, give it a rest for a couple of months.  You'll probably find two months of wanking satisfies you even less.

[bod666]

I've been feeling like I want to take a break too. I've been punting too much - sometimes twice a week and while for the most part I've enjoyed each punt they rarely leave me feeling high any more.

Like the op I'm beginning to crave the companionship more than the sex. I had a random dinner date with one of my regulars a few months back - she came to my apartment and hung out with me for a couple of hours, we ate, and talked and had a laugh. Clothes stayed on the whole time so no sex at all. At the end she left and didn't want any money from me (which is unheard of from a wg). I've been craving a repeat experience ever since but unfortunately that girl went back to her home country and hasn't returned. I know I'm never going to experience that again unless I go on real dates.

I basically need to stop punting and sort my life out 

[Marmite]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore.

If you are not enjoying yourself it is not just a waste of money, it is a waste of time.

Money can often be earned again but once time has been wasted it has gone for ever.

[Aspen]

If you are not enjoying yourself it is not just a waste of money, it is a waste of time.

Money can often be earned again but once time has been wasted it has gone for ever.

I don't think it's ever particularly fulfilling. It's taken me a long while to realise that. A large proportion of the posts on this forum illustrate the point all too clearly though.

[monstar]

I can relate. Been feeling pretty much the same way for a while. Nearly took a hiatus last month but it lasted less than a week, but still seriously contemplating it. Steering clear of UKP would help as reading reviews only helps build the HL 

I started punting when I went 6 months without sex after my last relationship ended. Kinda miss being in one atm but happy I discovered punting as I got to sample lots of different girls. It's got to the stage though where as you said it's no longer satisfying.

Similar story for me. I also relate to Punting Valley, I find a positive punt an effective stress relief but not recently.

I'm single so there isn't any guilt from punting. I enjoy my 'secret life' but the pre and post punt thrill has declined.

Instead of continuing or visiting more girls and punting more frequently, I'm taking a break to think about my life and how I feel after the break. The savings will go towards my planned holiday fund which is a bonus!   

monstar

[anyfucker]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

take a break from punting and ukp so you only have the stress of the new job, after a while you will then know whether ro not you want to get back into punting.
In the meantime use the money you save wisely.

[greychap]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.
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If it does not satisfy anymore then save your money and put it to better use.

Maybe it is time for you to have a proper relationship outside of this especially if you could do with a cuddle.

Punting can be good sometimes but it certainly wont give you what you want from a loving relationship.

[OakTree]

I don't think I've ever gained full satisfaction fucking prostitutes but on the other hand I've never felt guilty or revulsion with myself. I have a high sex drive and this goes a part way of satisfying that need. I imagine that I'm not alone in thinking that one day I'm going to find the ultimate punt and that probably goes a long way as to why I pay for sex.

 I've have found of late that I seem far more interested in the attitude and apparent desire of the WG to have me fuck her than certain services that I would have expected as mandatory. Basically I want the illusion of true lustful sex as apposed to pornstar like fucking.

If the girl can act that out for the hour I do come away perhaps not totally satisfied but certainly a tad chipper.

[bod666]

Agree with fraserlad - I've had a couple of meets with a girl that let me shag her arse, cum on her face and in her mouth - full on filth! But she didn't really express much enjoyment during it all (can't imagine why  ) However it was no where near as satisfying as punts I've had with another girl who seemed much more into the sex and gave a much more sweet vanilla gfe.

Enthusiasm and friendliness go a long way to making a punt memorable and enjoyable.

[Turtle Z]

Agree with fraserlad - I've had a couple of meets with a girl that let me shag her arse, cum on her face and in her mouth - full on filth! But she didn't really express much enjoyment during it all (can't imagine why  ) However it was no where near as satisfying as punts I've had with another girl who seemed much more into the sex and gave a much more sweet vanilla gfe.

Enthusiasm and friendliness go a long way to making a punt memorable and enjoyable.

