I wouldn’t haggle, mainly because, even if successful, I’d be concerned that it might sour the relationship and the SP wouldn’t give of her best.
But how about reverse haggling? I like 90 min appointments and I’ve seen an SP a few times recently and when I suggested a 90 min meeting she agreed but said she wouldn’t charge any extra. I said I was quite happy to pay the higher fee, but she insisted on not charging it.
There is another regular SP I’ve seen for many years. I first booked her through an agency (she didn’t use A/W), but after that booked her direct and we ‘negotiated’ and agreed to split the agency’s fee.
That's an interesting one, Murray.
Being the age I am with no ties, I quite often treat myself to a long weekend away somewhere in the British Isles which I've not visited for years and years or have never visited before. When I do this, I like to see if I can arrange a punt with a SP I'll likely never see again. And as is my way on any first visit - home or away, so to speak - I ask for an hour but always carry sufficient cash in my wallet to extend to 90 minutes if the first 45 or so have gone well.
I recall one such appointment several years ago now with a lass who I booked for an hour at 12.00 noon. I was really enjoying myself and it felt like the SP was also. I guess it was her first booking of the day because much of the hour leading up to me knocking on her front door was spent with her giving me little clues to the part of town she worked in without trusting me with the actual address until about 11.50 am.
Sure enough, the first 45 minutes or so of my hour went well so I asked if I could extend to 1 1/2 hours and offered her the £30 difference between her prices for 60 and 90 minutes. She, however, would only treat it as a new booking for 1/2 hour and wanted the £60 for that. When I said I didn't have that much extra cash on me, she wasn't prepared to compromise and the enjoyable time ended fairly abruptly.
I couldn't - after what must be five or six years, I still can't - believe that she'd turn her nose up at an extra £30 when, by being prepared to extend the time, she demonstrated that I wasn't likely to bump into another client on my way out.
Women, eh?