Its always going to happen.
You either get bumped as the punter before you has extended or you have zero feedback and they would rather have a sure thing than have their time wasted.
If you want better success say to them during the normal message that you were reccomended her by one of her regulars. Its sure to help.
I cant recall a meet in the last 6 months where a girls phone (if visible) hasnt vibrated, flashed or gone off during the meet. Its fair to say theu receive many calla,emails and texts per hour so they can bump and choose whats better financially for them.
Lastly, they would never turn you down for repeat business if you are clean and respectful.
This applies in any business. If a supplier of mine is low in stock and i need something he will hold it knowing i will either go elsewhere if i cant find it or knows i spend alot.
Its unfair to blame escorts as they know for a fact that we will go elsewhere if they are unavailable.