Reasons an SP would know about UKP

[southcoastpunter]

Random question to the forum.

Has anyone had a WG ask them about UKP? If you have how have you responded?

Did you do a search before posting the question? I just typed in " Escort mentioning UKP" in the search facility and got a previous thread and there are probably others too.

[Mr_Shins]

I have actually told them my opinion of what UKP is about, i.e. it lets us share information on the punting industry, mistakes to not make, and certain types of profiles that look clear to avoid, scammers etc.

I tell them often that just as the fact there are many bad punters, timewasters etc. there are terrible unprofessional service providers, bait and switchers etc. and this site helps us to avoid such people.;

That there will always be some who join a site and troll it or post bad reviews (inaccurate, false etc. rather than negative reviews) and these people are usually sussed out quickly and banned, but in the whole it's a good site, and good for genuine, professional escorts who do a good job and will generally generate a lot of positive reviews, often inspiring more members of the site to go and visit them.

[The0neAnd0nly]

You can file this question and answer along with the "do I look fat in this?" your wife / girlfriend/ sister / mother may ever ask you.

Just say no as not worth the headache. Read enough reviews and stories where the conversation has gone left or a punter threatened to be outed. Not sure why you'd say yes personally. Just my opinion I'm sure others will be along soon to say what have you got to be worried about, puntings not for the faint of heart etc.. 

[Bebebelle]

 I already knew and was a member on here when a client messaged me to say he had left me a review on here so clearly some members are telling the escorts about this site, so that’s another way of them finding out.

[anonymous86273]

Random question to the forum.

Has anyone had a WG ask them about UKP? If you have how have you responded?

Beginning of 2019 I had one ask if I was a member as she wasn’t reviewed on here. Said I’d never heard of it and played dumb. I never did review her out of principle (she offered some extra time for the review if I left it while I was there) but she’s been reviewed since by others. Would have been positive though.

Nowadays I don’t tend to stay around for small talk so would never even get on the subject.

[finn5555]

I already knew and was a member on here when a client messaged me to say he had left me a review on here so clearly some members are telling the escorts about this site, so that’s another way of them finding out.

Doesn’t surprise me in the slightest some real fluffy morons on here who think it’s clever to discuss the site with pro$$ies 

[sparkus]

Random question to the forum.

Has anyone had a WG ask them about UKP? If you have how have you responded?

No one's ever mentioned the site by name but just described it to me.

It's mostly been annoyance (problems with neighbours, sudden increase in bookings from cheb-hunting non-regulars) though one did accuse me of writing "bullshit" about her (I thought it was quite complimentary actually!)

[sparkus]

Doesn’t surprise me in the slightest some real fluffy morons on here who think it’s clever to discuss the site with pro$$ies 

I guess some think it equates to doing them a favour and thus will be rewarded in some way

[Home Alone]

You can file this question and answer along with the "do I look fat in this?" your wife / girlfriend/ sister / mother may ever ask you.

Just say no as not worth the headache. Read enough reviews and stories where the conversation has gone left or a punter threatened to be outed. Not sure why you'd say yes personally. ... ... ... ...

Which is fine, except for those of us whose mother - then later, wife - could always tell when I was lieing when answering mother/son questions like the one above;  the one that goes something like, "Do you now, or have you ever, interacted with ukpunting?"

I have this unfortunate tendency to blush when I'm not telling the truth about something serious like replying to questions like the one The0neand0nly asked above; or that I posed in the previous paragraph.

It kinda destroys a parent's/wife's trust in the relationship, imo!!

[lamboman]

Doesn’t surprise me in the slightest some real fluffy morons on here who think it’s clever to discuss the site with pro$$ies 

You're getting your knickers in a twist over nothing.

[The0neAnd0nly]

Which is fine, except for those of us whose mother - then later, wife - could always tell when I was lieing when answering mother/son questions like the one above;  the one that goes something like, "Do you now, or have you ever, interacted with ukpunting?"

I have this unfortunate tendency to blush when I'm not telling the truth about something serious like replying to questions like the one The0neand0nly asked above; or that I posed in the previous paragraph.

It kinda destroys a parent's/wife's trust in the relationship, imo!!

Need to work on your poker face Macaulay.... a little white lie never hurt anyone 😂

[daviemac]

You're getting your knickers in a twist over nothing.

No he isn't and if you think he is you are missing the whole point of this site.

It's a sad fact that far too many use their membership here to try and gain favours with escorts, I've lost count of how many have been banned for it.

Maybe I need to keep an eye on you in future.

[finn5555]

You're getting your knickers in a twist over nothing.