Spot on Bod. My experience exactly which is why I'm not that prescriptive above services and what they wear etc these days. Great sex is great sex and when you meet the right girl the service 'menu' becomes immaterial.

[jamesian]

I used to punt regularly when younger.
Now I'm older (over 50) I much prefer Massage with (sometimes without ) Hand Job.
Search "FBSM".

[bod666]

I like to mix it up with the occasional massage. It's not as good as sex but it's good to have the more passive experience every so often.

[closeshave]

Go get yourself a Domme and that'll mix it up fur you

[jaltec]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

good luck just don't use plenty of fish . the women there are total ball busters

[firth]

I noticed a big change in me. Sex with prossie doesn't satisfy me anymore. I come back home after punt and i'm sad, my morale is very low...maybe it's time to quit? I think i do need a GF and proper relationship. Somebody who would give me a cuddle at home - after another shitty day at work...

Or maybe this shitty job i have is wearing me out, making me feeling so low? My last day at my current work is this thursday. I will start new job on next monday. I will see how things will be. I hope my morale will boost.

Do you work for Maccy Deeeeeeeeeessss?

[Sonny Crockett]

I wish all the best in your new job!!!!!! It does take a lot to give up punting and focus on other things!!!!!

If I ever had to stop punting, I don't know what I'd do, as a gaping void would be left in my life!!!!! All of a sudden an emptiness would hit me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Type_O_Negative]

Thank you all for support. Yesterday at work a few girls gave my "Good Bye" cards with cheek kisses and cuddles. They told me they are upset because such a nice guy and sex symbol like me is leaving (i'm working in female dominated business so every man on the block is a sex symbol there ). It was very nice of them. I said it's a part of every business - people come and go. Life goes on...

My morale is much better now. Can't wait to start new job on monday...

[Pdubz]

Question is typeo have you punted recently?

[Type_O_Negative]

Question is typeo have you punted recently?

No, i haven't. I'm still on no man's land. But feeling much better. I do hope this new job will put me on the track.

[willmo1]

Never has don it for me. Cant beat the real thing and shagging a wg wont ever give you that.

[PLeisure]

Thank you all for support. Yesterday at work a few girls gave my "Good Bye" cards with cheek kisses and cuddles. They told me they are upset because such a nice guy and sex symbol like me is leaving (i'm working in female dominated business so every man on the block is a sex symbol there ). It was very nice of them. I said it's a part of every business - people come and go. Life goes on...

My morale is much better now. Can't wait to start new job on monday...

     

[royal_male]

I basically need to stop punting and sort my life out 

Just like op and others whore share the same feeling. Im starting to see the ammount of money it can save me when i havent punted for like 6 months.

Im thinking of a relationship as well, need to sort out my life.

[Huckleberry]

Type-O 
My best wishes with your new job.
I'd also recommend joining a gym for twice weekly sessions to build up your good energy and balance your hormonal system.
You might even meet someone nice at them gym !
I think changing jobs will bring a whole new dimension in your persona and importantly sleeping well.
Good luck.
H

[Loveit]

Just like op and others whore share the same feeling. Im starting to see the ammount of money it can save me when i havent punted for like 6 months.

Im thinking of a relationship as well, need to sort out my life.

And meeting a civi, wining dining and present buying so you can get in her knickers is completely free

[Type_O_Negative]

A quick update - so I'm working in new place, first shift. First impressions are good. Some nurses are real stunners. Nice boost for my morale! 

[Cuntminion]

A quick update - so I'm working in new place, first shift. First impressions are good. Some nurses are real stunners. Nice boost for my morale! 

 

Keep the good vibes going do something nice when you finish work, grab a beer or something

[Type_O_Negative]

Keep the good vibes going do something nice when you finish work, grab a beer or something

Yes, I'm going to! Financial side is better - 3 shifts will get me more money than 5 shifts in my previous job