Not at all 

Is your guilt making you all defensive 

[Colston36]

I have never given it a thought or mentioned it to anyone I've seen. However - to my surprise  after I gave a neutral to one session this week I got an angry complaint from one of the two ladies involved, and wasted a little time putting her right.

[Ali Katt]

Random question to the forum.

Has anyone had a WG ask them about UKP? If you have how have you responded?

I'm too busy shagging them.

[Milansky]

I remember fairly recently one of the MK girls posting a twitter rant about a review on here, so many of them definitely lurk. I've never mentioned it to any.

If I'm not planning on seeing them again I couldn't care what they see, I'll post it instantly if I can but if I am going back then I'll wait a bit. Even the slightest bit of criticism could be taken the wrong way.

[bedhedred]

I remember fairly recently one of the MK girls posting a twitter rant about a review on here, so many of them definitely lurk. I've never mentioned it to any.

If I'm not planning on seeing them again I couldn't care what they see, I'll post it instantly if I can but if I am going back then I'll wait a bit. Even the slightest bit of criticism could be taken the wrong way.

Elizabeth. It was funny 🤣🤣🤣

I'm pissing myself laughing now about a slightly different topic on this board.

[bedhedred]

I remember a pm conversation from a certain girl I knew well because a member here would make a point of coming on here and trolling her reviews that he thought she was ugly, though he apparently never met her.

[Jayj]

It’s come up a couple of times but I’ve always just cracked on I don’t know what it is, strikes me if the SP gets a bad review thinks it’s you she might put you on the “client eye or hawk eye” app for spite, the review system only works if everyone is anonymous and impartial.

[sparkus]

It’s come up a couple of times but I’ve always just cracked on I don’t know what it is, strikes me if the SP gets a bad review thinks it’s you she might put you on the “client eye or hawk eye” app for spite, the review system only works if everyone is anonymous and impartial.

I'd imagine many, who offered non-FS extras in shops, were pretty horrified to hear that was noted on a public forum.

I read on here that one asked for it to be taken down as her boss kicked off.

[samsmith_1231]

This is a great thread - I met up with one of my regulars for a walk last week and a fellow punter had screen shot and sent her my review. She mentioned someone called SamOmar had gone in to personal about location and time spent. I said it's me. She got so angry and even ended up in tears, I told her to calm down and that the punter that sent it over to her is probably a jealous twat. I don't think I will be seeing her again - my review was honest and if she got annoyed or someone twisted my words to annoy her I don't really care that it may identify me as I am not a family man or in a relationship

Why do punters screenshot from here and send it to the escort? very bizzare

[lillythesavage]

I'd imagine many, who offered non-FS extras in shops, were pretty horrified to hear that was noted on a public forum.

I read on here that one asked for it to be taken down as her boss kicked off.

Same goes for bypassing agencies, getting a cheaper deal privately, then posting it on the net, fair enough, but why drop them in it if the agency read here 

[the_patient_wolf]

I do not care what a SP thinks of my reviews. They are written for me because I like writing them and so I remember and for all of you so if I make a mistake you don't make the same one or if I get lucky, you get lucky too. I do not fear a SP going to war with me over a review.

[sparkus]

I do not care what a SP thinks of my reviews. They are written for me because I like writing them and so I remember and for all of you so if I make a mistake you don't make the same one or if I get lucky, you get lucky too. I do not fear a SP going to war with me over a review.

And what about being outed by a review?
One massive disincentive to post specific and highly relevant info in reviews (good or bad) is it's revealing to her or her management, especially a reg or an agency.

[the_patient_wolf]

I don't live in fear of being outed.

On the whole people are good (including SPs), you will have to fuck them off badly for them to want to go to war with you. I think criminal blackmailers are incredibly rare. Also our sensible precautions make it a pretty pointless exercise for a fuckwit criminal.

Maybe I am naive?

[1599337]

Unless of course you mention something VERY specific in the review, like "she called me a nasty cunt and kicked me in the cock", how are girls meant to figure out who the reviewer was in the first place?

I cant imagine these girls remember every guy who got a blowjob and a handjob and a rimjob and doggy from them. Or even half of them.

Not asking this dismissively just dont understand why you'd be worried about being found out, it seems like the chances are pretty low.

I'd imagine the bitcoin paywall to join helps with this too, presume most girls googling themselves would quit at that point, unless they were just neurotic

[contentguy]

Unless of course you mention something VERY specific in the review, like "she called me a nasty cunt and kicked me in the cock", how are girls meant to figure out who the reviewer was in the first place?

I cant imagine these girls remember every guy who got a blowjob and a handjob and a rimjob and doggy from them. Or even half of them.

Not asking this dismissively just dont understand why you'd be worried about being found out, it seems like the chances are pretty low.

I'd imagine the bitcoin paywall to join helps with this too, presume most girls googling themselves would quit at that point, unless they were just neurotic

I’ve not reviewed because I’ve mentioned other SP’s and experiences that I’ve referenced on here.
For example my mother and daughter review.

Then I realise if I reviewed, I’m identifyable.
And if a -ve they know it’s me and I’m no longer welcome to see other SPs at the place.

[Marmalade]

Some SPs do indeed obsessively try to read all their reviews and take offence at the slightest thing. I had one who even objected to a positive review, silly cow, as I’d booked her for a half hour and she only wanted reviews for overnights. Then there are massage joints who beg you not to review after an HE. Finally p4ps who troll not just your reviews but your other posts, searching for some phrase to use against you. Don’t put anything in your reviews that can identify you, and don’t mention reviews to the SP except AdultWork ‘reviews’.

We had this problem on ISG, many years before UKP was invented. ISG was not very tolerant of such creeps — called them traitors. Sometimes it’s just beginners who don’t know better, sometimes it’s punters getting ‘chummy’ with their SPs and thinking no harm comes of it. Sometimes it’s just stupid dried-up-wank-juice-for-brains idiots. Try to understand the logic behind this.

FIRST rule of UKP: don’t mention UKP
SECOND rule of UKP: don’t mention UKP
THIRD rule of UKP: (but you can guess the 3rd rule!)

[Crazyoldhaag]

Unless of course you mention something VERY specific in the review, like "she called me a nasty cunt and kicked me in the cock", how are girls meant to figure out who the reviewer was in the first place?

I cant imagine these girls remember every guy who got a blowjob and a handjob and a rimjob and doggy from them. Or even half of them.

Not asking this dismissively just dont understand why you'd be worried about being found out, it seems like the chances are pretty low.

I'd imagine the bitcoin paywall to join helps with this too, presume most girls googling themselves would quit at that point, unless they were just neurotic

Reply #110 on page 3 of this thread sums it up perfectly IMO

[Marmalade]

Maybe I am naive?

Yes, no offence, but yes, and based on experience, I do think you are naive. Not stupid or unintelligent, just naive.

There are only a minority of criminally minded or psycho SPs… this doesn’t mean that a larger proportion won’t, just through human nature, screw you at some point. Much of it is just human nature. Much as you may have a warm and chummy experience in a punt, when you come away try to remember that it’s people on here who are you friends, other punters, not prossies (that is unless you start putting WGs first). Punting and hanging out with the men are two different things. You are not their spokesperson. Reviews are to help other punters so need to be independent and unaffected by what she might think.

Punting isn’t dating. Be courteous, clean and charming — even ‘seductive’ on a punt if that’s your thing (though she only cares about the first three and your payment) — but take emotion out of it when you get back to UKP. 

If you start being chummy with SPs it’s very easy to get trapped as a consumer. There’s no need to be on UKP — but if you are, then try to remember your loyalties, for your sake and ours.

 

[the_patient_wolf]

If you start being chummy with SPs it’s very easy to get trapped as a consumer. There’s no need to be on UKP — but if you are, then try to remember your loyalties, for your sake and ours.

 

I agree with you

The point I was making is that I do not fear being outed because of a review; I take sensible punting precautions (q.v.)

To be clear:

I would never be chummy on any level with a SP outside working hours
Nor would I mention UKP for any reasons but particularly not to get extra favours. That would be naive.
I don’t mention reviews. Every few months I might solicit a review on AW just so I have a recent one on there
Even if she could somehow identify me, I will not shy away from writing a review. If I get blocked by her for a negative review, so what? I am never going back. If it is a positive, why would she come after me?

[sparkus]

Yes, no offence, but yes, and based on experience, I do think you are naive. Not stupid or unintelligent, just naive.

There are only a minority of criminally minded or psycho SPs… this doesn’t mean that a larger proportion won’t, just through human nature, screw you at some point. Much of it is just human nature. Much as you may have a warm and chummy experience in a punt, when you come away try to remember that it’s people on here who are you friends, other punters, not prossies (that is unless you start putting WGs first). Punting and hanging out with the men are two different things. You are not their spokesperson. Reviews are to help other punters so need to be independent and unaffected by what she might think.

Punting isn’t dating. Be courteous, clean and charming — even ‘seductive’ on a punt if that’s your thing (though she only cares about the first three and your payment) — but take emotion out of it when you get back to UKP. 

If you start being chummy with SPs it’s very easy to get trapped as a consumer. There’s no need to be on UKP — but if you are, then try to remember your loyalties, for your sake and ours.

 

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